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Topic: How do Leo women flirt/approach/court men?
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Kippendorf
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posted June 30, 2003 09:17 PM
 
Can people give me clues?!Please please please!
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lioneye68
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posted June 30, 2003 11:48 PM
If a Leo wants you, surprisingly enough, she'll give you the cold shoulder...at first. She won't be freindly and giggly and so on. She'll even look down her nose at you. She's saying "I'm for the connisiour...What a feather in your cap I would be....Are you're worthy?" Also, realizing that she wants you may make her feel vulnerable, so she'll put a wall up, but peak at you over it.
Next...when you get to talking, she may not open up too easily about herself, but will ask you alot of questions about yourself, and pick up on any opportunity to offer advise, or help you solve a problem. Way to a Leo woman's heart? Make her laugh! Leos love to laugh and they usually have a contagious belly laugh too, so it's worth it. And please, whatever you do, don't be a cheapskate. Leos are NOT impressed by frugalness. At least not in the initial courting stage. If you don't have alot of money, buy a cookbook and prepare tres fab meals at home for the two of you. Set the table with fine linens and crystal or silver candle holders, serve chilled fine wine, soft ambiance music playing in the background, etc...all the makings of a 5 star restaurant. You'll WOW her into next week, honest. Go all out. Nothing is too much for a Leo. IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted July 01, 2003 12:08 AM
Hehe, think of Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez  I think, you'll know IF she expresses any jealousy, or makes a big deal out of something. Then you're deemed important enough to throw a hoopla about. Have fun  IP: Logged |
Kippendorf
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posted July 01, 2003 12:27 AM
I have this girl that i m interested in. She put up walls and defenses fo ra while and then two days ago we had a jam up (on guitars) and we ended up talking a lot and i asked her if she wanted to come with me for a drive to the beach. and she did. and we were at the beach walking the lenght of it for about 2 hrs .And I was totally surprised that she told me bout her family, her history of divorce in her family(parents , grandparents etc) ,her past distrust of men etc. This was only our first ever serious chat!!!IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted July 01, 2003 12:35 AM
That sounds lovely!
And what sign are you, Kipp?IP: Logged |
Kippendorf
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posted July 01, 2003 12:36 AM
piscesdo u know much bout synastry chartS? IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted July 01, 2003 12:46 AM
Well, I know quite a bit about my own. It's more fun to teach yourself how to interpret it, but if you want to put your b-dates up here, I'm sure some curious practitioners may take a look for you.IP: Logged |
Kippendorf
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posted July 01, 2003 12:52 AM
http://www.astro.com/cgi/aclch.cgi?cid=6oufilesUNxkV-u1020933684&btyp=acc&nhor=29&nho2=54&go.x=18&go.y=10 IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted July 01, 2003 01:03 AM
It looks good, having 3 planets in the 7th house like that. That's the house of marriage and/or long term relationships of all sorts.
But there are some pretty challanging aspects in there too, so it's not going to be a cakewalk.
Venus and Mars in the first house. Your romance is going to be a big part of your personal image. You will seem to be all about the relationship in the eyes of others.
This relationship has a reputation for being filled with love and action.
Oh, there's so much more, but I'm too pooped to think that hard. Sorry. 
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Kippendorf
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posted July 01, 2003 01:17 AM
aha
thanks nevertheless lol. u did well.so far i have to know if she s interested in the first place. thats gonna be hard? what would she expect?for me to confess?or for the two of us to naturally come to a place of agreement?
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lioneye68
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posted July 01, 2003 02:07 AM
Don't stage a big "talk" or anything like that. Just throw in little comments like, if she makes a joke, you can laugh and then say, "Ahh, I like you so much", or something like that... you know, in a freindly manner, but she'll be flattered and it'll work in your favor. Heck, if you do this well enough, you won't have to sweat the other stuff, cause she'll meet you more than half way! Say sweet little things to her in a half kidding, friendly way. This is a favorite Leo combination...comedy and romance.  IP: Logged |
Kippendorf
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posted July 01, 2003 06:27 AM
oh yes i do do stuff like that. I say things like...hey you re good (cause she s a singer) ..and when we jam together...she actually enjoys it, invited me to play lead guitar for her etc.And i constantly tell her how brilliant she is blah blah blah. But its usually genuine and not out of ill intent.Its quite spontaneous and not planned. But is she buying it as well? Cause honestly ic ouldnt believe she came with me to the beach. I basically told her.." get in the car we re going to the beach!"IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted July 01, 2003 05:05 PM
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sthenri
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posted July 01, 2003 09:50 PM
yes Leos do like hard to get, they want the opposite of what they have.It's sort of hard on the leo, I think. I appeal to logic, I mean do you want to be happy or not? Leos are hard on themselves. I have Venus in the fifth house and I love a challenge too. Starve me for compliments and yes I will notice, I am aware of that weakness of mine, best not to conceal anything, tell her everything she wants to know while still being a physical challenge. You will notice she may want to make the first move, if you back hurts she may offer a backrub, in that case if you say no she will feel hurt. Natasha IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted July 01, 2003 10:08 PM
I can't speak for anyone other than myself, but if a guy is acting all "Oh, you only wish you were worthy" I'd be all "Well, you obviously don't know what YOU'RE passing up. Fool. I could thrill you in ways you never even dreamed of, but I guess you're not ever going to know that, so...Later!"
Nope, LL's technique wouldn't work on me.
Maybe that's why I've never dated a Leo man? Hmmm.  IP: Logged |
Kippendorf
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posted July 01, 2003 10:24 PM
Yes Lioneye i thought as much. What i am doing sortof appears to get her attention. When i compliment her she blushes and smiles from ear to ear. And i have realised that she likes complimentsIP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted July 01, 2003 11:58 PM
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lioneye68
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posted July 02, 2003 12:42 AM
LL, stop giving me the rolly eyes!!...ooooh, why I oughta.... QUOTE
"PS - Watchout, they like to make lovestruck "groupies" out of men, don't fall victim to being placed into that category!" That's funny!
Does your Lioness do this? Do you do that to women? (probably  ) IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted July 02, 2003 03:18 PM
Ok, I get it...like, as though your thinking about it, but you need a little push to convince you. That would be interpreted as a challange to a Leo...
Like as though you're saying she's in the lead, but there's some things your not sure about.
That would probably make a Leo jump into full frontal attack "impress the socks off of ya!" mode - just to push you over the fence and help you realize that OF COURSE you're interested INSANELY...but is SHE, after all the back flips and fan fair, or was she just winning a contest? There's a difference.IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted July 02, 2003 03:32 PM
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lioneye68
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posted July 02, 2003 03:39 PM
She's trying to win the contest...and so are you!! Ah, too funny. I saw a beautiful painting yesterday, it was a Lion and a Lioness laying down together in an African grassy plain...it was spectacular! If you marry that Lioness, I'll send it to you as a wedding gift, Ok? What an appropriate piece of art in the home of two Leos!! IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted July 02, 2003 04:56 PM
Lost Leo, I have a Cancer Moon and you are right, it's complicated. It's like cross town traffic getting through to her I bet. Communication is big, so are cards and letters, the more she has of you around her the more she will think of you. You have a pisces moon right? That's good. I would say she is easily influenced by the right music. Too much attention makes a swell head, like me when too much attention is given, it's unsettling. Every Cancer moon I know loves dark chocolate.Natasha IP: Logged |
pidaua
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From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
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posted July 02, 2003 05:06 PM
Ummm, Lost Leo...it's also the way you are as well. It's a Leo thing and the worse thing a Leo's mate can do is lose the mystery or the challenge. I think it is a trait that is common in most fire signs (and some of the more fickle air signs). Once the puzzle is solved, one the mystery is gone or the challenge ends, it's time to go exploring. IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted July 02, 2003 05:53 PM
My brother is a Leo. God, I hope he doesn't attract any psychotic women like Lost Leo here with that Scorpio.IP: Logged |
pidaua
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posted July 02, 2003 06:30 PM
LOL...Aphrodite. IP: Logged | |
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