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Topic: Aries and a Scorpio What the.....?
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misskelly28
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posted August 09, 2006 04:38 PM
 
My Dad is an Aries and my mother a Scorpio. She recently passed away, but they were married for 25 years. One thing that ****** her off was when he would criticize her feelings and question them rather than relate and try to understand them emotionally (even if he didn't quite agree) IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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posted August 09, 2006 06:20 PM
I am a Scorpio and my gal is an Aries. According to sunsign compatibility match,we're not compatible. However, that's not true. She and I are compatible. We strongly relate to each other. We have a very strong positive connection. We communicate quite well with each other. We feel that we have a very strong spiritual,romantic,and sexual connection with each other. We are very happy when we communicate with each other. Our feelings always grow stronger for each other and feel closer to each other the more we talk.I have Moon in Pisces,and she has Moon in Scorpio...so compatible moons I have Ascendant in Virgo,and she has Ascendant in Pisces.....so compatible ascendants I have Venus in Scorpio,and she has Venus in Taurus....so compatible venuses
I have Mars in Aquarius,and she has Mars in Aries...so compatible Marses.
I have Moon square Neptune,and she has Moon sextile Neptune.
I have Moon quincunx Pluto,and she has Moon conjunct Pluto. I have Moon square Saturn,and she has Moon conjunct Saturn. We both have Jupiter square Ascendant IP: Logged |
Elena P
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posted August 09, 2006 10:48 PM
I'm an Aries, my husband is a Scorpio, we have known each other for 18 years, for us it's interesting to be together: crazy ideas, not ordinary solutions,quarrels,yes, two children and mutual desire to test one another and to help each other...I adore to watch him at critical situations, his principles are inflexible!IP: Logged |
silverstone
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posted August 09, 2006 11:47 PM
Pidaua, quote:
I had a friend that was a Scorp that was also my coworker. She never intimidated me nor do the other Scorps I work with. I am not sure why, I just don't find them to be scary even when angry.
That is because Scorpio and Sagi get along quite well! When a Sagi is angry a Scorpio understands and trust me can calm Sagi down by making him/her see. My father is a Sagi. In my experiences, and most of my friends are Sagi's, when I, I am a Scorpio, get upset Sagi's normally do something that will make me laugh. Sagi has a wonderful humor and smile that just makes the Scorpio laugh even when upset. The Scorpio gets a kick out also when Sagi gets upset, as Sagis stop at nothing (Similar to Scorpios) I hope that helps a bit!
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silverstone
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posted August 09, 2006 11:57 PM
It amazes me how people don't really know us. Truthfully, when I first heard about astrology at a young age, I always thought it was crap, as nobody could really nail us. I then read Linda Goodman. I will say this with most honesty, being a Scorpio man myself, if you really want to know a Scorpio read Linda Goodman, by far she has been the most accurate Astrologer I have ever read; in fact, I treasure her work. Scorpio men are very communicative! ------------------
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Lauren
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posted August 10, 2006 03:20 AM
Secretive people open up when the other person isn't curious or probing at all. To be secretive you have to be at least a little distrustful of other people's motives and when they actually ask questions it makes you even more suspicious. I'm an Aries but I'm extremely un-curious (is that even a word lol).. I just don't see it as my business.. if someone wants to keep something secret it's their prerogative. I do have a Pisces Mercury though and I don't like answering personal questions myself, which is why I guess I'd respect someone else's need for privacy. I've had deep conversations with Scorps, Pisceans, Libra with Scorpio Merc.. I think water in general feels most comfortable when the conversation is flowing and it isn't being forced in one direction or another.. But actually, having said that, water signs would feel even more comfortable if there is no need to talk and the mutual understanding is there and unspoken.
I could say a word that has no correlation with what I mean and stare and Scorpio Mercs get me every time.. and I really love that connection. My advice would be to curb your curiosity and let him say as much as he likes.. eventually he's likely to open up a lot more.. once he feels safe. Also, silence can be really nice sometimes, when you just stare into each others eyes.. Scorpios love that kinda thing.. That would make him feel more at home, so to speak.. and feel as though you’re on his wavelength. IP: Logged |
fayte.m
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posted August 10, 2006 07:29 AM
Maybe I have met all the wrong Aries.
I am November 3rd. Scorpio.
But all except 1 of some 20 I have known IMRL, have stabbed me in the back. They do not keep secrets well at all. Tell them one and by my experiences, within a few hours, to a few days, it WILL get back to me...and usually by way of an Aries, telling what the other Aries had said! By then of course, they have, like in that game of telephone, totally embellished the secret.
Hee hee hee....
What is really funny, is when it gets back to me, and it is no longer my secret but someone elses. 
Weird!
Another thing is almost every time I have let an Aries borrow something, is that I rarely get it back. 
I have lost vacuumn cleaners, TVs, VCRs, typewriters and more. Or it comes back totally broken. Or they said it was stolen, only to find out they sold it because they "borrowed" it for so long they "forgot" it was mine. 
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Elena P
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posted August 10, 2006 11:08 PM
Fayte.m, all these TVs, VCRs, Vacuumcleaners - may be your payment for something...? IP: Logged |
fayte.m
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posted August 10, 2006 11:46 PM
Like what? 
These chicks are financially well off.
I think I was just a sucker and could not say no or ask for my stuff back sooner.
Well I know better now.
No lending nor borrowing. Never borrowed from them. Weird.
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Age is a State of Mind. Change Your Mind!
~I intend to continue learning forever~Enigma
~I am still learning~ Michangelo
The Door to Gnosis is never permanently locked...one only needs the correct keys and passwords.~Enigma
The pious man with closed eyes can often hold more ego than a proud man with open eyes.~NEXUS
Out of the mouth of babes commeth wisdom that can rival that of sages.~Enigma
In the rough, or cut and polished..a diamond is still a precious gem.
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Elena P
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posted August 11, 2006 12:20 AM
Oh, forgive them! May be you look so secretive, and seemed so powerful, promising to them and little present wouldn't be any cost for you!IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted August 11, 2006 02:29 AM
That kinda thing happens to me as well, but that's because I'm an idiot with too many Neptune aspects and I don't care enough about my stuff to hold on to it. I don't make a fuss when I don't get stuff back either. Maybe I should. But it's happened with so many people, I don't even know all their signs. Has this only happened with those Aries girls? Maybe you have some bad Neptune aspects with Aries, or they with you.. Negative Neptune stuff tends to lead to many misunderstandings or lies and sometimes taking advantage of someone else. I had a "friend" whose moon was opposite my Neptune.. the amount of lies she told was unbelievable. I helped her a lot financially only to find out, like you, that she was perfectly well off and didn’t really need the help. IP: Logged |
fayte.m
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posted August 11, 2006 08:11 AM
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Oh, forgive them! May be you look so secretive, and seemed so powerful, promising to them and little present wouldn't be any cost for you!
>>>>>>Secretive with them? No. Not at all.
And that was a big mistake.
And they knew I was a doormat back then.
Not all Scorpios have confidence when young.
Some are doormats.
As for not costing me? Well since they lived in NICE BIG houses that cost many times more than the decades old trailer I lived in....and had two or more new cars unlike my overmilage beater.....I think it was pretty obvious who could afford what.
Yeah, I forgive them. But sure as hell will never lend them anything again or trust them.
I was a doormat then, getting sucked in by their sob stories.
>>>Lauren
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I had a "friend" whose moon was opposite my Neptune.. the amount of lies she told was unbelievable. I helped her a lot financially only to find out, like you, that she was perfectly well off and didn’t really need the help.
>>>Yeah...that fits me too.
They came to my place for readings and emotional support during relationship troubles...and to borrow stuff. I was not invited to their homes and only later discovered they were not poor nor abused and had played me for a big fool. Free readings too.
Yes....only Aries.
I still have one good Aries friend. She is wealthy but never belittles me for not being so. She is honest too. But maybe it is because she is an April Aries not an end of March one?????
Also older than me, not younger as the others were.
Who knows. IP: Logged |
ms_scorpio
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posted August 11, 2006 02:18 PM
I am a scorpio female who is surrounded by aries. My mother, sister, four cousins, my boss...are all aries. I don't communicate with them on a feelings level because they try to force things out of me. That wouldn't be so bad if it was something not so near and dear to my heart that they wanted me to talk about. Nothing I say is kept in confidence. If I tell my mother something on the phone, as soon as I hang up, she'll be dialing my sister to talk about it. So, tell him you're there if he wants to talk and whatever he says will be kept in confidence. Then keep things in confidence. He'll trust you and then tell you more in the future. IP: Logged |
breakfast on pluto
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posted August 12, 2006 02:32 PM
i loveeeeeeeeee ariessssssmysterious scorpio here take care.. IP: Logged |
Elena P
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posted August 13, 2006 10:22 PM
Yes, yes when i was too young, my future husband also told me that i couldn't keep secrets. But Scorpio emotions sometimes too intense,every very little thing can be sooo important for them, whats difficult to understand for open Aries. May be this is the main lesson they must teach each other. For Aries to think what he (she) speaks, for Scorpio not to afraid to speak more freely and frankly, there are not only enemies round them! If someone tells me i'm not right, i'll not agree for ever! I worked with some very "important" Scorpios and the main thing i could do for them is to express themself properly to be understand well. And my hubby knows now the advantige of our union,his X - ray understanding, my friendly and free contact with different people.IP: Logged | |
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