posted August 08, 2004 06:00 PM              

The Gemini Woman is no moron. By her mere presence, she sends out a subliminal vibe: "you will enjoy chatting with me".

Now, this is fundamentally enticing.

Because what kind of a relationship have you got if you can't communicate with your partner?

So, for any man who has some brain electricity happening, he will automtically be intrigued and magnetized by this Gemini Woman.

Here is the puzzler: Why is this intelligent Gemini Woman terrified of her own emotions?

This applies even in the case of the presence of a water Moon (perhaps even strongly aspecting something like Neptune).

Do explain, O Gemini Woman? Or better yet: EMOTE !!!

posted August 08, 2004 06:30 PM              

Do you really think a Gemini woman would be flatter by this passive-aggresive pseudo-praise of our (yes, very enticing and mysterious) sexual aura? Chances are a Gem woman with a good sense of herself will see through this nonsense, determine you are a waste of her time and blow you off.

I don't mean to be harsh...oh wait, yeah I do - it's called a reality check, pal: the foremost reason that any man would be dumbfounded and confused by a Gemini woman is because he doesn't have the wits to keep up with us. And if you can't figure out that a Gemini woman communicates through ideas, and not through emoting, you definitely don't have the wits. And if you think you should criticize us, beware: we are very vulnerable emotionally, yet still (if my reply hasn't made this point) we are class A++ bitches who'll rip you a new one if you foolishly think we are in need of a character make-up.

posted August 09, 2004 03:32 AM              

I never got along with her anyway.

posted October 10, 2005 06:51 AM              

I worked through the pain, which was severe; took me a long time. So, I was wrong to have lashed out in that way and I apologize.

So I will enjoy wonderful Gemini Woman just as she is, what a blessing!

posted October 10, 2005 10:32 AM              

That way I can get some reaction, rather a reaction than none, and Geminis do have emotional reactions they can just be as demostrated above quite nasty. So if you can take the heat, stay in the kitchen, and have a good job making plenty of money and then you will have your Gemini coming around often anyway to celebrate.

But get confused as to who your friends are, and suspect, or question and your Gemini will be gone with the wind, as Geminis are constantly moving on with their lives in everyway possible.

You can only be the center of your own world, you can't hover around a Gemini-they move to fast physically for one thing.

As for being emotional, I emote mainly when I am tired, hungry, or broke and that's about it. Geminis have all sorts of stuff going on in their heads, which can be confusing. Do not try to predict as that can lead to heartache, just center your life around yourself and let your Gemini complain how self centered you are.

As for fear of emotions, Aquarians are much more terrified of being wrong at any given time, and nothing is worse than being in a room with someone who ALWAYS has to be on the side that's winning. Geminis can do this too, as long as you are aware of it, do not expect the world, or even rational behaviour.

In lots of cases Geminis are just overworked, tired and hungry and need a good meal. Very simple but overlooked strategy, invite yourself to Geminis house when the Gem is tired and offer to cook. You will be welcome back anytime. Hard to believe-or other strategy let Gemini come over and tell you what to do in the kitchen. As long as you are aware you are going to be bossed to death than you will survive.

(tip have other hobbies and friends at least to make conversation and always make sure they are less interesting than your Gem.)

posted October 10, 2005 05:16 PM              

roflmao....yeah baby, you hit that hammer on the nail....

posted October 10, 2005 06:47 PM              

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posted October 10, 2005 10:17 PM              

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Here is the puzzler: Why is this intelligent Gemini Woman terrified of her own emotions?

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posted October 10, 2005 11:26 PM              

WELCOME!

Having a major time Gemini stellium including sun and merc, going on in my 9th house, I am very outspoken but ur right I do snap up quickly when it comes to sharing emotions. I just dont open up easily. But you know, very VERY careful and sensitive and genuine concern will get me to open up. With a scorpio moon, im just not comfortable with big emotional displays and sit on my own emotions as well. I love hearing other people out and trying to emotionally counsel, but I feel absolutely WEAK if i express my own!

partly its because i believe the intellect is superior to emotion. not to sound callous, but thought out decisions are bound to be better than emotional ones; even philosophy (thought) jusitfies humanitarianism (emotion), so if you get down to it, brain will almost always make sense ! Im a big believer in that big sexy organ in our skulls! heheh

How to get a Gem to open up?

lemme give you two examples!

My taurus guy buddy (five planets in taurus, whoa!), always says so gently, im here to listen, im the rock of gibraltar! with this semi evil semi cute mwahaha taurean smile. because he speaks LESS, his words hold power.

If you want to have a lasting impact on the Gem, walk away and make them think about every word you said! Do that by talking LESS but choosing your words carefully! Let them do the talking and probe with questions, humor and comments Dont be afraid to rile them up, they get winded down pretty quick too unless they have other messy influences.

Aries guy always makes funny faces and makes me laugh when Im mad or sad. Pay major attention to Gemini body language because when they get emotional they may not emote as well but they still communicate that emotion in another form--usually nonverbal. The Aries can pick up on that instantly and make me laugh. Another thing he does is that he will indirectly get me to talk about my emotions but discussing the emotions he is going through or how he is impressed that Im so together. That will lead me to make little confessions here and there!

btw missio what is ur sign?

and thanks for the compliments.

glad to know we Gems still retain our market value.

posted October 12, 2005 05:29 AM              

i am a cancer ( one of the most boring signs according to thier standards ) with all my emotional prowess , i have taken the longest time to crack the gems .
i dont even know if i stimulate them mentally , which is very very important for them .

but rewinding my experiences with them , i think what has helped me is my honesty , non-judgemental nature , willingnes to learn , stubbornnes of my beliefs( to an extent)(willingness and stubbornness are contradicatory here , i know, i'll need a complete post to explain it) , my speaking prowess( i am a blabberer ,( i feel gems can be good listeners too) and willingnes to speak up for what i think is wrong.(this has fascinated them the most ,earlier i didn't know why, - but i think i have got the answer now. the first women district level head of police in the country is a gem, one of the most genuinely respected person in the country ,she was transferred to traffic policing due to political interference ,and there too she had the guts to pick prime minister's car for illegal parking :bouncing: , so may be its the fascination to speak for what u believe in , that attracts , this also expalins thier instant connection with aquas (though they are pure politicians but they are also known to take stand for thier beliefs )

though the most conventional things that work with other people might not work with them , like willingness to fight for them (ok, if u do that - u might get appreciation and a faith ful acquitnce or even a friend but dont be sure that u can win a friend (the geniune one , that we would like)that way )

ah, and dont take thier arguments to your heart , it is done for the sake of arguments , not for dominating or subverting someone . the way we water people take arguments is different from how they do it . now, my own feeling is, this is something that they dont share with all the air people . libras and aquas do try to dominate .

but, all this is based on my exp. with gem men . i dont know if this applies to gem women as well .

my 'not two' but twenty cents for u

btw, sg -how was my analysis ?

posted October 14, 2005 08:34 PM              

But, I'm not purely a thinking machine. I have real emotions and feel them too. I am *mostly* quite open in revealing my emotions (as open as Saturn will allow anyway) to others and I am touchy-feely in relating to others and can find their level and settle in. I tend to modify my behaviour depending on the recipient. If its someone emotional, I will be emotionally warm and receptive. If its someone intellectual, I will have a great discussion. If its my husband's mates, I will be one of the gang. If its work, I will be quiet and diligent.

I just morph into whatever situation is there at the time.

I'd like to say I'm always 'me' but there are so many me's inside that anything goes.

Only emotion I do not do well is anger. I just cannot bring myself to shout or make an angry scene. I'm the type to sneak into an empty room and scream into a pillow or get on with furiously scrubbing the kitchen floor while thinking up nasty retorts in my head. lol

posted October 14, 2005 10:25 PM              

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I am a gemini oddball and the gemini's who are harsh like that are the ones I cannot stand.

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I shouldn't talk LOL. I'm only 60% harsh

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

posted October 15, 2005 05:18 AM              

I have a Gemini stellium conj (Sun, Mars,Venus,Merc) exactly square a Pices Moon. I really don't care that the starter of this thread thinks we have problems with emoting. I think these generalizations are ridiculous but I see them all the time on this board.
I don't have any problem emoting. I like these two contradicting aspects of my personality - The emotional-intuitive one and the cerebral one. They are sometimes at odds and at other times they re-enforce eachother. My life might have been simpler had I not had this contradiction but I don't know any other way of "being" anyway so....