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Jasmine23
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posted September 01, 2004 01:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, im an aries, and ive been seeing a virgo man. And despite his rational views on everything, he has a distorted view on sex. I thought that it might be his childhood but I have done some reading and have come across the fact that some virgo men have a bizarre fascination with kinky sex. He has also said that he has only had sex and has never made love. My outlook on both love and sex is innocence, his are anything but that. ANY INSIGHT?

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 01, 2004 02:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From my understanding, you can't really pin that sort of thing down to a Sun sign. It depends on the rest of the chart.

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Jasmine23
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posted September 01, 2004 02:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes, i agree with you. But i did read that this trait is present in the virgo sun sign, and i was just wondering if anyone had any further insight on it.
Thanks for your reply

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Ariesrocks!
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posted September 01, 2004 04:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

This is my kind of thread!!!! Bring it on!! remember the sex threads girls? what happened to them..?

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 01, 2004 04:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hehe... follow Pixie, 26T, and me around sometime late at night. You're bound to run across some sex talk...

...or at least some very amusing double entendres

OO OO OO

A double entendres string!! That could be fun!

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Ariesrocks!
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posted September 01, 2004 04:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

You know we've had some juicy stuff in here before, but we weren't allowed very far..

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 01, 2004 04:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well... I can see how Randall has to keep us from being too vulgar or crass. There are young people around and people who don't necessarily partake in that kind of fun.

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Ariesrocks!
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posted September 01, 2004 04:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

yeah...well gotta go I'm late for my sexual addicts meeting

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 01, 2004 04:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

One of my very dearest friends is an Aries Sun, and if you're anything like her... I'll bet you are late for that meeting

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Ariesrocks!
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posted September 01, 2004 04:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

gee, we shouldn't joke about it, since there've been many times that I've actually thought I needed to go..
Weell! I mean you could be addicted to worse things right?

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astro junkie
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posted September 01, 2004 05:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jasmine -

Does this Virgo have a Gemini Moon? I dated one like that who was as kinky as they come. Too freaky to even say here.

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Harpyr
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posted September 01, 2004 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Harpyr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I seem to remember a very kinky Virgo with an Aqua moon who used to hang out here alot.

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Jasmine23
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posted September 01, 2004 08:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hahahahaha, Im glad to know that my problem got you guys talking. AT FIRST i could laugh about it and go along for the ride, i am an aries and i do love some kink, but not when he is ruining every mood. He wants me to call him james bond, i had to pee and he told me to pee in his mouth. he wants me to dress up, and when i hit him playfully he wants me to really smack him. i told him that he wont be satisfied until i dress up in a banana suit and het gets to act like a monkey, its ridiculous!!!! I JUST FOUND OUT THAT HE DOES HAVE AN AQUA MOON!!!

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 01, 2004 08:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Jasmine23
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posted September 01, 2004 08:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yea thats my face too?

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astro junkie
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posted September 01, 2004 09:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bad! Bad!


(too hilarious)

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proxieme
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posted September 01, 2004 09:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, that does sound like our ol' Water-Bearing *cough* Virgin.

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Gemini Nymph
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posted September 01, 2004 11:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heh, I have Virgo rising and Aqua Mars,a nd more upfront astrologers will point out I'm a prime candidate for having sex interests that others find kinky, and it's been my experience that many people do find my "likes" a little nonconventional. But I don't think I have a distorted view of sex - that's a whole other story.

Of course, it begs the question: what do you mean by him having a distorted view of sex? That it can be seperated from love? Most men and some women (like me) would agree that it most certainly can. there's nothing really very distorted about that, I'ma fraid. It's simply a difference in values if you feel otherwise.

Virgo, being an earth sign, is highly sensual. Being the mutable earth sign, it's highly sensitive and receptive - neuroses are not uncommon among strongly Virgo-influenced peeps. While one could argue that all the mutable signs are very prone to being neurotic (I, with my prepoderence of mutables signs in my chart, plead the 5th), Virgo seems to most likely to develop neuroses that are sexual in nature, probably because it is an earth sign and therefore more focused on the body and on physical experience.

Virgo Suns, moons, Venuses and Mars are often noted for having a very strong fascination with sex that may or may not be acted out. Since Virgo peeps tends to fussy about their partners and other circustances they tend to have trouble expressing their own sexual desires and fantasies. In extreme cases (depending on life circumstance, childhood, and other astrological aspects in their chart), they can develop psycho-sexual issues due to inequality between their amount of sexual fantasizing and their lack of sexual expression, which may lead to strong interests in porn, S/M and more extreme fetishes. Virgo also tend to be highly idealistic, and often find early sexual expreiences unsatisfying because of these high ideals - this sometimes produces a self-destructive cycle in which the Virgo person might pursue more extreme sexual encounters in order to find sexual gratification.

Aquarius is often noted for producing sexually nonconventional people too. Same placement apply here too - Sun, moon, Venus or Mars. In Aqua's case, it's more of cerebral matter. There's more of a concern with being individualistic, nonconventional or "progressive" which carries over to the person's sexuality. There's less concern with the actual sensual experience of sex with Aqua than with Virgo, because it is an air sign. There seems less occurence of psycho-sexual issues among Aquas too, probably because Aqua does not produce the the kind of nervous, nit-picking, fault-finding introspectiveness that Virgo does. Aqua cares less about what generals society thinks: Virgo is very sensetive to being judged and criticized by other and especially by society as a whole. As the result, Aqua-influenced peeps tend to be far more comfortable with they odd sexualities than Virgo-influenced peeps. If you have both present, then it's a matter of which is more strongly placed and what else is int he chart that determines the degree that each sign influecnes the person and their sexuality.

If this guy's got a Virgo Sun and an Aqua moon, chances he's got some inner conflict going on (Sun-moon quincunxes can be just as stressful as Sun-moon squares; sometimes they even more stressful because the signs aren not of the same quality - in this case, Virgo is mutable and Aqua is fixed). This may be affecting his sexuality and sexual expression, especially if he's young and relatively inexperienced in sex and relationship. Chances are he's extremely idealistic, even if he passes himself off as jaded or cynical (both Virgos and Aquas like to do that) and probably feels rather detached from the whole sexual experience, almost like he approached it with the coolness and detachment of a scientist. That alone doesn't mean his views are distorted - it just may take him a while to explore the whole phenomenon of sex in order to discern what he feels is his own sexuality and sexual preferences. I don't think there's any cause for concern unless he's being abusive in anyway towards you regarding sex, or if there seems a degree of self-destructiveness involved.

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26taurus
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posted September 02, 2004 12:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey girls,

Virgo Moon here. We all know Virgos are perfectionists. They want everything they do to be perfect - and that includes sex.
"Virgo the Virgin".....hmmmm not the ones I know. I had a fling with a very sexy Virgin once......mmmmmm....just thinking about it.......that was where it was at. Kinky? Yeah. Distorted? Probably some. Sexy? Most definitely. At least to this Virgo Moon.

Have fun Jasmine!

.......*looks at the clock*.....pixie should be making her mark on this thread anytime now...

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Jasmine23
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posted September 02, 2004 12:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for all the spirited replies! I guess im just going to have to give him a good spanking hahaha

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pixelpixie
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posted September 02, 2004 12:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*********Makes her mark because she was told to.*******

Don't have much to say other than.
Sex is fun.
I like sex.


*but I ain't peeing in anyone's mouth, mkay?

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26taurus
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posted September 02, 2004 01:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL!!! ..........me either!!!

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 02, 2004 01:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

None of that R. Kelly CRAP either!

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astro junkie
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posted September 02, 2004 01:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're all being so cruel. These sexual images will be the last thing I remember before my electricity goes out!!

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 02, 2004 02:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
aw Poor AJ Did ya sleep alright last night?

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