posted September 28, 2004 08:50 PM              

That frog/prince thingy is sooooo darn cute! I love it.

There DOES seem to be a lot people saying Aries. This is interesting to me because I've never had a problem taming the Aries man, yet, I've never considered myself to be able to dominate every man. I'm a Libra with a Cancer Moon. But I guess it's my lifesaving Scorpio influences kicking in.

I'd agree that Aries are the prototypical "pure man" - remember, just because Aries are the first of the signs, the most primal, there is so very much to learn from them because they also happen to be VERY psychic. But they are not psychic in the ethereal sense like Pisces or Cancer, and not penetrating your mind relentlessly like a Scorpio or Aquarius.

posted September 28, 2004 09:35 PM              

On the other hand, I seem to attract watery cancer-scorpio types, must be all my fire. The last guy I attracted- sun, uranus, merc in scorp with moon-conj-mars in virgo, and neptune on his sag rising.

posted September 29, 2004 12:50 AM              

Kind of hard to conquer someone so sweet, don't you agree? They always go off and find a nice Cancer, and they do it rationally.

Other than that, maybe Aquarius, with Aquas, who can tell who is pursuing who. My head spins.

posted September 29, 2004 04:41 PM              

hehehhe

For me, its all about Leos and Scorpios. My Virgo sun has to battle my Scorp Asc....

Logic versus sex.

Hehehee

posted September 29, 2004 07:08 PM            

Still, most of the men I had a long term relationship with had at least their Sun, Moon or Mercury in Virgo or their Moon, Mercury or Venus in Gemini.

posted September 29, 2004 08:38 PM              

I just had an AhHA! moment.

Would anyone else agree that the person who usually ends up feeling the most intense hurt is the one who ends up most aligned to all that is true and fair?

Think about that because it means you will come out ahead in the end, that person really was not meant for you.

The tricky thing is, who is most aligned? That is not something I believe we are able to decide in the end. Why it is important to always be honest in life, to yourself and others without compartmentalizing the two. But the price is the agonizing pain.

What Pidaua made me think of was, when I saw that she had that strong Aqua-Aries aspect in her Natal, sort of Squared off by the Mercury ... and with Scorpio influence. So that the Aqua-Aries aspect makes her appear immediately as an exciting person to be around, but because there is this little challenge with verbal communication, she attracted and was attracted to the Mercury types.

posted September 30, 2004 03:33 AM            

ah..it's a tie between Libra and Gemini for me. The infuriating yet alluring tendancy to fluctuate between ardor and detachment always leaves me hurt yet wanting more somehow.

Thank heavens I found my beloved Scorpio..(though he does have that pesky Gemini Moon/Rising)

posted September 30, 2004 06:05 PM              

I didn't wanna admit it but....

Leos, too.

posted September 30, 2004 11:22 PM            

How are things going? You hit the nail on the head. I do have a problem with communication- specifically trying to relay my feelings to another person. The exception is when I write, that is when I am truly free and can address issues.

My Uranus / Moon aspect squaring Mercury (combined with that Virgo rising) does attract the more mercurial types and I am attracted to them. Even in my current relationship, he has Mercury in guess???? GEMINI!!! He even has a Virgo moon LOL

Leo men never posed a threat to me. I have strong friendships with them before, during and after a relationship. Even with the hardships I don't hurt as badly as I have with the Virgo types. I think because the Leo males seems very real to me and I thrive on the drama / challenge. Interestingly enough, I did think my ex Leo would never talk to me again. Just last week he called to tell me that he is still in love with me and has cleaned up his act. (Too little too late)

To me the Virgo types are all smoke and mirrors (but I am not saying that is how they are to others- it is just my fire type perception). On the outside they are so outgoing, brilliant, handsome- yet once you get into their inner circle they seem to lose that sparkle.

In the same respect, I know for a fact that Virgo men see me in the same light. They see this outgoing, outspoken intellectual. Then when we do embark on a relationship they wonder why I haven't dropped the "social butterfly" or outspoken persona. Well, that is because it is who I am..LOL..

I have even thrown my poor Taurus a few curves with my temper and somewhat dramatic outbursts- mostly our problems stem from communcation mishaps. Having our chart rulers in opposition does make for some interesting conversations.

posted October 01, 2004 12:01 AM              

Wow, I had no idea that Aries were so popular! I haven't had a problem with any sign other than Aquas. It's like sthenri said, you don't know who's pursuing who... so frustrating!!

posted October 01, 2004 12:43 AM              

Air signs,
Particularly Libra,

Leo and Aries

Capircorns,cancers and Virgos