posted November 04, 2004 02:37 PM            

He was so handsome and sensitive, but sex was not a bit thing on his list. I couldn't see myself on the farm, popping out babies, with no real....action. LOL

I was also with a Virgo for many years. Intellectually we were very compatible and I loved his friendship, which we still maintain - but he was not intimate...

Then the transiting Pluto touched my Venus (that sounds soooo bad) and I realized that I am a very sexual person with a strong will / personality. I need a man that can deal with my passion, temper and sometimes my emotional distance (How Saggie).

My ex Leo was great, but there was still something missing. He could deal with my passion and temper- but at times we both went into our deep emotional caves and didn't want to come out.

Lioneye is right though, I think that a Leo Sun male is better with a Sag female than a Sag male with a Leo female. The male archers can be extremely insensitive until they grow the heck up.

I don't see myself with an Aries man because to do think they are too bossy and dominating - even if I do have an Aries moon.

Mr. Taurus is very sensitive, but he is also strong. That is not to say that we don't have our problems. I do not always understand where he is coming from and I KNOW he has a hard time understanding where I am coming from many times...LOL...

Any match can be a best match if the two people really try and are coming into the relationship for similar reasons. If one is a hopeless romantic and the other is a pratical freddy..well, that is going to be hard to reconcile. LOL...

I think some of the best matches are the ones that you don't expect. I have found more compatibility points with this Sag - Taurus relationship than with signs I either trine or sextile.

As far as Saggie are concerned, what we really want is someone that is stable. Someone we can depend on when the world seems to be going way to fast. We'll do anything to please that person as long as we know they are honest and won't let us down. I think that is the major misunderstand about Archer men and women. That we are just so freewheeling and insincere that we go through life like it is just one big party.

Simply put, it is easier for us to be single and on our own than feel that heartbreak of loving the wrong person. We can do that a few times, but as time goes on it takes away some of that pixie dust we use to make the party so much fun LOL...

Some people feel that being with "someone" is better than being alone, but most Saggies aren't into that - which is also how we get that love em and leave-em reputation.

posted November 04, 2004 05:16 PM            

*edited*

OK The book that I read was "Who's with who?" (Bulgarian title) was translated from another Eastern European language. Such a long time ago - about 8 years I had it in my dorm and very clearly remember the book mentioning C. G. Jung's name and baseing its astro matches on his writings.

posted November 05, 2004 06:22 PM            

HA HA! I'm on FI-YA!

posted November 05, 2004 07:50 PM            

I have a Saggie brother that I get along with quite well- he is one of my best buddies. I also have more than a few ex-Saggie boyfriends. One was my first love- the highschool sweetheart. Talk about competition. The dork would break up with me before big dances just to see who could get a date faster.

I always won that one, but then he would beg me to come back and cry like a little baby. Now he is a big fat, bald dweeb..LOL....a far cry from the totally hot, full head of hair, buff wrestler / football player from years ago.

Also.. I won the age thing too...I still look good

posted November 05, 2004 08:08 PM            

I also very much agree that as a Sag female, I'm looking for a strong, stable, dependable person who won't let me down in a relationship, he also has to be someone I respect and who will stand up to me the way I do to him...that's how he earns my respect

posted November 06, 2004 02:02 AM              

seriously, does anyone know a book in which Jung talked about astrological compatibility? can you pretty, pretty, please tell me which?
this is very, very important to me. can someone please tell me?

yin?

posted November 07, 2004 08:35 AM              

Well I'd Like to put in my two cents.

Perfect Matches:-

Aries Man - Libra Woman: Only a libra woman can out match an aries man in a battle of wits, plus an aries man can "light her fire".

Taurus Man - Capricorn Woman: The bull can provide a lavish romantic ideal in the goats life, while the goat shall support her bull throughout his career and back him all the way.

Cancer Man - Scorpio Woman: They shall guess eachothers hidden desires, and yet manage to surprise eachother. She shows him how to overcome his fears, he provides the home she secretly desires.

Leo Man - Aries Woman: Remember the lion receivin a kiss from the lamb picture in LG: Love Signs

Libra Man - Aquarius Woman: The idealist shall have the logical scales to bring her back into "practicalities", but she knows how to "balance" the scales in her way.

Scorpio Man - Pisces Woman: Her sheer submission to him and his sheer devotion to her.. a blissful union.

Sagittarius Man - Gemini Woman: think of how this pair would travel the world...explore new cultures... and "swing their way" through the relationship.

Capricorn Man - Virgo Woman: Boss and the Secretary, she will carefully look into all his deals and contracts, organize all his files, and type 120 words a minute for all his business conference... and he will be forever bedazzled by her virginial beauty.

Aquarius Man - Leo Woman: He can bring her off her throne and teach her the wonderful ways of the gypsies... she can have a splendid escort who will be the most entertaining one at the dinnner table, with eclectic guests as well.

Just a few thoughts.. what do you guys think??

and

posted November 07, 2004 11:18 AM              

As for Sag Man / Gem Woman -

posted December 13, 2004 10:33 PM              

Yeah I've found those Virgos can just be too earthy and conservative for free, fun loving natures. I'm assuming because most fire and air are like that Me and my guy have broken up a few times because of our polar opp natures, but overall he really loves me and doesn't mean to hurt me when he criticizes me. He thinks I should appreciate his honesty...umm hello I'm a Leo! so only if that honesty is compliments about me LOL (this mostly applies to my mate) I sometimes think I'd be much better off with his overbearing solid nature, but then sometimes it feels so safe and strong, you know? I guess you the safe and strong wasn't enough for you huh..its def hard sometimes I'm off beat, he's conformist, I'm artsy, spiritual, he's math, science, computers.. I'm not petty, he issss..I'm emotion, passion, he's cool and the intellect, I could go on..but sometimes we meet in the middle and its wonderful I wrote you back on the other string too. Yeah I may be crying to you later about how wrong I was for trying to work things out, but I always try to see the best in people. My taurus moon and Leo sign are fixed, so that makes me want to stay and work it out. Plus I'm convinced that with a little more effort, I have just where i want him, typical woman LOL.

Lots of Love