posted November 02, 2004 03:06 AM              

Aries is best with Libra.Why you ask?Well the answer is quite simple.While the other is deciding what to wear the other has jumped in the car ready to go.Aries is a leader and Libra likes to blend in.They are both romantic and Libra will polish up Aries while Aries will make Libra more active and decisive. Romantic and all consuming!

Taurus is best with cancer.These two have little time for the rest of the world when they are together.The cancer draws strength from the taurus while the taurus gets pampered by cancer.Good food,great sex!

Gemini is best with aquarius.They'll discuss everything from politics to shoes and still keep each other interested.When it comes to lovemaking the hidden passion of aquarius will move gemini to a state of breathlessness.Astounding mental chemistry!

Leo is best with Sagittarius.They'll meet,talk and end up in bed on the same day.Leo is inspired by Sag's selfless attitude and Sag finds Leos confidence and outlook on life admirable.Wonderful marriage,smart kids!

Virgo is best with Pisces.They met on a "save the whales foundation ",pisces was probably handing out pamphlets while virgo was drawing up speeches and then BOOM .Pisces draws out Virgos ideal self and Pisces has found a place to retreat from the harsh world(in virgos arms).This couple can move mountains!

posted November 02, 2004 06:20 AM              

That exactly how it went with my Leo friend and her Sag husband.

posted November 02, 2004 01:18 PM              

I am an Aries girl, and I can't stand the undecisiveness of a Libra. I don't mind them, but I don't think I would like to live with one of them. I want a guy to make me feel feminine, not macho! This includes him deciding where we will go and what we will do when we are together. Of course, when I want something, he will have to bow down and agree or all hell will break loose. My Sagittarian hubby knows me soooo well... He does most of the planning, then when I want to do something specific, I just tell him and he just agrees. hehe!

So, I would have to agree that it prob works best when the guy is the Aries and the woman being the Libran.

posted November 02, 2004 07:35 PM              

All kidding aside, it is really not all that bad... I don't think I am a very demanding person. And most of the things I ask for are really very reasonable and logical. This comes from my Moon being in Taurus with Scorpio Ascendant (I am not sure if the Scorpio part made it worse or better ).

Everyday, I give and give, I never complain. But when I want something, I also expect my partner NOT to complain... Equal giving and sharing. He can beat his chest like Tarzan most of the time but when my need arises, I expect to be treated like a queen also. I think that is completely fair.

posted November 03, 2004 01:02 AM            

He, the Leo, was a charmer. In the end it didn't work out, but we are still friends.

Now I am with a Taurus - seems that he can keep this Sag in line and does spoil me. Then again, he has a first house Sun - very much like a Leo, as well as a 5th house moon (in Leo's home).

posted November 03, 2004 08:55 AM              

I NEED A MAN, not a whimp! That is completely right on. If I have to be "the man" in the relationship, I might as well be alone.

posted November 03, 2004 12:55 PM              

I think it's better if the woman is the Sag, and the man the Leo.

posted November 03, 2004 01:14 PM              

after three years i tired of his bad manners though. once in the parking lot of home depot, he spat a piece of gum onto the street

posted November 03, 2004 01:47 PM              

I love Pisces men in general because I genuinely believe that everyone has inherent beauty within them, and I genuinely long to see that in everyone. For me, it's easiest to see that in Pisces men. The way I see it, the other signs make it hard for me tot he seen that in them. Don't get me wrong - I try my d^mnest, but there aren't many who are working with me on this.

As for needing a "man" or "real man" - whenever I hear that from another woman, I assume the woman is looking for someone to compensate for their own weakness without a fair exchange. Yeah, that's harsh, but that's the honest truth. If it's a honest revelation, I can respect that, like "Hey, I know my limitations and I need someone in my life who can help me with this." I see nothing wrong with wanting a helpmate, as long as it's equal footing. But the passive-aggressive "You have to live up to my needs and expectations before I'll accept you" attitude - I really hate that, personally, because it begins with the expectation of inferiority and that the man's genuine self takes a backseat to the woman's demands. It plays into the biggest social stereotypes going around about both men and women. People cling so insistantly to their ideals of what other people should be like, and then wonder why their relationships fail. EVERY relationship I've been in has failed because the guy clung to a stereotype of women that he expected me to live up too - and I see women do it do men all the time too, I absolute loathe it and it would be utter hypocrisy for me to afflict that upon men.

I don't except a man to be a "man" - just himself. I think it's more important for a guy to just be genuine and true to himself than to live up to other people's expectation of what a man should be.

I'm done bitching now...and oh yeah, I love Pisces men and feel very sad for those you who don't. You really don't know what you're missing.