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Battle of Evermore
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posted May 08, 2005 07:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Battle of Evermore     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces is my opposite, and I like some of them....But one!! I like most everybody with the Aquarian indifference of my ascendant, with the acception of two in perticular, one Pisces, and one Aqua. Both have intentionally deeply hurt, or are hurting, people very close to me. That I find VERY hard to tolerate. This Pisces is the same sex as me, but I really don't think we are anything alike. I have seen her be selfish and deceptive. Not that I'm perfect or anything though... OK breathe. I just need to let it go I'm not an angry person at all.... must let it gooo.

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pidaua
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posted May 08, 2005 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep..I think it really depends on the person. I feel the way about most Gemini's as Secret Garden feels about us Saggies.

In fact, when I read your words..I would have thought they were mine and how I would describe my Gemini opposite - because I see them, especially the men, as being cold, aggressive, manipulative and down right evil when they want to be.

I find that most Gemini men don't commit to many things, especially work - but I do seem to get along well with the women..or at least better than with the men.

As far as opposites getting along..I see ALOT of Taurus / Scorp pairs..in couples and friends. In fact most of my Taurus fiance's friends are Scorps and Bulls... I get along great with both (which is odd for being a Saggie I guess....but I do have Pluto on the Ascendant so that makes sense in a way).

Still..I have a hard time with Gemini's and my 7th house ruler (and opposite of my Ascendant) Pisces.

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Secret Garden
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posted May 09, 2005 06:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pidaua i dont get along very well with Geminis either, i understand them and why they act both in good and bad ways, I can understand their motivations, but I just don't like hanging with them as people very much. I tend to attract Gemini girls by the herds as my friends... and then I end up slowly backing off as I realize they are not as passionate, intense, dependable, as I am or require my friends to be... I really dont feel on the same wavelength as mutable signs; Ive always felt fixed signs can really admire each other even if they don't like each other or arent compatible becoz they understand each other and are on the same wavelength.

Although I could understand Geminis, and all other mutables a bit, I dont have the same feelings and actions as them....although I may think like them. In the end the results are different. That includes Sags, Gems, Virgo, Pisces.

I can see why you would not like Geminis, Im always surprised when people do,

not very many ppl like Gems, including me I think, although I am one,

Im happy when someone does like a Gem though, but surprised also. I feel guilty when Gems wrong people, although I know that is silly

Btw I think ur so pretty, checked out ur pics on LL photoshop, and i think thats mr T with you right, although I think you are cuter than he is (no offense).

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neptune's mermaid
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posted May 11, 2005 07:35 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Opposite don’t always attract. This is sometimes true with Pisces and Virgo.
I guess because we’re so different it’s can be hard to get along.

Like with these two I know at my school but there are Virgos I’m cool with.

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neptune's mermaid
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posted May 11, 2005 07:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
* edited
A tad bit harsh

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BlueEyes24
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posted July 22, 2006 10:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces is my opposite, and I LOVE THEM! One of my closest friend is a pisces. My boyfriend is a pisces too, and let me tell ya, we are definitely opposites in a lot of ways.. but he's also my best friend. The weird thing is, I'm the messy one, and he's the clean freak... figure that one out.

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Dulce Luna
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posted July 22, 2006 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I get along with cappy women, but not always the men. Those fools actively avoid me like the plague, they might as well hold up a cross when I walk by. I want to say "I don't bite....when I've slept and been fed", but it's no use. They seem intimidated by me, but it may be because of my quick temper. It's weird because I have a cappy asc.

I also would like to say that as a virgo mooner I get along fabulously with pisces mooners but I cannot take the suns. I just don't trust them...they show you one face but really have another.

It's strange, because like Thosa I don't get along with many cancers either. Were just too much for one another. And they say the 7th house rules open enemies too.

As for the other Cardinals, Libras are just not my cup of tea. I like alot of Aries women but find the men to be very preachy and pretentious.

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CrankyCap
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posted July 22, 2006 11:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CrankyCap     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This was a fun thread! Glad to see it was brought back.

My first boyfriend was a Cancer. I get along very well with the men, but the women are very hit or miss. I have two female co-workers that I work closely with. One is a Sag, one is a Cancer. Of the two of them I'd say I get along better with the Sag., although it's funny because the Saggie will occasionally get to talking, and talking, and TALKING and it seems the Cancer and I react the same way and just continue working and nodding our heads, probably both thinking...ok, can we get back to work now? But the Sag is great, and I know that's just part of her vibrant personality.

I've noticed that the Cancer and I have a lot of similarities, but she has a tendency to really rub me the wrong way sometimes, and I have a feeling I do the same to her.

She has this way of avoiding blame and putting it on someone else while making it LOOK like she had nothing but good intentions. That really irritates me. She's also incredibly nosy and will treat others like children which drives me nuts. I snap at her often but I do so in such a sarcastic way, that it doesn't SEEM as though that's what I'm doing.

On the flip side, I get along very well with fellow cardinals, Aries. Libras tend to be hit or miss as well.

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mars446
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posted July 22, 2006 11:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo here...

I get along w/ pisces b/c all that I have met so far seem to be soooooo mature and knowledgable (however u spell it). Very religious too by the way.

I guess it's because of my pisces asc that I get along w/ them........otherwise, I would have thought that they're too pessimistic for me to hang around w/ them.

Geminis get on my nerves....a good number of them. Cancers r too moody that I'd rather stay away, and some leos I'd just love to blow out their inflated ego (though I'm a leo moon and venus myself). Some aries, I'd luv to make them cry for being so annoying.

Otherwise, I usually get along w/ most signs...and do it pretty well

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jkxx
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posted July 23, 2006 02:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, nice thread. I'll have to read through all of the posts in a bit.

My 2 cents - Aries-chick's answer makes the most sense to me, with saying they're reflections of each other, similar, but somehow backwards.

There's another way to look at it, sign A and sign B. Their starting points are totally opposite, so is the direction in which they progress in their activities as they move forward. Therefore they approach each other for a time, meet in their viewpoints briefly, and then the reverse happens. I imagine it would be annoying to have someone walk toward and slam into you and then walk away only because it's in their nature to do so.

Making any sense?

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Lauren
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posted July 23, 2006 06:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh cool.. Thanks for bumping this.. I forgot all about it. I'm aries-chick btw.. I changed my nick name a while ago.

I'll reply a little while later.

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carlfloydfan
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posted July 23, 2006 06:53 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am dating a person who's sun sign is opposite mine. my beautiful amazing emotional kind hearted thoughtful and sometimes anxious taurus babe. I love her so much! she may not be perfect but she is for me .

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Lauren
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posted July 27, 2006 05:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So strange to read old posts. I can't believe I wasn't with my bf yet.. it feels like much longer. It's almost like we've been together since 2000 or 2001 lol He's a Libra. My Gem and Sag friends still dislike each other so that hasn't changed, but I've definitely noticed nice Moon connections dissolve the negatives from Sun/Sun oppositions and squares.

I love oppositions and I like Libras a lot, but I guess some people might dislike tension in general and prefer relationships that are pretty smooth and easy.. I don't love tension, but I couldn't live a life with no tension at all.. it'd bore me to no end, so I secretly like the occasional argument.

Cranky, one of my best friends is a Cappy girl, but my moon is there.. it doesn't feel like a square.

Yeah, that makes sense Jkxx, are you a triple Cap? I think you said you were, unless someone else was and I'm confusing you with them lol If you are a triple Cap, does it make it harder to get along with the other cardinals.. since they would square/oppose all of your top three?

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Ingrid
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posted July 27, 2006 06:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with pidaua and secret garden about disliking sags, as I am a gemini, they seems to me too blunt (this is the worse part), sometimes too obvios, I can see what motivates them but I don´t understand why making so much fuss, they are so difficult...
However, I do like gemini, they are fresh, smily, not judgemental, you can share ideas or opinion with them without having the impression of being too dreamy, or at least not being judge because of that.
I also find some similarities between sags and cancers (maybe it is a fake impression based on people I know) but, I guess because of my cancer moon I don´t feel hurt by them despite being as blunt as sags....
I am interested in that comment about carole post: the sign after your opposite would work?
I always have been atracted to scorpios, my bf is one and previous datings also, although it sometimes too intense and I think I can´t stand it anymore, I can´t help but love them....

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BlueEyes24
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posted July 27, 2006 10:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I should also add that my neptune is in the 1st house and my jupiter is in pisces, so even though I'm a virgo, I have some pisces traits which helps me relate better to them.

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Astra
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posted June 06, 2007 01:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Gemini and my opposite is Sagittarius. I get along very well with Sag men, but Sag women are a completely other story. One of my former friends was a Sag. At first, she was very easygoing and relaxed. However, after we had been friends a while, I saw her other side: very moody (she puts Cancers to shame), manipulative, domineering and selfish.

Out of all the zodiac signs, I prefer Scorpios because of their depth and passion. However, I am not a fan of their jealousy

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Peri
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posted June 06, 2007 01:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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'You either love 'em or hate 'em' is not true for me at all I cannot say I love or hate Scorps, they are just like any other sign to me although I usually get along well with them;

I find it very difficult to deal with Leo Sun/ Moon or ASC especially if they somehow activate my Saturn which is a focal point of a T-square in my chart.

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CoralFrequency
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posted June 07, 2007 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CoralFrequency     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow I can't believe this came up again. I was 18 when I wrote this so odd. It looks like it was yesterday on here.

Ok so, I have since broken up with the Libra bf mentioned, on good terms. Still love Librans but I'm now dating a Sag - just as an update..

:edit: and omg I thought BR was a girl hehe

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alma_pisces
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posted June 07, 2007 12:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alma_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a pisces and my mother is a virgo and all of my life I have had problems with her, she is too critical of every move I make, she worries too much, and I am always scared about everything I do that she is going to criticize me for it, but at the same time I know she is an amaxing lady and because of her I have learned so much and I don't know what kind of girl I would be today if it wasn't for. I also know that she has learned alot from me to not worry so much about everything and just relax.

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alanabelle86
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posted June 07, 2007 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Scorpio Sun/Leo Moon...I am a Taurean magnet. My lord, they are everywhere. The men tend to be Taurus Suns with Aquarius Moons. And the women tend to *always* have Taurus Moons.

Taurean males don't know how to quit. I don't have any problems with them, except that they can hold a grudge like no one's business. But I can too. I guess we can only fully dislike what that which we can relate to ourselves.


Actually, I take that back. I'm a VENUS magnet. Because if the Males don't have Taurus Sun or Moon, then it's Libra Moon or AC. With something else in Taurus like Mars or Venus. Always. Every male friend or foe I've had has had some inner planet in Taurus. Idk what it is about Taurus Mooners. I have no immediate issues but after a while something gets to me. I can't put my finger on it though...

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