posted November 25, 2004 06:54 PM              

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moonbaby
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posted November 25, 2004 06:52 PM
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i think we digressed, but this is a piscean perspective....
its bedtime here but please dont close the post aj...

when the others knowflakes are awake maybe there will be some fresh perspectives on the topic

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posted November 25, 2004 06:55 PM              

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how do we truly TRULY know they dont like it?

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posted November 25, 2004 06:55 PM              

i dont know if you are joking or not...

posted November 25, 2004 06:58 PM              

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moonbaby
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posted November 25, 2004 06:55 PM
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why do i need rehab....?
i dont know if you are joking or not...

and i meant when homosexuality first became mainstream...anywayz, goodnite peeps

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posted November 25, 2004 07:20 PM              

Sorry, but a lot of what you say just sounds plain daft, and somewhat ill-considered.

I'm not usually this harsh, but in this case I'll make an exception. Perhaps it's the effect of the Aries-Cancer square grating a bit.

posted November 26, 2004 04:02 AM              

you should check out the 'what is the truth' post. someone said murder wasnt necessarily a bad thing. im sure most would disagree.

i think thats where my strengths as a person lies. in the fact tthat i would never say anything was daft, wierd, cos i dont think i know it all.

read my post carefully before you start to bandy words around. its easy to be closed minded. what is daft about anyhthing i have said..?

im lucky to have people around me who care share and share alike...mostly open minded aquarians...i dont need this.

so much hypocrisy. you say this is someowhere we can share and be open...but only to things you wanna hear...and things you say

i never said this is fact, i am just sharing my thoughts...and duality explained her views and I see them ...its my mars in libra

so, f*ck this, im outta here

posted November 26, 2004 06:04 AM              

There is so much agressiveness at the moment here!

Moonbaby, you have to be able to deal with the comments "you are daft" when you throw controversial topics into a more-or-less mainstream forum. I can see your reasons for throwing them in, the original question was also interesting.

I think you threw people off course with the beastiality thing!

To get back to the original question:

I'm a gemini, but have a mars (aries) square saturn (cancer). This greatly affects my love life, in two respects: a)I generally feel really turned off, sometimes even repulsed about sex and b)I have never found it to important as a bonding tool in a relationship (despite the fact that, yes, I have "highlights" hehe ). I also do not find it to be a release of pent up energy, or stress or whatever most people think it is a release mechanism for. It takes forever, is a lot of work, you get sweated on, and you don't get to just go to bed and go to sleep when you are tired. Plus the room reeks after. LOL

There's some controversy, too!

posted November 26, 2004 06:49 AM              

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It takes forever, is a lot of work, you get sweated on, and you don't get to just go to bed and go to sleep when you are tired. Plus the room reeks after. LOL

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posted November 26, 2004 07:37 AM              

I'm typically Aquarian. When I'm single, I'm very all or nothing. There have been periods in my life where I'm all about it, geting it, doing it, talking about it... and others where I just don't care. In a relationship, it's simlar, but I'm always up for it if my partner wants it. But I like it. I like the sweat and the ick and the raunchy smell afterwards, lol. More often than not, I revel in it, lol.

The thing I've noticed after being married is that I have no interest in casual sex. I was celibate for several months... and then I dated for a few months and talked a lot sh*t about "doing it"... but I never followed through.

I love sex, but after my marriage, I'm just so conscious of the... mingling of energies... that's the best way to put it... and I am repulsed at the thought of doing that indiscrimnately. It's not a physical repulsion... I just don't want to share that part of myself indiscriminately anymore, that sort of ethereal energy you end up sharing with the other person whether you love them and intended to - or not.

No judgement if you do, do your thing, get your groove on, w00t w00t, lol... seriously. I'm not judgemental at all. People have needs... or they don't, and whatever you do as long as you take care of yourself, you aren't hurting anybody, you're happy and healthy... then good for you.

OK, astrologically... Obviously Sun in Aquarius, Libra rising... supposed to make me given to sensual pleasures, lol. I have Mars conjunct my Sun in Aquarius in the 5th house. 1st house pluto. Venus in Sag, 3rd house... conjunct Neptune. My 8th house is ruled by Taurus... no planets.

Hang on... I have my chart uploaded... knock yourself out if I missed anything - http://mojico.org/my_chart.jpg

My bf is a Pisces with Scorpio rising... Mars in Cappy and Venus in Aries... we have some very good synastry aspects going on too, lol.

Only one thing I really wanna say about the bestiality thing which I feel is important and troubled me reading it... that an animal is aroused is no indicator of CONSENT... some women who are raped have orgasm during intercourse, yes this is true. And little boys develop erections, they get sexually aroused too. He is not giving his consent any more than the poor horsey in Debbie Does Seabiscuit.

I'm sorry, reading that "the animals get aroused" as justification was like nails on a chalkboard for me. Lets get this discussion back on track.

posted November 26, 2004 10:16 AM              

But I'm not. And I don't care lol

The only thing is, it IS a big deal for hubby...grrr...it gets really annoying to be chased around all the time, sometimes you just wanna go to bed.

"it takes forever" is AWFUL, cause I just want it over with to go to sleep, and hubby (cappy!) wants me to finish first. And it's like, IT'S NOT HAPPENING TODAY, AND MIDNIGHT'S NOT GONNA MAKE IT BETTER! Will you just PLEASE finish!! lol

Poor hubby, I do love him. Just not often enough, he says lol

posted November 26, 2004 12:08 PM              

i didnt mean to be soo controversial....and i apologise for going loco i have deifinitely learnt a lot from this; namely, to keep most thoughts to myself

its a full moon here tonight...which really explains a lot...its being a crazy day

posted November 26, 2004 12:17 PM              

i ask becos I have quite a few aquarian friends and they vary quite largely in their attitudes to sex.

a few of them are quite happy to talk about it , but are not very demonstartive and hate PDAs....and the others love to talk about it in gory detail and are very demonstrative to friends and lovers alike

posted November 26, 2004 12:27 PM              

I think sexuality and your expression of it is definitely a picture painted by your whole chart and very individual.

Aquarians are typically supposed to have a very sporadic sex drive though. Inexplicable highs and lows.

posted November 26, 2004 12:33 PM              

I believe you have Sun conj. Uranus. I saw this article in the last issue of the Mountain Astrologer magazine, and immediately thought of you. It's called, "Sun-Uranus Sirens". It's the one issue that I missed so I didnt get to read the article, but luckily you can order back issues. The magazine rocks. Anyway, just thought I'd mention it.

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Sun-Uranus Sirens
by Simone Butler
This self-confessed "siren" writes about several women with the Sun-Uranus conjunction. These freedom-loving souls have lots of sexual magnetism but aren't necessarily interested in holding onto a man for life.

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Siren: enchantress: a woman who is considered to be dangerously seductive www.cogsci.princeton.edu/cgi-bin/webwn

Yep, I think that'd be you.

posted November 26, 2004 12:42 PM              

I can talk about sex in any form at any time in front of just about anyone...except my dad. Since I'm a read-a-holic, I was reading any sex book I could get my hands on when I was younger... like 9, 10 years old. That's what happens when you start a youngster on Cosmo magazine.
I know that several computer interpretations of my natal chart indicate that I have to be emotionally involved to have a sexual relationship... but I think it goes so much farther than that... I have to have *intelligent* conversation, not just flirting. Then of course I don't think I flirt well... I'm more of a direct to the point kinda gal. I did read one interpretation that said my Virgo Pluto in the second house (and I don't think it referred to my aspects to it) requires mindless release.. something about the nature of procreation with that placing. So true... if I have atleast one orgasm a day, I'm a very happy woman!

Angela

posted November 26, 2004 01:27 PM              

i generally dont like to think about it, talking about it, yes...doing it, oh boy....but thinking it, no.

it just gets tedious. i dont even have fantasies...and im crap at pleasing myself...i just get bored