posted December 02, 2004 11:16 PM              

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arguments and intellectual discussions turn me on!!!

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"Me too!" says Venus in Gemini.
"But I'd rather do it in person." says Sun in Taurus.

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huggy-huggy-kissy-kissy-slippy-slippy

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"Now we're talkin'!!!" says Moon and Pluto in the eighth......or maybe that was Taurus Sun again......

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I don't desire punching you 26

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"Good. 'Cause I'd probably kick your @ss anyway." says Mars in Leo square Uranus in Scorpio. LOL. just kidding.

"Okay I've gone too far."

.............says Cappy Rising. ("Aghhhh, somebody stop me!!")

"BTW, click on the Smilies Legend on the left of the "Your Reply" screen to see how to use all of the smilies."
.......don't know who said that..........maybe Virgo Moon?

posted December 02, 2004 11:28 PM              

ARIEL!?

posted December 02, 2004 11:37 PM              

You are welcome to express your opinions but you can't expect any Taurus to be too overly sensitive to any opinion that may irk her/him. That's because Taurus is just after Aries in the ego department, and we are proud of the skin communication thing.

I like verbal discussions as they get me heated up My Moon is in the 8th, Pluto is in Virgo which is the co-ruler of my Sun and my Midheaven, plus it's conjunct Uranus which is in Libra,

So you can imagine I find myself heated up by Libras, and those with strong Pluto influences often. Those arguments can be about other things, and I have learned to follow my instincts rather than the words.

What you are saying is that the Taurus female understands you better face to face and you wish you could be in the same room to express yourself. You probably like to gesture with your hands and express yourself with your entire body, plus women find you very attractive in general, and follow your lead, so you would prefer to have the control in a room full of females.

That's understable, online we can't see you, but we can imagine your gestures, your self expression and your need to describe what you are feeling. Be assured that your feelings are coming across clearly,

Pluto also craves clarity, you can see yourself and you know what others want from you.

I bet if you did give a woman a full body massage, she's the one who wants you, even if you send off other signals.

Taurus is the opposite influence and the women are the assertive ones physically in all relationships. They will always take on the role of the one who sets the pace, not for control but to send out the signals. The clarity for the Taurus comes from the physical, so Taurus could reasonably be described as one of the strongest signs, it values it's strength.

Arguing is always fun for a Taurus, as long as the Taurus can still flex his/her muscles physically, that is show off what can be done. If the Libra talks too much about what "can" happen, the Taurus will follow along and want to "do" everything. It can make a Taurus riled up easily.

Taurus women can cling for many reasons, but one is about competition, she may want to compete with you, to gain your admiration, once you get a Taurus heated up, she may want to wrestle to win.

That's why I like the Pluto influences, but I notice how many Pluto individuals channel their energy and emotion into very intense careers. I imagine your career is more important to you than a romantic relationship.

posted December 02, 2004 11:44 PM              

But wait just a minute, my Mars is also conjunct Saturn. huh? huh? Whatcha got?

I do agree we should try to give those aspects a creative outlet. I do, I draw, paint and play guitar. Are you an artist too?

posted December 04, 2004 02:22 AM              

i don't know. i got really dirty verbally with one and he was sooo turned off... granted it was pretty nasty.
and then when they do have sex and you want it to be nasty they go and say "i love you" right in the middle of it. i mean, that's incredibly sweet and all, but not the right time, you know? i mean, way to break a mood.
this guy had a cappy moon, cancer rising, and merc. and venus in scorp., so i just don't get it.

as for looking for a cappy to complete a grand trine, actually i have cappy rising, so i guess i'm already a grand trine in myself?
i actually fell head over heels for a cappy sun, cancer rising, moon in taurus guy. i felt so comfortable, so understode. he was just so easy to talk to and understand. unfortunately, he didn't feel the same way.
ahhhhhhh...... oh well...... but man, find that combo again with my cappy rising, taurus sun, virgo moon! i miss it!

posted December 04, 2004 02:42 AM              

i just looked at both our charts..

i have sat. in libra at 17.
he has sun in libra at 12, jupiter at 19 saturn at 12 and cappy at 11.

i also have mars in libra at 0.

interestingly, my cappy rising squares my saturn at exactly 17. never noticed this until the other day.

maybe all these libra influences and cappy sqaures help?

i mean, i get along with libras fantastiacally, it's just like i feel as if i have to be a "lady" around them. and when i would flip and scream, he would never yell back at me, but would just be calm and say "we'll talk when you are feeling more like yourself" or something! so frustrating! must be that mature cappy moon. i mean, whoah... do people really still talk like that?

then again, all that reserve makes this taurus girl want to shove her tongue down his throat ~ which i've done before and gotten "we shouldn't be doing this" haha

posted December 04, 2004 06:46 AM              

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I do think Pluto has to do with emotions. Especially when it's conjunct the Sun. Explosive!

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O yeeess! Sun, Pluto (& Mars!) all nicely tied together in Libra - wonderful, difficult, crazy, curious and strong. Depth and then some more depth! Can also argue each side with fire and brimstone AND exude the pure Venusian charm at the same time.

IMO these Plutonic Libras are really wonderful breed.

posted December 04, 2004 10:33 AM              

Venus in virgo is unaware, warm, and human. very seductive that way.

Taking dirty puppyblew? I should have known with that nickname;>

I like that too, but Libras, especially Pluto influenced Libras, can blow any verbal ideas out of the water. They set the pace verbally. The best you can do is get one going and hope.

Geminis are much better at talking dirty,

But a Libra will talk dirty to strangers, my ex would yell out car windows "Bl... Me" just about anywhere. Then he would turn to me and say Okay Sweetie, Baby, Sugar, Honey!!!!

It was so funny, lots of sweetness my way and a obscenity out the window. I don't know how to take it. His LIbra would war with his Pluto. He would punch out a parking attendant, but out of view of everyone else (except me). Seeing his various moods (Moon on ascendant), made me question, sanity, reality.

Finally, I told him to express himself fully with me, no control. Now it's less explosive when we do talk, and less sugary. He sees the bad and the good clearly, they just have to come together.

Myself, I can be nasty and sweet at the same time. This quality exists in Gemini and Pisces influences people.
And I have Merc Gemini/7th, Neptune on Ascendant.

When you get nasty is it more like shock treatment for wimpiness?

Sarcasm maybe:>

posted December 04, 2004 10:07 PM              

umm... actually, i was first attracted to this guy because of his super sharp sarcastic tounge. (i mean talking here!)
but, when we started dating, it totally disappeared. i could have sworn he was a scorp. when i first met him. i think it was his merc. in scorp. coming out.

he still talks that way with his friends, but with me it is mush all the way!
i was just as bad to tell the truth.
i used to call him butterbunny among other sickeningly sweet endearments.

i don't know if i talked "nasty" for shock or what. i just kind of like to be "dominated" and wasn't getting that in the bedroom, so i think i started to act out more and more. i kind of became the "man" of the relationship.

it's just odd to me. you'd think that someone with 3 planets in scorp. and a leo mars would be a little spit fire, but isn't.
maybe since my mars in in libra, i am acting out his mars energy for him? and being dominant?

posted December 05, 2004 02:27 PM              

Maybe to my ex a discussion about a brake job that cost money was "talking dirty?" Who knows, maybe we all have different "buttons" that say, that's dirty!

posted December 06, 2004 08:10 AM              

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Venus in Virgo, where is Gloria Astrojunkie btw?

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Here I am!

(hee hee)

The Venus is Virgo, and probably any of my Pisces influences, make me (AT TIMES) appear like I have "Sucker" written on my forehead. It attracts lovers who are a little bit more assertive.

My 5th House Sun, and 3rd House Moon can (AT TIMES) make me appear flakey if I'm in one of those moods to totally relax and have fun.

But enter my serious sides, Mercury, Mars & Neptune in Scorpio in the 6th, or Jupiter & Saturn in Capricorn in the 9th - and it can take one by surprise. In other words, "fun girl is a lot deeper than we originally thought".