posted December 05, 2004 05:32 PM              

It is **** behaviour, no astrological excuses allowed.

posted December 05, 2004 09:59 PM              

why bother having dinner with him?

posted December 05, 2004 10:11 PM              

I'm going to edit this for history's sake,
I really don't know what my plans are right now,

posted December 06, 2004 08:26 AM              

My heart goes out to you.

I think it's the combination of Gemini Sun and Pisces Ascendant. I know a guy that is exactly like that when he was younger. He has a Pisces Sun and Gemini Ascendant. No real committment or relationship in mind, just sex.

But all in all, it's his loss not yours. Chin up, sweetie!

posted December 06, 2004 09:13 AM              

Work wise, I can't just leave my territory
(sounds like a Taurus or a Sag)

posted December 06, 2004 09:35 AM            

((((((Natasha)))))))

For the Sag in you, go out and get the Christina Aguilera CD "Stripped" or at least her song "Fighter"...it's very empowering. (If you are able to download stuff, I could send you the song too)

posted December 06, 2004 12:55 PM              

does his gemini sun square his pisces ascendant? just curious. dont know if you mentioned this or not.

posted December 06, 2004 01:15 PM              

Saturn is opp uranus and pluto
mars opp sun, moon, jupiter and neptune

All those aspects to neptune make him seductive, I have been told,

posted December 06, 2004 02:44 PM            

I'm sorry about what happened. It sounds like he is not a healthy person for you to be with and let's face it- although Taurus can deal with ALOT..you all do need stability. Even when paired with a quirky partner- the Taurus easily picks up the patterns and can deal with the unheavels..

What you cannot deal with is his emotional roller coaster.

Hey..I have Sun in the IC conjunct Venus (Both of which square my Pluto / Asc in the 1st house)- with a strong Neptune making a square to my Mars in Pisces. I know that I can be charming and seductive..and it was fun to play with that when I was young.

But, at some point a person needs to claim responsibility for their actions and how they affect others. Your Gem with his Pisces Asc is NOT respecting your emotions nor is he taking responsibility for his actions.

Sure people make throw themselves at him. Oddly enough, when Mr. Taurus and I are out, he EXPECTS people to come up tp me- it's weird but even in front of him people(yes men and women) will try hard to get my attention or make passes at me- but I have to be responsibly enough not to fall into that pit.

It can be powerful..alluring, to have people "want you" -but a more evolved person realizes it is only superficial- the real love is the person that accepts you for who you are and KNOWS that you won't do anything to hurt them. That is why I love Mr. Taurus so much - he doesn't get angry when people try to flirt with me , not like Mr. Leo did, nor does he try to sequester me like Mr. Virgo did.

In any case, being seductive or charming does not mean a damn thing and it's not an excuse to cheat or to fall into bed with someone.

Can I ask you one thing Natasha..Did you lay down the law with him? Did you tell him under no uncertain terms would you be with someone that wanted sexual relationships with others? Sometimes (and this is NO excuse) Mutable signs NEED that boundry. We NEED to be told what the other person expects- or else that long leash IS long enough that we will hang ourselves.

posted December 06, 2004 03:19 PM              

Aww. If you lived nearby, I'd invite you out to coffee and bring along a box of tissues.

It's not easy for us folks being recently out of a serious relationship (weren't with a Libra Sun man? I was with a Capricorn Sun/Virgo Moon/Gemini Rising man) and swirling about in the dating world.

I was flipping through one of several journals I keep and thought you might like this, since we both have the Moon in the 8th house:

"I hope love breathes into my heart and makes it their home."

I hope it reasonates with you.

Aphrodite

posted December 06, 2004 08:58 PM            

I'm so sorry about what happened...I've been through my own struggles with a Pisces sun/Gemini moon guy (I'm sure I've mentioned him before).

posted December 07, 2004 01:39 PM              

I will post back on Saturday or Sunday, as I will probably still be a little emotional after the dinner. It's hard trying to stay on top of everything without getting upset. I am going to pick up some herbal antidepressants for the trip this week.

posted December 07, 2004 03:03 PM              

You're probably feeling like "I should have known better. Shame on me".

Ah well...forgive yourself, rise above it, and move on. Be freindly and kind and DETACHED toward him. Don't forget, hate is NOT the opposite of love - INDIFFERENCE is. Do this, and in time, you may find that he wants to be with you again. Then, you will have to decide at that time if YOU want to have anything to do with that inevitable train-wreck situation again. Once bitten...and all that stuff.