posted December 26, 2004 08:15 AM              

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If our venus opposes another person's Pluto, what are the negative effects of this?
Will there be something holding us from expressing love to that person?
How to sort out this vibration (other than total recall).
Do anyone of you share this aspect?
If yes, how did u sort it out?

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posted December 26, 2004 08:30 AM            

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Hi Sweetlibra,

I thought you may find interesting this other thread:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001275.html

I gave an answer to your question based in Relationship Signs there...

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posted December 26, 2004 08:33 AM            

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Sorry, I forgot to mention that the square and the opposition have a similar effect according to Linda...

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posted December 26, 2004 06:55 PM              

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sweetlibra, i have the same aspect in my chart. the negative affects are somewhat like this: one can become possessive of my lovers, easily jealous, and relationships may fail because of lack of balance of power. This may mean one of two things: either the person with this aspect is being too controlling and needs to take into consideration their partner's demands also, or, it may also mean that in an effort to maintain harmony u may yield all power to your partner leading to domination by him/her. In any case it is an unhealthy aspect because it unequally and usually, unfairly, distributes power in the relationship, and as you can tell, its difficult for these relationships to be healthy and traditional unless the other planets involved, like suns and moons, can neutralize this affect.
"If you hold on too tight to the people you like/love they may feel confined and may leave you, so it's better to let them free. Their commitment may surprise you" is what one personal reading of my chart, in light of this aspect, says. Hope its useful!

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posted December 26, 2004 11:59 PM              

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Thanx steelrose, for sharing that link
Could you suggest any sites to get more info into this?
My boyfriend's venus opposes my pluto and our relation is a roller coaster ride..
I am trying to figure out what makes it so despite a strong love between us...

Thanks Secret Garden for sharing your experience.
He is very stubborn to my suggestions (even positive)
May be he's feeling power imbalance..I'll have to figure it out

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posted December 27, 2004 01:11 PM              

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I say ... if there are not a whole lot of positive's in your Synastry Chart - reconsider. But that's just me.

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