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911virgo
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posted January 30, 2005 04:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Greetings to everyone

Can anyone give me any info. on virgo woman/gemini man relationships? I am wondering why I am so drawn to this particular man in my life.

Thank you
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The Mutable Night Force
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posted January 31, 2005 02:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey! Congratulations, my fellow Virgo! You have got one of the sparkiest and possibly one of the most interesting zodiacal relationships there!

My mum and her boyfriend are a Virgo/Gemini and they gel so well, there is such a click there, not to mention the fact they can't keep off each other. Personally I find I get on with Geminis great, and Gem guys are particularly charismatic. I know its 4/10 relationship but I think that because we share the same planet (Mercury) it makes us communicate better, and this is definately a communicative relationship. Lots of talking and verbal stuff.
Generally a very good pair.

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posted January 31, 2005 03:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was in a marriage with a Virgo and although the good memories were a lot and very strong and wonderful, but in the end it would not work because he wanted to restrain me (Gem. woman), and although I do like loyal and possessive men (Leos Aries for ex.) I just could not deal with his unfounded restrictions and illogical jealousies. Unlike the other signs I mentioned (Leo Aries) whose jealousy I understand, I could totally not understand my Virgo's , and his temper was REALLY bad and it would always end up hurting me

Anyways now its over and I'm glad. Although both signs are mutable there may be tendencies for one to use or abuse the other one. The verbal communication is good and there is a similarity in thinking...the physical relationship was for me not so fulfilling, it was there just coz, I mean I could pretend that it was fulfilling, and I did a pretty convincing job since my hubbie could not tell. But there were no sparks.

I also found that he was kind of lazy and lacked the initiative and strong will that I was looking for in a man.

Beware that Gem men can be flirtatious and there have been many threads here that have said that again and again...

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posted January 31, 2005 08:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, we share alot of similarities...I'm a Virgo, I live in MI too, and I'm strongly attracted to a wonderfully sweet and fascinating Gemmy boy.

How long have you known him? Have you made and effort to be his friend, or better yet, best friend? That's how my Gemmy and I are, at the point where he wants me to consider him my "best friend"...we've known eachother 5 and a half years, and are families are pretty tight. I'm so freakin' attracted to him, it hurts sometimes to be in the same room. Oddly enough, he's well aware that I have feelings for him, he's cool with it, and according to the ladies here, we've more than crossed the typical "guy/girl friend"-lines by the fact that we've been hugging eachother for years. So maybe he sees the potential in our friendship, either way, I love him dearly, and always want him in my life. He's intelligent, sensitive (could he his cancer planets), warm, fun/playful, flirty, charming, and he's easily hurt. My Virgo nature adores everything about him as it compliments my sharp mind, need to trust, and inner child.
Let us know more if you can about you and your Gemmy...?

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We hated gently, carefully
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posted January 31, 2005 07:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted February 04, 2005 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
911virgo:

Hey, let us know what's going on with this situation so we can give some insight...,OK?

You've got me deathly curious, hehe.

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"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted February 07, 2005 03:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Both Virgo & Gemini are Ruled by Mercury. Just watch for too much nervous energy. Give each other plenty of time to rest and re-group.

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911virgo
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posted February 07, 2005 10:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just to bring a little insight to the situation.... I am not involved with this gemini man (yet).
I'm currently in a relationship with a libra man. I've been with him for 6 years now and he just recently proposed to me...but I declined.
There was I time when I would have jumped at the chance to marry him, but when he finally asked everything in my being said NO.
Now, back to the gemini. I've known him for about 2 years or so, he frequents my place of business. We flirt ever so often, and he always asks if we can go out sometime, I turn him down politely and he accepts it.. being the loyal virgo that I am I would never do such a thing....
Two years later, the flirting is still there and know find myself thinking about him more and more. I just recently had a drink with him, and he complimented me on my witty conversation and shy demeanor. He always refers to me as "beautiful" and I love to hear him say it. Even his tone of voice is sexy and calming. I just don't know what I would do if I saw him again.

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posted February 08, 2005 12:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello 911Virgo! Were you born on 911 too? I'm currently stuck in a marriage to a gemini man. He was the most wonderful man on earth at first, then he became violent and he currently lives with his girlfriend for the past 7 months. I'm working on getting out. I agree with the virgo stifling the gemini because virgo is a stable earth sign and gemini is a air sign that needs freedom and movement. It's a little difficult that way..especially when kids are involved. because kids in general need stability. Theres also the issue of the gemini dual personality which linda goodman says there can be even more than 2. All of the negative aspects aside in my situation i've had alot of the happiest times in my life with my "husband" it's just that you can't make a gemini listen. Good luck if you pursue. I wish you the best.

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posted February 08, 2005 09:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yikes, you've been going through a lot of inner turmoil lately... I recently was fixated on a Libra guy, but he proved to be anti-social (or so he claimed), so I went my merry little way. I'm glad you listened to your heart and your whole self when the proposal came up, cause there's nothing worse for either person involved agreeing out of obligation.
My Gemmy is unpredictable, but hey, what can I say? The more more predictable guys bore the heck out of me cause we're too alike, well, one side of me is predictable and they only seem to bring that side out. My Gemmy bestfriend brings out the impulsive creative side of me I enjoy seeing more of, so in my opinion...

Go for it with the Gemmy...! One date is nothing to lose, yet.
Lots of luck,
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posted February 08, 2005 10:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a virgo woman with a very intense attraction to a gemini man. It has been three years since the first day I met him. When he looks into my eyes it feels like he is looking deep into my soul. We have a very hard time communicating. Some days I think he feels the same attraction, somedays he stays away. I feel like he is afraid to be around me. I feel the same way. I wish I understood why. I truly feel he is my twin. I have never felt this kind of connection to anyone else in my life. I really enjoy seeing people on this board with the same sign attraction. I would love some input on how I can approach him without scaring him, and maybe there is a gemini man on this board that can tell me how they relate to virgo women. My venus is in scorpio so I think I seem a little intense to him. Thanks in advance for any input you can give.

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posted March 11, 2015 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoMaiden     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anymore insights on this pairing? Could a Gem guy really fall in love with a Virgal? How can you tell when a Gemini man is really serious about you?

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mollywu
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posted March 13, 2015 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mollywu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it depends on synastry.

I, as a Virgo, accidently get involved with a Gemini man. We both have been involved with someone else already; he is with a Virgo, me with a Taurus. In the past, I heard Gemini is the worst match for Virgo, so I always avoided getting involved with any Gemini.

We met online, he dropped me a message first. I replied politely. Our communication was good, but on and off. He would disappear suddenly, but I never paid much attention because we have involved with someone else and he is a Gemini. Until we finally met in person after almost two years., the attraction was beyond our expectations, we just thought of meeting friend, but it turned out differently. He is very charming, funny and caring(Gemini, Taurus and Cancer placement, not sure about his ASC) .... Since then, we kept chating. He said he fell for me, and I felt the same.....

Now we haven't seen each other for over one year and might never see each other again(we live in different countries),we tried to let each other go, less and less communication, but I just feel too hard I still miss him a lot.

Virgo is an earth sign, Gemini is an air one. I have heavy Virgo placement(Sun/Venus/ASC/Lilith/Saturn in first house), but my Scorpio Moon conjunct Uranus in 3rd house(a Gemini's house) which made me changeable. He keeps telling me I am unpredictable, he loves that. Our Synastry is good and Composite is great. I believe we can get very well each other, but unluckily, we met the wrong time. So I suggest checking out your Synastry/Composite, also the progressed ones, then you will know how the relationship might go.

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posted March 16, 2015 02:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first love was a Gemini. He played with my heart and my mind. You should post the synastry with you two.

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Randall
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posted March 17, 2015 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's in the synastry.

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ikja
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posted March 21, 2015 09:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini woman who has been involved with Virgo man for a number of years. It's definitely challenging, but the dynamics of a relationship are not reliant on sun signs alone. You have to consider the other planetary signs in each birthchart.

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posted March 22, 2015 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ikja:
Gemini woman who has been involved with Virgo man for a number of years. It's definitely challenging, but the dynamics of a relationship are not reliant on sun signs alone. You have to consider the other planetary signs in each birthchart.

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posted March 23, 2015 12:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for your viewpoint.

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