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Topic: Signs least likely to "steal" your mate
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26taurus
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posted February 09, 2005 07:45 PM
 
Lioneye,Little off subject but, I'm also thinking it has to do with Leo influences. Leo's demand respect and like to be "the center of attention" especially in a relationship. They are all heart and give their all to their mates, but expect the same in return. I, having Mars and Saturn in Leo in the house of marriage, wont deal with being second best in a relationship. When I give my heart and soul to someone I expect the same in return and if there is any kind of faltering in that loyalty, I'm gone. The switch goes off. Maybe it's also a fixed sign thing. Although Taurus and Leo are usually two of the most unwaveringly loyal and devoted signs. Interesting stuff to ponder. IP: Logged |
26taurus
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posted February 09, 2005 11:27 PM
Okay, I've figured it out. My best match is a Scorpion with a Leo Rising. That would give us opposing risings and suns. And if they had Venus or Mars in Sag. all the better. Opposing my Venus in Gem. Either that or a Leo Sun with a Scorp. rising. Putting my Sun in their 7th (and their Sun in mine). I attract alot of Scorps and Scorp risings and am very comfortable with that sign. I've yet to date a Leo though. And I just turned down a date with a Gemini Sun. Conj. my Venus. Good choice? I'm not sure yet. Where are the Scorp/Leo rising's? That's what I need. I like my fellow fixed signs. ........ *trails off* IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted February 09, 2005 11:45 PM
Wooooo hoooooooo.. 26 taurus.. I'm right here baby!!!Me or JWhop.
Okay.. well, he has a penis, I don't.. maybe that is a disadvantage. it's funny, you'd think this 'myst dreamz' charactr would at least alter her style of posting.. to directly quote without using the quote function or even her own "..." is just plain "Hello, I was banned, but I am back, please love me! Until I decide to get all pissy, then I will call you a b!tch." IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 09, 2005 11:52 PM
Here's a scenario that has happened to me actually, too many times....: "HI, I think you're beautiful, would you like to have dinner with me?"
"Oh, thank you, that's so sweet..I am flattered, but actually I am married.*wiggles ring finger*
"Well... would you go out with me sometime?"
......pause...
"Um... thanks, but I am maried, I have kids."
" Hey, that's okay, I am engaged, I have kids too, I think you are beautiful, go out with me....."
.....Retch....."Um... I am happily married. Maybe in another life."
I walk away, eyebrow raised. Also, at work frequently.. ( I work with the public)After a brief discussion...
"Hey, can I give you a call sometime?"
"Oh, thanks, but I am married."
"Well, can I get your number?"
I am Happily married.
persistent people.. I almost have to qualify the happy part, before they will *maybe* back off.
I send out vibes or something.. I mean, I flirt, but I do it naturally ( I hear it is a venus in Sagittarius thing.) IP: Logged |
26taurus
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posted February 10, 2005 12:49 AM
 !!!Oh yes, I almost forgot. Pixie you'd be perfect for me you know? Another place, another time..... Your Scorpion/Leo tendencies are perfect for my Taurean/Aqua ones. Ahh...well, maybe next time around. ROFL, yes. Hopefully her alter-ego *bum* has been banned - again!.  People are strange......  you all. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted February 10, 2005 01:03 AM
I'll bet, babycakes!!!It never fails to amaze me ( though it should) How some men find NO sanctity in marriage.
I mean, we all have our days.. but if I tell you I am committed to someone, I obviously am not going to be cajoled into saying.. "Oh, well since you asked me three times, well, okay!"  Geez!
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Mystic Dreamz
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posted February 10, 2005 01:32 AM
Men are so annoying everyday it's the same crap. One day baby you look so cute. 30 mins later they say it to another girl. I personally do not get flattered. men are annoying at times.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Newflake Posts: 8
From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 10, 2005 01:36 AM
Well I do get flattered.. they mean it, and that's cool.. and they also mean it to that other girl, and that's also cool.
No delusions here.. there are beautiful people all around, Atlantic.. and I recognize that.It just amazes me how much they'll try.
*with ALL of us* IP: Logged |
26taurus
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posted February 10, 2005 01:52 AM
 Love ya pix.IP: Logged |
delerious
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posted February 10, 2005 01:53 AM
It is amazing, I got a couple guys after me and no matter how I reject they just keep coming.... (isn't that hot-wired? seems I get the most att. when I'm not interested, thrill of the chase?) Had my girlfriends comment on that too, maybe it's safer for them when they know they can't have you.... have fun playing the game with no risk of commitment......IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Newflake Posts: 8
From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 10, 2005 01:57 AM
Yeah.. thanks 26... 
You know? I actually meet more than one of your criteria! (well, there is that ever-present-" I am a girl-thing"... so that's the only strike..)
But
I am a Scorpio Sun, Cappy Moon, trining a bunch of your placements, Leo rising AND Sag Venus... all of which you described on your list. * well, I add-libbed the Capy Moon thing... but it works
Sorry about that whole no-penis thing... we ALMOST had it all.....IP: Logged |
Mystic Dreamz
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posted February 10, 2005 01:59 AM
I don't get turned on my men in the street. They do it to you they will do it to others. I bet half of them are even married.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted February 10, 2005 02:01 AM
I'll take you up on that bet, I'll bet it is more than half!!!!
Three quarters even!!!
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Secret Garden
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posted February 10, 2005 02:05 AM
I think Leos can totally be attracted to and want to steal ppl in other relationships. My ex bf Leo is like that and whenever I get into a relationship he gets jealous even though we're only friends now, and he tries to break it up...and steal me away again...anyhow we have issues with that.I personally am totally not attracted to men in relationships but Im a one person person, and if that person gets married the fact that I love them dearly can't change. What I mean by that is that I dont fall for ppl when I know they are in relationships. If I fall for them then they get into a relationship AFTER that, well then, I cant really change my attraction. Love is love and it will do what it will. I won't steal them...obviously, but the feelings are still there, and its unrealistic to say that Im such a wonderfully moral person that I totally understand that theyre off limits and stop thinking about them. I still think about the person but jus refrain from hitting on them or flirting... Well thats probably my self centered Venus in Aries. I rarely like people and if I do I like them forever. They don't have to like me. afterall the aries says its about me not about u. You can hate me but if I love you then thats that. Kinda messed up.
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delerious
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posted February 10, 2005 02:20 AM
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I rarely like people and if I do I like them forever. They don't have to like me. afterall the aries says its about me not about u. You can hate me but if I love you then thats that.
Boy, I hear you there, that's an Aries thing? (my venus conj. sun by 1 degree!) But to me the Aries ego wouldn't want to share... if he liked someone else enough to stray... It might not stop the feelings but if they're with someone else... I don't even want to date someone who is in any way tangled up with someone else.. seen too many messy situtations!! IP: Logged |
ariestiger
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posted February 10, 2005 08:08 AM
If a guy was married then I probably would feel bad, but if not (whether in a relationship or not) then in theory he would be fair game, because he wouldn't have made that extra, legal commitment to the other person.The thing is, when is someone "stolen"? My mother behaved so badly to my father (was obnoxious, basically, and they didn't have a physical relationship for 5 years), that I would say her actions were practically implying that someone else should take him!!! You can't push someone away like that and expect them to be faithful.
And in any case, we are all admitting on here that "adultery" is wrong, but the figures on adultery show that perhaps that's not what we (as in the general population) think ALL the time, which raises questions as to how many of us are actually telling the truth. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted February 10, 2005 11:17 AM
AriesTiger, you just brought up a very good example of exceptional circumstances, with your mom & dad's situation. You can't be cold and mean and generally miserable to your mate for an extended amount of time, and NOT expect them to look for warmth elsewhere. And, of course, legal and monetary ties can be rather difficult to get untangled from. But, if that was the case, I think I would have to have the conversation with my so-called partner, and let them know that as far as I'm concerned we're not a couple, and we should feel free to pursue other interests. We shouldn't be sharing a bed and pretending we're a couple if emotionally, we're really not. That type of phoniness would keep me awake at night, and probably give me an ulcer. I wouldn't be able to stand living a lie like that.Picture this. You're in a good relationship with someone who you have very strong feelings of affection for, and you're looking at a bright future with them. Enter beautiful girl, or gorgeous man - whatever sex would be tempting to your mate - and they've taken a liking to your guy or girl...They are desiring them for themselves. A)They don't care that she/he is in a relationship, they just want to HAVE them. They are employing every tactic they can come up with to tempt your mate to stray...WHO is this person? What might their Natal chart look like?
B) They realize that this person is in a relationship, and therefore, completely off-limits. They settle for admiring them from afar, and do not put out inappropriate gestures and nuances that may be interpreted as "come-ons". WHO is this person?
What might their Natal chart look like? Simple as that. This is what I'm pondering. None of all the other complicated gray areas and "exceptions" that some of you (perhaps with guilty consciences?) are bringing up.  Whethor or not your mate does stray, is irrelevant in this query. That subject has been done several times before. So far, it seems the indicator for a person who would NOT do this, is Taurus/2nd house energy. Some say Leo influences as well, but others dispute that. and well, Gemini...they seem to always get implicated in moral(or lack there of) issues. (hasn't been my experience, but hey that's just me)
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Aphrodite
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posted February 10, 2005 11:55 AM
wasn't there some poster here named "cookie" who was really nonchalant about having an affair with a married dude? she didn't give a darn about the other lady and pursued it like a dog chasing its own tail. it was in the soul unions forum. may be you can look it up and find her chart?IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted February 10, 2005 12:18 PM
That's right, I remember that. I had alot to say in that thread, although I tried to be fair.Here it is, if anyone is interested.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/000777.html IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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From: ON Canada
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posted February 10, 2005 08:22 PM
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A)They don't care that she/he is in a relationship, they just want to HAVE them. They are employing every tactic they can come up with to tempt your mate to stray...WHO is this person?What might their Natal chart look like?
In this case, in my own experience? *CURRENT* Is Gemini.
He won't tell me his birthdate, even though he knows I do charts.. so I have no clue.
I think he doesn't want me to know how old he is.....
He doesn't seem to care that I am married, he wants to lure me.
I talk to my hubby abpout it every day, and am honest.... but it is a strange situation. IP: Logged |
hooked
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posted February 10, 2005 09:36 PM
My current is a virgo with a gemini moon. He also has mars in cancer...this guy is never going to give up!- hooked
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sthenri
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posted February 10, 2005 09:43 PM
I can always tell a Gemini or Aqua, they fidget. Yes Geminis like to lure you away if it's fascinating, and Aquas too a little.What ever happened to Aqua girl btw? Did she ever find her Pisces guy? I hope she's okay. Married men do cheat a lot, I think we ought to post lines.
it's usually something involving a yacht, such as my four level? decker? yacht.
Then there is the line about skydiving,
Then the one where you look beautiful even though I know I look like hell. Married men butter up the egos of sad women, they do it well. I refuse to be sad even on bad days for this reason, this is a good reason to never let anyone get you down. What else?
My wife knows, and thinks you are sexy!
You are my Goddess Actually that last one is a single guy. I love that one, that's my favourite line by an Aquarius/Pisces Venus. In fact I am thinking of calling him up after my surgery. So cute, a little stuck up. Natasha
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virgotaurustaurus
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posted February 10, 2005 09:45 PM
This thread reminds me of a thread posted about Uranus in 7th a few days ago...the Uranus in 7th's lack of need of a relationship, or even sometimes desire to have one...would you think that would lead a person with Uranus in 7th to just not care enough to steal a mate that already has made a connection to someone? Just an interesting little connection I thought about.  IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted February 11, 2005 11:28 AM
7th house Uranus may simply mean the mate, or "OTHER" in a person's life is eccentric, unpredictable, unstable, or a social activist type of person. It may also indicate numerous "OTHERs" in a person's personal life. Either way, the 7th house is said to describe the mate, not so much the chart native. Uranus in the 1st, however, could be interpreted this way. Or, strong Aquarius energy in a chart. @ Natasha "My wife KNOWS, and thinks you are sexy". (you know, that could be true, they could be looking for some three-some action, he and his wife ) Gosh, Gemini...there you are being implicated again!! You guys are SOOOOO Naughty!! IP: Logged |
virgotaurustaurus
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posted February 11, 2005 11:42 AM
Hah, numerous others. pfft.Here's the Uranus in 7th thread.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/004443.html IP: Logged | |
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