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scorpiongal
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posted March 10, 2005 03:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Everyone,

It's me again....

I have a Virgo Boss and as you know I am a Scorpio.I don't know why but we had many disagreements.. she is a female.

When I saw her for the first time she was pretty nice and infact she fooled me and I thought she is literally nice...and infact I even thought she is just child like.For sometime I did not even know that it was her who was being mean...as she would say another person to deal with me and she would always try to look good and would be warm whenever she would see me.

I think now I see staff complaining about her and how she does not think of good future of the company.Every one complaints about how much work everyone does but still she wouldn't appreciate it...not even
verbally.

I used to think that she thinks about money too much...just today I came to know that she is Virgo and that explains everything about money.

I just find her difficult to understand....sometimes she is mean when it comes to money and sometimes she would be nice and ask how I am doing. I have been working very hard ( passionately) but she never told me anything or appreciated that.

The disagreements what we had I have just kept behind and I know I would never get anything out of it ..or something as I understand that but I find that many of her thoughts and way of dealing with people is of short term.Virgos are practical and I admire that but it would not be good for long term.

I just wonder how are virgo Bosses are? I know it's not easy for Virgo to be a Boss.I just wonder how they can get along with Scorpio Employee..

Can somebody share their expereince on Virgo
Boss and Scorpio Employee.

GAL

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moonshine
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posted March 10, 2005 04:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hiya I posted a thread about this very thing a while ago:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum4/HTML/000200.html

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Ayumi
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posted March 10, 2005 07:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Scorpiongal, I also have a Virgo boss (female) and I have experienced the same thing with her. Money is her priority but she is pretty slick about double talking and making it seem like she has everyones interests at heart. She also deligates uncomfortable things to her assistant like writing mean notes and posting them for the staff, or talking to employees about tiny problems that irritate her. Its frustrating, she never seems satisfied, and we rarely get support or positive feedback. I too thought she was sweet at first, but there is alot of gossip up in her office, and I am learning that people are as a rule, 2 faced. I try to accept it and not put too much stock in what she says to me. It saves me alot of trouble and worry! Just do the best you can, listen to suggestions (no matter what, because virgo's dont like to be told they're wrong)and when you go home, forget about it.
I'm not a scorpio though, but I would say you have an advantage over her -Virgo's are not naturally very sneaky or manipulative as far as judging by the sun sign. Whatever she's doing she had to learn it, so if you want get control of the relationship between you two, you have a better chance.

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cancerrg
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posted March 11, 2005 10:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hy scorpion , it was good to find u here agaian ,i just posted a msg about u only ( i didn't see ur this msg ) i don't know abt ur query , but first tell where were u , hope everything is ok
do write .

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cancerrg
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posted March 11, 2005 10:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hy scorpion , it was good to find u here agaian ,i just posted a msg about u only ( i didn't see ur this msg ) i don't know abt ur query , but first tell where were u , hope everything is ok
do write .

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scorpiongal
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posted March 11, 2005 11:33 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

I gave in and agreed to what my Virgo Boss but I guess she wants to exploit me. I am sorry there is a limit till you can hurt a scorpio.Yes we do care on how much you respect us....Virgo Bosses please respect us
for what we do for you....because it's Scorpio who work their butts off....and without being Lazy....It was ridiculous when my Virgo Boss told me I am LAZY.

I would just say that if Virgo Bosses knew how to respect Scorpio Employee.If we trust you respect you than we would be working really hard.I just wish that Virgo Bosses could see that and appreciate that.Well if you don't know how to appreciate don't atleast criticize.

I know now exactly what I have to do...I wish myself GOOD LUCK and I am sure to get better and wonderful JOB....I am no more sad....I am so happy that I am going to quit.

GAL

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thosa
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posted March 12, 2005 05:43 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
scorpiongal...why don't u just sting her?:P

sorry, don't take this post seriously:S

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scorpiongal
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posted March 12, 2005 09:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks ! Thosa

Trust me I am not offended but I really loved that statment.

I guess I am going to do that very soon.Sting her SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS :

GAL

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moonshine
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posted March 12, 2005 04:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
scorpiongal she sounds like a right cow, but not all virgoes are like that... honest!!

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scorpiongal
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posted March 13, 2005 05:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ya probably ....but it's like I have a combo energy here

Virgo Boss -Pisces Manager against Scorpio Employee.It's going to be fun.

I always thought poor and friendly pisces but now I don't know.Anyways I am going to put this issue back and start afresh.

GAL


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scorpiongal
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posted March 16, 2005 06:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Everyone !

Scorpio has to win.They choose their battles most of the time when they know when they are right.

Anyways I did compromise little and my Virgo Boss did understood that I was right after others told her that she was wrong but I think she still has an attitude problem.She still not shows that she is defeated.

If somebody really showed my mistake.I would really think about it properly.I won't admit it there itself but I would ponder on every bad thing one has to tell me.If I agree I would say sorry.

I was wondering what happens to Virgos once they know that they have made a mistake.

Some signs I am sure they wouldn't agree in hundred years if they made a mistake but what about Virgos.

I met another Virgo who was my colleague when he realized that he has made mistake he was extremely polite.In fact I felt too bad for him but for virgo Boss is entirely different thing.

GAL

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seveneieghtorange
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posted March 21, 2005 03:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I work with a Virgo currently and we always have shifts together! I don't really mind Virgos, usually...I mean, I've worked with them in my last job (about 4-5 virgins PLUS my virgo boss). But I always get combative and surprisingly defensive against this current Virgo that I work with. I really cannot stand him at work! We all hang out after work hours though but at work it's a different thing! I don't know if this is my scorpio moon bringing out my "vengeful" side, but whenever he does something to spite me; I just immediately try to up him. He's a double virgo (sun and moon) so it is a lot ot take, especially since I don't have a lot of earth in my chart...

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thirteen
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posted March 21, 2005 04:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a virgo worker but used to be a Virgo Boss. What can I say, It is hard for a virgo to admit a mistake but not impossible. It sounds like you are dealing with an unevolved virgo. I too have worked with that kind. They are insecure and spew out blunt comments that can be annoying. I don't know what to tell you but a virgo does know who is doing a good job because they live for work and to serve. Maybe this one just can't say it but probably knows it. If you really want to get even , be critical and generalize, they hate that a lot.

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scorpiongal
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posted March 22, 2005 06:15 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't like to take out any mistakes but when I gave her my letter with all the problems I was facing...she got pretty angry..Instead of solving them she got upset.

We have kind of work out are differences.
I told her that we should forget the past disputes but last thing I heard from her was that it's not necessary that it's over because we still have many difference in opinions.I hope that everything here after remains peaceful.

I can't imagine

Scorpio saying Forget the past and I kind of forgive her too

but Virgo saying not over...why so??? Do they take revenge?...I don't know?

GAL

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thosa
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posted March 22, 2005 07:23 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe your Virgo boss has a little Cancer or Scorpio in her...you can't judge someone just by looking at their sunsign...moon and asc plays an important part in the personality too.

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moonshine
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posted March 22, 2005 06:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree, she's not *just* a Virgo, but a person with many other influences, astrologically, and in her life.

Having said that, I am a virgo boss over a scorpio employee (re; my link above) and it's not an easy relationship for either of us. Virgos do not find it easy to assert themselves and have power over others. They tend to be humble and sometimes when they try to assert themselves it comes off as too harsh. I have that problem myself. I have been accused of being too abrupt and snappy by the Scorp! But she has her bad points too. Personally, I hate having to be responsible over another, but it is my job and I do it to the best of my ability. I would MUCH rather be working on my own, happily, on my own little project, without being constantly interrupted by the needs of others. (I know that sounds selfish but I work better that way!)

Scorpios do not like to take direction from people, becuse they have a deep-felt feeling that they know better. Virgos also believe they know better! Neither like to be wrong.

It is a challenge for these two to overcome their negative tendencies and meet in the middle.

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