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Topic: I am losing him...somebody help
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Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 24, 2005 07:25 AM
another quite interesting link: http://www.jupitersweb.com/magi_astrology_aspects.htm IP: Logged |
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posted May 25, 2005 06:59 AM
Oh PERI you are such a darling.... thanks a ton.Love and Light. SWEETLIBRA even i am from India!! Hugs to u too
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posted May 25, 2005 12:41 PM
cw, u know u have made mistakes , i dont want to come hard on u but i feel every adversity has a new opportunity an i hope u 'll take the things in that way only. the first and the biggest one - u became too honest ,( i agree we alll make this mistake when we are in love especially water and earth signs) u should have never told him about the sex part ,thats my belief , what ever we say we indians are still not at the stage to accept the freedom of woman especially in this respect be it someone having aqua or cancer moon - that doesn't really count here . we are hypothetical people . i have been in love but ask any one of us(including me though i say , i can accept a gf who had a relation with some one else as well but i have never been in that situation so i can t say fo r sure ), would they like to be in ur bf's situation before u guess let me tell u the answer is a big big NO . words like metrosexual and all are for media consumption , they still are not part of our lifes . u know , when i first read ur post ( the first and the second one , i read it yesterday but i wated to think ) i had sympathy for ur bf especially in the part where u said he needed anti depressant but reading some last of ur post , the only thing that i can think of , u have to leave him now if he doesn't changes. i can understand ur feelings , i am cancer-sun , taurus -moon and i also accept i dont know if i had been able to do what i am profeessing u to do , its real tough , i know we water signs find hard to let go .but , there is a but attached .can u go on if remains disrespecting u ? so my suggestion , dont dump him outright ,u atleast owe that much to the relation but slowly and slowly u have to move in the direction . ah and for the ogling and internet sex , its a common thing with all the man all over the world with ofcourse varying degrees , so i dont think u should put this against him , the fact is and u accept this that he respects women and is also dedicated to u , so its unfair to want something that he doesn't have control . i do this and lets face everyman loves porn . again i feel , army thats a fascination with almost everyman , i myself have been a commerce student and am working but i have been to the ssb thrice already and i ahve two more attempts and being in army in no way means u love war , i d ont and no one does . he is dead wrong to point fingers at ur character , he doesn't have the right to but remember u gave him the right to do so , doesn't he have loopholes , infact everyone has . when u respect ur self , others respect u , why did u give him the right to disrespect u , if that was ur definition of love , ask for the same commitment from him. spiritual things and all can be managed , no big prbs. i hope this helps u in someway . best of luck. i had something more in min d but i am forgetting it now ,i will write later .IP: Logged |
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posted May 25, 2005 12:44 PM
o well , i remember , the cancer thing , how cancers deal with scorps , talk about it tomorrow .g2g actually. ok just inquisitive , out of context , why this child woman , i dont think scorp woman have anything childish in them (ok i know of just one thing ) then why this id ?(LOL)
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posted May 26, 2005 04:23 AM
cancerrg, all Indian men are not so orthodox. There are good men who can look beyond GF's past.IP: Logged |
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posted May 26, 2005 08:48 AM
u have misunderstood the point! or may be i am wrong!IP: Logged |
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posted June 01, 2005 03:21 PM
hi CancerG saw your post today...was out of station (in Darjeeling, Gangtok for a break !)Things are now better between us...i think of leaving him but everytime i do something holds me back...no i can't leave him...i love him....
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posted June 02, 2005 02:43 AM
u are madly in love (LOL) thats good , kosish kar ke dekho if things turn for good , that would be the best . we shall be too happy for u . best of luck . IP: Logged |
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posted June 02, 2005 02:46 AM
ok just inquisitive , out of context , why this child woman , i dont think scorp woman have anything childish in them (ok i know of just one thing ) then why this id ?(LOL) cw: u missed this one .
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posted June 02, 2005 04:11 PM
How very right of you CancerG! I never wanted this id...i tried with different ids but all of them were already in use whan suddenly this one popped up in my mind.I went for more out of impatience than choice....
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posted June 03, 2005 04:02 AM
lololololIP: Logged | |