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Topic: What is she?
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whalewasp78 unregistered
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posted July 16, 2005 07:17 PM
Am waiting pixie. As always, I'm amazed at the lengths people go through to short up me. I feel like a celestial punching bag. As always in these situations. Now you understand what being a Pisces is. Throw dirt in his face, kick him, under appreciate him, do it. I've reached the end of my rope. Come on. A Pisces Sun/Merc/Venus is something that has no place in today's society of take and take. Please take advantage of me.IP: Logged |
noreenz unregistered
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posted July 16, 2005 08:36 PM
heyyyyyyyyyyyyy, no more beer for you mistah. Hon, that is not our Pix, she wouldn't do that to you, understand something may have happened or come up, trust me one this. Please don't think that way.okey, thats all I wanted to say.(((hugs))) take care. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 16, 2005 09:52 PM
Hey bubs, when I put you on my list, and requested you as my friend, I left a little note that said ( something like).. "Good to have you on my list! But I have a busy day, only came online to catch up with LL and emails, and I had to be on my way again." Sorry to miss you! I hope your night picked up.. I'm working on the alcohol comsumption as we speak. Waiting for a ride, between engagements.... Will have fun!IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 16, 2005 09:54 PM
Thank you noreenz!!!*giant hugs*Whalewasp, did you mean me?? I understand sensitivity and heart.. I'd not intentionally hurt you.  I think you mean this Scorpio lady you are seeing? IP: Logged |
whalewasp78 unregistered
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posted July 16, 2005 10:50 PM
You are correct pixie. I had to get all that out of my system. Thanks for adding me to your friends list. I feel very honored. Now I need to get through the weekend again as a single. It really sucks being that way in the small town I live in.IP: Logged |
whalewasp78 unregistered
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posted July 16, 2005 11:04 PM
Oh my! I have all of this energy built up for nothing it seems. So here I am. I want to thank all of you for your advice and concern. It really means alot to me.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 17, 2005 03:34 AM
eff her.. what does she know., I left the thig that happended to me earlier on this thread.. and the man I was with chose to giv eme the benefit of the doubt.. if sdhe doiesn't want to do thst, hold on to your worth.,.. you knoe your worth, and everyone who sees you hjere knows your worth., I thibnk she'll com,e around though.. it's just toughk , getting over the idea that you are not the samne as all the others and the nmagic she was feeling was nothing.. She'll come around. I'm sorry, I'm druink. I type like **** when I'm drunk. I've been told I punctiuate well though.,IP: Logged |
Sun_Scorpion unregistered
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posted July 17, 2005 01:45 PM
So whats happening now WW? If u dont mind me asking?  IP: Logged |
whalewasp78 unregistered
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posted July 17, 2005 02:03 PM
Well, I texted her asking if we could meet. She wrote she's with a lady friend, and couldn't. (Or doesn't want to.) Yesterday I called an old friend up to take me on a beer run. He told me to let her cool off for a week, and she should come around. Well, I'm determined not to let her go that easily. Perhaps next week if I help her move, I'll be forgiven. The main thing is if I'd be given a chance to explain what little happened with that one girl. At least she wrote a text back ending with 'sorry.'IP: Logged |
noreenz unregistered
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posted July 17, 2005 02:10 PM
WW-I wish you the best...my heart goes out to you and hope she comes around, I'm sure she felt what you felt, and will realize the same soon.PIX? Hon, how ya feeling this morning, lmao!!!j/k I really hope you don't have a terrible hangover, be well. IP: Logged |
ScotScorp unregistered
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posted July 17, 2005 02:28 PM
WW: Well, hopefully she will end your "misery" sooner than later and get this incident outta the way. The thingie w/the girl in the bar a few months ago was B4 your hookup w/her, right? So... it's the past, shouldn't concern her... and do you really trust the words from a third/fourth/fifth person's point of view to be 100% accurate? I find it odd that she would "trust" stories rolling around and let it interfere with a possible relation with you. She should get to know the CURRENT YOU, not some story.In my Scorpio opinion, I get along w/everyone until they do alotta crap to ME PERSONALLY. I don't let friends/acquaits stories about how someone treated him/her influence me and let THEIR OPINION shape my relation w/someone because we're all different human beings w/different personalities. Angela
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pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 17, 2005 02:41 PM
I agree, Scotscorp!  My husband let me sleep the day away. . in the middle of the (early early morning) my daughter came in our room.. she always sleeps on my side.. well, she commandeered my pillow, so I ended up with half my head on the bed, between the pillows, and woke up with the worst crick in my neck ever! *grumble* plus, I did OVER indulge, as I started earlier, before I left my house.. and stayed until closing... So, ma' heeds sore.  Isn't it silly that I come here to sober up? But other than leaving a trail of evidence of my debauchery, at least I am in one spot, not crashing into things. Good thing I only do this once a week. *and usually not this bad!* Give her time, Whalewasp! IP: Logged |
whalewasp78 unregistered
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posted July 17, 2005 08:52 PM
Yes pixie. I think she'll come around with a little time...granted I'm not doubled over with ulcers by then.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2005 01:21 AM
awwwwwwwwwwwwww.... Here's some lovin' for your tummy.  IP: Logged |
whalewasp78 unregistered
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posted July 18, 2005 10:57 AM
Thank you pix. I must compliment you on your punctuational abilities...LOL.IP: Logged |
whalewasp78 unregistered
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posted July 19, 2005 03:16 PM
Hmm. I was skeptical at first, but I guess that time of heartbreak is true from what sassygirl posted. It's exiting right now isn't it? Here's my 'grand strategy'. She's moving this weekend. I've quit calling her for now, so Friday evening I will write a text asking if she still wants me to help her. Seems reasonable. I think she over reacted about the girl thing. Could be some outside influences also. Scorps are complex. I'll still giving her a chance.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2005 10:05 PM
Wise decision, and if she's smart, she would let you 'back in' to help her at such a crucial time. Moving sucks, it's best to have helpers!*hint; bring refreshments for after* Women are complex, when it comes to their heart. I am glad she is cautious, kinda'.. at least you know she doesn't just give it away to anyone.. so that when she gives her heart to you, it will mean you are special. Did I say 'when? I must have meant 'if'.. surely I did.. hmmm?  Just respect yourself and represent yourself well, and I'm sure she'd be mad to resist. IP: Logged |
whalewasp78 unregistered
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posted July 20, 2005 12:50 AM
Hey pixie. I saw her at work today because I had to fix something right beside where she was working. She wouldn't even look at me. So I started joking with others around her, and she laughed at some stupid comment I made, then I'd catch her looking, and she'd quickly look away. Seems like she's trying to put on a hard face. I'm beginning to think her 'friend' has made her think I'm something terrible. I dunno x 1000 seems to be the formula currently.IP: Logged |
Sun_Scorpion unregistered
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posted July 20, 2005 02:03 PM
Hey WW Sorry that sucks maybe you could write her a long letter or text or email her, if she dosnt want to hear your explanation face to face you could make it easier and stop her from being influenced by that other annoying person (lol) and also stop her thinking of worse and worser situations between you and that friend. Personally, I would have immediatly wanted to hear the true story straight out of your mouth, but I guess shes worried or something... dunno. I think you should definatly take the lead and just let her know what happened because it dosnt seem like she wants to talk until she does know. Lots of and luck, you decide whats best, SS
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Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted July 20, 2005 02:11 PM
WW I mentioned the heartbreak transit earlier its real. I told you to take it real slow with her. I know what has happened was out of your control. Continue to be persistant though but in a very subtle way. Its just like Pix said represent yourself and respect yourself well and you will win her back watch... The transit is on its way out for good after tomorrow you guys will be fine.. IP: Logged |
whalewasp78 unregistered
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posted July 20, 2005 03:27 PM
Hmmm. A ray of light mama mia? I hope. Most people are telling me to give up on it. I've texted her before saying I can tell her exactly what happened, but what sucks is I only see her at work...not the place to do so. It also makes work very awkward for me until she leaves. It hinges on what she says to my offer of helping her move. I'm being optimistic, though cautious. Makes my buddies at work are worth their salt, sticking up for me.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted July 20, 2005 03:36 PM
Oh no don't give up yet,not yet..Things will turn around just at its own pace and not yours..Send her some flowers or balloons something soft,keep at it but be subtle not annoying..IP: Logged |
Aphrodite unregistered
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posted July 20, 2005 04:01 PM
Hey Whalewasp,A friend once told me that when he pursues a girl, he'll contact her . . . if he doesn't get a reply . . . he tries again two more times and then stops. May be it is worth another 2 shots? Depends on your level of interest . . . and confidence. You guys have only gone out on one date and had a brief meeting . . . That doesn't necessarily mean you have to go out on an extreme limb with long letters or tearful declarations of sorrow and affection. The risk of rejection terrifies most guys. If you are genuinely interested in her . . . you should take a chance. You did say that it's hard to find single women in your town. Make the most of the time and opportunity you do have. Could you see her being your girlfriend? Could you see her being happy with you? But, if there are other things holding you back, then you shouldn't go any further or wallow in uncertainty for too long. Just move on. Aphrodite IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2005 04:26 PM
Aphrodite came swooping in with wise advice as always  IP: Logged |
whalewasp78 unregistered
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posted July 26, 2005 09:39 AM
To all of you who took some time to help out this Fish, I humbly bow. Yea, the partie's over. She apparently has issues, or as my leadman at work said, "Those are some warning signs." Nice chat the other evening Aphrodite! IP: Logged |