posted July 07, 2005 04:54 PM              

You say something about one sign and forget it it's because a man hurt you.

Shut up with that already. find somehting new.

posted July 08, 2005 07:14 AM              

Hey Natasha hope you is well...

I'm Aqua Sun, Cap Moon and Pisces rising. I kind of understand where SecretGardenAgain and T Poet are coming from....

I've been trying to decide for the last two years who is best for me. I got freaked about a committing to one girl, couldn't decide If she was the one for me. Its taken me two years to admit/realise that she probably would have been perfect...

I couldn't committ because I felt I didn't know her or maybe just didn't trust her enuff. I needed to know she wanted me for me. I really wanted her to be with me for the rest of my life but couldn't tell her. Possibly because I got freaked that she would break my heart later on..

The emotions i felt at the time I wouldn't call "detached".

At the time however she wanted an immediate decision and I could not give it. She piled on the pressure and I cracked.

Thats when the detachment came into it. I don't like it when people get angry with me and get "too emotional". She was understandably upset but instead of talking to her I cut her off. Refused to take her calls, messages etc. She got angrier, I got colder...

I didn;t mean for it to happen like that and my intention was never to hurt her like I did. TP is right that some of us at least can be cold heartless b~$%*rds

Now because of my coldness and meanness (well partly)she of course will not speak to me....

posted July 08, 2005 12:31 PM              

quote:

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I really wanted her to be with me for the rest of my life but couldn't tell her

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This story reminds me of me and my capricorn who has an aquarius moon and aquarius rising.

Except I haven't left yet.

posted July 09, 2005 06:06 PM              

I think they can over power these things in a chart.And probably certain progressions and transits might cause a part of your chart to be more active that previously wasn't, influencing how you relate to people.

posted July 09, 2005 06:20 PM            

Why is it when we detach, you get attached again? Are you afraid of the word "need"?
Are you purposely playing games or is it a subconcious decision?

posted July 09, 2005 11:46 PM              

I love Aquas to death i thot i should start off by admitting that

Honestly, not only are they genius, the men that have ever been able to speak to me on the same intellectual plane, without pulling an BS, have always been aquas. Yes ive had my share of bad experiences with em (2 to be exact ) but the good ones outshined the bad ones wayyyy much. The last Aqua I speak about, although its still painful to think about it, but I was truly attached to him more than Ive ever been to any man (even my ex husband) and thats saying a lot.

We were similar to a very scary degree , and could always finish each others sentences too. The only one big difference we had was our attitude towards relationships and love, and how fast to take them. Unfortunately..otherwise woulda been a great great guy and I woulda treasured him like none else

posted July 09, 2005 11:46 PM              

to Aquas and everybody

Zohe Im a Gem sun, not Libra, but I do have Libra rising and oftentimes I feel it kicking in because I feel so uncomfortable around conflict, disagreements, anger... and I really look for balance and harmony and understanding, and I dont claim that every guy Ive been with would say Im the best lover hes had (although a lot have, thank you very much ) but they would definitely describe me as the most understanding. It is something that I think i pride myself on hehe

Im sorry to hear about your unfortunate incident with this girl... Hopefully it was a lesson you learned, albeit a hard and difficult one. But Im glad to know that at least you felt love and learned what it is, so many people go on in life without even acknowledging or experiencing it, and its a beautiful thing

Love
SG

posted July 10, 2005 11:03 AM              

Did you ever tell her you loved her?
not while i was with her, i did tell her but whilst she was angry just shortly after I "left" her

Whats her sign? moon? etc...
Libra Sun, Scorpio Rising, Pisces Moon, Sag Venus and Scorpio in Mercury

If you really felt she was the one, and realize it now, why dont you go after her with fire in your eyes?

She wont speak to me. Cant figure out how to get thru to her. Whenever we do see each other both our faces crumple up into a frown.. I have tried but she cant seem to let go of the anger/hurt. Her friends obviously despise me

Why is it when we detach, you get attached again? Are you afraid of the word "need"?

I know i have issues with the word "need"

Are you purposely playing games or is it a subconcious decision?
i dont know what i am doing, i'm not a game player that much i know

posted July 11, 2005 04:23 AM              

I think Geminis make great writers, it's actually healthy emotionally. I would hang out with Geminis again if they wrote and were happy with their writing, and projects.

I am biased about Aquas right now because I am going steady with one,

posted July 12, 2005 04:02 AM              

how do u get them to settle down? i can always get the interest, the crush, i even got one to love me, but they never admit it, most of them have issues with love and needing someone... they move slower than snails which is a big issue for me,

do u think theres a solution to make them a bit more grounded?

i always wonder about ashton kutcher, which i believe is a dbl Aqua (sun/moon), like my aqua was, and hes been captivated by the sexy and (older) Demi Moore (Scorp/Taurus). I thot the clinginess scared them away (?) and I cant imagine a Scorp sun, Taurus moon, not being clingy No offense to the combo, but i know so many scorp suns who are clingy, and Taurus moon Gemini people who are so clingy, and the two seem like a deadly clinginess combination waiting to happen.

posted July 12, 2005 06:47 PM              

So then the chase begins and I have become more mature over the years, and the highs and lows are less apparent. This Aqua has Venus in Pisces and a Leo moon/7th house so he is very sensitive to moods, especially cold ones. The men who are basically needy in the physical sense so much that they are demanding don't work for me and vice versa, they find me hard and manipulative and too sexual.

I like to wear hot pink and dress without a bra sometimes, due to my Uranus and Pluto trine Sun, 8th house moon, and lots of Aries. I don't like being told what to do, and Aquarius men really like a woman to be beautiful and noticed.

So I think it's a question of not caring about settling down at all, or at least looking that way. Then as I am got older I became better at expressing my needs up front forcefully, with the help of another Aquarius friend.

In fact when I was dating the Gemini/Taurus moon I was slightly falling for another Aquarius the whole time and I promised myself if that happened again I would know exactly what I wanted.

Right now I am very clear about what I want even though HE isn't. He says he does, but he doesn't. I can see in his eyes how they get spooked and guarded when I talk about l love. I tell him all the time I want to a man to be in love with ME, not the other way around and i will NEVER call him, he has to call me and i will CUT off my arms and legs rather than be vulnerable to him.

I also told him I not want sex, but making love only and exploring each othe gradually was good for me, any other behaviour i would take as a threat to my emotional happiness. Also if he wants me he has to TAKE CARE of my body and mind and that means financially as well, that gives him caution. Since has Aries all over his chart too he needs the caution and he respects me for it.

Lots of times he knows I could have kept him from work to be with me and I told him I respected him too much to do that and he actually appreciated that. I want the same thing and lots of times he could have had me sexually and he didn't simply because he knew I wanted his respect, not because I TOLD him to stop but he did on his own, with a word from me.

So I am strong and forceful in my words and I need, I need, I neeed...

I have my issues about asking for help so I make sure to let him know what I need all the time, and communicate my desires, crushes, and influences from other men which happen daily.

He has a sixth sense as to when something is wrong and buys me small presents then. he says it makes him feel like a bigger man when he does that and i can accept that finally.

What do you think?

posted July 12, 2005 07:47 PM              

so i concluded, to myself of course, that love must be a four letter word for him too, and its true that he runs from both things. he doesnt like people trying to get a hold of him. when someone does he runs farther away. he has serious issues with commitment. i am not with the aqua, i am with the aries, but i do have a strange mixture of curiosity, anger and fascination towards the aqua. of course he'll always be my crush and hes so yummy looking

i want to figure him out and scare him jk. but i do want to figure him out.

in august we will be meeting for , i suppose, the last time. i have returned to my natural hair color (red-golden), taken out my brown contacts (back to hazel eyes). i know the aqua loved my natural hair and eye color. now i dont mean to be cruel but i do resent him for giving me false hopes and leading me on then backing out becoz he was literally, scared to fall in love with me. he was falling and he wanted to save himself.

I want to figure out what would break him as a person--that cold exterior. I want to melt his heart, then make him fall in love--with anyone, (Im sure it wont be me again). But I would liek to break that stone exterior, because it was what broke my heart in the first place (do i sound like a scorp moon talking here or what huh)

Love
SG

posted July 12, 2005 10:39 PM            

Damn Aquas, when will we stop talking about them???

posted July 14, 2005 06:53 AM              

for a while,

SG have you tried bonding with your guy at his house? air men are very sentimental about their homes and once you hang out there every weekend, then you are under their skins. Don't make the mistake of letting your house become a second home.

Thats my best advice, as for breaking someone that's not really love though, that comes from fear. Look at what you are most afraid of and hold it inside for a while around him. Don't be afraid.
(advice from my Aqua)

and love people who love you first

posted July 14, 2005 08:54 AM              

My best friend and brother both have Aqua Sun, Moon and Mercury. My friend has Libra rising and her Sun and Moon are in the fourth house - while my brother’s Sun and Moon are in the sixth house…his asc is Leo.

And you know what? They are so normal. They’re a little unique…but gosh I’m weirder than they are they’re both stubborn though ( except to me of course ) and curious. But that’s it. They’re also both left handed - thought I’d add that lol

Aquarian risings tend to act and dress really weird I like that but Aqua Suns are too worried what their friends will think…so they do their best to blend in.

“unpredictable, detached , odd or wacky”