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laregina
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posted July 17, 2005 05:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have done several different compatibility reports, from a variety of different sites and I always notice the same thing...
It's seems that Libra really isn't compatible with anyone!
Even the signs that were deemed a good match for Libra, still seemed to exhibit a lot of obstacles.
Some sites say that Libras and Taurus are like two halves of a whole, other sites said they make the worst couple.
I even noticed in some compatibility groupings that Libra wasn't even included in the list, as if they were compatible with no one.
The maximum compatibility rating I could find was with Taurus, Libra, Aries and Gemini but even these were only at 70% compatibility.
Does that mean that no one can ever love a Libra 100%

Signed...A Sad, Sad Libra

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Azalaksh
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posted July 17, 2005 06:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awww, c'mon laregina, surely someone has loved YOU 100%! What a silly set of statistics.....and another instance of going by Sun Sign only when so MANY other factors (astro and non-astro) come into play in a love relationship.....Cheer up! Your Scales must be dipping towards the low side today, eh?

Signed, A Contented Libra Sun/Leo Asc/Pisces Moon
'Zala

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LibraSparkle
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posted July 17, 2005 06:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I Libras ... especially Libra Mooners

I'm married to a Taurus. We get along well. My bestest buddy is an Aries.



LS (Libra Sun/Cancer Moon/Gemini Asc)

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AcousticGod
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posted July 17, 2005 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did you try Capricorn/Libra? Libra's the most powerful sign in my chart. Maybe you should try a composite with me just to see.

born on 26 Dec 1972 local time 02:34 pm
in Orange, CA (US)

http://astrology3d.com/tv/forms/in-relat.html

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Cardinalgal
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posted July 17, 2005 06:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Firstly {{{hugs}}} from one Libran to a fellow Libran

Despair not!!! The thing is, you have to look an awful lot deeper than just the Sun sign as I've only recently learnt having just read Linda's 'Relationship Signs' and from all the wonderful Knowflakes on this fab site who've helped to understand so much.

Librans are very compatible with other signs as we are so geared to pleasing people and causing a pleasant atmosphere. Of course we have our faults and points that make others cringe and moan but basically, (just as all the other signs are,) we're nice people - and people generally seem to like us

You mentioned Libra-Taurus. We're both ruled by Venus so that helps to link us together quite harmoniously. If there's a particular Taurean you like I suggest you try to get their full birth data and run it through www.astro.com in a synastry chart so you can look at the aspects between you. But also remember what Linda said -(still trying to remember this myself! ) she said that you can overcome anything if you love enough. And you could think of it this way... Love is what us Librans are mostly about, so maybe we've got a head start!

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laregina
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posted July 17, 2005 06:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I usually use the Sun & Moon, and I look at there Venus and Mars as well. But most compatibility calculators only use the sun/moon combo.
No, no, no.....I don't need anyones pity yet. I have definately been loved 100%, but I have to admit, I don't feel like I have ever really loved any man 100%, at least not enough to marry him or spend the rest of my life with him.
I don't know if that means I am not capable as a Libra? (w/ Taurus Moon, Venus & Mars in Sag) or that I just haven't met my soul mate yet? (who I believe is out there somewhere)
I am a true believer in fate also, so signs aside, I believe a lot of it has to do with destiny and nothing to do with being a Libra.
I hope.

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sassygrrrl
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posted July 17, 2005 06:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awww I Libras.

Anyway, trust me on this, all signs are compatible with someone, even Libras. Otherwise there would be no married Libras.

...But really I don't pay any attention to those cookie-cutter, standard compatibility readings that say that all of one sign is compatible with sign A, B & C while they cannot be compatible with X, Y, & Z. Because (in my case anyway) they're usually wrong. I've been quite compatible in my lifetime with all of the signs I'm supposed to stay away from, while at the same time not always getting along with many of the signs they say are perfect soulmates for me.

But IMO to find compatiblity with someone, you have to look at the entire charts of you and the other person to find out if there is true compatibility, not just the Sun sign.

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Azalaksh
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posted July 17, 2005 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cardinalgal ~

Here's the quote I think you're talking about, plus another one.....

From Linda Goodman’s "Relationship Signs" page 196

If only Earthlings would realize the power of love to conquer any kind of misery or unhappiness like a mighty magic wand, it wouldn’t matter whether two people’s birth charts were full of positive or so-called negative aspects because love can conquer the influences of the planets. It can even eliminate karma. Yes, if only humans truly understood this. Well, it’s the Aquarian age of serendipity, so maybe someday soon.

From Steven Forrest: http://www.stevenforrest.com/lovehandles.html
To me, in the realities of the astrological counselling room, there are
two immutable premises:
There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently sweet that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or
immaturity cannot turn it sour.
There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently bitter that enough patience, devotion, and humility can
not only make it last, but make it something precious to both people.

{{hugs}}
'Zala

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LibraSparkle
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posted July 17, 2005 06:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey AG, I have family in Orange. I grew up in Long Beach.

Coolio.

I ran the our friendship compatibility report from www.groupovenus.com ...

Here's what it says about just our Sun Signs:

quote:
Danielle's Sun in Libra and Acoustic's Sun in Capricorn

Both of you have a certain appreciation for protocol, etiquette, and appropriate social behavior, and you may dislike and avoid people who are very impulsive, egocentric, or undisciplined. You are both more comfortable with rationality and order than with emotions.

You can get along quite well together. Danielle, however, is more aware of aesthetics, and needs comfort, beauty, and pleasantries more than Acoustic. Danielle meets others halfway, whereas Acoustic is more self- contained. Danielle is less serious and can help Acoustic relax.


It goes into much more detail than just Sun/Moon compatibility. It discusses other important aspects to compatibility as well.

BTW~ I'm a Gemmy Risning too

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Cardinalgal
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posted July 17, 2005 06:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Zala!!!

Thank you - that's exactly the quote I meant! Couldn't put me hand on me copy of Relatonship signs just at that moment so had to paraphrase like mad!

Hope you're well hon

{{{hugs}}}
Sarah xx

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lovely*
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posted July 17, 2005 06:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love Libra, 100%!

I have Merc, Mars, Pluto & Uranus in Libra and get along great with any Libra I've ever met

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Azalaksh
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posted July 17, 2005 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Sarah!

How's Mr Aqua doing?

You know, the thing that's always bugged me about being a Libra is that we're symbolized by an inanimate object. Everybody else in the Zodiac gets to be human or animal and we get to be a piece of measuring equipment. NO FAIR!

'Z

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laregina
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posted July 17, 2005 08:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That ironic thing is....I have never met anyone I didn't feel compatible with on some level, whether it be platonic or romantic.
I pride myself on how well I get along with people, even those I don't like.
In fact, I still have a friendship with every guy I ever dated and even attended the weddings of two of them, including my ex fiance.
Oh... . Maybe that is the problem. I am so busy being everybody's friend, that I don't give anyone a chance to be anything more? Is that a Libra thing? I would feel better if I knew I could blame it on my sign.

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Azalaksh
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posted July 17, 2005 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
laregina ~

Here's an old thread with some interesting insight on our "Libran Curse"..... http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/004394.html
Please read it with an open mind and don't let it getcha down.....

{{hugs}}
'Zala

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j&d
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posted July 18, 2005 12:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love a Libra deeply,passionately,and
with all my heart but we are apart now.
We broke up,and I miss him terribly!!!
I want him back with me!!!!
I think that I have lost him for good
this time. We had a fight and I made things
worse. I caused most of the problems
between us,and now I'm all alone because
I don't love anyone else.
He's been the greatest love I have ever had
and I wish we would get back together.
I Love him more than words can say!!!
I am a Gemini female.
He is the only man whose ever reached me.
Please pray we will be back together soon!

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laregina
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posted July 18, 2005 12:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Azakalsh.....I vaguely remembered that topic as I was rereading it, but it seemed mostly from people who felt cursed by their Libra sign and its "negative" aspects.
I am actually quite happy to be a Libra, especially as a woman and wouldn't change my sign even if I could.
(I don't know about Libra men, from what I have read they seem to reflect more of the negative Libra traits...Don't know if it's true)
The only negative Libra trait I can relate to is indecisiveness...and even then it is mostly over small things like what toppings to get on my pizza, not major life issues. Although, as I have gotten older I have almost outgrown that trait.
I guess I shouldn't have let those compatibility sites get me down...

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miss_apples
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posted July 18, 2005 01:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This Leo loves Libras. My best friend is a Libra and the guy I'm...um...infatuated with...is a Libra

I find that Libras are very honest with me, and it makes me mad, but I love them for it in the end because they make me look at myself and make a positive change for myself. Ive never had anyone from any other sign have that effect on me...seriously.

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laregina
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posted July 18, 2005 01:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear j&d...I am so sorry you are feeling so sad.

Again...I am a Libra female. But I can try to give you some insight.
I don't know why you and your Libra man broke up, but even after the ugliest of scenes, Libras find it hard to hold a grudge. So even if you hurt him deeply, at some point he is most likely to forgive you, even if for the simple fact that we like peace and holding on to anger only distrupts are lives further.
That is not to say that he will want to get back with you, but at the least you may be able to salvage a good friendship.
Some Libras have a hard time letting go, so this may give you the opportunity to reach out to him again.
But on the other end of the spectra...sometimes Libras are relieved when there is finally a break in the relationship and use the opportunity to move on. Sometimes we are secretly relieved when a partner screws up, because then it gives us an "out" without feeling guilty.
Trust and Loyalty are big issues to us. So if a breach of these are behind the break up, he might forgive you, but may never be able to get back the same feelings as before.
It doesn't take much to turn us off. Personally, once I lose respect for a man, I can never see him in the same light.
If you really love him, try to think more about healing his pain than trying to get him back. When I had a break with a big love of mine, the only thing I could think was..."please let him find someone who will make him happy, even if it's not me".
Maybe another Libra could give you totally different perspective, maybe they will weigh in too.
Until then, just follow your heart.

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pixelpixie
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posted July 18, 2005 01:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I luuuuuuuuuuurves the Libras!!!!!
Love love love love love 'em.

That's all I have to say.

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AcousticGod
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posted July 18, 2005 01:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I finally learn that Zala's sign is Libra. Nice!

LibraSparkle,

Were we pretty compatible? That was so cool to learn that Libra was the most powerful sign in my chart with all of my artistic tendencies. I don't know many Libras (or I'm not aware of many Libras) in my regular life.

I grew up down there too in Tustin in Orange County. I remember talking my mom into taking me to Long Beach once to meet with some girls I had met at camp. I think it sticks out in my mind, because of what a big deal it was to my mother to have to drive so far, and then find something to do until the event was over.

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laregina
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posted July 18, 2005 01:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
miss_apples....

You just reminded me of something...
I briefly dated a Leo once (he was visiting from out of town and it was at the request of his sister in-law, my girlfriend)
We hung out for about a week and I thought he was adorable. He was a bit younger than me, which I "never" do, but I didn't even care. He was even a little bit full of himself (big libra turnoff), but in a cute "secretly seeking approval" kinda way. By the end of the week, what started out to be a mercy date as a favor to my girlfriend, turned out to be a major attraction. I always wonder how many of my dating rules I would have broken if he stayed in town!
Now that I think of it, I have never met another Leo since. Damn

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Azalaksh
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posted July 18, 2005 09:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AG ~
quote:
I finally learn that Zala's sign is Libra. Nice!
Yes, the Secret of Zala's Sun/Asc/Moon has been jealously guarded by the Sphinx for lo these thousands of years, but has finally been unearthed and revealed to the cognoscenti.....lol!

Btw, thx for the nice pic over in Images -- she does kinda look like me, I have reddish-blonde hair.....

'Z

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cancerrg
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posted July 19, 2005 01:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Doesn't "Anyone" Love Libra???

ofcourse , i dooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

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sweetlibra
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posted July 19, 2005 11:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I like Libras.. Dont wanna love one though

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LibraSparkle
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posted July 19, 2005 11:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL! Silly head!

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