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Topic: Gemini Guys ! Yummy or Yucky!
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DayDreamer
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posted July 24, 2005 01:06 AM
 
LOL  I love those rules LeylaLeFay!! You know what you're talking about!!  quote:
A man pursues a woman and he is "being romantic."
A woman pursues a man and she is "mentally unstable."
Doesn't matter how I go about it...I'm always going to be mentally unstable...he's just going to have to live with it!  IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted July 24, 2005 01:08 AM
Water Nymph : quote:
Apparently, guys only approach friendly and affectionate girls. Translation = EASY - whatever
Many insatnce that's true.I agree. I was facing same when I was in schools. I would say somewhere in between would work but it's difficult to know what works with which one. I guess Leyla said knowing code "Honest " - "Intelligent" ,etc
might be good. Leyla- I envy you. why are you so good at this. IP: Logged |
LeylaLeFay
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posted July 24, 2005 03:58 AM
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Leyla- I envy you. why are you so good at this.
Where does Wisdom come from? Good judgment. Where does Good Judgment come from? Bad judgment. I've made my mistakes like the rest of 'em. IP: Logged |
SecretGardenAgain
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posted July 24, 2005 04:29 AM
lol yes leyla, i never wanted a man who was crazy about me  it seems like if a mans crazy about me, ive done something wrong, ive tried to 'control' him or something. id much rather have a guy who both loves me wholeheartedly but doesnt need public displays of affection or 'craziness' enter the equation....id probably tell him to get a life and chill with his guys and let me go do my girl thing. lol. but then see the only guys like that arent the ones that would love u ..... wholeheartedly at least....so paradox huh? Love
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artlovesdawn
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posted July 24, 2005 09:29 AM
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freebird
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posted July 24, 2005 11:17 AM
I really don't know what to do about this Gemini guy ? It's so annoying to ignore somebody. I feel really bad.Got a message asking whether I can come online replied i am busy. He : "No time for me ?" Said I would get back to him later. I hate doing this.I would be much more happy to talk to him. I just don't want him to think that because of what he said I am not talking to him. IP: Logged |
laregina
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posted July 24, 2005 01:19 PM
Dear freebird....I think you are going to cause yourself more distress if you go against what you are really feeling.
You don't have to ignore your gemini guy, but you don't have to give him all you've got either....Take the time to talk to him and be "yourself"...but make it brief.
Speak with him just long enough that you do not offend him or make him think you are blowing him off, then make some excuse that you have to cut it short. As the saying goes....Always leave 'em wanting more!
If he feels things were left unfinished, he will definately be in contact again soon. If you ignore him "completely", he may feel rejected and walk away all together. Trust me...I speak from personal experience. IP: Logged |
laregina
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posted July 24, 2005 01:22 PM
leyla....I love all of your little smiley icons. I have copied them all to my notebook.
Where do you get them from???IP: Logged |
LeylaLeFay
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posted July 24, 2005 07:52 PM
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Got a message asking whether I can come online replied i am busy.He : "No time for me ?"
Perfect! 
Even the way he asked that question sounded cocky!
"What do you mean? Aren't I the most important person in your life? Doesn't your whole world revolve around me???"
I know you hate doing it, but you can't be at his beckon call. 1) Do NOT act like you are mad or angry.
2) Ignore him about half of the time, and when you do talk keep messages or converstions down to 15 minutes. Use the excues "I am busy" or "I have a million things to do." Whatever you do- do NOT let him end the converstion FIRST.
3) Don't be so quick to report where you are going and with whom. If you have another caller, no need to tell him who it was. Let him wonder.
4) Meetings are the same as calls. Don't rush to see him at his whim, Ex. "Lets hang out tonight." He must give you two or three days notice. (b/c you're always so busy, remember? You're a popular girl.) See him for no more than two hours and end the date first. I know it hurts do do this. But it would cause you MORE distress to let this guy have a big ego trip because he thinks he's got you right were he wants you. Think of how painful it would be if he decides you're annoying/obssessive, stops talking to you, tells all his friends what a "clingy, needy, psycho-chick" you are, and yells "hide me" whenever he sees you coming. Keep your eyes on the prize. This will all have it's big pay off when he's treating you like a princess. (When that day arrives, don't think you are "past" this "stage" and that you don't need the rules anymore. You are never past this stage. That's how I lost my Gemini.) IP: Logged |
Mond Traumtanzer
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posted July 25, 2005 12:42 AM
Geminis ---- YUMMYyummy yummy IP: Logged |
Natasha Patrick
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posted July 25, 2005 12:47 AM
Yummy
My ex and the father of my son
Yes he is good lookingYucky
He is very self centred, Only ever puts himself first him even before his child, makes up lies, manipulates and honestly is a bit doopey IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted July 25, 2005 05:55 AM
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I think you are going to cause yourself more distress if you go against what you are really feeling.
I agree and I am going to do what I feel just with little caution.I hated it but I did because that's what I felt at that time right.I hate this cancer moon makes me feel bad...anyways.I am cool. I just sent a message saying yes I am busy. Sorry.catch you later. Good night and sweet dreams.  I think that was fine. I also want to tell you all one thing while I am writing all this and there are past few things while working I feel I have seen in my dreams.That's little spooky.There have been lot of instances in past few days. Anyways Leyla fey and Legina : Thanks ! for advice. Ntasha : I think they are both too Yummy and Yucky.
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LeylaLeFay
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posted July 25, 2005 06:06 AM
Do what you feel; and when that doesn't work, go back to the rules.I just hate to see you lose your Gemini the way I lost mine....Did I mention he's a Doctor now?!
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WaterNymph
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posted July 25, 2005 08:16 AM
lmao I’m sorry, but that crying smilie is too funny.
You know, while skimming through this tread ( I’m too lazy to read  ) I realised many guys seem to be following “The Rules”  do they have their own rule book? Anyway, I think these rules only work for certain signs. What about sensitive signs like Pisces, Cancer or Scorpio…I don’t think they’d appreciate, or put up with these games. I don’t know about the others…but I’m pretty sure mind games like these will just scare a fish and cause him to swim away. IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted July 25, 2005 08:38 AM
Water Nymph : That's what I feel.I personally won't like if anybody is going to play so many games with me. I would rather be with somebody with whom I can rely on. Even if I am really crazy about him I would n't take any mind games.What about you Ley la Fey ?Anyways Ley la fey you have been great help and given lot of insight on man. Ley la fey: I can start a relationship but can't keep this forever. I am looking for something permanent but your post have given me great insight on man.Thanks ! for that. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted July 25, 2005 11:31 AM
WaterN, Must be a Pisces thing today as far as the reading thng goes, Cause I have really not read anything just a skimming as I go. Nope these games wuld drive me crazy, I have to be who I am and express how I feel. Every once in awhile I like to shake things up and I will especially if I feel you have/are taling me for granted or thing I am slow or something.. I do not have much experience with Gemini men. I knew one and he was so crazy about me I totally had nothing for hie, He thought he was the S*it and he was very handsome I will give him that,but he was friends with an ex of mine and well what was he thinking that was never going happen. But he was use to women falling all over him and I treated him like you are so average to me go away..One thing I do know though is that they can be moody as hell. IP: Logged |
laregina
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posted July 25, 2005 01:05 PM
You are welcome for the advice freebird...Just make sure you always feel good with all of your choices.
Remember...If he leaves you because you were being yourself then he really wasn't the one. You want someone who is going to love you warts and all, not someone you have to play a character just to keep.Lots of luck.... IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted July 25, 2005 09:35 PM
Largeina : Agree !Ley La Fey : I can understand you miss your Gemini.I would keep you updated how things work. I have found they are always very intellectual,talking about history and their family, witty. I just saw Ms.Congeliaty 2.It deals with the same kind of subject. Kind of nice. IP: Logged |
LeylaLeFay
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posted July 25, 2005 10:12 PM
The word "Games" has been thrown around a lot, so let me clarify things.It's not about "playing a game," it's about have a little respect for yourself, and not bending over backward to please a man who wouldn't do it for you! And what's all this talk about being your "true self?" If your "true self" is a doormat who lets men take her for granted, then I suggest you change something. Even the nicest man in the world will walk all over a woman who lets him. If you follow the rules, you won't let him! IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted July 26, 2005 06:29 AM
Ley la fey: Got it.Sorry we misunderstood you.
Respect yourself so that others respect you.
Love yourself so that others love you.
Don't be doormat. IP: Logged |
WaterNymph
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posted July 26, 2005 01:21 PM
Leyla, I get what you mean. Self respect is by far the most important thing in the world to me…there’s no way in hell I’d ever sacrifice it.“It's not about "playing a game," it's about have a little respect for yourself, and not bending over backward to please a man who wouldn't do it for you!” Totally true…give exactly what you get - I’m like a mirror that way it feels fair - and I avoid resentment. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted July 26, 2005 02:21 PM
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freebird
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posted July 28, 2005 10:46 AM
From his birthdate no birth time though
I came to know he has Taurus Venus and Mars. Any insight what kind of personality that would give him.I also felt that while talking to him.IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion
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posted July 28, 2005 12:21 PM
geminis, and gemini moons and i don't go well together...IP: Logged |
Thethirdbenjamin
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posted July 31, 2005 01:15 AM
i whouldn't necessary ignore him or say your "busy".If he's anything like me it will make him think twice about you, just because it gives him something to think about "sorta like... i wonder where she's at". I rember there was this one girl i use to talk to online and she was such a complete mystery to me that i had the "maybe all spend the rest of my time solving her... attitude" And i still am.... I also have venus in tarus, and it might make him possesive, well thats obvious. It might also make him stubborn, like really stubborn to keep on going. i don't know if you feel that way?. I really enjoy reading these gemini male threads, just because its always intresting what people say... to be honest i've been reading parts of this thread since it first started, thinking and reading about it. some of the things you guys said made me smile, because a lot of them are true. thanks for giving me a smile before i go to bed. IP: Logged |
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