posted July 21, 2005 11:40 PM              

I am scorpio and he is Gemini I know I should stop being possessive and jealous.In fact he is more sensitive and posssessive in this relationship.

Few questions for Geminis here.

What Geminis expect their "girl" to be like?
(He said something like honest and loyal *DISBELIEF* I would want same from my partner. Other than that he said not shy ,give him space and outspoken. That I am and can give him lot of space since I need lot too.As he mentioned before he gets along with Scorpio.One of my best friend during schools was Gemini but still she had like few break ups and on-off relationship at the same time.That really scares me.)

What does it mean when they say things like " I really like you and if it can be possible I would love to go togather with you" ," " I am trustworthy"," I miss you" , " I love talking to you when I talk to you I feel I am listening to music " , " I took your name while calling someone else" and "I dreamt about you last night".

Do Geminis say this most often ? Is this some kind of lip service or serious love ?
(Sorry I have to ask this because of bad rep Gems have)

When do you commit and what does that committment means?
( As far as I understand he told me that boyfriend-girlfriend stage is more of knowing each other.It wouldn't be like getting married.I agree and I am fine with that but I still would expect that I have some special position and not just for sake of saying each other girlfriend and boyfriend.It's long distance relationship we have been friends for last 1 year and in just 2 weeks things are changing. )

What do you really mean when you say that I would be waiting for you? Does it mean I am gonna look for someone else at the same time ? I just want to know how much sincere they can be. I understand the need of change.

What do you tell them when they say they are bored? I really don't know what to say since I am really far and can't visit him till autumn or winter.How do you keep them interested in you?

Before anyone ask me his birthdate and birthtime.He just doesn't want to give me. I knew his birthdate but didn't bother to remember and now he just wouldn't tell me.I didn't wanted to force him or manipulate him so changed the conversation.There is lot more mystry about him than me.I know him but still many things I don't know.

Does he sound normal Gemini or might be having lots of his planet in Taurus or Cancer.

What is most important for Gemini man ?

Is it that I am reading many bad compatibiity sites or is it I am dreaming and very soon would come down on the earth.
I am just wondering whether to persuade this relationship further or JUST be "good friends"? Please enlighten with your sound advice.

posted July 22, 2005 12:09 AM              

the things he said are fairly safe charms gemini men say. he's interested and letting you know, but he is pragmatic enough to know that he can't promise to be only talking with you as a girl for dating potential.

so he says he's getting to know you, which is lovely . . . yes? enjoy the charms and flirtations.

posted July 22, 2005 12:40 AM              

Anyways I think I am gonna give some time to this and if he still feels the same then that would be great maybe after couple of months till we can meet.

I have been much more pragmatic and actually disappointed him about our relationship when he told me about it.
I guess I am gonna tell him the same thing that it would be nice if we know each other more and if something can work out.

I think it bolis down to keeping options open kind of thing.I think it's more got to do enjoy the moment.

Really Enjoying it and loving it.

posted July 22, 2005 01:27 AM              

I think the problem is we have great conversations.Communication no problem as I love talking when I am in relationship in both the ways.

Change is also good but only thing is I don't want to be changed by another new fling he might have.

posted July 22, 2005 01:33 AM              

It was hell but depends on the chart. Get that birth info.

get his birthdate
birth time
birth city

Gemini's like to be satisfied mentally. Go to a museaum, go out to eat, play a sport together. Those are some things gemini's like. oh and communicate and be open about your feelings. Do not lie or cheat or flirt with other men. And listen to him while he blabs. They get bored easily unless you stimulate them mentally. And remember consider yourself lucky at the fact that he's even opened up to you.

posted July 22, 2005 01:37 AM            

You choose pretty and creative user names each time you come back!
What happened, was it that thread with the faves?

posted July 22, 2005 02:01 AM              

@ the new & improved version of TP.. now its SU.. as in Suck U.. or Shut Up.. or..*itches head* never mind

posted July 22, 2005 02:15 AM              

Thanks

posted July 22, 2005 02:26 AM            

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Lovely and pixie do me a favor. Do not type to me at all. I have nothing to talk to you two about.

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I complimented you.....
Get a grip on your anger.. this is what I said.

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You choose pretty and creative user names each time you come back!
What happened, was it that thread with the faves?

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posted July 22, 2005 02:59 AM              

It's not just as in say Telephonic relationship or just online relationship where you get cheated much easily.Ya as we both are working and really far it won't be possible to meet very soon but we both need to make some plans to meet and we are working on it.

When I met him we didn't really thought anything we just knew each other and we were in contacts ...very casual.We gave call each other and I would still like to keep it that way but when he talks to people around him he finds them immature and he can talk to me and maybe he is getting emotional and he thinks he can rely on me. Maybe he just wants to take this friendship further but not as dating.

I didn't know how to handle and what to relate something like that when it came to me.

I just didn't get it and wanted to be sure is he looking for long term relationship or just knowing each other.Actually it was stupid of me to hope for long term something when it's still not right time. I told him that we would think about it when right time comes but also hoped for long term relationship.

We still both think we still need to get togather and see each other more.Ofcourse we both are not just going to commit from our side but I was wondering how much that means to him.

Thanks ! for all the tips on what to do when he is actully with me.We are planing to go traveling togather and see some hostorical places.

Don't worry Day Dreamer I knew how to take control and I guess that's the reason this words came from him.Not manipulating manner just very subtly telling things what I felt.I am much more open about my feelings and he knows that.

posted July 22, 2005 03:22 AM              

take care of ur remember, no man is worth breaking that for. and no one can break ur heart until u give them permission to do that right.

gem men, intentionally or unintentionally can be heartbreakers, but it doesnt always have to end that way. they can be devoted lovers too, like someone else said, get the chart so we can see the rest of the placements.

as a Gem girl I feel very very different from not only Gem guys but also OTHER gem girls (i have heavy Scorpio influence--scorp stellium, pluto in 1st, and Venus influence too--2nd house stellium, libra rising, venus in 7th). yet in some ways i am a very typical gemini (3rd house planets, gem stellium). with my moon and venus placements tho i would say i approach love and relationships v differently. its imperative to know the guys moon and venus placements too. preferrably also rising, seventh house, and mars.

have fun with it, dont fall harder than he is

posted July 22, 2005 04:15 AM              

Secret Garden Again :

[QUOTE]have fun with it, dont fall harder than he is [QUOTE/]

Perfect advice and I am just hoping that.It's difficult me being Scorp.

posted July 22, 2005 04:15 AM              

Secret Garden Again :

[QUOTE]have fun with it, dont fall harder than he is [QUOTE/]

Perfect advice and I am just hoping that.It's difficult me being Scorp.

One more question what is stellium ???

posted July 22, 2005 04:20 AM              

Yummy when they chase you like mad begging you to be their girlfriend, using the most silver tongued poetry and showering you with gifts.

Yucky when after you finally agree to go out with then, they become disinterested and immediatly dump you.

posted July 22, 2005 09:29 AM              

Hmm... he aint giving you his birth date...Maybe secretly, he does astrology too!

Pretty wary about giving people my data....

Stellium is when there are 3 or more planets in a house/sign usually conj each other,indicating some sort of focus in that area...

Well,that part about getting disinterested...I am guilty of that...it is very unintentional...

And play hard to get,but just get your gaurd down a bit here and there,so that he'll be interested all the time....

And talk,I hate a girl who doesnt..

posted July 22, 2005 10:00 AM              

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hot_ice: I like a girl who's nice to me..

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Don't listen to him free bird! Gemini men have no idea what they want!

-they say they like a woman who shows she's interested
-they say they like a woman who calls them
-they say they like a woman who isn't afraid to ask them out
-they say they like a woman who confesses her true feelings about them

Men also say they like it when a woman has sex on the first date.

The truth is, they will immediatly lose interest in a woman who does any of those things.

posted July 22, 2005 10:34 AM              

-they say they like a woman who calls them-yes

-they like a woman who isn't afraid to ask them out
yes

-they say they like a woman who confesses her true feelings about them

errr...no i dont agree with this....it has to be sorta hidden,but sorta obvious..

Men also say they like it when a woman has sex on the first date.

Well if you do,your a **** ....if you dont your a bi@tch....thin line to tread...i really dont now bout this one,different people different opinions..

The truth is, they will immediatly lose interest in a woman who does any of those things...not really,it has to be a fine balance....