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monmonitaa
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posted August 07, 2005 06:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MY bestfriend has sun and rising in leo (moon in scorpio).... I love her dearly we connect so well, and we have tremendous fun when we're by ourselves,,or in the company of other females.

Once we're in the company of males... (whether these males are taken or not...good friends of ours or complete strangers) her identity will change,,,and she;ll become someone else.. someone who's only priority is to GET THE ATTENTION OF THOSE MALES..and that would blind her from everything else....

Once she came with me and my friends on holiday.... she suggested that one of them likes me..and as soon as i started considering the prospects, she started flirting with him herself...and when we d be alone she;d claim HE LIKES her,,,although she was the one hitting on him. Not only that she flirted with every other guy in the group, and had the guts to tell me that they;'re the ones flirting with her......

Another time it was her birthday..and i did so much for her...surprise party.....cake...lovely gift......and she didnt acknowledge my presence... coz she was too busy flirting with the guys..... When i gave her my card...she said i ll read it at home..coz she was flirting with this guy..and once the guy started talking to to someone else and she felt bored..she read the card.

I know its all to do with her vulnerability and insecurity and need for appreciation...but who are those ppl that she puts above me? When i m the one who s there with her when she cries.. i m the one who cares...and does special things for her...

It really ****** me off and its not something i can talk to her about..coz she ll obviously deny it... maybe she s not even aware of it... see u cant point out subtle things about ur friends' attitude...coz at the end of the day its SUBJECTIVE..that would be UR OPINION.

What do i do?

I have sun and moon in pisces...rising in saggitarius btw

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Mystic Gemini
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posted August 07, 2005 08:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a friend with a leo sun and scorpio moon. She loves attention from the men but would never dare flirt with any man a friend of hers likes.


Otherwise she wouldn't be my friend.

I hung out with her on friday. She's my b****. I've known her for 6 years.


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WaterNymph
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posted August 07, 2005 08:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awww Leos are lovely - but then I’m very tolerant well…with them anyway. I grew up around quite a few Leos, so I’m used to them.

You should talk to your friend in my experience both Leo & Scorpio are both good listeners. Also Aquarius…maybe it’s a fixed thing.

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LILYGIRL
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posted August 07, 2005 08:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Leo girlfriend. She loves attention from men, women and small dogs. But she is very sweet and extremely careful about not flirting with other people's spouses. Guys fall for her because she is pretty and very sweet. But I usually see the guys tripping all over her, not vice versa.

I will say however that Leo women (hetero ones anyway) dig the dudes, big time. I would think with all that dreamy Pisces in your chart, you'd be pulling your own special kind of guys!

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delerious
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posted August 07, 2005 09:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm an aries with a leo moon, so I do have sympathy... I'm surrounded by leos, but with my cancer rising I'm positively embaressed when they pull some of their more provocative attitudes with guys (no, I don't know her, what's her name? ) leo women are forces of nature, myself included, when I let my Leo moon shine...... maybe tonight? he's sitting right over there, would love it if I got off the comp and jumped his bones....(**** I would be interrrupting his movie, do you think he'd mind?)oh well don't pay me any mind ............
until Jwhop my sponsor will show up at a TA meeting I just don't know what I'll do.....

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geminirising26
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posted August 07, 2005 10:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mother is a LEO, and SUCH a drama queen and know it all. My aunt, is also a Leo as well, good GOD, I can only imagine how two sister Leo's managed together in the household, bossing eachother around probbaly.

Anyway, I am a Cap, and although I hate to say this, Leo's are definately not my fave, although when they are sweet and affectionate they are the best. And they care very much about friendship, that is for sure-very loyal!

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Aphrodite
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posted August 07, 2005 10:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How old is your friend? This sounds like familiar behavior most young women do to each other from their late teens through their twenties. A lot of women don't trust each other around this age when it comes to men. They do stuff like date or sleep with a friend's ex-boyfriend, get jealous, try to grab attention, ignore or treat their female friends badly. It goes on and on. Sorry to hear that you're going through this.

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monmonitaa
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posted August 07, 2005 10:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks everyone...

well my friend is 18. But yes like u all said about leos she s v. affectionate and loyal....she s not v experienced though..which is why i sympathise with this behaviour... When we re alone all the giving amazing qualities come out...its only when we re with ppl that this happens... i still love her though

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viper
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posted August 08, 2005 03:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Monmonitaa - Hi,
I have a question for you. I note you mentioned that you have a Pisces Sun along with a Pisces Moon with Sag rising (In a previous thread, that is)

I too have Sun and Moon in Pisces, think Pisces is rising too - it's bang on the cusp so might be Aries, but back to the point.

I read somewhere that to have the Sun and Moon in the same sign makes the individul very concious of oneself, almost as if they can see both their positive and their negative sides at the same time. As such they are usually very aware of the way they are acting or sounding or whatever, when in the company of others. It's almost as if the entire life is spent 'acting' in a way they feel other people expect them to act!! am I making any sense yet? (possibly not!)

Anyway, back to the question. Sun and Moon in the same sign often denotes that these individuals are seeking a relationship where the two partners absorb totally with one another. Are always with one another (not just physically) and are so close that virtually nothing can or will seperate them. I am not saying these are the relationships they get into, but this is the secret ideal they search for

Tell me, can you relate to any of that? or am I totally off track here?

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SecretGardenAgain
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posted August 08, 2005 03:57 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
viper im interested in hearing a bit more, my best friend is a double Gemini (thats four people in one, argh!). lol

Love
SG

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ladya22
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posted August 08, 2005 04:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ladya22     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello Viper-

Sorry to hi-jack the thread but i too am interested in what viper's take on same sun/moon couples. My Bf is a Pisces sun/leo moon I am a Leo Sun/pisces moon.

Thanks!

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viper
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posted August 08, 2005 05:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ladya22

I like the combination of you and your BF,Sun Moon each in each others Sun Moon signs, do they aspect each other or is it just a sign thing?


If they aspected, you would have a fab connection, but even just the sign thing would add some buzz to the relationship.

It's funny how many Leo suns are with Pisces suns? Leo, for some reason, is fascinated by Pisces - along with water signs in general, but I have noticed Pisces seems to be the more alluring to a Leo. Pisces on the other hand is also just as fascinated with Leos, but maybe you could say that about most signs, afterall, Leo is the regal sign of the zodiac, so I could be totally wrong on this one )

SecretGardenAgain

A double Gemini? hmm, maybe that would be the same for me then, afterall Pisces is a double sign also? LOL

Michelle Phfieffer (Can never spell her name) ha ha is also a double Gemini, I have read somewhere that she is also very closely bonded to her partner (lucky guy) I know the sun/moon in same sign brings out this in me, so am intrested to hear Monmonitaa's take on this


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ladya22
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posted August 08, 2005 05:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ladya22     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Viper-

They are conjunct for both so you could say we complete each other and it is an electric connection to be sure.
Funny you say that Leos are fascinated by Pisces. i just thought about it and though i have never had a Pisces boyfriend before. My Mom, father, Bro, Bro-in-Law, step dad and Nephew and my Moon are all PISCES!
WOW ! i geuss i am Karmically attracted to them.

Okay done hijacking! thank you!

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sthenri
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posted August 08, 2005 06:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sun singletons have this issue too, I call it johnny deppism, such as look at me, no don't look at me, don't you love looking at me? oh don't look at him, I'm the one you want to look at, hello! what a ham.

as a sag rising I sympathize as we are down to earth and really into loyalty.

It's just strange to idolize the opposite sex that way,

Natasha

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MoonDuchess88
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posted August 08, 2005 10:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought Michelle Phfieffer was a taurus

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viper
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posted August 08, 2005 10:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MoonDuches,

Your so right. 29th April 1958

Apologies to all, don't know why I put Gemini?? must have been on a different planet!

But she does have the sun and moon in the same sign, as metioned earlier

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monmonitaa
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posted August 08, 2005 10:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I see alot of truth in what ur saying viper... i m not v self conscious in the every day life sense,,,,,but i guess i m TOO INTROSPECTIVE.....which makes me constantly confused,,,,and i m also TOO EASILY INFLUENCED by other people's opinions... and am more likely to rush into I WAS WRONG . I WAS FOOLING MYSELF rather than stick to my own opinion....

About relationships..yes i tend to be v idealistic....and if i feel the connection is lost for one sec...or one conversation felt empty i want out immediately

Thanks viper that was interesting point u made there

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MoonDuchess88
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posted August 08, 2005 10:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you think ppl who were born on the 1st of the month are like this too? My sag friend was born on December 1st, and my cappy friend was born on New Years, they OBSESSED with attention-its so annoying

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monmonitaa
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posted August 08, 2005 06:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well i only know one person who was born on the first of a month...she was a cappy born on new years and yes SHE WAS OBSESSED With attention...

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alanabelle86
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posted August 08, 2005 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
meh i can sorta sympathize only because i know myself. i'm a scorpio with a leo moon. i'm fascinated by them, no doubt. my best friend is a cancer has tons of leo in her chart (rising, venus, mercury) i remember (before i got a boyfriend) i was always extremely flirtatious and i also had at least "5" crushes. we really would count. but out of those 5 there'd be at least 3 she knew personally and whenever id be around shed flirt non stop as if my feelings never existed. it used to **** me off to the ends of the earth. seriously, i dont know what it is. i'm guilty of doing it once in a while when i was younger but besides that. i also had another good friend who was a virgo with also a leo rising, mercury, venus, and mars. she was a trainwreck when it came to the whole guy thing. we always collided cuz i was never afraid to call her on her need to "impose on what i was trying to make happen"

i dont know...i'm guilty of "blindly" seeking attention too i guess. its just the need to feel flattered. i can totally not like someone but WANT them to at least be physically attracted to me, just so i know they think something of me now and then. idk..this may be way off topic but thats just my P.O.V

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sthenri
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posted August 08, 2005 09:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have seen this trait in Capricorns too, and as for being young. This happens to older women too. Many times a person has tried to impose on a dream, it comes from insecurity and jealousy.

I have learned to spot and avoid such people as they never help, and there are those who love to help others. Leo moons aren't so bad, but they can be childish, and need spoiling. Once they get enough though, they give in return.

I have friends with lots of leo in their charts, mostly they worry about others getting ahead, they need strokes, back rubs, scalp massages especially.

I always get ahead cause I never forgive a
DREAM CRUSHER!
and I love
DREAM MAKERS!

anyway, try a scalp massage on a leo.


Natasha

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leoelf
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posted August 08, 2005 10:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like to flirt too and yeah I do LUUUV attention from guys, however, if you did all that stuff for my birthday, awwww, I would so be hugging and acknowledging you throughout the WHOLE party, later with flirting.
It's prolly my Cancer moon balancing it all out

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monmonitaa
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posted August 08, 2005 10:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well leo elf.... to give my friend due credit she showed appreciation a couple of days later when we re alone...she;s gr8 when we're alone
so i have to forgive her for everything else i guess

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posted August 09, 2005 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nove731     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Two of my best friends are both like that, too, and it annoys the living hell out of me. One's a Scorpio Sun with a Libra Moon and a Sagittarius Rising, and the other is a Cancer with a Libra Moon (common theme?) and a Pisces Rising.

As soon as an attractive member of the opposite sex walks in, it's like I'm non-existant. Being an Aries (Lol ) I can't stand being ignored. So what do I do? I get jealous, and give them the cold shoulder later. Hrm. I think that bit's the Virgo Rising.

I'm an Aries Sun/Sagittarius Moon/Virgo Rising, and I'd nevvvvvvvvvver do that. I usually just observe from afar, so to speak, and pretend like I don't notice the person. I'd never do that to one of them. So it seriously ****** me off when they do that.

But, on to Leos - I don't care too much for them. I think they'd need to have significant influences in less ego-centric signs. The few that I've met, I honestly just want to punch in the jaw. They annoy me to no end. :-/

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SecretGardenAgain
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posted August 09, 2005 02:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i want to punch them too. i always wonder why i attract air and earth sign friends, and some cancers. i keep telling myself to seek out more fire signs, and pis/scorp people. but the more i meet the more irritated i get, when i have to tell myself that you cant have diversity of EVERY sort (astrological being included) and friends are meant to be good compnay not irritate you till you throw a seizure.

my leo mom is all drama. everyone in the world i can work with except her. she drives me C R A Z Y. i am going on vacation for 1 week with her starting friday. please wish me luck in that i dont jump off the plane or hysterically kill myself on the way. its not an exaggeration; its reality people. what was i thinking when i said yes i would go???? WHAT WAS I THINKING???? SOMEBODY SLAP ME NOW DAMMIT! AHHHHHH FUHG ITTTTTT!

freaking out
SG

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