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Tuesday
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posted September 13, 2005 06:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everyone, I've been lurking for a while.

I have noticed a pattern with the Libra men I've been involved with - not only do they date quite a few women, they also like to remain friends with them afterwards. Then you hear about them constantly. Almost every time my Libra boy starts talking about a friend of his, this friend turns out to be female and I've come to expect to hear the words "We used to date" shortly. Is this a Libra thing? My friend says staying on good terms with your exes is a Libra thing. I'm trying not to let it bother me (he has a cancer moon and is very sweet and devoted to me) - but it's quite a history to live up to. I believe in staying on good terms with your exes as well, but I havent had very many of them (I'm slow to start relationships - cappy moon, plus I'm several years younger than he is). He says he's had problems before with his partner being jealous of his female friends because they dont understand that they mean nothing more to him than friends. And I believe him, so I'm trying to be understanding and allow him his freedom (which I believe in anyway). But sometimes it seems like he's easily threatened by other men, and a little possessive (scorpio influences) so I hope there isnt some double standard here. If anyone would like to peek at our charts and give me a little insight, I'd appreciate it, or if anyone has an experience similar to mine.

My info:
June 4, 1985
3:00 PM
Wichita KS

His:
Oct. 12, 1979
7:58 AM
Kansas City MO (i'm pretty sure)


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Pop Producer
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posted September 13, 2005 11:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dated a Libra girl and we had a fight and never heard of her again. But she had a Scorpio ascendant.

Maybe she'll keep in touch sending me a bomb in a letter or something like that...

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pixelpixie
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posted September 13, 2005 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am one of the exes who is still friends with a Libra.
I adore him, and he adores me.
We didn't work out. Then, back when we broke up, it was hurtful, but the minute we sat down together months afterwards, the awkwardness disappeared and we remembered why we were drawn to each other in the first place.
We are good friends.
I don't see him though, because his wife is possessive, jealous and even goes through his things with no provocation.. he really caters to her. ( makes whipping sound) which is nice.. but.. um.. I don't know how someone can be happy with no trust even though there has been no indication for a lack of trust. He is a good guy.
I am a Libra's ex.
Before me, he didn't talk about his exes much. Maybe as acquaintance, but not as friends. I know he considers me a friend. As I do him, even if we never speak. I am there if ever he needs me.

Hi Tuesday!! Long time no see!

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AcousticGod
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posted September 14, 2005 12:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*lightbulb goes off in head*

Oh, you're one of the hot girls at the Photo Shop.

Hi!

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Well we all shine on
Like the moon and the stars and the sun
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sthenri
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posted September 14, 2005 07:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Libra men like a lot of attention,
to be waited on, my ex and his father are both libras. mine had venus in virgo, his father, venus in libra. Both had jealous wives, because they would openly look and criticize other women. you don't always see this stuff.

Libras are known to like this, when I wasn't jealous I got
you don't act like you love me!!
other than that LIbras are very jealous themselves, and that's the lack of attention thing. it's not a philosophy it's an emotional reaction inside each libra waiting to spring on you.

Make sure you do lots of romantic things together and keep an eye on him verbally or emotionally just let him know he is YOUR MAN.

Cancer moons too have a tough time being mean so they idealize their romantic times with their exes. I have a Cancer moon and I lose it with men all the time due to my jealous nature and insistence on my male friends.

I would say to him, over time he will think more and more of you two and want to spend less time with his female friends as both of you will do exciting fun things together.

Keep doing those things and keep an eye on his communications.

Keeping a libra happy will make you whipped,

(making whipping sound here):>

Natasha
Taurus/6th
Cancer Moon/8th

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Yang
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posted September 14, 2005 08:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The only thing I can say is that your boyfriend shares the same birthday as I do.(and I also have a few friends too).

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Lauren
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posted September 14, 2005 08:43 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I believe in staying on good terms with your exes as well, but I havent had very many of them (I'm slow to start relationships - cappy moon

I know what you mean. I have a Capricorn moon as well (I'm aries, gem asc). My bf is a Libra who also has a Capricorn moon (and asc) lol it's Cappy moon everywhere, join the Cappy moon club.

He's very stable, caring and I trust him a lot.. He doesn't have any close girl friends, or girls he actually speaks to often. He has a couple of close male friends.. but that's about it. Like me, he tends to be pretty distant with people and we both have a lot of aquaintances but not many close friends.. but I guess that's a cappy moon thing. Not a Libra thing.

I usually get along very well with Libra guys and I have a very good opinion of them overall, but I think there's Librans I've known and do know who I'd have trouble dating. It's a case of -like them as friends and could be attracted to them but in a serious relationship I'd probably pass-

They do usually have a lot of female friends, which wouldn't bother me personaly as long as I liked them lol.. which basically means if they're your typical superficial air heads, I'd feel as though that says something about him..why would he bother with those sorts of people? so I wouldn't date someone like that

But if you like his friends and they seem like A ok girls (people..) I don't think it'd be a real problem.

The jealousy thing I've noticed, though I have to say overall Pisceans and Librans seem least jealous/possessive to me. But they can get jealous at times, maybe it's a cardinal male thing to get jealous and a fixed male thing to get possessive. I prefer a little jealous to possessive, probably why me and fixed men don't go well together.

If he has double standards, and says you shouldn't be jealous over all the female friends he has, while he does get jealous over your male friends..I think you should point that out to him. Libras don't like to be unfair about things, so if he is being unfair he probably hasn't realised it.

His moon is Cancer though, so it's opposite yours. My experience with Cancer moon men hasn't been a good one. I don't feel they understand me at all, but there's always exceptions. I've met some wackos with Cancer moons (but most were Leos, not Libras) and I mean reallll wackos (emotional basket cases) lol so I can't exactly blame it on their moon only (im sure they had all sorts of other issues)

Anyhoo (ranting as usual, gem asc lol)
Good Luck!

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 14, 2005 12:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm still friends with a couple of exes from way back.

One in particular is now married with kids. He and my hubby are very good friends now too.

Hubby even got him a job at his company.

LOL~ AG! Indeed, Tuesday, you are quite lovely... not to be confused with lovely* who is also quite lovely.

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Hexxie
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posted September 14, 2005 12:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just thought i'd chime in cuz i'm a Libra (but not a guy!). Perhaps it's just because I wanted to take the opposite stance hehe (us Libras love to do that)! Anyhoo, for me once a relationship is over it's just over. Not to sound terribly mean or cold, but i've never been friends with an Ex. I have always been (I think just by chance) the breaker not the breakee. I think this may be due to the fact that I have Venus & Uranus conjunct in Scorpio plus Pluto exactly conjunct my Libra Sun. Also, with these placements one may think I might be the jealous type. I'm not at all! Thank you Aqua Moon hehe

Another thing is that i've only known 2 other Libra guys in the past. Strangely there wasn't any attraction (on my part at least hehe) for these cuties. I could definitely see how someone would be attracted to them, but it was like I knew all their games and they knew all mine so it wasn't a challenge! Like 2 gusts of wind floating around each other, sorta boreing for us, but interesting if anyone else got caught inbetween!

Sorry, just another Gemini Asc rant for y'all hehe! I can guess that you need to be very careful and delicate on how you present things to this gentleman. So keep that in mind, play the fairness card, and all will be well and beautiful. Everything is as it should be. Everything that happens TO us is just a reflection of what we're feeling inside and/or what lessons (karma) we need to work through.


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AcousticGod
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posted September 15, 2005 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was born on a Tuesday.

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pixelpixie
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posted September 15, 2005 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Well... it must be destined, then!

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Stargazer
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posted September 15, 2005 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My father- Libra/Libra/Gem-moon- was married to my mother(leo) for 35 years. Decided it was over- only spoken to her briefly in the last 5 years.

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AcousticGod
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posted September 15, 2005 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol Pixie! I'm a little random today.

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Tuesday
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posted September 15, 2005 06:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the advice (and compliments ) everyone! I'll try to keep these things in mind. I'd like to make it work as I've never felt this exuberant before. I'm used to defining being in love as intense, obsessive, and often painful, as this has been my experience until recently. (Venus opposite pluto, with everyone my age being the pluto person opposing my venus) This feels more like a warm, lighthearted friendship, which is probably better for me as a gemini anyway. For the first time I am the pluto person and he is the venus person (conjunction) so the roles may have been switched and he may be the obsessive one. One effect our synastry has on me is that I'm much more self-aware than I ever was. I feel like all my qualities are being defined and magnified. My gemini-ness is pronounced, as are my venus in aries and moon in cap, etc. I see everything more clearly. I hope I have a positive effect on him as well. Sometimes I worry we are harboring resentment concerning our friends of the opposite sex/past lovers and will secretly egg each other on until it leads to an emotional confrontation. But like a poster mentioned here, it's a better idea to point it out and discuss it in a rational, air-y way.

Wow, I rambled way too much. I apologize, haha. take care everyone!

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Zohe
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posted September 16, 2005 05:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I also was involved with a Libra girl with Scorpio rising...
we had a fight too u could say

I am also waiting for a bomb or something...

lol, i'm over her now and thinking back i think she was a utter nutter!!!

lol x 2 x infinity...

:-)
Z

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funkyaquarianpixie
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posted September 16, 2005 12:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
cool by gwen stefani refelcts the libras and their exes thing... the lyrics and stuff...

Ms Stefani is a Libra I beleive..

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AcousticGod
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posted September 16, 2005 01:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think she is too.

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funkyaquarianpixie
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posted September 16, 2005 01:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you know ive posted lots today... and some mythical neptunian net squid monster has eaten them... slipped into nothing... is mecury going rx?

this is the only one i could find!

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Tuesday
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posted September 16, 2005 05:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think Cool is about her relationship with Tony Kanal. I love Gwen, she's another libra/cancer. I can totally relate to her lyrics from the no doubt era, especially lately. ("You and your museum of lovers...") She doesnt hold anything back!

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