posted September 13, 2005 06:00 PM              

I have noticed a pattern with the Libra men I've been involved with - not only do they date quite a few women, they also like to remain friends with them afterwards. Then you hear about them constantly. Almost every time my Libra boy starts talking about a friend of his, this friend turns out to be female and I've come to expect to hear the words "We used to date" shortly. Is this a Libra thing? My friend says staying on good terms with your exes is a Libra thing. I'm trying not to let it bother me (he has a cancer moon and is very sweet and devoted to me) - but it's quite a history to live up to. I believe in staying on good terms with your exes as well, but I havent had very many of them (I'm slow to start relationships - cappy moon, plus I'm several years younger than he is). He says he's had problems before with his partner being jealous of his female friends because they dont understand that they mean nothing more to him than friends. And I believe him, so I'm trying to be understanding and allow him his freedom (which I believe in anyway). But sometimes it seems like he's easily threatened by other men, and a little possessive (scorpio influences) so I hope there isnt some double standard here. If anyone would like to peek at our charts and give me a little insight, I'd appreciate it, or if anyone has an experience similar to mine.

My info:
June 4, 1985
3:00 PM
Wichita KS

His:
Oct. 12, 1979
7:58 AM
Kansas City MO (i'm pretty sure)

posted September 14, 2005 12:16 AM            

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Hi!

posted September 14, 2005 07:07 AM              

Libras are known to like this, when I wasn't jealous I got
you don't act like you love me!!
other than that LIbras are very jealous themselves, and that's the lack of attention thing. it's not a philosophy it's an emotional reaction inside each libra waiting to spring on you.

Make sure you do lots of romantic things together and keep an eye on him verbally or emotionally just let him know he is YOUR MAN.

Cancer moons too have a tough time being mean so they idealize their romantic times with their exes. I have a Cancer moon and I lose it with men all the time due to my jealous nature and insistence on my male friends.

I would say to him, over time he will think more and more of you two and want to spend less time with his female friends as both of you will do exciting fun things together.

Keep doing those things and keep an eye on his communications.

Keeping a libra happy will make you whipped,

(making whipping sound here):>

posted September 14, 2005 08:43 AM              

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I believe in staying on good terms with your exes as well, but I havent had very many of them (I'm slow to start relationships - cappy moon

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I know what you mean. I have a Capricorn moon as well (I'm aries, gem asc). My bf is a Libra who also has a Capricorn moon (and asc) lol it's Cappy moon everywhere, join the Cappy moon club.

He's very stable, caring and I trust him a lot.. He doesn't have any close girl friends, or girls he actually speaks to often. He has a couple of close male friends.. but that's about it. Like me, he tends to be pretty distant with people and we both have a lot of aquaintances but not many close friends.. but I guess that's a cappy moon thing. Not a Libra thing.

I usually get along very well with Libra guys and I have a very good opinion of them overall, but I think there's Librans I've known and do know who I'd have trouble dating. It's a case of -like them as friends and could be attracted to them but in a serious relationship I'd probably pass-

They do usually have a lot of female friends, which wouldn't bother me personaly as long as I liked them lol.. which basically means if they're your typical superficial air heads, I'd feel as though that says something about him..why would he bother with those sorts of people? so I wouldn't date someone like that

But if you like his friends and they seem like A ok girls (people..) I don't think it'd be a real problem.

The jealousy thing I've noticed, though I have to say overall Pisceans and Librans seem least jealous/possessive to me. But they can get jealous at times, maybe it's a cardinal male thing to get jealous and a fixed male thing to get possessive. I prefer a little jealous to possessive, probably why me and fixed men don't go well together.

If he has double standards, and says you shouldn't be jealous over all the female friends he has, while he does get jealous over your male friends..I think you should point that out to him. Libras don't like to be unfair about things, so if he is being unfair he probably hasn't realised it.

His moon is Cancer though, so it's opposite yours. My experience with Cancer moon men hasn't been a good one. I don't feel they understand me at all, but there's always exceptions. I've met some wackos with Cancer moons (but most were Leos, not Libras) and I mean reallll wackos (emotional basket cases) lol so I can't exactly blame it on their moon only (im sure they had all sorts of other issues)

posted September 14, 2005 12:14 PM              

One in particular is now married with kids. He and my hubby are very good friends now too.

Hubby even got him a job at his company.

posted September 14, 2005 12:23 PM              

Another thing is that i've only known 2 other Libra guys in the past. Strangely there wasn't any attraction (on my part at least hehe) for these cuties. I could definitely see how someone would be attracted to them, but it was like I knew all their games and they knew all mine so it wasn't a challenge! Like 2 gusts of wind floating around each other, sorta boreing for us, but interesting if anyone else got caught inbetween!

Sorry, just another Gemini Asc rant for y'all hehe! I can guess that you need to be very careful and delicate on how you present things to this gentleman. So keep that in mind, play the fairness card, and all will be well and beautiful. Everything is as it should be. Everything that happens TO us is just a reflection of what we're feeling inside and/or what lessons (karma) we need to work through.

posted September 16, 2005 05:36 AM              

I also was involved with a Libra girl with Scorpio rising...
we had a fight too u could say

I am also waiting for a bomb or something...

lol, i'm over her now and thinking back i think she was a utter nutter!!!

lol x 2 x infinity...