posted September 20, 2005 11:49 PM              

Glad to be of some help I know I enjoy it when a guy is trying to learn about who I am and how interesting it is to learn new analysis methods. Good luck with it in meeting the ladies where you are at!

Ciao

posted September 21, 2005 09:28 AM              

I found here on the Web. Think she lives in UK but she's Russian, I think she's is good and scary accurate but I can't help but wonder if I could be just projecting these qualities onto this guy hoping he will be the one and he's not even though he seems to be very close to what she described. I have to keep a level grounded head about it, which is hard and sometimes I wish I didn't know these things it makes it more confusing when you know these things and they don't and you have this sense of urgency and knowing and they think your completely NUTS!

But I did contact her again to make sure before I went and made a complete fool of myself and here is what she said on September 16, 2005:

Question One
You asked about the man you have met who bares a close resemblance to the man in your chart, though some details do not fit him exactly? You also mention birth times. I have drawn up his chart.

Derek’s time of birth is approximate, but as you get to know him better you’ll be able to amend it slightly. The chart is a very good match for yours. I think he is the one. Your Pluto conjunction his ascendant, i.e. powerfully symbolic of your
coming into his life and transforming it by love. His beginning a new chapter in his life without knowing it, from that day forwards. Pluto has to do with death and reincarnation too, karmic love. Past lives.
There are other soul mate aspects as you have pointed out.

So I did inquire before going off without assistance?

Her website is:
www.ivarna.com
www.astrologycenter.co.uk

Was quite accurate but also not sure that he is the guy, I guess time will tell. Also she states Soul Mate doesn't mean he's the one I will be with, Fate vs. Free Will. She said it's not always easy and Painless could be very painful and distrubing, which that is what is happening, due inpart to both of our insecurities and past hurts, I was being impatient and got irritated with him and she said that would happen, but she also said this:

The Soul Mate chart does not show your ideal partner or your dream love. It shows the person who you will meet and fall in love with. The one who will be your next serious chance of a long term relationship. This love is going is deep and predestined. It may transform your life. But understand the just because a love is shown in the stars as your fate, does not automatically make it happy and free of problems. In today’s world there are many kinds of relationship. Most people do marry or set up home with the man shown in their chart, their soul mate.

But if you decide for any reason you do not want this person, or if for any reason the relationship goes terribly and tragically wrong and ends. It doesn't mean that you will be alone ever after, or that you'll never have another chance of such wonderful love and security but it may mean that you have to wait until the stars come back into the right place to offer you another deep and serious chance of love. Something’s fated are good, others bad, but they are all part of the karma of our lives that have to be worked through. All part of the process that that make us the person we are. This reading shows you the future that lies before you, that it is all.

posted September 21, 2005 09:41 AM            

doesnt believe astrology one bit, in fact it angers him when people study it. idk why id figure with all his placements hed be more open minded

hes the most closeminded person i know

posted September 21, 2005 10:02 AM              

Sorry about the Stubborn Fixed boyfriend. But unfortunatley Scorpio and Aquarius are Fixed Signs, Sagittarius is Mutable but if his with all those planets in Fixed signs and mostly fire and water probably quite fixed in his ways! Although I find that to be quite unintelligent, not that he is, but it's best to have an open mind about the impossible!

posted September 22, 2005 09:45 AM              

I checked out the ivarna site.. seems pretty interesting.
And then a thought hit me... if u happen to know his birthdate data etc... and if u anonomously had a soulmate report done for him... would the woman in his report be a description of you? I mean.. then.. it would be irrefutable.. !!

Just a thought from an intrigued scorpio.

Anyways.. hmm.. saggies and not calling.. it happens - a lot! And most times, they're not playing hard to get... they just are, hard to get!

As the others have advised.. U calling him just to catch up/ chill out might be cool. Good luck woman! Be happy !

posted September 22, 2005 09:54 AM              

And , by the way.. thanx for asking about the website info.. I doubt i could have contained my curiosity either.

posted September 22, 2005 10:01 AM              

Good Idea but if I can't even get him to call me, how would I ever get anything else from him! Obviously, not the one, not my Soul Mate and Not meant to be. Possibly their will be another similar to him who is and he's wrong, or he could just need some time to absorb some of this Intense Information, then will call me in a few weeks, like when Mercury goes Retrograde! Also could be a little slow in dealing with a ton of information all at once, Mercury in Capricorn Square to Pluto in Libra, Jupiter in Aries and Moon in Cancer. That's a Cardinal Grand Square with Jupiter opposite Pluto and Mercury Mercury Opposite moon.

The Grand Square has two oppositions and four squares! This is a toughy to deal with because it is enclosed, with no defining Apex points to disperse the energy. All the points will (usually) fall in one of the modalities - Cardinal, Fixed or Mutable. The Cardinal Grand Square is very motivated and driven. This makes for a true leader who could have a tendency to run people over.

He is a tough one and much more interested in making money right now then dealing with relationships. Thinks he needs more money to have a relationship. North Node in Scorpio in the 2nd which means he wants to do everything himself but with Venus also in the 2nd what he doesn't realize is that he will be more successful and Wealthy once he is in a Solid Love Relationship! I did do his astrology for him, do not know if he even read it, probablly didn't!

Could possibly more of a pain in the Ass then he's worth!