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LILYGIRL unregistered	posted October 01, 2005 01:07 PM Does anyone have their Pluto opposite their significant other's Venus. If so, how do you think it affects your relationship? Is poor Venus at the mercy of the Pluto, vice versa or are both on their knees. LOL. IP: Logged
Gemini Nymph unregistered	posted October 01, 2005 01:48 PM Pluto would dominate Venus, tending to take away Venus' power over itself. Without aspects to balance this, Pluto-Venus aspects can be as dangerous for the non-pluto person as Pluto-moon aspects. Inmy last relationship it was a trtade-off - my Pluto conjunct his Venus, adn my Venus squared Pluto. So it was OK, actually. In the beginnign we were intensely drawn to each other, and in the end we were both able to walk away freely and wiithout an ugly fight. IP: Logged
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009	posted October 01, 2005 02:26 PM GM- I have my venus conj. his pluto 1'- this is different, yes? I know i am enthralled obsessed and consumed. However, my sun conj his venus 1' as well my mars conj his sun 1' and my sun sextile his venus. My sun and venus are in his 1st house. How does this influence the venus pluto thing? IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted October 01, 2005 02:55 PM My pluto conjuncts his venus. Usually yes it means obsession and jealousy on behalf of the venus person. Maybe both also. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ДЈ) И.ЗДИ.ЗДЈ) И.ЗЈ) (И.ЗД (И.ЗД * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009	posted October 01, 2005 07:00 PM Thank You GM!!! It is weird that i have had this aspect with all 4 major relationships. I was thinking that the planets didn't tightly conjunct all that often? Anywho, thanks again! IP: Logged
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009	posted October 01, 2005 07:22 PM My Pluto is opposite someone's Venus. We form a fire grand trine in synastry. Between both our Venus's and Saturn ( also neptune) Neat stuff. IP: Logged
Lauren unregistered	posted October 01, 2005 10:35 PM IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted October 02, 2005 12:23 PM In Relationship Signs, Linda says that if one personДs venus is conjunct with anotherДs pluto, that indicates Twin Souls or Soul Mates, people who were once the same individual, one half being the male half and the other the female. They have an innate longing for the other and, from lifetime to lifetime, the unite to feel the joy of completion. I know a man whose Venus is in conjunction with my Pluto and certainly thereДs a Silver Cord between us. I havenДt felt for anybody else what I feel for him. I believe our souls are twin. However, since Pluto moves so slowly, that means that it would spend several months in the proximities of the position of his Venus... Does it mean that there are potential hundreds of women who are his twin soul??? http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001275.html I guess no one really knows huh :\ ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ДЈ) И.ЗДИ.ЗДЈ) И.ЗЈ) (И.ЗД (И.ЗД * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
LILYGIRL unregistered	posted October 02, 2005 12:53 PM "They're both on their knees by turns. Never at the same time. " Thanks Lauren. what a great, great description of Pluto Opposite Venus, and your line is hilarious. I am actually the Pluto and he is the Venus. An astrologer recently told me that he was both mesmerized and frightened by my power. I guess it's that Pluto. What you say however about generations is true. He and I are separated by mere weeks. I have not looked closely enough at the charts to glean the trigger. But this bond has plenty of opportunities for both parties to grab an upper hand only to be swept under and over by the other. His Sun sits on my South Nodes and my Venus trines his NN and sextiles his SN. My Chiron conjuncts his Chiron, his Eros and his Venus.... We also have squares flying through space (square venuses) though our Mars are buddies -sextiles. In essence, there is enough mischief and mayhem to keep the villagers clued to their sets. LOL. IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted October 02, 2005 01:05 PM 3. Pluto The Devil Card in the Tarot deck is symbolic of some of the types of feelings we have when in a relationship with someone when we have a Venus/Pluto Conjunction. We may feel so completely bonded to this person in an almost obsessive way. Because of this obsession we will often feel tied down or stifled by the intensity of this energy almost as if it is against our will! We often merge with this person on a very deep level losing our independence and allowing ourselves to be controlled and enslaved to this addictive feeling of sexual love. When we become addictive in our love patterns we often get caught up in appearances and the physical part of the relationship. We begin to limit ourselves, choosing to stay in the dark about other areas of the relationship. When we neglect seeing other areas of the relationship we can start to think negatively about seeing the relationship without this passionate energy and the intensity of the connection. We can become stuck in fear and doubt at this point. I have had my own experiences in relationships with Venus Pluto contacts and if you read Linda Goodmans Relationships Signs books she emphasizes Venus/Pluto as "soulmate" or "twin soul" aspect...there is a very intense and deep love between the parties. It isn't only the Venus person who is doing the loving..the Pluto person is loving the Venus person but with a more "transformative" and intense/possessive love..usually the Venus person is overwhelmed, allured, attracted, consumed, and petrified all at the same time!! It is a vey intense and passionate encounter. When Venus Pluto conjunct in synastry usually other people "see" how in love the two are without any words between the couple..they could walk down the street and others will simply be envious and take notice!! It's an amazing thing! Pluto connections are always intensely transformative. When we are in a relationship with another where there is a Venus/Pluto conjunction...our lives, for better or for worse...will never be the same. Here are some keywords to assist you in better understanding the energy of the planet Venus: Love, feeling, harmony, relationships, ability to give and take, longing and desire for union, sensory pleasures such as in five senses, beauty, sensuality, aesthetic peception, art, talents, good taste, the throat and neck, being vain, temptation, focusing on external factors, what we value, money and how we earn it. Venus is the feminine energy principle in the birth chart. Here are some keywords to assist you in better understanding the energy of the planet Pluto: Deep transformation, the depths, darkness, the source, underground, beneath, psyhological forces, our instincts, power, control, helplessness, dependency, intensity of strength, drive for far reaching and deep changes in self and in others, healing forces, hypnotic, destructive, sadistic, sexual organs, sex, the occult,compulsions, obsession and emotional entanglement. Pluto's deep transformative energy principle is responsible for making long lasting and much needed changes in our lives. http://www.karmicastrology.tv/synastry.htm ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ДЈ) И.ЗДИ.ЗДЈ) И.ЗЈ) (И.ЗД (И.ЗД * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted October 02, 2005 01:07 PM I am the pluto also Lily girl. Venus Trine Saturn Sun Trine Venus Jupiter Conjunction Venus I wonder if these synastry aspects can smooth out Pluto conjunct venus, Ascendant square Venus, Venus opposition Moon that me and this guy have. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ДЈ) И.ЗДИ.ЗДЈ) И.ЗЈ) (И.ЗД (И.ЗД * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
nove731 Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Strasbourg, France Registered: Jun 2009	posted October 02, 2005 01:36 PM My Venus trines everyones Pluto...If they were born from 1985-1990, anyway... IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted October 02, 2005 02:27 PM Wierd. I've been getting the Devil tarot card since I met him. quote: The Devil Card in the Tarot deck is symbolic of some of the types of feelings we have when in a relationship with someone when we have a Venus/Pluto Conjunction. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ДЈ) И.ЗДИ.ЗДЈ) И.ЗЈ) (И.ЗД (И.ЗД * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted October 03, 2005 08:53 PM What sign is pluto/venus in for you guys? My pluto in Libra conjuncts his Venus in libra. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ДЈ) И.ЗДИ.ЗДЈ) И.ЗЈ) (И.ЗД (И.ЗД * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009	posted October 03, 2005 09:56 PM Mystic Gemini- Hi I've been posting on soul unions...same topic I get the devil card too. I do not know what sign. Help me figure it out. It could be i do and don't know it.... This is always a possibility with me IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted October 03, 2005 10:21 PM go to astro.com then click on partner. enter birth details and scroll to the bottom. It will show what planets both of you have in what houses. check what sign your pluto is in then check what sign his venus or yours blah blah is. The very last one is the composite. its both of you combined. shows how they'd be together. If you have problems let me know. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ДЈ) И.ЗДИ.ЗДЈ) И.ЗЈ) (И.ЗД (И.ЗД * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
DragonflyAries unregistered	posted October 03, 2005 11:49 PM I have my Pluto conjunct someone's Venus... from my point of view it's the Venus person who tends to be the obsessive one, almost clingy. But to be totally honest, I will admit to a rather Plutonian habit of manipulation at times. lol I think the strength of the aspect is important here as well... I would use a TIGHT orb for this. In my situation anyone who has Venus at or close to 14 Libra is going to share this aspect with me... Are they ALL my Twin Souls? Of course not... there are other markers of this as well, and I believe Relationship Signs makes the point that these aspects are not "stand alone". IP: Logged
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009	posted October 04, 2005 10:34 AM Mystic- Yes, I do have this... I get confused... between synastry reports and composite. okay... seperate- my venus- virgo 7th house his pluto-virgo 1st house composite- venus -libra 5th pluto- virgo 5th grupovenus said that my venus is in 1st house his venus is in my 9th my pluto is in his 2nd house his pluto is my 7th. my venus conjunct his pluto at 1'1 orb. I am confused.. DragonflyAries- Hi! I agree that it is the whole picture...But i also feel that this one Aspect is significant to me....because of what happened in the relationship.... then ...i also have this aspect tight with my current relationship... i see patterns here.. I seem to be destined to learn the hard way... just trying to avoid the same pickle twice..... Aries moon PS.....These men are older than i between 5 and 6 years. IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted October 04, 2005 03:42 PM This guy's way older than me also. Mmm older men. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ДЈ) И.ЗДИ.ЗДЈ) И.ЗЈ) (И.ЗД (И.ЗД * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009	posted October 04, 2005 04:24 PM Mystic-- yes older men are great when your young.... now my cancer has serious security issues since he's headed for 45 and i'm still on the backside of 30... He never had these issues when we were both younger. He is in the midst of a mid-life meltdown... I am patiently waiting for it to pass. His claws have been extra tight. He is Scorpio ASC.- makes it even worse... and with all the flirty Scorpios i seem to attract... he has been extra clingy... IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted October 05, 2005 08:44 PM Mine's is a scorpio with scorpio moon, leo rising, venus in libra, and mars in scorpio. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ДЈ) И.ЗДИ.ЗДЈ) И.ЗЈ) (И.ЗД (И.ЗД * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
Lauren unregistered	posted October 05, 2005 10:47 PM - IP: Logged
nove731 Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Strasbourg, France Registered: Jun 2009	posted October 05, 2005 10:54 PM Venus - Pisces Pluto - Scorpio IP: Logged
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009	posted October 06, 2005 08:45 PM Mystic Man #1 sun and merc./cancer- moon/Aries-venus/virgo- mars/Gemini- asc Scorp- I also have venus conj uranus :Astro.com says its doomed to failure.... this is nice 18 years into it Man #2 the one who won't go away and whom i can not have sun merc and mars/Scorpio- venus/ libra- moon/Sag- asc leo IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted October 06, 2005 09:44 PM Why can't you have him? Why won't he go away? ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ДЈ) И.ЗДИ.ЗДЈ) И.ЗЈ) (И.ЗД (И.ЗД * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged

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