posted November 17, 2005 12:46 PM              

some of the best moms i know are gems, some of the worst are gems too, thats not the point, but the point is that just like one has to be ready in order to marry, one has to be ready to have children. society tends to foster the thinking that if a woman doesnt want children she is abnormal or cold. UNTRUE!!!!! its entirely the womans choice. if some people had stopped and thought about if they are good parents or not, and if they should really have children or not, maybe we wouldnt have some people with such horrible childhood experiences, some mentally disturbed adults creating chaos in their lives and others.

in general i think airy women, particularly gemini, feel for children on a humanitarian basis, or becoz children themselves are so innocent. they want to change the grand scheme of things--the adoption strategy, the orphanage sponsorships and spending time with abused children and so forth. not many are too into having their own biological children. i also think it has to do with the emotional ties. gemini rules yucky relationships with siblings, and in general, strange and somewhat disharmonious relationships with family. so when you have had a not so good family relationship, why would u want to create more family, and create more misery in your life? doesnt make sense.