posted November 24, 2005 05:18 AM            

And my take on the men love bitches thing. If men love or respect bitches, then I think they have a totally bad taste. I seriously would lose my interest in him if he respects such people. I don't get the whole thing, the book revolves around the idea that you don't need to change yourself or accomodate yourself according to your guys wishes, but you're still trying to change yourself to be a b**ch to get him, you're still changing your personality for him. So its very ironic. I'd say just be yourself and don't be so dependant on your man to make you happy, and you'll be fine. Sorry if I sound confusing, I'm not as eloquent as Lauren lol .

posted November 24, 2005 12:26 PM              

cappy,that was a real good advice to lauren . good! feeling proud to know u .

and lauren, from a man's persepective , i dont think it would be a right thing for your man to get involoved in all this , its not about your mr. idiot's ego massage but its more about your realtion with your current libra .

i am justing feeling how u people can be so convincingly mature all the time , is it a women thing or your writting abilities or what ?

ah, and do u remember , i told u about ibras , i feel its good that u have the chance to see the bad side of this sign .
u know, they are first one that attract among the air people and i have seen all thier sides from close quarters that u might never get the chance too see .
there always be a diff between boy-boy and boy -girl talk.

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CG, soz I missed your reply before.. I'd say it's no go with Cap, but it depends on the person's entire chart.

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U got to find a way ! atleats for me
think think think , i am waiting .

btw, my own way is , once i have moved on , i never go back . and i think , caps do respect that kind of ego thing .

ego or no ego , i am not going back .
well its not about that guy , i just want to know.

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Cancerrg I don't know about the cappy, but I've lots of capricorn in my chart, and I totally could handle an individual attack but I hate groups attack, because for one thing I think its unfair, and I can't defend myself easily since there are so many people. So you could try that if he really deserves it.

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It was completly an individual attack .
i always seem to favour violence but remeber cancers alwayus have an outer shell .
in the last six or seven years , i have been involved in three fights , none on my initiation , infact one of them was to teach a lesson to someone like lauren's mr idiot who was behind my scorp friend's scorp sis .
infact , i adviced him 'to let it go on' the very morning but u know the scorp 's fury

and finally , i am yet to decide to punish him .
i have just moved on , nothing else .

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And my take on the men love bitches thing

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My take , they dont love them . we never love a ***** be it a man or woman or do we ?

just ask this question and u'll know.
we all love nice people .

posted November 25, 2005 09:27 AM              

infact , he is said to slap kasturba, his wife , for not cleaning the toilet herself (it was a job for lower caste people in caste ridden india at that time , he voiced against it , do u know what caste is ?)

btw, have u ever noticed this , libras can make people follow them in a very serious way in a much smaller time than any other sign .
compare it with cancers , we have long lasting realtions but we take a lot more time , ours is more of a either love or hate type realtion .
personally , with me , people either love me or hate me , there is no in between thing .

beside u , (counting your cap moon , not the sun) i know two others who are with cap girls , one of them is the closest friend of mine .
what do u think , attracts a cap girl to libra men , what has been your experience , what was the first thing that striked u , in your man and vice versa.(i have been thinking of this for a while , infact there is a girl in my office , we have daily interaction , i like the way she talks , my guess is she is most probably a aries or a scorp , she normally even uses the eye make up matching her dress (the colour thats used just above eye lashes , what is it called ? )

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CG, soz I missed your reply before.. I'd say it's no go with Cap, but it depends on the person's entire chart.

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U got to find a way ! atleats for me
think think think , i am waiting .

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dont forget this . thats your homework even though your exams are over

posted November 27, 2005 04:45 AM              

some of the acounts say he was a libra but officially he was a cap.

caste isn't same as class .

indian society begining with indus valley civilisation was basically into nature worship and the society was divided into four section acording to the work ascreibed to each i.e.,
priest
soldier
traders
and the untouchables (they stayed on the outer limits of the villages and were basically for the jobs that no one would like to do including cremation etc. )

with time , these four basic went dividing into thousand of sub divisions though hinduism was the main religion .( calling hinduism , a religion is a wrong statement actually , its a way of life rather than being a religion )

gandhi was from a traders family from gujrat (same as archer ) . we normally marry within our caste , so gandhi and his wife were of the same caste .

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I always thought he was very liberal with his wife and was criticised for it.. or did I hear the wrong version of that story? lol

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LOLOLOL.....
ofcourse he was a libearl at heart but yes, he took time and experince to evolve into a better one.
libras are pretty chavunistic and dramatic.(even more than water or fire people )

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Look at all that Aries ..My Gosh CG He slapped this woman? Caste and all.. I'm surprised he got out of it in one piece.

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REALLY!!!!! are aries woman such furious kind ?
btw, what is the way to impress a aries woman ( i want to be ready , incase that office colleague is a aries )
whats the way to her heart ?

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Well Librans are charming, when they want to be, and they’re also detached. It’s a detached kind of charm. They never get TOO involved with people. That’s why they get a great review from most people they’ve ever met.

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EXACTLY!
u know, i once asked my libra friend , how he could manage all , so well . he said , dont ever be friends . his logic , once u become friend , u also start seeing the bad side of the people more critically in realtion to how that would affect your realtion with him or her . and that exactly is the problem with us ,cancers .

compare it with gems , they are the darlings of all but not really leaders , i feel , if they can show a bit more empathy , they have everything to lead or rather control people .

this friend actually once organised a strike in school and astonishingly even the small children -the juniors didn't have thier lunch that day just bcos thier big bro wasn't having his . see, the resmbalance with gandhi!!!!!!

infact he is one of the few people that my principal has ever said sorry to , we had tough rule , the missionary envoirn !

but ofcourse the bad side of him, he is a big chauvinist , wont even let her gf go out alone . imagine why we cancers always get the bad name hahahahahahahah............
his gf always asks for me to make him understand .

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When they think something isn’t right..even if it’s someone else’s relationship and it’s not really their business, they’ll get involved and say it.

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Yeah i do that . i have done that in your case too . remeber u had a tiff .......

my logic , why we do is , being a friend , its my duty to protect u , even though i know u are quite capable of doing so but then i'll be there . but yes, i get your point .

and remeber cancers always come froward for the underdogs .

i have put a hypothetical question to all my friends , what would be thier reaction in situation where i am being thrashed but its being done so for the right reasons .
cancer, scorps and libras say , they 'll come forwrd to beat up the guy whether he is right or wrong just bcos he dare touch thier friend (thats me)
gem and sags would rather ask whether i am morally right or wrong .
and well that has been my exp. too .

as i said , i have been into three fights but none were initiated by me , one by scorp and two by libras .

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Whether it lasts or not usually they have a lot of fun together Cap and Libra.. up until their differences kick in

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do u really think this is a long lasting relation . my own feeling is , it might be so in romantic but once the reality sinks , i men the responsbilities and all , this realtion has big diferences , even more so , say , a cancer and gem one

and lastly , i ahave left behind that cap guy , but i am readying my self for the next battle with some other of his clan (just joking , dont worry hahahaha.... ( remember , u once said , everything is like a battle for guys )

posted November 27, 2005 11:24 AM            

Aww cancerrg thank you . Even I'm proud to know you! You're a nice person!

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hee I know that feeling. My exams were all over this month so I was very happy about that as well. That doesn't make you immature silly :P What's your Mercury sign? Just wondering.. I always think you're very tactful, maybe it's conjunct my moon.

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heehee, good ideas, I don't think he'll show up though. But apparently I'm getting a german shepard puppy for Christmas.. Maybe I'll train him to bark his head of at anyone who rings the door bell lol and I'll put a sign on the door like my best friend has.. it says "3 days of the week there are two highly dangerous police trained Rottweilers here. You guess which 3" lol

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LOL Oh thats a brilliant idea . It would work effectively with me, Its kind of a bit embarrasing to admit, but I'm kind of scared of dogs, and everyone laughs, because I'm usually very capricornian, calm and serious and all, a dog comes, whoosh! whole behaviour changes, I become this jumpy, nervous person, and I run really fast!

Oh and I agree with you on the Cappy/Libra thing. I've had a lot of Libran guys attracted to me, and its kind of funny, the best sextile relationship for me would be scorpio no doubt. So your post make sense, but I do not have any silent inner strength, I'm trying to cultivate it, but its hard-ish.

posted November 27, 2005 11:25 AM            

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I think the way it starts out is, Libra approaches Cap.. Cap is more likely to not notice Libra at first, but once Libra comes over and puts on the charm..Cap thinks it’s sweet and funny..though she keeps her cool exterior and doesn’t really flirt back..which makes Libra more attracted. To some extent the Cap girl will always see the Libra guy as childish in a way, and sometimes she’ll love that about him because he lightens her up and puts a smile on her face..other times it will get to her, because he’s being either irresponsible or immature or something along those lines (in her opinion).

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Thats so true, it happens exactly like that, wow you're so accurate . Anyways yeah at the beginning I never notice it, but they're sweet and anyways I can't date them, because according to my mum its not the age for me to date, I should start dating since when I'm 17 or something, and I agree with her on that one, atleast in my case! I just don't think I'm ready. But in actuality, its a bit weird, because the sign I'm attracted to most would be Aries, not Libra (well don't really know many) and a close second would be Cancers.

We're learning Gandhi at school now . Anyways Gandhi actually started out bad, he used to smoke and etc, and he stopped when his mom or dad told him to stop, then he grew up, learnt from his mistakes and became a great personality. So it just goes to show that even great people like Gandhi make mistakes, but we can learn from them and become a better person

posted November 28, 2005 11:33 AM              

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It would work effectively with me, Its kind of a bit embarrasing to admit, but I'm kind of scared of dogs,

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hahahahahahaha........
you are too much , really !
scared of dogs ,scared of crackers . what are u not afraid of?

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Anyways Gandhi actually started out bad, he used to smoke and etc, and he stopped when his mom or dad told him to stop

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posted November 29, 2005 10:55 AM              

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I've never met a Libra man who I'd describe as chauvinistic.

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may be there is a differnce between the austrilain and indian samples

aries girl scenario: ok, i dont think , i am the first kind for the very arian aries.

second kind: i am more like what u described . normally silent incase i am not very known to the people around (my weird jovial side comes up only when i am in my group)

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The other important things are..never act patronizing, never say "shut up" lol.. you did say that to me once and I ignored it..but if I were an airy/firey aries..and that happened in real life it would've earned you a slap or two

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oh, yeah i remember.
but let me tell u , why i did it .
i felt u were getting into unnecessary arguments (and i feel , it was more nasty than an simple argument ) , i did it bcos i felt being friend , i could cajole u into 'let it go thing ' thats the normal way we do it and i think being with a libran , u understand this style of stopping such arguments bcos thats the way they do it too .

as i said earlier , for us friends mean , they have all the freedom to help us , protect us or even sanp at us (but it has to be an honest effort )
and that was it was . hope u agree, that it was honest .
i didn't even know that u felt bad for it .
u could have said it , no problems with that .always feel free .
thats the cancerian way, hope it helps u understand us a bit better.

personally , i dont feel , i ever take time to say sorry if i think i am wrong and i do say sorry to just let things move .
i have done that to u too , if u remember . i still feel your first ever comment wasn't in good taste . but i did give benefit of doubt .
oh and yeah , i owe u an apology (ok, double sorry-sorry for being so late too but seriously i didn't know u minded it ). always feel free to tell me .and thanks for being so patient .thanks!

back to that girl , u know the first day we talked , i snapped at her too
it wasn't her mistake , not even mine but my gem boss had poked somewere .

but then even , she talked very normally just half an hour afterwards . infact , that was the first thing that made me notice her ,(she is quite old with the org. but she has recntly joined our dept.)
that day onwards , i started marking her way of conducting herself . i am seriously impressed . she isn't very beautiful , but GOD! the way she carries herself , terrific!

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That's about it I think lol..It’s kinda long sorry.at the end of the day you should be yourself..no point putting on an act, and then disappointing later..

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I don’t know about this. In my experience Libras are most likely out of anyone to ask whether a person is morally right or wrong..whether they are a friend or not..and not be biased. My bf’s a perfect example because he won’t ever agree with someone straight away (including me)..he’d have to know both sides.

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Well I think anything Capricorn starts is long lasting (Saturn)

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huh...
naah , i dont agree . ok, may be thier intentions are as such but in my experience , they dont calculate the lastness of the realtions as good as they can do other things .
i have seen caps getting into realtions with a single motive -sex and u could even add just plain attraction too.

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90% of guys love fights and the idea of fighting in general.. Girls laugh at that lol

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men are from mars and women from venus , there are bound to be diffences .

posted November 30, 2005 12:46 PM              

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honestly.. with the first type of Aries girl I described anything said in a patronizing manner, will be taken extremely badly..and this goes for all fire signs.

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and honestly, first type of girls dont really interest me .
but, yeah i am trying to control this foot in mouth disease ! hahahaha........

about the cap girls , may be u are right , may be not . my experience is based on men .
and may be i have seen the bad side of this sign .
as for girls , apart from my sis (have u seen her wedding pic? ) the only other girl, i know is my libra friend's gf.
so here again, i dont really agree with u based on these two experiences . though i have never checked thier charts but from the behaviour pattern , they both seem to have water in them.
the only thing that i might agree a bit is the security thing.i think thats one aspect that attracts them to the cancers.

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hehe actually he doesn't stop them lol He keeps going and I keep going until there's really nothing left to say...

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And lol no I’m not laughing at you..but I find that funny with all guys in general

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Its indeed funny! but what to do, thats the way we are

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You have an Aries asc and you can be a bit blunt sometimes, which doesn't have to be a problem in most situations..but girls just don't take to that very well, so try to curb it a little around this girl.

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