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thosa
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posted November 14, 2005 09:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The way people apologise and their style of saying sorry depends a
lot on their personality and zodiac traits. No wonder Leos embarrass
you when they say sorry while Arians will actually annoy you with
their apology?..

Aries: For starters, Arians think they are so sweet, they could not
have possibly said or done things that need an apology. So in the
unlikely possibility of them actually going down their knees to
apologies, it will be a simple sorry. Nothing less, nothing more.

Taurus: They are so scared to face others when they make a mistake
that by the time they resurface to tender an apology, the damage is
done. So Taurans end up making foes out of friends because of their
laxity in apologizing.

Gemini: Geminis think they are infallible and therefore will never
really apologies for anything. But once they realize, they prefer to
act as if nothing happened, and behave normally with people who have
a problem rather than remind others of the incident by tendering an
apology.


Cancer: Cancerians will make you feel sorry for demanding one when
they make a mistake. They are the legendary characters that burn
hands and slash their fingers! In order to display the quantum of
their repentance. Their repentance is dangerous.


Leo: Leos are a delightful bunch even when they are trying to make
up for their follies. They will go down their knees, buy flowers,
put up sorry posters.. do everything colorful to flatter you and
make up for their mistakes. In fact it's fun to induce them to make
a mistake and let them apologize for it.


Virgo: Virgos will first formally set aside a time and date and
inform them what they want to tell you. Then they will mentally
prepare themselves to talk out the same things. They will finally
draft the script and read out whatever they want to. In short, even
their heartfelt apologies sound like well-drafted scripts.


Libra: They are very vocal once they realize their folly. They never
ever hesitate to come clean and admit their mistakes. In fact, they
will go out of their way to convince you about how genuinely sorry
they are.


Scorpio: Scorpios are formal and think that tendering an apology is
more of a formality. So instead of just saying sorry, they will send
a formal mail or send a card, whatever it takes to avoid direct
confrontation.


Sagittarius: Sagittarians don't believe in being sorry or
apologizing. For them, it is human to err and therefore saying sorry
is just redundant. Interestingly, even if others make mistakes,
they are pretty cool and don't expect much from them.

Capricorn: They can't take a simple sorry. They need reasons,
explanations, written letters and the works to get elicit an 'ok,
you may go now' phrase. They are hard to please and even harder
to appease.


Aquarius: They are sweet, genuine and innovative when they think
they are wrong and need to undo the damage. Aquarians are easy on
their mistakes and don't take too much time to do
their sorrying.


Pisces: Pisceans don't easily give in because they believe that
everything is about perspective. So if somebody thinks they made a
mistake! , it's because they have a wonky perspective. Pisceans and
apologies? No chance!!!

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pixelpixie
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posted November 14, 2005 09:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I openly apologize, preferably to their face.
I admit my mistake, and even rationalize, explain the cirtcumstances around it.. maybe like my Moon, which is Capricorn.. but as far as Scorpio's doing it by letter.. no way..
I need feelings and eye contact.... cleared air, then apology.

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Marina
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posted November 14, 2005 10:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I NEVER apologize . Any situation may be considered from different angles
So it's always easy to find someone else to blame

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AC in Leo
Moon in Pisces

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Mama Mia
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posted November 14, 2005 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uh Thosa dear I strongly believe that Pisces and Aquarius are mixed up...

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cancerrg
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posted November 14, 2005 10:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Geminis think they are infallible and therefore will never
really apologies for anything. But once they realize, they prefer to
act as if nothing happened, and behave normally with people who have
a problem rather than remind others of the incident by tendering an
apology.

So true ! lololololololol.....
i have the personal experience

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Peri
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posted November 14, 2005 10:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Taurus: They are so scared to face others when they make a mistake
that by the time they resurface to tender an apology, the damage is
done. So Taurans end up making foes out of friends because of their
laxity in apologizing.

at thosa

I used to always apologize always! even if I was sure I had done nothing wrong!

now I have learnt to protect myself from those willing to make me feel guilty

but if I really was I will have no problems with saying: "hey I am sorry I did not mean to upset you / I shouldnt have done/said this etc".

The stings of remorse hurt really bad

Such thing as ability to admit your mistakes or say sorry if you wronged depends on a person not a particular astrosign, it seems we are back to it-is-a-good/bad-astrosign labelling again

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proxieme
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posted November 14, 2005 10:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ph.
I apologize when it's your fault.

Everything's about perspective, but many Fishies care to much about your feelings to push a matter that's not important.

If, on the other hand, it's a matter they take to heart...

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aqua
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posted November 14, 2005 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow thosa i very much agree with the aquarian way ,but iam not sure about scorps ! that's not the way my mom says sorry !lol !

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Neptune's Muse
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posted November 14, 2005 11:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How truuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuue!
So true concerning the Taureans, Libras and Virgos I know! LOL! Especially the Taurus, they lose friends like that, yes! I stopped talking with a Taurus friend because of that! They can be so insensitive. Not true concerning Leos though, they never apologize, they are never wrong, they are gods in their own heads. They are the idols, we are the tribe, if the idols/deities messed with you, you don't expect them to be sorry! They expect you to think that they have done that for a higher reason beyond your mental capacity to grasp. LOL! That's Leos for you.

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hot_ice
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posted November 14, 2005 12:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini: Geminis think they are infallible and therefore will never
really apologies for anything. But once they realize, they prefer to
act as if nothing happened, and behave normally with people who have
a problem rather than remind others of the incident by tendering an
apology.

He he...kinda true,It is kinda sick to admit that your wrong,so rather let it go,it IS understood that I'm sorry,so big deal...

Another way is trying to make a joke of it..

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sd09
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posted November 14, 2005 01:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so tru about sagg

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sxycrzykewl221
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posted November 14, 2005 03:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dunno bout the leo not admitting wrong, I screw up fairly frequently and when I do, I have heartfelt apology for anyone I have wronged. I can't rest until all is forgiven...Leo sun,moon and merc....maybe with a flair for the dramatic, but my apologies are very real, quick and heartfelt.

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Lousianagrl
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posted November 14, 2005 03:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I must take after my ascendent with apologies (Pisces)

Even though my sun is aquarius, I can't apologize in any way. I never have been able to because I'm stubborn and I hardly ever think I am wrong in an argument. I hate saying Sorry ! I hate it... And if I *HAVE* to I will just say "sorry"
There's no I'm Sorry just sorry. Even to my boyfriend. Well, sometimes I make it sincere but thats just to keep the peace

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thosa
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posted November 14, 2005 03:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HAHAHAHAAHHA I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW MANY PPL THOUGHT THAT I WROTE THIS STUFF!!! IT'S A COPY PASTE PRODUCTION LOL!

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Lauren
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posted November 14, 2005 07:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Aries: For starters, Arians think they are so sweet, they could not
have possibly said or done things that need an apology. So in the
unlikely possibility of them actually going down their knees to
apologies, it will be a simple sorry. Nothing less, nothing more.

Na I try to apologise genuinely, when I've hurt someone. I absolutely hate hurting people (pisces in me? lol) and I want things to work out calmly in the end. I would prefer to apologise and sort things out rather than leave it and feel bad..and have the other person feel bad. When I was younger though I would not apologise no matter what. My Libra nan totally turned that around. It changed when I was about 10, complete switch in personality. I can tell for a fact that it’s only because of her that I’ve changed in this area. I feel fine apologising. I really think it’s for the best sometimes and people’s happiness means a lot to me.. a lot more than my ego

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posted November 14, 2005 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isolaede     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancerians will make you feel sorry for demanding one when
they make a mistake. They are the legendary characters that burn
hands and slash their fingers! In order to display the quantum of
their repentance. Their repentance is dangerous.

Hmm… LOL perhaps true perhaps not. I tend to dislike people demanding apologies from me- mostly because I need a chance to work things out in my mind before apologizing. I want to figure out what I did wrong and how I could have done better so when I apologize it will be sincere. I always apologize for specific things. I’ll never say, “I’m sorry I hurt you.” Instead I’ll figure out why I hurt that person, and say “I’m sorry I was an idiot and did not call to let you know I’d be out late. That was foolish and it won’t happen again.” To me, the latter is far more sincere then just arbitrarily tossing out an “I’m sorry” any time someone asks for it. But I’ve also been told that I don’t apologize enough for the hurtful things I do so I probably need to beef up my apologizing skills. As for the burning of hands and slashing of fingers – haha – If I’m feeling incredibly guilty I’ll go way out of my way to make amends. I’ll spend a ton of money or time trying to set things to right. If I say I’m going to do something when apologizing then I do that thing religiously thereafter, cutting myself no slack. So maybe that’s my repentance, and maybe it is a bit scary. : )

And the Leo's description... is true however I'd add this - from my experience, they rarely come out and say "I'm sorry..." They just do super nice things for you which is their substitute apology. This comes from growing up in a household with a Leo dad, mom, and sister.

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posted November 14, 2005 08:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teaselbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Na I try to apologise genuinely, when I've hurt someone. I absolutely hate hurting people (pisces in me? lol) and I want things to work out calmly in the end. I would prefer to apologise and sort things out rather than leave it and feel bad..and have the other person feel bad.

Me too. I'm a lot like Peri as well, in that I used to apologize whether or not something was my fault.

*edit ~ I'm an Aries.

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SunChild
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posted November 14, 2005 08:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunChild     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a leo and the aquarian one sounded more like me.

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dorkus_malorkus
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posted November 14, 2005 09:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just had a confrontation with a Gemini. Well, an ongoing thing really. She sent an e-mail expressing her views, but she won't really apologize. She thinks that I am at fault. I told her that I am sorry for what happened, but she felt the need to bash me, saying that I am dishonest, and I changed for somebody else (which I suspect she is jealous.) In all reality, she wanted ME to change for her, to become the person that I was (shy, insecure.)I told her that I've changed of my own accord, and we would have to discontinue our friendship for now. It hurt, but I think it was for the best.

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lalalinda
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posted November 14, 2005 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
notice that mutable signs don't generally have a hard time with apologies, after all its just words and a tool in their communicative skills.

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AcousticGod
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posted November 14, 2005 09:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why is it that Capricorn's seems to be about how you should apologize to a Cap rather than how a Cap apologizes his/herself?

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dorkus_malorkus
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posted November 14, 2005 10:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I noticed that too AG

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aqua
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posted November 14, 2005 11:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah AG ,let's ask thosa !

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cancerrg
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posted November 15, 2005 01:28 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I want to figure out what I did wrong and how I could have done better so when I apologize it will be sincere. I always apologize for specific things. I’ll never say, “I’m sorry I hurt you.” Instead I’ll figure out why I hurt that person, and say “I’m sorry I was an idiot and did not call to let you know I’d be out late. That was foolish and it won’t happen again.” To me, the latter is far more sincere then just arbitrarily tossing out an “I’m sorry” any time someone asks for it.

EXACTLY!
but people who do not understand cancers think of this as half hearted apology . in my view , its he best apology bcos i am accepting my mistake and promising not to repeat it . i feel our apologies are really heart felt rather than being a brushing off the matter thingy .

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posted November 15, 2005 03:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i would beg to differ. if im wrong i usually do apologize. if i hate the person sufficiently, i wont. but 90 % of the time i do. in fact i was always apologizing to ex hubby virgo, and ex leo as well. i stopped the vicious cycle with the aries and we take turns apologizing now--apologizing whenever its each ones fault only.

i recall Linda saying something about the Gemini girl to the affect that they can apologize so charmingly that the angry person forgets what the heck they were wronged about in the first place. its true in that when i really want to make someone feel good and apologize to them for my fault, i wheedle and whine and smile and bat my lashes and buy them chocolate and give them hugs till they cant resist

if i think about it i actually like apologizing to people i love. it makes me feel good, cleansed of guilt. maybe pluto in the first requires apologies for power in relationships to be balanced. likewise, if it is the other persons fault and i dont think i see enough remorse in their words/actions, i would end a relationship asap. apologies are important.

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