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Topic: Aries: "I never said that!"
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ariestiger
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posted December 10, 2005 05:40 AM
 
Leyla, what you speak of is NOT exclusively an Aries thing. I have experienced it the most from my husband and mother, who are an Aqua and a Sag respectively. It's to do with controlling people, it's nothing to do with Aries.IP: Logged |
bullhead
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posted December 10, 2005 11:09 AM
huhh, ic, its an aries thing. (i know not all, but some at least)
now it makes more sense, i know this guy (moon, venus in aries) he used to do dat, (still is, but i learned how to handle him now) he would say something and forget totally he even mention it. I dont give a care if ppl have that characterstics if they dont screw up my scheudle, but he did screw up my plans the first few times, i would make adjustment for him (cuz NORMALLY when ppl set up a time they try to would stick with it, LOL) but after a few times he ****** me off. i found out i dont have it take it personally and it would waste my energy to even get mad, so wht i do is, DO the same to him , so he knows exactly how it feels. cuz he is the one always wanted to see me, so i see him once a month or once every 2 months when I feel like it, then if he say "hey its been such a long time since i see u last time" i would say causally "no, its not dat long actually, i just see u 2 weeks ago" i know it will **** him off big time. i dont think its a mean thing to treat him this way, there is no point of lecturing him, he is who he is. im sure sometimes they say things they mean it @ dat moment i can totally understand, but if they are too coward to pick up the phone to communicate and straighten it out. IM sorry, dont waste my time. i will not adjust my scheudle to fit in a man scheudle, cuz they THINK they are busier than me. LOL i think everything is 50-50 go both ways and meet each other in the middle.
but i do like this sign, they dont really bother me like most Leos. i tend to be very forgetful as well (on small details). and this aries moon guy hate it, u see? double standard again!! no cool. once again, i love to try to accept who and how ppl are but just DONT screw up my plans big hunk.
(we both have sun in the first house, so its all GOOD)IP: Logged |
oddball
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posted December 10, 2005 12:31 PM
Exhibit A: ariestiger's last post. He's trying to brainwash us into believing we just "misunderstood"! Lol. Its okay, I'm just kidding. Actually I'm not  .IP: Logged |
ariestiger
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posted December 10, 2005 01:43 PM
oddball: " "He" is trying to brainwash" etc, etc.?
"She"!!!! Thank you very much!!!And no, I have never desired to brainwash anybody...have no time for it. Like I said, plenty of other signs play controlling denial games, mostly those with a lot of planet in Fixed signs. Lastly, remember that Aries is a salesperson...along with Scorpio and Gemini...and naturally they'll want to win you round to their opinion...won't they? Whether you choose to go along with it is up to you, and if you find, for whatever reason (and this may not even be the Aries' fault) that your fortunes take a downturn because of it, or you don't like it...hey...don't blame us!! (Of course, they could be equally likely to take an upturn, in which case you would be singing our praises!!) Leyla, LOL, I don't think Aries-Aqua relations are very good right now (I'm just getting divorced from Aqua hubby) so we'll have to agree to differ, OK? AT IP: Logged |
nove731
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From: Strasbourg, France
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 11, 2005 11:39 AM
This isn't exactly the same thing, but I'm in Journalism at school, and one day we were choosing articles for the next issue of the paper, and this girl asked to do an article on the GSA at our school (the Gay-Straight Alliance), and my Media teacher (an Aquarius) said no, and flat out denied that there was one because he doesn't like gay people (nevermind the fact that there are three of us in that tiny little class). He simpley said that there had never been one at our school, because no one at our school is "sick enough to sponsor a club for faggots".The club even has a picture in the yearbook from last year. The girl showed it to him, and he STILL insisted that it doesn't exist. I love journalism, but I hate my teacher. IP: Logged |
oddball
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posted December 11, 2005 12:09 PM
nove731, just get the as$wipe fired if you can. By the way it sounds, (s)hes a bad enough teacher that (s)he shouldn't even be teaching.IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
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From: Portland, OR, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 11, 2005 12:30 PM
I agree with AT...it's not exclusively an Aries thing...I've experienced it with other signs and feel it's a control sort of thing or as I like to call it, mind f***. Kind of a game to them, playing with your mind and coming back to you later, if the subject comes up, they imply that you either interpreted the situation/conversation wrong or like to see things your own way when the reality is, you remember EXACTLY what was said in the original conversation. Oh yes, I've been there.IP: Logged |
teaselbaby
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From: Ohio
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted December 11, 2005 02:49 PM
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Admission of guilt combined with an apology would be a sign of "weakness." Admitting any wrong doing is out of the question.
Actually, I think that admitting you're wrong when you are wrong, is a sign of real strength.
I am also apologetic (too much so, in the past). I can't defend your ex-boyfriend's actions, but I can tell you that I've known a few non-Aries to be the exact same way, flatly denying that a certain thing was ever said or done, when I know differently. IP: Logged | |
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