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steelrose
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posted December 05, 2005 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm... I always wondered which star sign my boss was... We clicked straight away… I used to adore him until recent events who made his impulsive and arrogant nature come out.

Someone told me his birthday was in November… So I’m trembling thinking of the possibility of having upset a Scorpio man… So the wrath of the never forgiving will sweep me from the face of Earth… But actually, he could be a Sagittarius… So I’d have a better chance of being understood and forgiven…

I haven’t met hardly any Sagittarius men in my whole life so I don’t know how they are like… I do know several Scorps… In which way are they different when they approach battle?

How are Sagittarians overall? And as bosses? How do they behave when they are mad at someone? Do they explode? How do they treat you if you choose their enemy to work with? How if they think you are betraying them even if you are not?

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posted December 05, 2005 05:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi SR

In my experience Saggies, especially if they have other Planetary placements in their chart will explode then forgive but will probably go on about a situation for ages bringing lots of exagerration and humour into it.

Scorpios - quietly seethe be incredibly sarcastic and plan revenge (if something hurt their pride enough). But they can be incredibly understanding if they like you.

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posted December 05, 2005 06:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry should have said if they had other planets in Sag lol

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steelrose
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posted December 05, 2005 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, yes, he likes me a lot…

He miscalculated. He doesn’t want to admit that I’m worth a lot. I’m sure he did what he could but then couldn’t admit he wasn’t powerful enough to give me what I wanted… He is impulsive, very much… He pushed for me against others after only a month of knowing me…

Another boss, a Scorp and his rival, has been after me since I appeared in scene. They hate each other. They are taking this personally, as if I was a trophy… The Scorp got my CV first and gave it to the other one because he couldn’t hire me just yet, to ensure that I was in the company instead of getting another job with the intention of recovering me in the future. I was exactly what this one was looking for. He liked me a lot straight away and hired me. But the Scorp started his campaign to win me back. He offered me a job I couldn’t reject. My actual boss thought I’d stay with him no matter what, so he formally offer me the Scop alternative, confidently waiting to give him a blow with my negative. But I chose to change, as the Scorp had already ensured before proposing him to make me the offer. That was back in June.
My actual boss has been keeping me, tricking the other around while the Scorp waited. He won while I was containing the Scorp, while I felt that my actual boss valued me and really needed my help for his more urgent project. The Scorp could wait, he was only pushing because he feared he’d lose me at the end… But recently my actual boss failed me. He lied to me and I discovered it. Maybe he didn’t mean to but I felt it that way. I started to feel very insecure and deeply betrayed, undervalued. So I went to the Scorp and ask for his help. So he took me out of his rival’s project. I’ll be out in January. My actual boss has been fumant, very hurt and angry with me… Because he lost me and he can’t accept that he needs me and that he caused it.

He is somehow naïve… I thought for a while that he was a Leo. Impulsive, overconfident and warm…

Now it appears that he has started to forgive me. But I still see pain and betrayal in his eyes… even when I’d say he’s starting to give way and understand. He overreacted, even raising his voice, trying to give me a lesson…

But then the other day, he appeared to be dying for getting my acceptance back, as a little child fearing to be rejected and feeling inapropriate… like avoiding me… and started to warm up when I treated him nicely…

But that disproportionate hate and dislike for the Scorp… That’s not typical of a Sag, isn’t it? And what about that inflated ego?

Why do we get along so well? Because I’m a Virgo and there’s a mysterious link of understanding between Scorps and Virgos? Or because he is a Sag and a have a triple conjunction in Sag (Moon-Neptune-Asc) and 3 planets in the 9th house? He was born in November 1964…

He is not such a travel freak… I am… He should be if he is a Sag, shouldn’t he? He is not bad with languages, though… Neither am I…

What would a Sag do that a scorp would never?

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posted December 06, 2005 03:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a Sag boss who has Mars, Venus and Jupiter in Scorp and only Sun in Sag. He was more of a Scorp than Sag.

My cousin has her Sun in Scorp and 4 planet stellium in Sag, she is much more of a Sag than Scorp.

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posted December 06, 2005 09:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Look at his eyes. Does he have an intense stare?

Because if he does then he could just be scorpio.


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posted December 06, 2005 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think it is all about 'that fatal stare of Scorpio'

I've met a number of Scorps that have nothing 'scorpionic' about their stare, moreover they even look mmm very innocent and harmless, you'd never tell by their looks they are Scorps...

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posted December 06, 2005 01:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As a scorp/sag I couldn't tell you where one ends and the other begins...maybe my Sag makes me a bigger giggler Most of my Scorp is internal...hidden in my mind.

Could be the revenge thing though. Scorps can come up with some wonderfully creative methods of revenge whereas Sag..I don't think...could give two hoots about getting back at someone

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posted December 06, 2005 01:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wierd. All the scorps I know have that stare. I guess everyone's chart can change things

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posted December 06, 2005 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You still can see his pain for losing me and his hurt pride in his eyes. He is a bit careless and makes mistakes because he doesn’t measure well the situation. He doesn’t know people’s natures that well… I have seen two Scorpions in similar situations and they are much more cautious. They freeze and detach from the situation, control it with iron-like precision… This one loses control more easily…

It’s less protective… Too confident in his own power, sometimes arrogant… Also cheerful and easy-going when you are on his side… There is no middle ground, you are with him or against him… I thought he could be a Leo… He tries to manipulate people with promises and nice words… saying what you want to hear trying to calm you… no the brutal truth you’d expect from a Scorp or a Sag…

He has more enemies than friends, specially among his subordinates… But I liked him… For some reason I still do… Even after how he has treated me…

Piercing stare? Hmmm…I’d say intense… But it’s warmer than other Scorpios I know, less invasive… If he likes you, he’d treat you as a mate, being easy-going and jokey… He judges easily and quickly, almost superficially, trusting first impressions, not always fairly…

He is not controlling, not as other Scorpio bosses I know. He gives you total freedom. And he’s generous and flexible…

How is a Sag when he is deeply wounded and upset?

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posted December 06, 2005 05:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sags are usually very blunt and get right up to the point.


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posted December 06, 2005 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueRoamer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpios can also be very blunt and don't beat around the bush either.

Odds are hes a scorpio since 2/3 of the month is occupied by scorpio, but you never know.

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posted December 07, 2005 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey Steelrose,

You can read about my Sag ex-boss if you are interested. Does mine sound like yours?

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/007179.html

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posted December 07, 2005 02:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sag bosses(I have 3)explode and then try to make up for the damage.

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let ther b light
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posted December 07, 2005 05:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey steelrose

"do they explode"
thats an understatement.....my sis is a double sag....sun n moon......n when she's angry NO ONE can ignore her.......she has piercing eyes...esp when she's angry....she can shout at the top of her(or fr dat matter anyone's)voice....and she'll make sure she has made the opp person u/s her point......she can scare anyone without raisin her hand.........FOUL TEMPER to say the least....sometimes i think she has a lotof scorp in her chart....but as far as i no she has only mars in scorp.....she remembers every slight.......even years later.......even if the opp person has forgotten.........ther is a diff tho in scorp and sag.............sag does not mind and may even enjoy making scenes..........but scorp hates making scenes.........sag also has a huge ego but ithink the diff bet sag n scorp is that scorps no exactly wher they stand, wheras sag may see a more inflated pic of themselves........
"How do they treat you if you choose their enemy to work with? How if they think you are betraying them even if you are not?"
VERY HURT.....thats how they feel and their ego n hurt together may make them aloof frm the person.........but they'll also make it a point to tell u exactly why they are behavin lik that....

"Impulsive, overconfident and warm…"
"He overreacted, even raising his voice, trying to give me a lesson…"
very sag

i think ur boss is a scorp.......but he probably has a couple of planets in sag OR in leo/aries......

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posted December 08, 2005 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, I suppose he was very blunt when hurt…

Hmmm, about the 2/3 of the month… He mentioned he went to buy his bday present with his brother on the 26-27 Nov weekend… Does that make him more likely to be a Sag over the 2/3 odds?

Peri, I read about your Sag boss…Well, mine hasn’t got that obsessed about me… I suppose the difference is that he is married and has two kids, he couldn’t consider to fall for me romantically… He’s a bit more passionate about me professionaly than he is about any other employee, that is true… I was his little treasure, his jewel… And he’s mad because the other one stole me from him…

If he’s a Scorp, he’s less of a Scorp than other Scorps I know… He opened the door for me to leave himself… A Scorp would have never done that, he’d have measured all possibilities and controlled the situation… The only thing that knocks me out is that seething hatred and contempt he feels for his rival…

His rival, a Scorp, is much more elegant making him bite the dust… Closing all his posible escaping routes, preparing the trap without leaving holes… And then, appearing magnanimous for him, so visceral and impulsive, to swallow his pride…

Well, I see that Sags do explode… Making up for the damage? It took him around 10 days but he has started to give way… It’s funny because he is the powerful one, he is 13 years older than me… and still he behaves like a child… Feeling inadequate, unable to control his hurt feelings and somehow fearing my rejection…

We had an important meeting a few days ago. At first, he was a bit stiff and cold. The clients adore me and I did a good job… It felt like I had the upper hand for some reason… I acted as if nothing had happened, he felt accepted back and relaxed towards me… so much that started to approach physically, even whispering to my ear… After the meeting, he felt much warmer and relaxed…

Actually, Diya, after what you have said, he sounds more like a Sag… I don’t know… Yes, I don’t think he knows exactly where he stands… “Inflated pic of himself”… yes… Bad temper, very hurt…

In November 1964, there isn't much in Aries or Leo...

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posted December 10, 2005 12:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All right, I am a Sagittarian (15th born), and I run a small company. None of the team disliked me, though they thought I am arrogant. Infact I am arrogant. Basically finding a middle groud was tough for me. I mean, either I let them have their way, or I had it my way. But I had solid trust from my team, especially the core people I had fired 4 guys straight away, but not without giving chances.

As of now, I have had some serious issues with life (personal and business), hence I am in the process of restructuring things, but I still have my ex-team call me (who is working for someone else), and says they would love to bring things togheher with me all over again!

Is it good or bad? Dunno!

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posted December 10, 2005 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, Moon666!!! Thanks for your comments This was exactly what I need… People with a lot of experience in Sags… or even better, Sags themselves! And you are especially wonderful because being a Sag, you are a man and a boss!!!

I think with my boss my colleagues precisely dislike him because he is too arrogant… He has an inflated picture of the situation and a distorted image of his position and everyone’s worth… He believes no-one is irreplaceable, which is true to a certain extent… but then it appears as if he is so self-suficient that doesn’t need you… when he does… I was a key person for his project in a very delicate position because of the other boss... I can't believe he behaved as he did...

He is naïve too… He blindly trust some dangerous people, those manipulative ones that apparently are so warm towards him, so friendly, but who would stab him on his back if it was required… and distrusts others with good intentions blinded by his ego…

What you say about solid trust is true for him. He doesn’t control you if he thinks highly of you. And yes, either he has his way or let you have yours…

That inability to cope with the middle ground is worrying. You are with him or against him and unfortunately cooperation works better most of the times.

What is really weird is that I still like him a lot. And his arrogance and short-sightedness, his lack of regard and his blunt and unfair treatment hurt like hell.

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posted December 15, 2005 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MOON666!

Well, just adding that my boss is treating me nicely again… He even smiles to me and says hello warmly. I know it still hurts him, his ego is bruised… We were good together in meetings and so on, he was confy relying on me… and now he lost me… But he appears to have forgiven me after his temperamental explosion…

Doesn’t he sound as a Sag?

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posted December 15, 2005 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
he sounds totally lik a sag.........

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posted December 17, 2005 11:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
check out the moon that tends to make a big difference for me.

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I have three sag bosses and three of them are different. But one common thing i have noticed about them is all of them are decent and kind. They are thorough professionals but with a human touch. I was very friendly with one boss, but once he shouted at me. After that I've been always formal with him. It is not difficult for me with my Aqua moon and 3 planets in Scorp. Nevertheless he is very caring and try to crack jokes to open me up (which i resist ) He reminds me of my sag guy who I am trying to get over

All of them have good communication skills. If you ask me to choose the gentleman sign, Sag is my choice. May be I yet have to meet a sag jerk

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posted December 23, 2005 09:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I found out!!! It was bugging me… So I found the way of getting it out of him… Even when we don’t speak much nowadays… I can be so sneaky with my look of casual innocence!!!

HE IS A SAG!!! Yupppieeee!!! 27 November 1964.

It was soooo funny… He is still so hurt, mainly because he knows he lost me and even hiding from the truth, he knows it was his fault… It was the company Xmas party yesterday. He didn’t approach anyone but my group of friends, and bluntly addressed me, almost inappropiatedly… He wanted to talk to me… He was a bit uneasy but I reacted with warmth so he relaxed a bit… I think he can’t help liking me, even when it would be easier for him not to…

Most of my friends were silent and feeling uncomfortable by what he was saying (with no ill intention, just out of impulse)… The other boss (the Scorp) was following the situation, controlling it from the distance, not liking much that he was near me… And then he victoriosly made his appearance… He wouldn’t have appraoched if I hadn’t been there… They avoid each other… It was like “Are you talking to MY girl? In a very “feel-grateful-because-I’m-forgiving-your-life” manner…

I looked to his chart… He has a stellium in Virgo. And I have a powerful triple conjunction in Sagittarius, sun in the 9th and a powerful Jupiter (my chart ruler). I’m a Virgo Sun- Sag Moon. He is a Sag Sun – Virgo Moon… Funny, isn’t it?

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