posted January 01, 2006 07:49 PM              

It was really amazing when we all sat down and put these stories together.

~*~ With one girl he was the all-american sporty jock who talked about his team, boasted of his athletic feats, and was never seen without his letterman jacket and ball cap.

~*~ With me he was the dangerous guy with a troubled past, he spoke in mysterious phrases, dressed in all black, wore a leather jacket, listened only to industrial heavy metal and drove a motorcycle.

~*~ With a third girl he was sophisticated and refined. He was a wine expert, who boasted of his ivy league education, frequented art museams, and wore poet shirts and listened only to classical.

He told me he had a daughter, told another girl he had a son, and with a third he never mentioned having any children at all.

posted January 02, 2006 12:32 AM            

On top of that I have Venus in Sagittarius (conjuncting my Sun) that may cause me to keep things more above board.

I did date a Leo that had an Aqua moon and Venus in Gemini (Mars in Sag). He wasn't much into dating more than one person - but he was going through a divorce. Once we broke up he decided to reconcile because he couldn't stand not being with someone. It was sad.

I did have a relationship with someone that had his Mercury in Gemini in the 1st house. He was incredibly deceptive. His Mercury also made a hard aspect to Neptune in the 7th house (which was in Sag).

posted January 02, 2006 02:53 AM              

One more time: Gem in Venus does not mean ipso facto someone cheat. I haven't never cheated NOR would I. It's just not my nature. My Venusian side is very mutable, but that doesn't make me dishoest or untrtustworthy.

posted January 02, 2006 08:46 AM            

OK its the trine with Mercury, Neptune and Jupiter.

Neptune easily colors the truth or out and out lies and Jupiter can expand the truth completely out of proporton and they promise more than they can deliver.

posted January 02, 2006 09:56 AM              

I really cant relate to geminis. I really like them because I like people who are straightforwards and direct in their expressions. It doenst bother me.
Must be all that Sag and GEm in me.
I may probably have been that way inclined if not for the fact that my thoughts are filtered through my Cancer Sun before they come out.

Now what I would attribute to my Gemini Venus would be the fact that first and foremost, I am attracted to intellect and articulate people. in relationships I want excitement, I want the guy to live up to my definition of MAN and I also need a lot of space(choice).

In my past relationships *including friendships* I would always think there must be somebody better out there for me. Somebody who is my dream person. BUt I quickly discovered that for me this doesnt exist.

posted January 02, 2006 11:45 AM              

My mother had venus conjunct neptune, and jupiter with gemini rising trine Neptune, and pisces moon conjunct midheaven and she was constantly telling lies. Her Scorpio sun would try to be good but she couldn't help it. Not much earth in her chart except Saturn in Virgo and Cap mars.

Worst of all her Venus was on the DC which made her constantly obsess about beautiful things, and want to impress others. I can't imagine a person who lied more for material gain.
It was like living with Scarlett O'Hara. She would lie to everyone and went through two husbands, BK, our home everything to fund her lifestyle which she justified. She drove my father nuts with her idealized world, and he died partially from the stress at 48. Her latest A Sag had a nervous breakdown and lost everything his home, his law practice, to drinking and is now very ill.

the worst b/f liar was neptune opp mercury, with a venus singleton-liked beauy and an expensive lifestyle. My Venus in Aries doesn't like deceptive people or Scarlett O'Hara types.

posted January 02, 2006 01:41 PM            

The one thing that bugs me the most about my chart is that Venus and Mercury in Gemini. It is not so much as that the def. of a Gemini venus is false, but that most of it is true. I'll explain:

Only three people have managed to catch my eye for more than a day, and I've cared deeply about then from 1-3 years already:

1) Sag Sun/Aqua Moon/Taurus Asc
2) Pisces Sun/Taurus Moon/Sag Asc
3) Virgo Sun/Aqua Moon/Virgo Asc

I always think about these three people, sometimes at the same time (comparing them), but most of the time I think about the Sag.. ironic how his sun opposes my venus.

I have never, and will never, cheat on anyone. Never when I was with one of these guys did I think about the others. Maybe sunconsciously I did, but consciously I made the choice to just avoid seeing or talking to them. I have too much loyalty to the man that I choose to degrade my or their integrity and trustworthiness.

It's either one of them, or none of them ever.

"What you see is what you'll never get."