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sweetlibra
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posted January 09, 2006 12:35 AM
 
Have you ever taken revenge on others?
What I meant by revenge is intentionally hurting someone cuz they have done something in the past that hurted you.I am a libra. when an acquaintance hurted me with words, I waited for an opportunity to use the same words he said and mentioned "as you said once". Strange enough but I knew I would get a chance! I have a stellium in scorpio and Aqua moon. please share your experience. Especially did a virgo ever take revenge on you? IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted January 09, 2006 01:11 AM
A Virgo with Scorp Asc and Leo moon laaaver  of mine was obsessed with revenge. If I flipped on the news and saw a story about him at the top of a tall building with a sniper rifle I would just sort of raise my eyebrows and sigh... "well,I tried". It wouldn't surprise me at all.
My neighbor boy has the same placements and he spent most of his time patrolling the neighborhood in camo with a paint ball rifle. He has just run off to join the Army infantry because he said he wants to kill people. I supported him in his decision because I think it will be just what he needs, if it doesn't drive him mad. He came back for Christmas (after begging his mother to find a way for him to escape the military, we sent him some inspirational letters) and he is much more mature. In God's hands now.  
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LeylaLeFay
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posted January 09, 2006 01:28 AM
Interesting. I had an ex obssessed with the idea of revenge. He had a vast collection of books devoted to the topic: The Big Book of Revenge, The Revenge Encyclopedia, The book of Dirty Tricks, Screw unto others: Revenge tactics for every occasion, the Anarchists cook book, And many many more.He was a real paranoia case. Slept with a knife by the pillow. Would only have a clear shower curtain in case someone tried to sneak up on him while bathing. Would sweep behind all four tires before pulling out of the drive way in case someone had planted a nail there. Had a locking gas cap least someone try to pour sugar in the tank. Oh, and he did this thing where he'd slip a piece of paper in the crack above the door, so if it was missing or moved when he got home he'd know someone had broken in. MysticMelody- your story was interesting because as a teen, he would spend his time patrolling the neighborhood dressed in a black ninja costume with a mask, weapons and spy equipment. He was a triple Cancer. Sun, Moon, and Ascendent. And so was his mother.  As you can see he's got a lot of pluto problems. According to the astrologer who taught me, this means serious trouble. They even sell a book called "Healing Pluto Problems." I wish he'd have bought that one instead. After I left him, the bottom fell out and I hear he's now become a drug addict. Well, I tried. IP: Logged |
hot_ice
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posted January 09, 2006 02:34 AM
Revenge ....yeah all the time...you hit me,I hit you...I'm mafia! I'm not the kind of person who forgives and forgets...forgive maybe but not forget... And some how,when I do it,it's almost pleasurable...It's almost like,whos laughing now,your busted! Not a scorp stellium but an 8th house one,with scorp asc...cancers can be as bad as scorps,at times even worse.. IP: Logged |
sweetlibra
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posted January 09, 2006 02:54 AM
I know one Leo with cancer moon & Asc. She's the greatest revenge taker I have ever seen!
She took big revenge on her boy friend by humiliating him infront of his family and friends, abused his ex girl friend and friends who were gals. big mess!!IP: Logged |
LeylaLeFay
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posted January 09, 2006 03:01 AM
hot_ice- Yeah, but do you patrol the neighborhood in costume? I agree 100% about cancers. Big time emotional manipulators. This man was never ending high drama. He claimed his mother (also a triple cancer) was crazier than him. Some story about how she was fighting with his father in a resturant, and in the middle of it all she leapt up onto the table and started singing showtunes. The neighbors said the police were called to their house every week due to domestic disturbance. IP: Logged |
oddball
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posted January 09, 2006 08:42 AM
The most revengeful person I know is my sister. She cannot let ANYTHING go. She has a cancer moon btw. She not only tries to get back at people who (she perceives) treated them badly, but she also gets revenge on people who eclipse her in some way and 'don't deserve it' because 'they didn't try half as hard as she did'. Very jealous and very vengeful.I would have to say that I am biased against cancer moons and try to stay away from them. Personally, I just don't like 'em because it seems to me that their emotional needs are much more important to them than anyone else's, and they have a warped view of the world as it relates to them, which is often very different from reality. IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted January 09, 2006 09:28 AM
yup Cancer moon rings a bell. A girl I knew with this placement found it very hard to let go of past hurts.. specially romantic ones and she plotted revenge a lot.. But I’m not sure if she ever went through with it. IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted January 09, 2006 11:33 AM
got to agree ,we waters (especially cancers and scorps ) do strike back !
i do ! ( so beware !!!!hahahahahaha....) IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted January 09, 2006 11:41 AM
what goes around comes around...............IP: Logged |
thosa
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posted January 09, 2006 12:04 PM
quote:
Have you ever taken revenge on others?
What I meant by revenge is intentionally hurting someone cuz they have done something in the past that hurted you.
Yes I have taken revenge over others but who hasn't?
From the age of 6 to 13 or 14 I used to take revenge over very small and petty matters. I'm still vindictive, but don't like to take revenge over minor things as I see it as time waste. I often follow the saying "what goes around comes around", so over petty matters I think the perpetrator will get his punishment from somewhere else than me. But if its something that really angered me then yes I will get back at you. And the best way to take revenge is actually to NEVER let ur enemy expect revenge from u. Never let him or her know that u r planning revenge. The more the revenge shocks him/her the more satisfying it is to get revenge. So my kind of revenge is a cold, sneaky and controlled revenge. Sun Cancer-Leo cusp/10th, Moon Libra/1st, Virgo rising, asc ruler/10th trine pluto/2nd.
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pidaua
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posted January 09, 2006 01:28 PM
I don't take revenge on people.. which I suppose sounds surprising since I do have an Aries Moon and Pluto conjunct Ascendant, but I do also have a Sag Sun / Sag Venus and Mars in Pisces.I believe that Karma / the Universe will take care of things. It seems that everyone that has done me wrong, ends up getting their just rewards without me having to put any energy into it. My big fault though is to blame myself for things that have happened, but I have learned to lessen that to some degree. I have known people that are consummed with revenge. It eats them up and tears them apart at some point. To me, even the act of revenge ends up bringing more bad energy back to the person. Now, I will defend myself and those I care about to the end. Most often my anger or defense comes out when I see someone getting attacked (verbally or mentally....and yes, physically) but I don't normally have to exude any force. IP: Logged |
funkyaquarianpixie
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posted January 09, 2006 01:57 PM
Personaly i find revenge best served cold and no one serves it colder or funnier than Karma. I save my glee for when they get theirs back. Revenge is usually impractical and bad for my Virgoan nervous belly.. I find a complete snub to be more my style than revenge.Altho i have been known to go to places ex's have been looking my damned hottest and being very polite to em. im not sure if this classes as revenge. IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan
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posted January 09, 2006 02:28 PM
I also have a moon in aries (scorpio sun, capricorn rising, taurus true node) and Neptune Sextile Pluto (cause apparently pluto aspects are revenge oriented). But I believe in karma these days. As a kid I use to be violent in my revenge, very hot headed. But I have learned that being hot headed or getting worked up is really lame, it looks stupid when I see other people get angry so I know not to these days. And most if not all people outside my family see my as very chill. a few people in my family think I have an attitude problem but I guess family will do that to you. the outside world percives me as chill, shy, creative and funny and thats what matters to me.IP: Logged |
beebuddy
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posted January 09, 2006 02:28 PM
Often times I have found that it is fine to just tell someone when I want revenge. It's been said "That hurts my feelings and now I want to hurt you." Then the person usually says something like, "well that is silly because I didn't intend to hurt you, what I meant was..."That seems to work fine. I have a policy working towards facing the "bad" side of myself. In fact, being honest about my own selfishness usually reveals less than evil intentions to myself and whoever I am involved with. IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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posted January 09, 2006 02:31 PM
sweetlibra
***Have you ever taken revenge on others?***yes .. i'd mainly put it down to plutonian potentials within my chart .. aspects between sun/moon and pluto .. the other person be a female scorp in this case ... basicly at the time i perceived said person to be making my immediate living enviroment hell .. actualy they were having their own scorpionic revenge on me at the time .. and to my mind there was no need for it .. i mean we had a pretty good friendship at the time and she had a bf. .. she wanted me as well .. i wasn't into it .. so home became hell .. i rather was attached to 'home' at the time .. ..
anyhow .. i would refer/connect my subsequent actions more to the chinese sign of the snake .. as in .. confuse / mystify the adversary .. strike without warning probably be the basis of it .. .. i found absolutely no pleasure in it .. ***what goes around comes around ***
.. i got the sack from work not too long after ..
.. may be more to come .. who knows ..
.. i've been the target of revenge .. .. from a scorp/pluto influenced libran sun male .. but it wasn't realy thought out and failed as a consequence ... it was no big'ee .. minor amount of property damage ( his moon taurus .. ) apart from pluto and scorpionic influences in a chart.. mat be worth noting the opposite sign taurus .. as in that the 12 signs also have the potential traits of their opposite ...
.. but i'm wondering if the revenge thing is something the water signs are in tune to ..
.. then there is revenge for the sake honour .. leo scorp mix ?? ..
wonder if a birthdate for the mafia could be obtained .. who was the first mafiaso ?? .. can smell dinner Burning .. must dash .. IP: Logged |
bullhead
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posted January 09, 2006 02:37 PM
"Revenge is not always sweet, once it is consummated we feel inferior to our victim.'"i used to think..dont get mad, get EVEN
but now i learned all i hurted was myself... so, try to hold ur impluse not ur grudge IP: Logged |
beebuddy
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posted January 09, 2006 02:38 PM
LOL, this string reminds me of a past friend that was a Scorp Sun and Moon with Libra rising. He was insane. He was the typical "bad" Scorpio, and in some ways not so bad.He would break up with his girlfriend before sleeping with other women because he wouldn't "cheat". Some weeks he had more than 10 women! Anyway, I remember once for revenge he wiped his butt with this guys toothbrush and sat and watched him brush his teeth with delight. Like I said, this guy was a riot. He bragged about that act of revenge all the time, no regrets. Nuts, lol. IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted January 09, 2006 03:07 PM
"if you are going to pursue revenge you had better dig TWO graves..." chineese proverb IP: Logged |
funkyaquarianpixie
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posted January 09, 2006 03:10 PM
nice proverb. IP: Logged |
sweetlibra
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posted January 10, 2006 12:00 AM
beebuddy, that is a good technique. But I never take revenge on those with who I can say like that.
If a near one hurts me badly, I just close off till I can forgive / vent.A cancer/Leo cusp gal has taken revenge on me for I dono what. May be cuz of my Aqua moon which turned cold towards her once I found out she was not worth a friendship. She played many games and made my life miserable for 6 months. I didnt take any revenge but ignored her completely. same with a leo gal. Even when she wanted to contact me after years, I blocked my friends from giving my mob no. I didnt want that mess and manipulation in life again.
It could be karma.But I choose not to invite them to life again. IP: Logged |
bohemianjazz
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posted January 10, 2006 12:08 AM
Usually I won't wait a long time to have revenge. Owing to my Aries Moon and Aquarius Rising, I don't usually hold grudges. I prefer to get back at them right there and then. Not always a good choice for being so impulsive, but at least I get it off my chest...IP: Logged |
nove731
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posted January 10, 2006 01:21 AM
I'm not particularly vindictive.I just have a habit of saying mean things to people who I don't get along with. For instance. Girl who goes to my school rubs me the wrong way. Seriously. She's all right some times, but she's so stuck up, and annoying. I can count the people that actually like her on one hand. Everytime someone calls her on it, she uses her past as an excuse. Like a bad childhood is an excuse to treat people like crap? No. Example conversation: Her: "Hahaha, OMG, That shirt is awful! I'll have to buy you a new one!" (We're in front of the whole class when she said that...Embarrassed the living hell out of me.) Me: "Only if I can buy you a new face. That one's awful." I made her cry. I felt bad afterwords, but she always has something to say. She thinks she's the most attractive/talented/smartest person in the entire world...But she's very far off...:-/ IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion
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posted January 10, 2006 01:54 AM
lol that's harsh...but o well. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted January 10, 2006 03:55 PM
I hope my ex never finds those books! hehe I met him almost ten years ago and at the time I didn't understand enough about astrology to pay attention to much more than his planet placements. His gentle Virgo appearance and manner brought a lot of grief down on him during high school. His Leo pride and emotional nature was very hurt and angry about that and attempted to champion himself, and taking cues from that observant Virgo nature, had the perfect ammunition to feed his defensive Scorp Asc. Add it all together and he created a defense in his mind that viewed the people in the world in the darkest light possible, bringing out the dark nature of Scorpio, eating away at himself with his hurt and angry plans for revenge.
Of course everyone has the same energies, but I think his particular placements sent him strongly in the wrong direction beginning in youth.
Another Scorpio Asc old friend of mine was always seeking revenge against her friends for real or imagined slights too. The whole Scorpio "cut off your nose to spite your face" syndrome applied to her as well. One "shining" example of this trait was when she "bumped" into her friend's car while the friend while driving down the road in front of her. It was a brand new car and her friend was shocked, astounded, and mad as hell. The Scorp Asc I am talking about was a Sun Sag so part of it was a "joke" to her, but she was also doing it to be mean and to "get" her friend... for whatever reason.
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