posted February 20, 2006 06:21 PM              

Aww I miss the days when I had no privacy

*edited to add

posted February 21, 2006 03:07 PM              

This one Aries/Cap Moon makes me believe there is a pattern of caretaking, or being the Dad in relationships. He likes to give advice, knows everything, is bossy, self centered, needs to connect, emotional, hardworking, and that means a lot coming from a Taurus.

He seem so strong I almost feel he's too strong for me! And I only feel that way about Leos.

So, they can be faithful, that is this one is married, his wife is dating but he's not, he did talk me up but I directed him to a divorce support group and he's going. He's good at listening to women, and that's a plus.

Aries men are good cooks, devoted, decorators, well dressed, and well spoken, not usually crude, like being married or head of households, need to be needed. Apparently they like to listen.

This married Aries teacher I know is much more of a listener and a good guide than my ex Cancer b/f, which suprises me. There is a lot of pride and fear in Aries which I can relate to, having Aries Venus and Mars in Sag/1st house.

But I do know when I am not enough, and Aries men to me, seem like they need to feel like a child sometimes, lots of support, and a creative outlet, painting, decorating, games, puzzles.

Anyway, I play a good Auntie. I am used to playing the supporting friend role with my male friends, and I like it better than romance/drama.

Natasha
Taurus/6th house

posted November 09, 2014 01:02 AM            

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Originally posted by SavageScorpio:
Aries can be so incredibly overbearing (my mom is an Aries), they're very quick to pass judgement and tell you exactly who you should be, what you should do with your life, how you should act, EVERYTHING. They are notorious talkers, and most of them posess an intense energy (Mars) that can make them soooooooo incredibly sexy... they're go-getters, they're always moving about it seems, have a very active life, and they're incredibly entertaining. When it comes to love and relationships however, most Aries have an extremely short attention span, and they are drawn to perfection, because they have huge ego's, and also they have a mother complex, most of them *guys*, where they want someone to take care of them, or someone to take care of.. and then when they get that someone to take care of, they boast about how they don't want to take care of someone, and when someone is there to take care of them, it cramps their manlyness ... they're pretty confusing, .. it'd be nice to be ab le to have a normal relationship/friendship with them, and just understand their perspectives on life, especially regarding relationships, (they're very good at looking into other peoples lives logically, etc.. but when it comes to their own feelings/lives... it's different) but they don't ever view the opposite sex as their equal (I'm scorpio so I kind of understand this..it's the whole "mars" thing).. it's true of both genders (my mom is the same way). The thing is, if Aries could find someone who is their equal, someone who's strengths are their weaknesses, etc.. and get over themselves most of the time, if the could find someone like that, they'd be a lot better off (most of them though, are all about the challenge like I said, get bored, and don't view the opposite sex as equals) Most of them need someone to put them in their place, but at the same time, not make them look bad, ... and they get really really really really really turned on when you are ****** off and about to knock them out... so yeah, they may try to get you angry on purpose (even if you realize this, just play along.. they will literally drive you out of your mind some of them, like I said, they love it when you're mad.... even if you are throwing things at em..I think it makes them feel important or something haha to affect someont to an extreme) (be careful though, because if you make enemies with one.. well it can get nasty..and they love the challenge, whatever it is, until they see you break) , and naturally they do this anyways I notice (my mom hahah)... they like to push buttons... I don't know, most people have some kind of emotional outlet... smoking, eating, etc... Aries just go off until you cave and then they want to devour you .... and make everything all better. They are huge freaks... but whereas the mars energy of Scorpio can be controlled, Aries can't really control themselves, so infidelity can be an issue too (depending on venus/mars placements). It's rather tiring. So incredibly hott at the same time, but you can't really build anything stable on that. Aries are the "babies" of the zodiac too, they need a lot of attention, but at the same time, don't even try to get too close to them... they like the chase, and most likely once it's over, they've probabl already got someone new recruited and will forget you entirely and act completely aloof when you show any kind of emotion or surprise. they're very much people persons... and they have networking/enterprising abilities that amaze me, they're made for the corporate/business world. I love most of them... they don't really get me, but I find em interesting. Not all Aries are the best of people, most drug dealers, extortionists, and criminals have heavy Mars/Aries placements, but they always have a recurring backup/stock of new people to feel sorry for them, rescue them, have faith in them, and they are VERY good at talking their way out of ANYTHING, twisting ANYTHING, it's really unbelievably fascinating and kind of sick at the same time. Now not all of them are like that, but some of them will stoop to the lowest of lows. The Aries men with Venus in Pisces are incredibly sweet, the water influence really tones things down..makes them more sentimental. Aries with Venus/mars in Aries or Leo, they are complete .. firecrackers..TNT... and incredibly sexy, but unless you play by their rules 100% for the most part, or can beat them at their own game, or are just as explosive as they are... be very careful. They're definetly good people to have on your side, very intelligent, very social, and they have intense energy. Aries with Cancer moons are kind of mother/father figures in some way, whether it be a plant, a cat, or YOU. Oh and all Aries think that they know EVERYTHING, they have a VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY hard time admitting it whenever they are wrong, and they're quick to try to justify their wrongdoings, when it would just be better to admit things, and be honest. They're caring people, and they worry A LOT. If they love you, and something is going on in your life, ANYTHING at all, it affects them like it's their own problem and they'll go after you like "how dare you", and it's like DAMN .. it's my problem okay, and you may not ask for their opinion, but if they love you, you'll get it, just remember it's because they care, and to have their attention is something special, although it can feel like a curse? With those Aries, their close ones are really the center of their lives, but at the same time they resent them because of it sometimes. They all show love in very different ways, (depending on Venus, that has a lot to do with it, because the energy of mars/fire really overshadows everything..)the ones with the cancer placements are more nurturing (can be suffocating, or sweet at the same time).. the ones with the heavy fire placements are incredibly fun, where you'll remember them forever, but very short lived.. and I don't know any that have heavy earth placements.

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