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ScorpSoul
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posted March 31, 2006 02:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does that make for weird power games or some form of emotional abuse...
I'm with this guy in a non-committed affair...I don't like it but I'm okay with it for now at least. While he is affectionate in private, he is not in public. He adores teasing me to his own admission, which I love in private because it is usually caring and light.
But in public his teasings take on an acid edge that just hurts me badly: he does it mostly with a common friend of ours.
I had asked him before why he wasn't affectionate with me in public and he replied after a light hesitation that it was to put me off balance...does he feel threatened by me in someway and that is his reaction to me...Is it my pluto conjunct his ascendant which says that I exercise a total magnetic influence on him...
Curious to know...

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wilsontc
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posted March 31, 2006 02:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
scorp,

It is difficult to tell much about a relationship with only one inter-aspect to look at. Your Pluto (transformation, also control) conjunct his Ascendant (self) could indicate he feels you control him in some way. This may be his way of indicating he is in control of himself. Also take a look at his birth chart and see if he wants to have conflict in relationships, or if there is something in his energy that conflicts with yours in some way.

In control,

Tim

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ScorpSoul
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posted March 31, 2006 03:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Wilson,

Here is a copy of his chart at astro.com. Now he has an absolute fear of control in any way within relationships...it gets to the point of paranoia sometimes. When he said the thing about putting me off balance or to "distabilize me", which were his exact words, I thought that revealing. We also have a saturn squaring venus in our synastry, which I definitely also feel in our interaction.

Would love some help in getting to the bottom of this...cause he isn't mean as a person, or so I think

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ASTRO LADY
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posted March 31, 2006 04:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wilson,

What about Pluto conjunct someones Sun in Synastry...what about pluto conjunct mars?

Thanks in advance...you expertise is always appreciated!!!

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wilsontc
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posted March 31, 2006 05:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
scorp,

In his chart he has Pluto (transformation, also control) focused in his 12th house (spirituality, also confusion) conjunct (energy is combined with) Ascendant (self). So, perhaps on one level he is confused about control issues, or on another level feels that he needs to "get control" (connect Pluto into his Ascendant).

Your Pluto aspects his:
- Sun (self-expression)
- Moon (home, also emotions)
- Mars (being, also action)
- Uranus (friends, also rebellions)

These aspects are NOT in his birth chart, so this is a NEW source of Pluto control power...coming from YOU. While this could be OK when you and he are together, when he can "sort of" feel in control. But, out in the open, he may feel a need to PROVE he has some control over the relationship.

On your side of things, his Saturn (duty, also restriction, authority) squares (energy needs to be combined with) your Moon (home, also emotions) and Venus (relationships - which you mentioned). So he can be harsh to both your emotions and to the relationship. This is also NEW energy to you, not to be found in your birth chart.

Taking a look just at his birth chart we see he has Gemini (thinking, also talking) modifying Mars (being, also action, anger) conjunct Venus conjunct Saturn trine (energy goes easily with) his Libra (relationships) modifying Ascendant (self), so he might easily use restrictive, relationship, talking-anger in his personal relationships.

Not exactly "mean" but certainly not the most pleasant experience! If you DID decide to get "serious", this sort of behavior could get real old real fast!

Relating,

Tim

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wilsontc
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posted March 31, 2006 05:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
astro,

Pluto in a synastry is about "power", specifically the power one person has over another. The conjunction indicates a combination of energies. One person's Pluto conjuncting ANYTHING in a synastry chart will indicate that this person "overpowers" the other person in some way. And, for some people, they might ENJOY this!

Powerfully,

Tim

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ScorpSoul
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posted March 31, 2006 06:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow!!!
thanks a bunch Wilsontc! it all makes sense now: everything you said correspond so well with how I feel when I am with him: comfortable and calm in private but definitely afraid of what his behavior towards me in public especially in front of that common friend of ours...I certainly feel the power of his Gemini tongue...and thre is definitely a teacher (saturn)-student aspect to our interactions which I don't mind in private but in public, definitely leaves me on edge

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savanna20
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posted October 05, 2008 02:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about my pluto squaring partner's ascendant?

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