posted April 07, 2006 07:32 PM              

So I wonder with a combination of those two aspects does it mean I may have more of a chance to be alone the rest of my life?

I am still holding out hope.

posted May 12, 2011 10:55 PM            

I'm new... thanks for having me

I have the Venus square Uranus, I also have Moon conjunct Uranus. I have had throughout my love life a complaint that I am too unstable, or too unpredictable, for them. It has really driven me mad, and inside I feel like screaming (and recently did complain to my latest love) "..too unstable for you?? How do you think I feel??". it does annoy me because I have to live with the tension, and do so to my best ability but, others outside of me cannot recognise the progress I have made, or, empathise with the way I get thrown around inside, emotionally.

This aspect is probably highly accentuated for the fact that, my Venus is in Capricorn (Ascendant is also), so I am attracted to (and can seem to be myself on the outside), pretty earthy, practical stable types, I am not really in to Uranian types all that much because... wait for it.... they are too unstable, unpredictable and ungrounded!!!

I have learned to deal with this situation, coming to realise that, I am both! There are many facets to a person. Also, I am not unstable as far as I am concerned, I have zingy inspirations, and sudden insights, and that yes, I am indeed more changeable than some, but that doesn't mean I am unstable if I am aware of it consciously, and can work with it.

I am in an off relationship now, with another Aquarian (I am Aquarian with his Capricorn Venus also square his Uranus. There is an empathy there which is comforting. When I say to him - "How do you think I feel??" , well, I think this resonates with him, and he does get what I am saying. Empathy is a lovely thing

He still thinks I am too unpredictable for him however

posted February 22, 2018 10:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Selena:
Hmm, I don't know,

I don't believe that just one aspect can completely obliterate many other good aspects, so what is the point of other aspects, then?
Why not, if this is the case, always just look at Venus and Uranus, and then when we see a square or opposition, just throw the towel in and say, NO,NO,NO, you may have all these wonderful Sun-Moon trines/conjunctions, Venus/Mars, Moon/Ascendant, etc, but because you have Venus-Uranus square, it won't work, just forget it. Well, I don't think so. And, it is well known in astrology that the Sun, Moon and the Ascendant are more important planets than Venus and Uranus. What I mean is, if someone has amazing aspects with someone between their respective Sun and the Moon and their Ascendants, I think than Ven-Uranus square is just a supporting act so to say, and not the main cast.
Even Linda says something about the importance of Sun, Moon and Asc aspects in the introduction to her "Love signs". Here is the quote:
"...It is worth all the time and trouble it takes to compare two horoscopes for compatibility, because when you find trined, sextiled or conjuncted relationship between two Sun signs - and also trined, sextiled and conjuncted relationships between mutual Sun and Moon signs, plus a positive interchange of the signs on the Ascendants with the Luminaries - Love than takes on a deeper dimension. Love between two people whose personal auras have thus harmoniously blended creates the kind of vibration poets write about, and can manifest marvellous magic."
I've read the entire "Love signs" book, for every sign combination, and in every combination she always mentiones, besides the Sun sign compatibility, all important Sun-Moon compatibility, especially the utmost importance of so called positive Sun-Moon aspects.
So perhaps Venus-Uranus is really hard on couples who don't have very good basic compatibility (Sun, Moon, Ascendant), but we saw in several examples in other posts how others have managed to stay together besides having Ven-Ura aspect. This is why it is so good to have people contributing with their own examples, or people they know, otherwise, we would just take any useless astro cook book, read the chapter about Ven-Ura, and consider the relationship doomed. Just my $.02 on this....

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posted February 24, 2018 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
But what if the Sun and Moon signs aren't compatible by sign. But there is a trine between the Sun and Moon?

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posted February 25, 2018 08:53 AM            

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Originally posted by jkxx:
Love,

that's what it does. It'll make the relationship interesting for a couple of weeks and then end it abruptly. I call it the relationship harakiri aspect. One thing I'm not sure about is whether it's the venus or uranus person who forces the relationship to fall apart.

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I've got this natally, and you've just described most of my relationships... It can be weeks, months, even years - but it usually ends abruptly. When it does, I'm not so shocked, but the other person is.

posted July 26, 2021 09:12 AM            

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in addition, check for what they call "shared affinity". in other words, say a couple has a venus-uranus square. say the venus person has a venus in aquarius and the uranus person has uranus in scorpio (im just using my own personal example here). then let's go a bit further and say that the venus person has venus in the 8th house and the uranus person has uranus in the 11th house. you can probably see how this square might work very beautifully because there's a house similarity.

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