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Topic: Seducing a Gemini girl
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Swerve unregistered
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posted May 15, 2006 08:39 AM
Right - tips please. I want her and I'm going to have her. We've been kind of friends for 4 years and I have run out of patience with us missing each other with other relationships and the usual life drama that always gets in the way.Besides, she turns 24 next week so the immaturity that irked me before isn't there anymore (I hope). Also, I can become impatient with lack of communication, excessive games (irony being my question here itself I suppose, but sod it). Can someone describe the typical behaviour of a Gemini who may want you and have wanted you for years but other things have got in the way? I want to be patient and understanding with her and play a long game if nessecary. I have gone from crush to infatuation to obsession to frienship with this girl and she's still around and aware of all of it. We are very honest with each other and she is showing a kind of "loyalty" to me which is the biggest way to win a Scorpio-driven Piscean heart like mine. She does seem a bit scared of me in a way as well, and in a way that can only be good if you know what I mean. She has also told me that I am her favourite bloke when drunk and proceeded to hang all over me for the rest of the evening. I simply looked after her and let her rest her head on my shoulder in the car when she passed out (which I loved of course). I suppose I should put our details: Me: Sun Pisces 02°32'48 03 direct Moon Scorpio 28°51'41 01 direct Mercury Aquarius 06°51'57 02 direct Venus Aquarius 02°53'51 02 direct Mars Gemini 20°17'23 07 direct Jupiter Aries 22°50'42 05 direct Saturn Cancer 27°05'42 08 retrograde Uranus Scorpio 07°05'13 11 retrograde Neptune Sagittarius 13°49'30 01 direct Pluto Libra 11°18'03 10 retrograde True Node Scorpio 15°36'41 12 direct House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Scorpio 26°41'25 2nd House Sagittarius 28°47'39 3rd House Aquarius 10°25'56 Imum Coeli Pisces 19°55'41 5th House Aries 19°03'05 6th House Taurus 10°08'30 Descendant Taurus 26°41'25 8th House Gemini 28°47'39 9th House Leo 10°25'56 Medium Coeli Virgo 19°55'41 11th House Libra 19°03'05 12th House Scorpio 10°08'30 Major aspects Sun Square Moon 3°41 Sun Trine Uranus 4°32 Sun Square Ascendant 5°51 Moon Sextile Venus 4°02 Moon Trine Saturn 1°46 Moon Conjunction Ascendant 2°10 Mercury Conjunction Venus 3°58 Mercury Square Uranus 0°13 Mercury Trine Pluto 4°26 Venus Opposition Saturn 5°48 Venus Square Uranus 4°11 Mars Sextile Jupiter 2°33 Jupiter Square Saturn 4°15 Saturn Trine Ascendant 0°24 Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°31 Her: (don't have her birth-time, but think its around mid-day so only put this info) Sun Gemini 01°01'37 10 direct Moon Taurus 20°40'28 10 direct Mercury Gemini 15°06'15 10 retrograde Venus Aries 20°18'07 09 direct Mars Libra 01°04'19 02 direct Jupiter Scorpio 02°20'14 03 retrograde Saturn Libra 16°05'22 03 retrograde Uranus Sagittarius 02°41'28 04 retrograde Neptune Sagittarius 26°20'04 05 retrograde Pluto Libra 24°36'13 03 retrograde True Node Cancer 14°03'33 11 retrograde
Advice please. From the head to the bed.
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Ingrid unregistered
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posted May 15, 2006 12:41 PM
Hi Sweve! I am a gemini girl with mercury in gemini and my true node is cancer as hers. I was born around mid day too but my moon is cancer. Anyway, from my point of view it is hard to say If she feels anything else for you more than very special friendship. Gemini girls usually like being sourounded by friends and have a lot of opposite sex friends, I have had very close male friends, actually, all my boyfriends start being very close friends, but not all my male close friends ended up being my boyfriend!Some of them not because I didn´t like them, but just because of the circumstances. I encourage you to be direct, because If all this gemini mix-signal thing is confusing for people, friendship is real, so the worse thing that can happen to you it is to come back to the current situation, If she doesn´t like you as a boyfriend nothing is going to change about your friendship, however If you don´t force this situation, this could go on this way forever... by the way, my boyfriend is scorpio and we start being very close friends, when I hang out with him and other friends I used to talk to him for hours, even sleep over his appartment until he decide to change the situation I could have gone on like that for much more time....but it was good that he did it! good luckIP: Logged |
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posted May 15, 2006 12:56 PM
Hi Ingrid,What you say rings true. Its all about timing though and it isn't right for me to make that move. I'm just getting prepared for when it is, or take it slowly... Thats very good advice though. Thanks! Swerve IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 985 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 15, 2006 01:03 PM
Hi Swerve ~Just one thing that I wanted to pass on without even looking at her stats..... A good friend of mine is a Gemini lady, and for the evolved ones, mental/intellectual intercourse is AS IMPORTANT AS physical contact -- for us Airy signs (and Ms Gem has 5 planets in Air as do I), mental rapport is SOOOOOOOOOO exciting!!!!! .....but I don't think you'll have any issues in either area  Kinda wish Secret Garden was still around with her incomparable advice  Zala IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 121 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted May 15, 2006 01:07 PM
Thats right was going to say that too you myself. I have a few Gemini girlfriends and they all love to talk. They all have Gem in Mercury as well. IP: Logged |
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posted May 15, 2006 01:10 PM
Here I go … Though my first relationship with Gem gal (Sun/Merc – Gem, Venus – Cancer, Mars – Aries, probably Moon - Aqua ) caused hurt in the end, it shouldn’t stop you from not making it a BIG SUCCESS. Things to avoid – I pushed too hard, for making the relationship work by overcoming the hurdles that we had, however it didn’t work. So when angry/frustrated of her/situation, always think what you speak with her, as that might be used against you for rationalizing the break up. (For me, in the end it turned in big hurt as I couldn’t rationalize the situation .. thoughts like “I shouldn’t have said such n such things which caused her to go in her shell and change her decision” though it might be more of her fault of committing first and then backing off at the end … Again my Gem might have different difficult circumstances so can’t generalize to all, however always be on lookout as we are an emotional sign and our hurt goes deep down, Gems are not … Water signs should never expect something very high/dreamy in relationships with Air/fire signs as if expectations don’t come true it hurts and if they come true without expecting that is much better) Know the catch points and avoid them, or deal with them after giving lot of thought in a cool manner. Key things which I think could be useful – Never know when Gem might turn around their mind, so look for something which bonds you two forever (if you don’t want to loose her) – sex (one of the factors), marriage (next step). Even if she says no, her other mind might be for Yes. So understand what she wants/says and what she doesn’t. Probably reading her mind is more important than her words. Give space when ever she requires (We might be possessive ones and always forget Gem is air sign and require free space) Communication another key (verbal face-to-face, phone or mail) .. intimate (Pisces) ones would do, intellectual (Gemini) ones are better … Get her a personal cell if she doesn’t have one and be in touch (I couldn’t do that ) Be creative wherever you can .. Give small gifts, give something made by your hand (though one may not be creative, if she likes you she would surely love whatever it is), try imitating her or someone else in a funny manner.. Have loads of fun…understand her jokes and pranks (probably intellectual ones) Wow .. so cute “I simply looked after her and let her rest her head on my shoulder in the car when she passed out (which I loved of course).” Good luck, keep your Gem shining bright with glee. V IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted May 15, 2006 03:05 PM
Gemini sun here with Cancer rising, true node in Cancer, moon in Taurus, mercury in Gemini, and mars in Libra. She is sticking around for a reason  Ask her straight out. Write her a note if you feel to shy. Tell her you like her and want to be more than friends. Ask her to be your girlfriend.
Screw it. Just get to the point. I turn 24 next month also 
I love to talk alot. It's unstoppable. Has she shown romantic interest in you though? ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra -I took a walk around the world to ease my troubled mind. I left my body lying somewhere in the sands of time. But I watched the world float to the dark side of the moon. I feel there's nothing I can do. -Three Doors Down IP: Logged |
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posted May 15, 2006 03:21 PM
hi sewrve, good to know ur making a new start.. since u got the attention of all the gems in da house i thought i might as well join in...... (but sorry buddie no answer to your question) good luck this time... IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted May 15, 2006 03:22 PM
I also recommend lots of intellectual stimulation. Sci-Fi topics and politics turn me on.
Has she ever shown jealousy?
She is probably like me. Doesn't show it but when the time is right she will probably be very passionate and sensual. IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL unregistered
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posted May 15, 2006 06:34 PM
She has Venus in Aries? That should be hot.Communication is key, lots and lots. Emails, letters written in your own script, movie going, book-talking, and well a brief whisper in the ear about something unique, odd, erudite, interesting....while trailing your hand gently up her back.... Oh well; it's official, Swerve. I just seduced myself. Gemini Sun Gemini Mercury Taurus Venus Aries Mars & Moon
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posted May 16, 2006 04:20 AM
Wow! What a gemini gathering  I agree with all this intellectual estimulation, but I believe If you are already very close friends, it must be because the intellectual estimulation is already done, so I don´t think you should worry too much about that, just keep going until you feel secure and decide to tell her!IP: Logged |
Swerve unregistered
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posted May 16, 2006 04:34 AM
Hi guys,Sorry I took so long to reply, I'm on GMT! The mental rapport is definitely there. We seem to calm each other down from my intensity and her exuberance when we talk. Its like we are the only 2 on that particular wavelength (though I have this with pretty much all Geminis in truth). We are so coy with each other though in terms of flirting. Unless one of us is drunk and bumps into the other one and then said inebraited one suddenly opens up in a dramatic fashion. Its almost embarrasing the way we have danced around each other for the last 4 years. Mystic - yes, she got jealous when she knew I had a g/f a couple of years ago and another time when I was chatting to her friend all night. I like it when she seems a bit possesive. Call me curious. Also guys, can you tell me what NOT to do, probably more important in the long run. Swerve
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posted May 16, 2006 10:05 AM
Do Not: -Flirt with other s%$#s.
-Hang around females all the time.
-Put her down or hurt her feelings.
-Interrupt her when she's talking.
-Be boring.
-Be afraid to show your intensity and express your feelings.
Although a little jealousy is kind of exciting 
-If you see her talking with a male friend do not think she is flirting. Gems love to talk to different people. Sometimes people will think we are flirting when we aren't.
-Ignore her when she needs attention.
-Do not lie and cheat. (BIG NO NO)
-Go out and party all the time. A woman with a Gemini sun and Taurus moon is very concerned with security. They want love. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra
-I took a walk around the world to ease my troubled mind. I left my body lying somewhere in the sands of time. But I watched the world float to the dark side of the moon. I feel there's nothing I can do. -Three Doors Down IP: Logged |
Swerve unregistered
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posted May 16, 2006 10:47 AM
Yeah, she says the best feeling in the world is to feel that she is loved.Well, she is, but I'm not letting that cat out of the bag! Made that mistake a thousand times before. I think we are scared of each other. Its the way a lot of my relationships start. Never sure why. Might be the intensity. She's a funny one though sometimes. She'll not respond to an e-mail or text for days and then POW out of nowhere. I used to think she was playing games but now I know better. Also, she knows my moods. I got the hump with her last Summer and said balls to it I won't bother with you again. Then of course a month later I did. She just said "I was expecting you to get in touch in about a week". She knows me too well it seems. We've fallen out and fallen in more times than I can remember, but it always goes back to normal very quickly. We seem to find it VERY easy to forgive each other, which is nice, and TOTALLY different to the ex-Crab who I reckon has written me off for life! Her loss.... Swerve
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posted May 16, 2006 12:59 PM
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posted May 17, 2006 09:15 AM
Do you love her?------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra -I took a walk around the world to ease my troubled mind. I left my body lying somewhere in the sands of time. But I watched the world float to the dark side of the moon. I feel there's nothing I can do. -Three Doors Down IP: Logged |
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posted May 17, 2006 09:33 AM
Very much actually, but she doesn't know this.
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posted May 17, 2006 06:00 PM
If you are to scared to say it in person then say it on the phone. If you are to scared to say it on the phone then write her a letter or note. Tell her.
------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra -I took a walk around the world to ease my troubled mind. I left my body lying somewhere in the sands of time. But I watched the world float to the dark side of the moon. I feel there's nothing I can do. -Three Doors Down IP: Logged |
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posted May 17, 2006 06:04 PM
Has she shown romantic interest in you very recently? This is my chart
Sun Gemini 27°52'09 12 direct Moon Taurus 29°31'58 11 direct Mercury Gemini 07°46'37 11 direct Venus Taurus 22°54'09 11 direct Mars Libra 08°19'27 03 direct Jupiter Scorpio 00°32'22 04 retrograde Saturn Libra 15°29'54 04 stationary (D) Uranus Sagittarius 01°34'37 05 retrograde Neptune Sagittarius 25°36'24 06 retrograde Pluto Libra 24°10'45 04 retrograde True Node Cancer 13°22'33 12 retrograde
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shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 17, 2006 06:54 PM
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posted May 17, 2006 07:56 PM
Depends on birth time and day. I have a friend with the same exact signs as me except her moon is in virgo.
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posted May 18, 2006 04:18 AM
Yep May 22nd 1982. My birthday is Feb 22nd 1976.Both of our birthdays add up to no.11. I don't think she's my Twin, by the definitions I see here. But she is definitely a soul mate. I just wonder if that lesson has already been learned. I have a terrible habit of holding on to things way past their sell-by date. Has she shown romantic interest lately? No. I haven't physically seen her since last year. But the texts always come out of the blue if I don't contact her for a while. She is doing that much more often these days as well. Also, I sent her an e-mail telling her exactly how I felt about her a few months back, for probably the first time out on the table. She went quiet like she does. So I asked her if that had upset her and she said no it was cool and she liked it but that she was seeing someone and she really liked him. I said that I hoped they were having a great time and it lasted for a long time because if she's happy I'm happy. I meant that too. But, she got in touch a lot more often after that so that can only be good. I have this way of making girls wary of me and I'm not sure why. So, I'm taking this slow, I just want to bone up on how to get to her. The one thing I have to say is that she isn't intellectual at all. She is excitable, very easily bored and somewhat flakey in that absent-minded short attention-span way. But intellectual...no. Swerve
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posted May 18, 2006 06:08 AM
OK, no I'm considering sending her either a cute little text message for her birthday. I used to send them for Valentines Day as well. Or an e-card?Just something small. I know this can sometimes be inappropriate or would a girl always like to receive these things without judging the guy as a sap. It is a harsh world out there for boys and girls at the moment and romance can be misconstrued with so many conflicting messages. Any pointers? Swerve IP: Logged |
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posted May 18, 2006 06:32 AM
hi swerve, abt her birthday.... gems i know love gifts, surprises very much... pls no e-cards on birthdays.... u have to think creative.. u have to start by making a hand-made card!...it will show her how special she is to u that u took out the time to make something for her all by urself. if u are totally zero at doing that then u can go shopping for a birthday card n do some creative work on it.....its just to show the effor,ur interest ,ur time that u put in to make something for her. as for getting her a gift,its totally up to u.... i wouldnt recommend something really big n expensive at this stage...(i remember my close friend (guy)buying me a designer gold ring that i wanted to buy for a very long time...he surprised me on my birthday,when i saw it i was upset coz it was quite expensive n i wasnt ready for a relationship with him lol....it made both of us cry n clear out misunderstandings.......btw i still hav the ring ) good luck....
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