posted May 18, 2006 08:16 AM              

Thanks,

posted May 19, 2006 07:42 PM              

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

-I took a walk around the world to ease my troubled mind. I left my body lying somewhere in the sands of time. But I watched the world float to the dark side of the moon. I feel there's nothing I can do.

posted May 19, 2006 09:26 PM              

I think you've gotten some great advice - Mystic Gemini hit it right on the head. I think this is great advice for attracting ALL women, not just the Gemini variety!

If you have a way of making women wary of you, as you say... I think that making an effort to be less "intense" and more lighthearted when you're around her could help too. I am not sure if this is what you're like or not, but I know that when I am around a man who I KNOW is into me, and he can't stop staring at me, etc. before I have reciprocated any feelings - well, it's just creepy. Girls like a little chase too, you know. Don't be TOO easy / available... mystery is a good thing. Also, make sure you NEVER come off as needy - that's a big turnoff...

Compliment her, be flirtatious, and in those moments where she's had a drink or two and has started to tell you how she really feels... playfully call her bluff...

Besides telling her how you feel... have you tried to just ask her out on a real date? Or would that freak her out?

And maybe it's just me... but if she's giving you any sort of flirtatious physical signals (touching your arm, clothing, arms around you, etc.) she probably wants you to kiss her. And if you're going to go in for the kill, don't ask first, just do it...

posted May 22, 2006 03:08 AM              

ive been so so so busy with school . i have three finals tomorrow but i decided to come here instead mwaha. in a week i leave for egypt. woohoo!

Swerve I have to break something to you. Gemini/Tauruses are NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT typical Geminis. They are the most atypical geminis i know. I have had the luck/bad luck of knowing three extremely intimately, as my best friends. These girls are more taureans than they are Geminis believe you me. The intellect is not as important to them as love, relationships, validation, and ambitions. They want to get somewhere in life for the sake of stability; knowledge is a means to earning more money etc, not for itself (very different from my take on knowledge, having a ninth house Gemini sun). Also they are very needy and emotional, moody, but EXTREMELY LOYAL. yes extermely. thats why i say theyre not ur typical gem. not that we cant be loyal but I am happier when I am in a light relationship where there isnt a lot of drama and emotion .

And its not true that we dont have dreams, we have different kinds of dreams than the water/earth group. Read the beginning passages of Lindas love signs...the gem girl is lost in many ways but she enjoys being lost. she doesnt want someone to 'show her the way' she wants someone who can be lost with her and be spontaneous and make that journey exciting in itself. Think Lewis Caroll Alice in Wonderland, if Alice had stayed right on path, or Dorothy from the Wizard, would their world ever have been so exciting?

One of my ex best friends who is a Gem/ Taurus stuck with her Aries bf for four yrs in college now hes dumping her coz he wants to play the field a bit more. Shes absolutely depressed and in tears. She is hands down the most loyal mate ive seen even outdoes the water/earth group. HANDS DOWN!!! so much so that its annoying. we all used to call her the female eeyore and she agreed. although these gals are perky and fun on the top they have serious issues with depression if they DONT feel wanted and loved. And she could go around hanging with you forever never telling you her feelings because the taurus moon needs security; she will never make the first move in fear of losing your presence.

posted May 22, 2006 04:16 AM              

Well, along you come and basically put her entire personality down in a post. You couldn't have hit the nail on the head with any more accuracy.

I have always thought she was more Taurus than Gemini, and in fact I think this works in my favour.

I think we have been running scared of each other, never saying what we think. My instincts always told me this even against resistance from others who know us, and over time she keeps showing me a little bit more that I am right.

Swerve

posted May 22, 2006 08:29 AM              

Whats the best way to go?

posted May 22, 2006 04:30 PM              

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

-I took a walk around the world to ease my troubled mind. I left my body lying somewhere in the sands of time. But I watched the world float to the dark side of the moon. I feel there's nothing I can do.

posted May 23, 2006 06:05 PM              

Everyone who knows me knows it. I get bored sooooo easily.

Did you tell her yet?

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

-I took a walk around the world to ease my troubled mind. I left my body lying somewhere in the sands of time. But I watched the world float to the dark side of the moon. I feel there's nothing I can do.

posted May 24, 2006 07:50 AM              

She sends me one back the next day from someone elses phone (she's temporarily cut off) asking what I was doing today? I was busy but said I'd still called her. Left it late and had to leave a v/mail.

Just sent her an e-mail on Monday - Happy Birthday gorgeous x

Got back Thank You x

The thing is in that e-mail way back when as I let it all hang out there were questions and answers like:

Would you ever take advanatge of me?
Not in a million years

What would be most fun doing with me?
Kissing you slowly and passionately

Will we always always be friends?
I hope so and I hope not if you know what I mean

I mean, its not exactly cryptic is it? She knows.

I sense this is all moving in the right direction but I'm also sensing it isn't quite the right time to push. I did that with the last chick and got my fingers clean burned off so I know better now.

(and Hi Natasha - long time no see, I hope you are well darling)