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Topic: Love At First Sight
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BlueEyes24 unregistered
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posted July 18, 2006 11:43 AM
What aspects between two people indicate "love at first sight" ...or at least a strong recognition of each other from the beginning? I know venus/uranus contacts can generate this, but anyone know of any other ones? IP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2006 11:46 AM
I don't like Venus conjunct Uranus. To unstable unless other aspects are stronger.
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posted July 18, 2006 11:49 AM
yeah, I've heard that aspect can be very unstable and short-lived... I'm thinking venus conjunct ascendant could be another "love at first sight" aspect? IP: Logged |
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009
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posted July 18, 2006 11:55 AM
This is a doozy.. from: cafe' astrologySextile Sun - Pluto Positive aspect: It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: they will be drawn to each other like two magnets, they will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship may not last forever, it may not develop into a quiet and tender love. If they part, it is close to impossible to stay friends because of the constant reminder of the passion that once existed. It's all or nothing with them. If they part, one will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through. However, if they stay together, there is strength to gain from each other. especially.... with a Venus/Pluto contact  IP: Logged |
CapGirl unregistered
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posted July 18, 2006 11:58 AM
Was reading quickly on cafeastrology to find this and one indicator is mars-pluto conjunctions and squares.
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posted July 18, 2006 12:01 PM
yeah, mars/pluto contacts are passionate.. I wonder what it would be like to be with someone you have all the sun/pluto, mars/pluto, venus/pluto, venus/mars aspects with?  IP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2006 12:13 PM
I Venus Conjunct Pluto with someone. Hypnotic 
------------------ Gemini/Cancer Cusp, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars *----------*----------* Things base and vile, holding no quantity, Love can transpose to form and dignity. Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind, And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. -William Shakespeare IP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2006 12:34 PM
Yep, I've got that pluto sextile or trine sun, with the pluto-venus square... he had the love at first sight and came after me but I wasn't so instantly love-struck. (I'm the pluto on the sun, and the venus in the square.)
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Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2006 12:40 PM
I think Pluto aspects are good for passion but not always love. I have the sun-pluto square with my SO, and I'm the sun person. I think of it as if a LEO was clashing wih a SCORPIO. The stubborness and the pride...Oh God. We also have the mars-pluto quincunx which Magi says is good for sex (they regard the quincunx as a "magical aspect" I think). But it does have it's down side. Mars may win the battle but Pluto always wins the war. IP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2006 12:41 PM
BlueEyes, as you know or saw from that other thread of "love of life", I've got all of those except the mars-pluto. It was "too hot to handle" and had us both running. The intensity of the emotions generated was overwhelming, then you add the sexual attraction to that, and I myself was afraid to give in to the physical attraction because I knew how much of a hold he had on me emotionally already. We were "together" one time and then I ran. IP: Logged |
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009
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posted July 18, 2006 12:42 PM
We were both instantly love-struck  I'm the pluto on the sun and the venus in the conjunction... We also share trined Moons.. and Sun conj. Mars (i'm the Mars).. It was the most thrilling, exhausting, obsessive, love/hate thing I've ever been a part of.....  IP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2006 12:51 PM
Quincunx and "INCONJUNCT" is the same meaning ????? I MIGHT ASKED THIS AGAIN AND FORGOT, BUT DOES ANYONE KNOWS? TKS!IP: Logged |
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009
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posted July 18, 2006 01:13 PM
They are the same  IP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2006 01:20 PM
thank U stargazer i have pluto/venus inconjunct double whammies with someone oops, and his venus, moon with my neptune inconjunct its the most obsseive relastionship in my life so far by far. ahh, thats explains itIP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2006 01:31 PM
Huh.. yes -I would say that Venus conjunct Ascendant is a strong pull.My husband has Venus in Virgo conjuncting my Ascendant AND Pluto falling into my first house. His Pluto in Libra forms a Sextile to my Sun / Venus and my Pluto in Virgo falls conjuncts his Ascendant in the first house- while forming a trine to his Mars in Taurus. We have Sun to Venus conjuncts on both sides. His Venus opposes my Mars but his Mars doesn't aspect my Venus. Our Suns also for a trine within 1 degree and his Sun trines my moon within 6 degrees.  One has to be VERY careful with the Pluto Venus conjuncts. Venus can be enamored by Pluto and Pluto has to guard against being manipulative. IF the two people have loving aspects they can use the conjunction to further their love and strengthen their bond, it not -THEN ALL hell breaks loose and you have a serious push me pull you relationship or what is commonly known as obsession. One Virgo I was friends with had a huge crush on me. His Sun, Venus, Uranus AND Pluto conjuncted my Pluto and Ascendant but fell into my 12th house. His Mars trined my Sun but it was his only fire planet -Leo and was also in his 12th house. He was psycho attracted and the feeling was uncomfortable and ended with a semi-physical altercation after he tried to make a move. Sooo....... watch the other aspects and it pays to know something about astrology in order to be conscious of the power of Pluto  IP: Logged |
lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 27 From: neverland Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2006 01:36 PM
anyone with any experience of mars inconjunct so's pluto?IP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2006 02:01 PM
Hello...Just trying to understand this... Since Pluto moves really slowly, almost a generation of people will have the same Pluto placement; i.e. most people I know have Pluto in Virgo. Does that go to say that the whole generation of people will have Love at First Sight connection with anyone with Sun in Virgo? Hey... that's a lot of people! :O Even Uranus connections... are pretty far off... Sorry, I am just trying to make sense of this ...  There's got to be more connection within the Inner planets that would indicate such a strong connection... Miss Muffet IP: Logged |
BlueEyes24 unregistered
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posted July 18, 2006 02:21 PM
Hi Miss_Muffet-I agree on the venus/pluto conjunction thing, I've had this with almost all my past boyfriends since we're so close in age... I also have it with my boyfriend, but we also have many other good aspects in our synastry... as pidaua said, it can further strengthen the bond, IF you have other loving aspects. pidaua -
I agree that venus conjunct ascendant is a strong pull. I have this with my boyfriend, and I'm the venus. My moon is also conjunct his ascendant, and both our moons and venuses are trined. I think the venus and moon conjunction to the ascendant can show a very strong emotional attraction and connection in the beginning.. at least that's how it was for us. When I used to attend college 14 hours away from my hometown, he drove all that way to see me... and we had only known each other for a week before that... but we already felt so comfortable with each other.. it was weird, but felt very right at the same time. IP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2006 03:18 PM
I was just running the synastry on some dudes from my past... to look at this... neither of whom I fell for instantly though. The Sag. pursued me and I was never all that attracted; I gave it a shot and grew to like alot of things about him, but ended up putting him through a bit of hell by breaking up w/ him 3 times in like 3 months. He and I don't have any mars-venus contacts, but my moon is conjunct his sun w/ a 1 degree orb, and we have the venus-pluto square with me as the venus and a load of trines and sextiles suggesting romantic compatibility. I do note that he has no planets in my 7th house. The other guy, Libra... it took me a couple of years of knowing him as a coworker/friend to fall for him... we have a mars-venus trine (my venus) and the venus-pluto square...and some trine/sextiles showing romantic compatibility. I know his birthtime and can say that neither of us have any planets falling in each others' 7th houses. So, I'm more confused by doing that comparison but I can tell from it that the venus-pluto aspect means very little on its own. I was never obsessed with these guys nor did I feel a powerful attraction or pull. (On one or both of these guys, there's also a flowing venus-pluto aspect, in addition to the square, sort of a double whammy.)
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posted July 18, 2006 04:48 PM
I had Sun conjunct moon with soeone in the past. When he was down I was down. Got kind of draining after a while.
of course other good aspects have to be included as well.
We also had the Venus Conjucnt Uranus.
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posted July 18, 2006 04:52 PM
He's the Venus and I am the Pluto. No manipulation here.
------------------ Gemini/Cancer Cusp, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars *----------*----------* Things base and vile, holding no quantity, Love can transpose to form and dignity. Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind, And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. -William Shakespeare IP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2006 04:57 PM
I once read that with the Venus Pluto conjunction, it can lead to hypnotic obsessive but healthy love. It also said that with lower developed souls...it leads to the negative side.
------------------ Gemini/Cancer Cusp, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars *----------*----------* Things base and vile, holding no quantity, Love can transpose to form and dignity. Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind, And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. -William Shakespeare IP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2006 05:21 PM
BlueEyes24 I love a guy at first sight. We got the following aspects in Synastry. His Venus semisextile my Uranus My Venus biquintile Uranus (From a Love Honor Cherish Report I bought, it said that it is love at first sight) My Venus conjunct his Asc His Moon conjunct my Moon His Sun oppose my MoonMy Anti-Vertex conjunct his Venus. I think this is related to love at first sight. This aspect also makes us run into each other like Destiny for 2nd, 3rd, ..., times. We have Mar exactly pararell Pluto. Some astrologer also interpret this aspect as conjunct. What do you think? We have Sun Semi-Sextile Pluto. Can I interpret the meaing like Sextile? Our composite chart has Venus trine Uranus. I also read from a book that if you have Uranus conjunct Pluto, the universe would force the souls to reunion. We have this aspect at exact degree. Anyone having this one? However, I am not sure about this aspect since Uranus and Pluto move very slow. I have Venus quindecile Pluto with him. However, I do not think that it is for love at first sight since I also have Venus conjunct Pluto with my Ex. I could not remember when we met anyway. With this Ex, I also have Moon conjunct Asc too. lovegoblin I have Mar exactly inconjunct Pluto. So, what is your question? IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2006 06:33 PM
Capgirl said:"So, I'm more confused by doing that comparison but I can tell from it that the venus-pluto aspect means very little on its own. I was never obsessed with these guys nor did I feel a powerful attraction or pull. (On one or both of these guys, there's also a flowing venus-pluto aspect, in addition to the square, sort of a double whammy.)" The Venus-Pluto aspect is VERY powerful, but again, it depends on other aspects. You may have never been obsessed with them but maybe they were obsessed with you? The Venus-Conjunct Venus is EXTREMELY powerful but the Venus square Pluto causes the feeling of "control issues" and the not quite so comfortable feeling of being around the person. My Venus squared that obsessed co-workers Pluto- HE was obsessed with me and I was "put off" by him. In your case, maybe that is what took you so long to dig that other guy. I think by "flowing" Venus-Pluto aspect you mean a Trine? I am not quite understaning your jargon because it isn't astrological. LOL.... I must also add- people need to stop generalizing. NOT all Venus conjunct Pluto is going to lead to LOVE and OBSESSION. We need to take other aspects into consideration.
Let's remember that this site is about Linda Goodman and this forum has everything to do with ASTROLOGY. It isn't a forum for talking about the weather or if one person like Rice Krispies over Coco Puffs but people are more than welcome to do that if they choose (free speec). Astrology is complex and made up of various combinations, each aspect carries it's own definition and vibration in degree. Someone with a Pluto conjunct Ascendant within 2 degrees is going to feel that vibration much stronger than someone with the same aspect at 15 degrees... get it? This forum has really started to go to generalities and stereotypes which is sad because in order to learn we need to study not just get the quick cliff note version. Hmmm... hopefully the tide will turn back to people seriously looking as aspects and planetary positions versus this fast food astro crap 
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posted July 18, 2006 07:36 PM
 quote: Hmmm... hopefully the tide will turn back to people seriously looking as aspects and planetary positions versus this fast food astro crap.
You mean like aspects that can make a woman look masculine? 
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