posted July 31, 2006 01:29 AM              

Do you have a Natal Venus Conjunct or Opposite Pluto?

Do you have a Mars Sextile Uranus?

I have a Venus in Virgo and Scorpio Merc/Mars/Neptune. These two Signs are able to play around with sexual timetables very well. Scorpio RULES Sex, it's NOT ruled by sex. That means a 3-hour orgasm is as easy to achieve as 3 years of celibacy.

Some people have been, are, or always will be asexual, and each person has their own unique path to take, not necessarily the high road, or the low road. Maybe swinging from the chandeliers one night a year, or maybe every night.

posted July 31, 2006 09:58 AM              

AJ,
I have Venus Conj Pluto but in terms of Mars and Uranus I have Mars Square Uranus.

I think I feel that Venus-Pluto aspect very strongly.. it's like I seek so much for a relationship that will transform me that I put myself through hell, and attach myself to people who really mess with my mind and emotions. It's like I'm addicted to it! So after a bad relationship I get more cynical and bitter, and convince myself I will be alone for my whole life. But not even depressingly, just as a fact.

posted July 31, 2006 07:56 PM              

7th, 5th, or 12th.

And the 12th house is the house of anything repressed so that would be the most important house for you to check.

posted July 31, 2006 08:21 PM            

Sex isn't just poking in and poking out. It's also the merging of body and even souls. Of course, Scorpio is intense. Sex is intense. The orgasm is intense. The orgasm is emotional based. Scorpio is an emotional sign.

Scorpio is also co-ruled by the sexual planet,Mars and not just ruled by Pluto. Some astrologers still use traditional rulers. They do work. Stephen Arroyo is one of the astrologers that use traditional sign rulers.

Sex can be spiritual as in tantra or kama sutra. Scorpio is a potentially spiritual sign.

Sex has to do with being vulnerable too and having to do with letting go. Sharing your nakedness can be an intense experience. The woman's vagina being penetrated by the penis is an intense experience and the woman can end up being vulnerable

Scorpio is a sign that is vulnerable for it's a sensitive and it's challenge is to let go of stuff. It's a fixed water sign...it holds onto emotional stuff. The orgasm is an emotionally control experience.

Scorpio has to do with penetrating the superficial. Sex is about penetrating. Psychology is about penetrating psyche and uncover emotional and confronting them.

Vulnerability and strength of the Scorpio is it's sensitivity,intense,and sexuality

posted July 31, 2006 09:32 PM              

MY REPLY:
Astrology no.
But great intellectual discourse in my dreams can do it for me!
My reply to Iqhunk posted elsewhere.

Iqhunk!
Hello!
Amygdala Shift! This can possibly explain why I enter REM at an "abnormally" short time...unlike the usual 90 minutes or so. Also my brain scans and encephalagrams are unusual. I also experience Synesthesia..and
other things such as an enhanced sense of being able to differentiate between more diverse scents/odors...than is common.
If what you describe is only a "guy thing"...then I am the odd woman...or perhaps it is because I feel that this is one of only two lifetimes I have spent as a female.
You see...I too get them after/during eurekas and epiphanies..and by way of intense philosophical discussion.
In dreams from which I am often awakened by such an orgasm..it is not from a sexually stimulating dream but instead from a dream where I am with such as Pythagoras, Confucious..Einstien..Lao Tse..Stephen Hawking..Timothy Leary..Yeshua..Buddha..Dr.Ushui..Sargon1..Nikola Tesla..Marie Curie..Buckminster Fuller..
Salvador Dali..
Well..you get the idea!
These type of orgasms are much like the sexual ones but they DO NOT ORIGINATE in the genitals! They start with the back of my head and then the area between my eyes begins to tingle and then shock waves like rolling electricity move down my body in rhythmic undulations that like in some ways are akin to birthing contractions...but involve my entire body. They increase in speed and intensity...without a pause...each wave carrying my senses higher and deeper at the same time...
Then upon awakening...and still in shuddering ecstasy from the experience...I feel tingly and my mind is overflowing with such amazing thoughts! I then MUST write down IMMEDIATELY what the dream was about and any diagrams of things that were presented there.
This has driven me to pursue the most peculiar subject matters.
Thank you Iqhunk!

posted August 04, 2006 03:08 PM              

On the subject of "intensity" however, I think a lot of people use sex to suppress other emotions or insecurities they have. By feeling wanted in those moments they feel like they have a purpose in life.

And in that sense, I don't think Venus in Scorpio would be having sex for those reasons. It would be more rewarding within a stable relationship where you and your partner reach another plane of existence and transform through the sexual act.

posted August 04, 2006 03:25 PM            

the thing is sex is not just the physical act.

I agree with what you said about Venus in Scorpio. Sex to me has to be deep,meaningful,merging of souls. I am not interested in doing it to suppress things nor to get away from unpleasant emotions.

Suppressing emotions is one of those negative type of Scorpio stuff.

During sex, the man tries to control his penis and holds the seminal fluid back,and then when he can't control it any longer, it's like an explosion.

Well, the scorpio tend to control his/her emotions and hold them back,and then when he/she can't control them any long,it's like an explosion.
Scorpio is fixed water,and that's about controlling and holding back emotions.

I know this personally with my Sun,Mercury,and Venus in Scorpio.

There was no debate here. I just disagreed with what the other Scorpio person said,and I explained why.

Disagreeing and explaining the reasons for my disagreement is not necessarily debating.

I am really not into debate. I am just very expressive when it comes to things that I disagree with. I am passionate about it.

Debate is more like an intellectual,strategic argument. I wasn't doing that at all.

I actually find debates too stressful for my highly sensitive nervous system(especially when I am not taking cod liver oil which has DHA and EPA). Stress actually makes my Dyslexia worse. Actually the stress makes it harder for me to compensate for my Dyslexia. So the stress makes it hard for me to minimize my mistakes.

posted August 04, 2006 03:43 PM              

I agree with your point now that you've explained it better.

I do tend to suppress my emotions in relationships so I guess it makes sense.