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evenstarr
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posted August 02, 2006 12:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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AcousticGod
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posted August 02, 2006 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Are they as assertive and aggressive as they come across?

Yes.

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What are their likes and dislikes?

Likes
- Loud stuff (cars, stereos, war sounds like in movies)
- Spicy food (Chili Verde, hot sauces)
- Impressive cars (how they're impressive varies)
- History
- Cartoons, Anime, Manga
- Sci-Fi movies and books
- Hero characters
- Being seen as an authority or smart

Dislikes
- Embarassment (deeply)
- Situations that require delicacy

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Are they romantic and sentimental?

Romantic: In a chivalrous way. They would love to play hero to your damsel in distress.

Sentimental: They might be. They seem to hoard and hold on to quite a bit.

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What are they like during an argument and confrontations?

Argument:
They're troubling. They undoubtedly believe themselves to be right. Sometimes they are, and sometimes they're just way off. They have a healthy imagination, and sometimes that imagination dictates how they view things. I've witnessed my own Aries roommate twist a story (not about me, though he's exagerated about me at times as well) beyond recognition. It was absolutely true from his standpoint, but when I heard the story from a Taurus and Virgo it was completely different.

Patience is certainly required in an argument with them. Some of them will come up with argument after argument until something sticks. They'll start with something. Then you'll refute it. They'll come up with something else. You'll refute it. This continues until they find some aspect that you're willing to see their side on. Then they'll try to exploit that point to the best of their ability. Sometimes they even bring up stuff that isn't even relevant to the argument (I think that may be due to -whatever it is- having the same emotional effect on them).

Confrontations:
They are the sign most likely to confront. It generally comes across fairly aggressively, though it's not always intended to be.

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Are they known for committments?

Can go both ways. They definitely want to commit, and believe it to be the honorable thing. They can get distracted, though.

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teaselbaby
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posted August 02, 2006 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teaselbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here's another thread about Aries men, from February:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008327.html

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posted August 02, 2006 04:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well male moon in aries tend to be a little bit more attractive than male sun in aries, i tend to think so.

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posted August 02, 2006 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune I agree...

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libraschoice7
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posted August 02, 2006 06:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Them come on alittle to strong sometimes, they don't like being chased, because they like to do all the chasing/courting. They always let you know where you stand with them(for good or bad) And they are reeaal... sexual.

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posted August 02, 2006 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm going to turn this one over to my friend since she dated an Aries for some time and is more of an expert than me. Plus I am soooo biased.

"Well, where to begin..this is my experience with what I would characterize as a typical Aries male. Very aggressive, sneaky and confrontational (but in a sly way). Extremely driven ie. starting three new companies at once. As driven as this guy was he didn't think things through thoroughly, took on more than he should and was overwhelmed although he managed to make a success of all three. Not thinking things through seems to be an Aries trait.

Loves the thrill of the chase = man-wh*re. Generally very controlling over his own environment and life. Loved it if I seemed proud of him...loved to let me listen when he was making business calls

I have never had an easier time stroking a man's ego and have come to the conclusion that it is an essential part of getting along romantically with an Aries man, you need to be in service of him (unless he is highly evolved). This particular man was very idealistic about family and marriage but at the age of 33 still managed to be single and having slept with well over 100 women?!?!? Go figure. HE loved the idea of power and money as well as recognition and respect.

Oh, yeah, one other thing... very dominant in bed. I am Libra, Libra, Libra and I will avoid another Aries romatically..but never say never, right? "

Ok, well there you go - hope this helped!

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ScorpioRising
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posted August 02, 2006 10:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I REALLY think you have to look at a man's complete chart before pinning them (in the personality sense ppl!)

My man is a double aries (sun and moon)-he is ambitious, likes instant gratification, and is a commitment phobe...thats the aries for you-but he also has aqua rising. Loveesss technology, classical music (plays violin), doesn't like sports (GASP) and has a LOT of patience (un-aries quality.)

I find that finding the dominant sign is A LOT more useful. When I did his chart on astro-it showed his dominant sign to be Libra (mine is Scorpio.) Check that out and compare em! = )

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posted August 02, 2006 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have had experience here and there with Aries men, but not a whole lot. I lightly dated one when I was 17/18, but we were very good friends. My Sag sun/Mars/Asc gets along with this sign really well. It's an easy energy exchange for me, the same way it is with Leos.

One trait I do notice though, is a need for things to go the way they want things to go. This I see in a younger man, who is 24. He hasn't learned to not let his desires get out of hand and not take a biting hand if he doesn't get what he wants. He's going to be successful though, I see it in him already.

I'll say the same thing though, is they are enterprising people and if they have a plan, nothing will stand in their way to accomplish their goal.

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Lauren
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posted August 03, 2006 03:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok male Aries lol.I'm a female Aries, but I've had my share of experience with male Aries.. so where do I start

There's my bf's bro, Aries.. my bf is a Libra lol wait it gets better, Mr. Aries has a Cancer moon and my bf has a Capricorn Moon..but no wait..it gets even better than this.. Mr. Aries also has a Cap Mars exactly square my bf’s Sun.. Not a week goes past without me hearing "I want him to move out.. I can't take it anymore.. he thinks he owns the house.. he chucked things around for no reason.. he's listening to metal so loud it's gonna break my eardrums, he knocked a hole in his bedroom door out of the blue, he stole my mobile and sold it on e-bay, I’m going to kill him seriously this time, I’m *not* just saying that, he’s mentally retarded, I swear he has the mental capability of a 5 year old etc etc etc..” Oh joy, trying to solve such an astrological conundrum lol keeps me entertained I guess. He’s a bad case scenario. Don’t fret, they’re not all this bad.. though he can be quite nice when he’s on his best behaviour.

Then there was the guy I took to one of my ‘proms’ (lol US version), who is also Aries/Cancer. I run into him sometimes, but haven’t kept in contact. This guy is quite macho in an Aries-like way but he is also very friendly and not someone I’d see as aggressive. He’s ambitious in a career sense but not ruthless or angry. Good conversationalist, quite funny.. But he does have too much of an ego for my liking at times..

Aries no 3, I’ve been friends with for a fair while. He has an Aqua moon and an Aqua gf lol. He acts more Aquarian than Arien, has loads of friends and seems unfussed by most things. He’s very easy going and pretty a-typical in that he isn’t very egotistical at all. He’s also not very passionate about things so he doesn’t usually get involved in any arguments or fights, nor would he start one.. overall he’s a pretty light hearted, comedian type of person.

Aries no. 4 has a Sagi Moon. He’s my Sag/Gem friend's best mate. He is the prototypical gay hairdresser, would you believe it lol.. He can be quite effeminate, I’m guessing he’d have a watery ascendant. He tends to get his way through bitching and getting around people, rather than in a straight forward manner, because he’s extremely non-confrontational. Overall he’s a nice guy and he’s good to talk to.. he’s very talkative and he’s a good hairdresser, but the girly bitchiness bothers me.

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Are they as assertive and aggressive as they come across?

No.. Aries people are quite child-like and sensitive on the inside and get hurt quite easily so probably not nearly as aggressive as they come across.

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From what I have read up on them, they like the chase and are outgoing and wild.

Yes and no.. I’m an Aries girl. I don’t like the concept of chasing in itself. I think relationships should just naturally evolve from friendships or other connections.. and as long as both ppl are perfectly comfortable there needn’t be chasing from one side or the other.. I think those things should be equal.. otherwise it seems a bit disrespectful, when one person is chasing and the other is not giving anything back. But I’d say most Aries men would prefer a challenge.. though if he has a Venus/Mars trine (like myself).. he might not want to play these games.. or see them as unnecessary. People with Venus/Mars squares tend to like chasing or running or doing something that creates tension.
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What are they like during an argument and confrontations?

They’re likely to not listen to a thing anyone else has to say and storm on with their own point of view.. constantly interrupting every person who dares contradict before they finish telling their side. The more you try to fight back the angrier they get.. the more they scream/yell/ knock things over/knock ppl out.. I’d like to say Ariens only do this when they are passionate about something.. unfortunately they seem passionate about every single thing someone decides to contest.. from the colour of their car (if you happen to think it’s more like teal, when they’re certain it’s light blue).. to politics and everything in between. When the argument is over, if it wasn’t with you offcourse.. he will be considerably worn out and end up crying to you about it, about how horrible the world is, how ppl just never follow instructions anymore, how he has to yell for 4 hours and bash people up to get something done.. ahh such is life..
lol I am sorta kidding and exaggerating so don’t take all that too seriously..
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Are they known for committments?

Once they make a commitment, they are likely to stick to it.. they aren’t normally deceptive and would want to stick to their word.. but I wouldn’t say they love entering commitments. It’s not something they would do often.

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posted August 03, 2006 04:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All this is accurate. My year long double Aries live-in boyfriend was all of the above.

And I would say he was more earnest, too, than anything else. Surprisingly sensitive and gentle. Concerned with image though wouldn't admit it.

But still argumentative as hell.

Aries, they like tension in their relationships, to them that's comfortable...

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posted August 03, 2006 04:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OH but then again he has venus square mars

and he acted like he owned the place

but he said I acted like I own the place

curse those fire sign ascendants

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posted August 03, 2006 04:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teaselbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I REALLY think you have to look at a man's complete chart before pinning them (in the personality sense ppl!)

I agree with you ScorpioRising.

I've recently found out that an Aries man I first met when we were in our teens (he lived next door to us, and shares my birthday - same year), now has three children with his long-term girlfriend (a Leo). They've been together since their teens. He has a Taurus Moon, Leo or Virgo ascendant, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Pisces. What I remember from being around him in person was his mostly laid-back attitude, occasionally sarcastic, but he was also very thoughtful.

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posted August 03, 2006 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Girl with two Aries Brothers here....Deus!
I have no idea how they are with the ladies and I want it to stay that way. I'm on a NEED TO KNOW basis with that ishh, thank you very much. Based on how they were/still are with their mother, I would say they want a woman to be at their beck and call, keep their things in order,etc.Oh, and you still have to look like Tyra Banks while you're at it.

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evenstarr
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posted August 03, 2006 10:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted August 03, 2006 11:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just met an Aries. Don't know much at the moment. He hasn't called me for a few days!

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