posted August 13, 2006 04:56 PM              

Are there any apsects in synastry that are indicators of a love triangle? I remember reading somewhere that a Venus/Saturn square can indicate that one person is also involved in another important relationship.

Are there any natal aspects that indicate an inclination towards love triangles? It seems to me that some people are involved in this kind of realtionship more often than others.

Is there any chance to predict the outcome of the triangle? I mean, are there any aspects (either natal or transitional) that show who's going to "win"?

posted August 17, 2006 04:56 AM              

Moon in Pisces in the 11th House
-square Mercury (Sagittarius/7th)
-opposition Saturn (Virgo/5th)
-trine Uranus (Scorpio/6th)
-square Neptune (Sagittarius/7th)
-square Ascendant (Gemini)

Neptune in Sagittarius in the 7th House
-square Moon (Pisces/11th)
-conjunct Mercury (Sagittarius/7th)
-square Mars (Virgo/4th)
-square Saturn (Virgo/5th)
-opposition Asecndant (Gemini)

No planets in the 12th House.

Person #2 (me/the "other" woman)

Ascendant in Pisces
-trine Sun (Sagittarius/8th)
-square Mercury (Sagittarius/9th)
-opposition Mars (Libra/7th)
-square Jupiter (Sagittarius/9th)
-square Neptune (Sagittarius/9th/10th)

No planets in the 12th House.

posted August 17, 2006 06:49 AM            

however with us, there's a strong Venus/Uranus/Neptune thing going on..

lot of Moon/Pluto and Venus/Pluto contact as well...

posted August 17, 2006 11:24 AM              

I suggest getting out of the triangle. From astrology, we know that the nature of relationships are one person and another person (7th house - where our "self" meets an "other" person). Anything more than that (i.e., 3 or more people together) and you have "friends" (11th house - social but not "close"). Also, if they are cheating on you with this woman they are probably cheating with lots of other women.

You are better than that. You deserve someone who treats you in a special, one-on-one relationship which gives you their WHOLE attention.

Suggesting,

posted August 17, 2006 01:24 PM              

Me and that guy have some contacts in synastry that I think are very similar to yours ... my Venus sextiles his Neptune and conjuncts his Pluto; his Venus opposes my Moon, trines my Mars, sextiles my Uranus, squares my Pluto. However, we also have a nasty Venus/Saturn square (I'm the Saturn), which I think might be partially responsible for the whole triangle situation.

@wilsontc

posted August 17, 2006 01:27 PM              

I would ask yourself why you are attracted to a man who isnt available...

Its a deep and painful process, but well worth the pain....
I agree with all Tim's says....

posted August 17, 2006 01:31 PM              

I just noticed he has Moon in Pisces opposite Saturn in Virgo....

Dont moon oppositions indicate women issues....?

I would tread carefully....

posted August 17, 2006 04:29 PM              

@Dulce Luna

posted August 17, 2006 04:51 PM            

Karma is a powerful thing and takes its time to come around. Nothing hurts worse that betraying someone or being betrayed.

I would never want to be with a man that cheated on his wife / girlfriend and even told her about it, but refused to leave.

That is just my opinion..

posted August 17, 2006 05:48 PM            

Ok,of course your feelings wouldn't have changed even if you knew how serious he was with the other girl but once you knew I think you should've stopped right there. You are now as culpable as the betrayer, you can't make any excuses anymore. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but even if you love him I think you deserve someone who's available...someone who can give you all that you want. IMO, If he loved you, he would be all that for you instead of leaving you hanging by a string. And even if you two did end up together in the end, how do you know he wouldn't do the same to you? Triangles are very messy and hurtful, that's what I'm concerned about.

posted August 17, 2006 05:54 PM            

for real.

posted August 17, 2006 07:06 PM              

At the risk of sounding redundant ... Things are different in our case. I do realize that you won't fully understand our situation without knowing all the details. But let me assure you that things are really not that simple. There are many factors that come into play here, factors that may seem meaningless to most people, but that are crucial to him. Relationships are complex and can't be stereotyped. You can't apply a cookie-cutter pattern. It just doesn't work that way. It isn't always love that makes someone stay with their original partner rather than breaking up with them after they have cheated on them. More often than not it is not love but rational thought that makes them stay. Some people simply need more time to make a decision, especially if it is one that is prone to change their life.
Besides, if people always had endend things when they had found out that their object of desire was not available, they wouldn't have ended up together (e.g. Angelina Jolie & Brad Pitt, Prince Charles & Camilla Parker Bowles, etc.). I simply don't see why I should feel guilty about loving someone and not giving up on that love. Why should I sacrifice my chance of finding true love just to safe the happiness (if you can call it that) of another girl's life? Call me selfish, but I don't see the point.

posted August 17, 2006 07:16 PM            

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Things are different in our case

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posted August 17, 2006 07:37 PM              

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That's most people's mentality in these love triangle situation; that their's is always different. Personally I wouldn't wait for someone who seems to have almost no integrity in the first place-even if he was my "true love". I would rather be alone.You know what, you do what you want- just don't get your hopes up.

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posted August 17, 2006 09:05 PM            

Yes, I see what you are saying. I can't make a judgement because I am not in your shoes. I also get angry when everyone blames the other woman- but at the same time it makes me sick when I see women that set out to destroy relationships. That doesn't mean you... I have no idea the background of your relationship.

I have blurred the line once or twice, basically after having broken up but not completely moved out. At the same time there was NO sembalance of a relationship - so I didn't feel guilty.

~Pidaua...

posted August 19, 2006 07:28 PM              

Did you say, you have the astro info on the two fem's, but nothing on the dude?

posted February 27, 2019 08:01 PM            

I doubt anything untoward will occur, but an interesting dynamic has just started occurring with close work colleagues of mine.

Person 1 (male) is married.

Person 2 (also male) is single.

Person 3 (female) is also single and recently started working closely with both.

Synastry-wise, Person 1 has Mars in Cancer and Person 2 has Venus in Capricorn - which does appear to play out in a bit of a bromance between the two!

But here's the thing: Person 3's Mars and Venus are conjunct in Capricorn and - in an amazing coincidence - oppose Person 1's Mars on one side and conjunct Person 2's Venus on the other!

In addition she has a Moon-Venus trine with both guys as well.

How is this playing out? Both guys are crushing on Person 3, though I doubt Person 1 would let it go anywhere beyond flirting.

Person 3, however, seems to be crushing hard on Married Person 1. There's a definite chemistry with her and Person 2 as well - they actually seem to have a quieter, sweeter relationship and people in the office have gossiped how they'd make a good couple. But as I said, she's like a teenager around Person 1 - not awkward just more obviously flirty, laughing at all his jokes, etc (he's a more outgoing guy).

I'm guessing Person 1's Mars, especially in opposition, in this case trumps Person 2's Venus conjunct - despite him being taken and it likely not going anywhere, there's more zing and energy?

How would you interpret and what outcome would you predict?