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Topic: Venus trine Uranus
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AnaBG1
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posted August 16, 2006 10:15 PM
 
I have a question for everyone who has Venus trine Uranus in their natal chart...is the following description accurate?:Trine Venus - Uranus Independent in love. Their love life is rich, but with passing love affairs. They tire quickly and are scared of losing their liberty. If they marry, they will regret it. They have that little something that attracts the opposite sex: likes amorous adventures, their romantic. They the eternal lover and, of course, unfaithful if they have a serious relationship. They like art, anything new. I have heard that Venus trine Uranus indicates that they are unfaithful. Is this true?
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cappy
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posted August 17, 2006 10:45 AM
I have venus trine uranus and I can't imagine myself being unfaithful in love. I am very independent in love matters in that I don't conform to society's rules in love. But when I am with someone, I am with that person and no one else. Find it impossible anyother way.
I have lots of saturn contacts in my chart so that explains my "faithfullness". venus trine uranus alone wouldn't make one unfaithful...there's still free will anyway.IP: Logged |
Stargazer
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posted August 17, 2006 11:06 AM
I read this too. On cafe' astrology. The same thing is interpreted for the sextile.I think the whole chart has to be taken into consideration. Independent in love is
probably the theme. Especially if the
person has natal Uranus in the 1st house. Like cappy said..Free will...and some strong aspects that would scream the opposite of this would dilute the negatives. I know someone with the sextile plus the others listed. Square Venus - Jupiter He is nonchalant, pretentious, full of self-importance. He likes what is beautiful and sometimes ostentatious, and spends lots of money for the sake of appearances. He likes to please and has numerous amorous adventures. He is unfaithful and undergoes tribulations in love. Square Venus - Saturn This aspect sometimes means unhealthy sensuality. He is hard, and does not know how to express his emotions. He is frightened of showing his love, and this leads to disappointments, break-ups, lack of satisfaction. It is likely that he had problems with his mother, who did not know how to love him or give him self-confidence. He doubts, is suspicious and jealous. He will learn how to be happy in love, to be at ease with himself and to control his jealousy in the second half of his life, thanks to an older person, who gives his self-confidence back to him, so he can then trust others. Sextile Venus - Uranus independent in love. His love life is rich, but with passing love affairs. He tires quickly and is scared of losing his liberty. If he marries, he will regret it. He has that little something that attracts the opposite sex: he likes amorous adventures, he is romantic. He is the eternal lover and, of course, is unfaithful if he has a serious relationship. He likes art, anything new. He also has Mercury square Jupier and Saturn.... He is not faithful. But he chooses not to be.. He gets bored very easily.... IP: Logged |
darkdreamer
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posted August 17, 2006 11:43 AM
There`s a sentence in the interpretation that I don`t like and that is:"If they marry, they will regret it."
I don`t think you can predict something like this. All you can say is that an Uranian needs a certain type of marriage and relationship, and if an Uranian finds the right partner, who will accept and maybe even share their need for independence, they can become quite happy in their relationship.
I have a friend, who has Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus in Aquarius. Sun, Moon and Venus are in conjunct and Uranus squares this conjunction.
She`s surely a unique, independent woman, but she also has been in a happy relationship for 3 years now. But of course her partner is an unique man, too, who accepts that she`s often away from home (her work demands that) and who can fulfill her need to communicate. Of coufrse, if she tried to have a relationship with someone, who is clingy, pushy or too controling, she definitely would regret it. But with the right partner even an Uranian can be married happily. Best example is my father: He has Sun, Venus and Juptier in Aquarius; Uranus is in the 10th house, and he has been married happily to my mother, a Scorpio woman!, for 32 years now. DD IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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posted August 17, 2006 11:54 AM
Yeah, I don't agree with that interpretation either. If anything, it probably means that they're very independent and don't need a man/woman to validate them. I think it is very similar to my venus in gemini. We will commit but to the right person. My boyfriend has venus-uranus sextile and I think it also has to do with what type of person he's attracted to. IP: Logged |
WaterNymph
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posted August 17, 2006 12:00 PM
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Independent in love. Their love life is rich, but with passing love affairs. They tire quickly and are scared of losing their liberty. If they marry, they will regret it. They have that little something that attracts the opposite sex: likes amorous adventures, their romantic. They the eternal lover and, of course, unfaithful if they have a serious relationship. They like art, anything new.
Holy shhhhSome of that is true…but a chart can’t make someone unfaithful, that’s their personal choice. I fall in and out of love very quickly…it’s best not to rush into anything with them - that's when they’re likely to regret it. Slow and steady is the key…ironic huh? IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted August 17, 2006 01:47 PM
I have Gemini Venus trine Libra Uranus. I haven't been married, but I was engaged once, and I do deeply regret that. Since then (10 years ago) I have had no desire to ever get married, mainly out of fear that a marriage would trap me in a stifling situation where I'd be bound to do as society and my husband expected me to do, and not what I wanted or needed to do. Overall I have a very, very negative view of marriage. I have never been unfaithful in a realtionship. But I do get argumentive and angry when a relationship gets too oppressive. And it doesn't take much for me to feel oppressed in a relationship. I need a LOT of space. I don't consider myself veryromantic, but I suppose if I put in the effort I can be. I do like art, and I do like new things. IP: Logged |
chrissymgreen
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posted August 17, 2006 05:28 PM
Venus/NN in Aquarius trine Uranus in Libra on the ascendant here.I think the cookie cutter interpretations offered on some sites/in some books, while good as starting off points in some respects, generally need to be disregarded in order to fully comprehend what's going on in any particular natal chart. This is because the whole chart needs to be taken into consideration -- some planets have more weight due to placement and aspects, so on and so forth. Another thing to take into consideration is the type of aspect we are talking about here. The energy of a trine is very different from that of a square; almost, I would say, opposite. With a trine you have strong flow between two planets, and depending on other factors it can flow too much or (and I've seen a lot of this) be so deeply buried (because of the lack of friction) that the energies between the planets are unconscious. Used consciously, they can be very creative. In the natural zodiac they follow the fire signs Aries, Leo and Sag (0 degrees; 120 degrees; 240 degrees) which tells you something about their creativity and also about their ungrounded excesses. They also follow the natural harmony of all signs united by element--earth (Taurus, Virgo, Cap); water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) et cetera, which are all trine to one another. This is the inherent harmony and balance (in mathematical/physical terms) of the division of the circle by 3. Symbolically, because a circle is limitless (someone more math oriented can explain pi here) the trine in relation to the circle is representative of metaphysical energies at work in physical space--and these energies can be anything from sweet to horrendous. I myself would never consider cheating -- but I have a tight Venus-Saturn square as well. In fact this square is tighter than my Venus-Uranus trine. But I will say due to the Aquarius influence and Uranus on the AC (I have my NN ruler, Uranus, conjunct the AC and my AC ruler, Venus, conjunct the NN), I do need lots and lots of space in relationship. Way more than your average girl I'd say. But I can definitely be very devoted when my interest is piqued.
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Glaucus
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posted August 17, 2006 05:52 PM
Please don't believe in that cookbook crap. Venus-Uranus aspects can just indicate a independent,unconventional love nature that loves excitement,stimulation or they get restless,nervous,being bored easily,or rebellious if there are too many boundaries. This is especially..if it's the hard aspects(conjunction,opposition,and square,quincunx..even semisquare and sesquiquadrate). The soft aspects(trine,sextile)Venus-Uranus is not going to be that restless,rebellious,and nervous like the hard aspect Venus-Uranus.Those aspects can love of change and even change of partners. They can even indicate that they get tired of routine in the relationship. They don't necessarily mean that they are unfaithful and cheat. If they are dissatisfied with the relationship,they can end the relationship period. They can also avoid being in a committed relationship that threatens their independence. The Venus-Uranus aspects can also indicate that they can have partners that are different from them. They might love partners that are strange,unique,exotic in some way. This can be somebody who is drawn to gothic types or other unconventional lifestyle types of person. This can be somebody that is attracted to bohemian types. This can be attracted to somebody that is involved with somebody of a different culture,ethnicity,religion,color,creed,or somebody with entirely different beliefs. It really depends on the placement,aspects. My mother has Venus conjunct Uranus in Cancer in 2nd that trines her Moon in 5th house. She's not the cheating type that was sleeping around. The way the configuration manifested in her life was that she's white,and she's never been with a white guy. She's mainly been with black guys..especially older ones. She had a short relationship with a black man that is 12 yrs older than her,and I was result of that relationship. She ended up living with another black man that is 25 yrs older than her for security reasons. He's 6 yrs older than her father. She never loved him. She needed somebody that help her take care of me. Also..my stepfather took advantage of her vulnerable state when she was in hospital from recovering from getting shot. She was only 20 yrs old. They lived together when I was 3 yrs old,and they got married when I was 6 yrs old. They had had problems in their relationship. She would be erratic in her emotions in the relationship. They finally split up when I was 18 yrs old, a couple of weeks before my graduation. You know what was the last straw for her? What made her ultimately to get rid of his controlling,bitter butt? He refused her to buy her a house. She had stressed that needs security if he dies. We're talking about a guy that was already in his 60's too. My stepfather refused and even accused her of being selfish. There was nothing wrong with my mom being concerned about domestic security. Any ways..she made him leave. She got a divorce from him months later.
How is that for her Venus conjunct Uranus in Cancer in 2nd.
hahahahaha
Yeah...get rid of the cookbook crap. I don't even bother with cookbook stuff. It's good for guidelines but it's not going to tell you exactly what's going on. You have to see the rest of the chart too. See the big picture.
Free will is the ultimate factor.
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Hexxie
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posted August 17, 2006 06:14 PM
I agree with the 'Free Will' comments because if I fit the stereotype/cookie-cutter descriptions I'd never be faithful! I have never been unfaithful to a significant other. Been with my current boyfriend for just over 6 years. Yes it is quite the unconventional relationship, but it works!I have Venus conjunct Uranus in Scorpio in the 5th both squared my Moon in Aqua in the 8th & squared my Saturn in Leo in the 2nd (T-Square!) Glaucus, I liked what you wrote:
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The Venus-Uranus aspects can also indicate that they can have partners that are different from them. They might love partners that are strange,unique,exotic in some way. This can be somebody who is drawn to gothic types or other unconventional lifestyle types of person. This can be somebody that is attracted to bohemian types. This can be attracted to somebody that is involved with somebody of a different culture,ethnicity,religion,color,creed,or somebody with entirely different beliefs. It really depends on the placement,aspects.
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`Who are you?' said the Caterpillar. This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation. Alice replied, rather shyly, `I--I hardly know, sir, just at present-- at least I know who I WAS when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.'
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LILYGIRL
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posted August 17, 2006 10:27 PM
Glaucus's points are all on target.
I have Venus sq Uranus. I have been married 15 years and have never strayed. I have only slept with one other man before marriage. That was an Aqua who I dated for 9 years and who actually cheated on me.
In relationships I am independent and quiet and require lots of alone time to think (with no noise). I have always been attracted to unusual men. My first boyfriend was of a different race, religion, class and geographic location. My husband is biracial. D. is of a different race and religion. We share a similar level of education but that's it. In general I also do NOT like relationships where the synastry is full of conjunctions and trines. It feels boring and dead to me. If there are no oppositions or squares, there is no work or learning for me. I am often told that I am low maintenance but this is largely because I am very self contained and emotionally self-sufficient.IP: Logged |
coffee junkie
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posted May 29, 2013 12:14 PM
For me, this aspect has meant a search for “love supreme” as an expression of heaven (Uranus)-reaching revelation...deliverance. Something larger than me, selfless, true and eternal. All very Uranian qualities and not always in line with the everyday grind of marriage.
I was married and the routine suffocated me. I felt like I was in prison or unable to breathe to the point of mental illness. I left, it broke my spirit but I also got a lot happier - later.
I never want to get married again. Love yes, kids yes but no marriage.
I read wonderful things about this aspect sometime ago. It makes you curious, a little (or a lot) unconventional, liberal, someone who loves humanity in all its forms, no prejudices, no small-mindedness, no discrimination. All those things are true for me.
This aspect isn’t just tied to romance. It has given me a very inquisitive mind and brought me career success in a consulting field where it is important to push the boundaries, share the knowledge and really capture the essence of a concept. That ability to get to the “a-ha” moment probably also came from this aspect. However, my Venus is also a dispositor of my mercury and I am a Taurus so, as someone said, you do need to look at the whole chart. My Venus is also in the tenth house and Uranus is in the sixth.
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posted December 11, 2013 04:35 AM
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Originally posted by coffee junkie:
For me, this aspect has meant a search for “love supreme” as an expression of heaven (Uranus)-reaching revelation...deliverance. Something larger than me, selfless, true and eternal. All very Uranian qualities and not always in line with the everyday grind of marriage.
I was married and the routine suffocated me. I felt like I was in prison or unable to breathe to the point of mental illness. I left, it broke my spirit but I also got a lot happier - later.
I never want to get married again. Love yes, kids yes but no marriage.
I read wonderful things about this aspect sometime ago. It makes you curious, a little (or a lot) unconventional, liberal, someone who loves humanity in all its forms, no prejudices, no small-mindedness, no discrimination. All those things are true for me.
This aspect isn’t just tied to romance. It has given me a very inquisitive mind and brought me career success in a consulting field where it is important to push the boundaries, share the knowledge and really capture the essence of a concept. That ability to get to the “a-ha” moment probably also came from this aspect. However, my Venus is also a dispositor of my mercury and I am a Taurus so, as someone said, you do need to look at the whole chart. My Venus is also in the tenth house and Uranus is in the sixth.
Ugh this is what I'm afraid of tbh. I have this aspect (as well as Venus in the 10th) and I feel this very tendency coming on; Marriage= control= loss of romance and idealism= not worth it
I want stability, yeah, but I don't want my relationship to feel like a job idk. :/ I want to take care of someone and for them to take care of me only through genuine love, not some kind of ball and chain sense of duty. I think marriage (especially shotgun marriage) makes one stop trying, and start thinking in terms of years ahead instead of the now. I can see myself staying with someone my whole life actually, but just one year at a time, instead of saying, ok, the deal is sealed, so we can be horrible to each other now, but that won't make a difference in the grand scheme of things, right? (wrooong)
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posted December 16, 2013 08:30 PM
I am VERY romantic, I don't like Art, I prefer Science and I am not at all unfaithful.I would like to get married, but I will still need space and freedom. So yeah, I relate to most of it. IP: Logged |
eliotray
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posted December 22, 2013 01:20 PM
I also have Venus conj. Scorpio Sun in the second sextile Uranus in the fourth in Capricorn.
I don't date the normal group of guys, the idea of commitment fascinates and scares me at the same time.
Love affairs don't last longer than a few months.
I agree with everything listed above lolIP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted December 22, 2013 03:21 PM
I have venus in cancer trines Uranus in Scorpio quite tightly but I am not unfaithful at all, love deep bonds but everyone keeps telling me that I am a very independent personIP: Logged | |
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