posted August 26, 2006 06:05 PM              

Meditate on that.

You remind me of "Emma," Jane Austen's character from her book of the same name. Very concerned with popularity and appearances in relationships. Also, overly concerned with people's social status and thir appropriateness in being together as a couple.

My take: I think it may be karma. If I remember correctly from the boy and the "girl's" chart, they both had pluto in scorp - that is the planet and sign of karmic events.

Sarah does seem to be the best. Genuine and sweet (from your story).

I think you all need to learn from this. One, manipulation and games only produce bad results. Two, popularity is relative, and not too important. Three, maybe he really likes this "girl." Maybe he's evolved and doesn't care about popularity and appearances so much anymore.

You can determine future events to a certain extent by doing solar projections.

Are you Andrea?

posted August 26, 2006 06:40 PM              

As for the convo with Sarah, the boy and the girl, the girl just seemed to be flattering him, IMO.

The karma thing: You and your friends decided to change things to what you thought they should be by manipulating people and it backfired. Now, everything is different and you're upset (sorry for that). But if you can learn an important lesson from this, you will come out better and stronger and with more character because of it. Try to think of this experience as a learning one. Stop beating yourself up; what's done is done. You made a mistake and you'll make lots more, but learn from them. You aren't a bad person. Try to find friends based on qualities that are deeper and more meaningful - trust, caring, loyalty - not just outward characteristics and you'll be so much happier. Also, realize that nothing is constant; things and people will always change. Life IS change. The hard part is adjusting and growing from the change and not resisting it by living in the past and with regrets of what no longer is, what if's and so on. You're young. You have the rest of your life to live. What is it you want? Where do you see yourserlf in five years. When you think of who and what would make you happy, what do you see? This coud turn out to be the best thing that has ever happened to you if you use it for good.

posted August 26, 2006 06:45 PM              

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when the girl is manipulating, controlling and influencing- you say..the boy has evolved adn has learned to see beyond all that..

dont you think you are biased?

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I don't know the girl is manipulating and controlling.

I meant maybe the boy evolved from only caring about appearances when picking a GF. Nothing you've said makes me think the girl is controlling and manipulative.

posted August 27, 2006 12:08 AM              

You asked:

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Can astrology predict what can happen later, like in...i mean can astrology predict future?

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In my opinion, astrology can give an indication of the TYPES of things that are going to happen to us, but astrology can not predict definitely what WILL happen to us. This is partly because of logic: if I tell you what you definitely WILL do in the future, YOU can do something different from my prediction...making me wrong in my prediction. It is also partly because of free will...there are so MANY things that can happen in a person's life, that there are many possibilities that can occur.

However, astrology CAN indicate the TYPES of issues going on. Such as astrology can indicate when the issues in your life focus on relationships, power struggles, thinking, etc. This can be helpful because astrology can help us understand what the "message" is of our life situations. It also can help us understand our own energies better so we develop and grow in our life as best as we can.

Helping through astrology,

Tim

posted August 27, 2006 05:27 AM            

Does being in your circle mean you only associate within yourselves?

I understand that you have a problem with this other girls attitude etc but why be nice to her face if you're not being sincere? There are ways of being polite without being hypocritical.

That she doesn't seem to meet your 'standards' seems strange to me, that kind of things all relative isn't it?

You have to remember that people change all throughout their lives and sometimes other people don't like those changes, I'm thinking of your male friend.

My advice is to make more friends seperate to the ones you have now. You'll be surprised by what you can learn from different kinds of people. I'm not saying befriend people you don't like, but be open to new people and experiences.

You may be surprised!

posted August 27, 2006 05:45 AM              

Thank you very much, for taking the time to reply to all my posts. That was very kind of you.

No more questions now, you have answered all of them.

your interpretation was so accurate, so we tried to get a prediction, but you explained to us..that astrology can not predict what definitely WILL happen to us..
so yes..all questions aswered.

Thank you very much for your time, all the help, advice and also thank you for your patience.

posted August 30, 2006 03:10 AM            

Sorry if I came off as harsh but I was part of a similar group in high school who were very catty to people outside our circle.

And its funny cos they're all still doing exactly what they were doing in high school. I laugh and thank god I escaped!

I do think some people are very lucky but I also think you can make a lot of your own luck. I tend to go the other way though, I'm pretty lucky but occassionally I'll hit self-destruct and make things hard for myself. Lol.

posted August 30, 2006 06:14 AM              

1. If you're going to be a sheep and follow a group of so called popular good looking ppl around and snob everyone else.. then *expect* bad karma and don't whinge about it when it happens.

2. I'm in Australia. This kind of thing happens in high school and stays in high school. I thought it was the same everywhere (but maybe not)..Nowhere at any university I've ever visited or attended, has anyone acted this way. This is a very teenage-ish attitude.. that people, as far as I've noticed here.. grow out of as soon as high school is over.. This is partly why I find your story odd. It sounds TOO high school-ish.. it's almost hard to believe you're my age.. born in '86.. DUDE you're TWENTY years old.. what are you doing??? You're not 13 for cryin’ out loud!

What is this? oh she went out with him and then Sarah didn't like him and then he tried to make her jealous, but then he really started liking the other girl, so now Sarah's hurt, the other one's no longer popular.. etc etc..

No offence but it sounds like the script for 'Just another teen movie" only sillier!

I agree with everything Tim said about taking it as a lesson and moving on, and Tim I respect your patience in answering this and actually treating it seriously (I personally couldn't have).

3. When I started reading your story, my reply was going to be more sympathetic, because I thought you were much much younger.. but in all honesty, you should know better by this age, and I have zero sympathy for comments like “whomever is no longer the most popular girl” ..get *over* yourself.. and *her*.. I can’t believe you people have nothing better to do with your lives, then worry about who got voted most popular last week.

And yes, I understand the story. I've been through something very similar, except when it happened I was 14 and he was 15.. This would never in a million years happen after about 18, with most ppl.. I just think you all need to grow UP!

posted August 30, 2006 04:42 PM              

I was just about to ignore your post ..but something caught my attention..the name Paris Hilton.

SO lemme think...
what is common between paris hilton and Ashley..

ummm...

Okay...we both are rich,

umm.. we both are pretty....Nah...I think iam more prettier.

and...

and...
ummmmm...ummmm....Oh yes! we have people like YOU who love to read about us, and comment

when i posted here i didnt know i will find a *Wannabe* Ashley . Good..I like it .

posted August 30, 2006 04:52 PM              

Keep posting here. i like to see my thread on page 1.

PS: I am expecting a Fan Club. *blush*

posted August 30, 2006 08:09 PM              

IF the stoey is true, she got everything she deserves, which is something I thought all along, but didn't want to say.

posted August 30, 2006 11:21 PM              

This thread does NOT need to be moved to "Teen Spirit". All kinds of people are free to post here in Astrology.