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Topic: Mars and The Fighting Spirit
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alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 40 From: Somewhere over the rainbow Registered: May 2009
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posted August 25, 2006 02:20 PM
DayDreamer,Basically, I got to that point by wide public opinion. My mom started calling me pushy and saying I was mean. My campers started calling me the grinch that stole summer. My boyfriend and I fought constantly and our relationship almost fell apart. I was pushing my friends away and pulling them back when I wanted to. I was pretty much trying to control everything and everyone, insanely. My boyfriend finally gave me a wake up call one day by saying "I think you feel you're older and more important than you really are and one day you're gonna wake up, thinking everyone you "love" will be around when really, no loves you after all". (gotta love that Sag/Aquarian honesty) It was so mean and squashed my ego so badly (poor Leo moon over here) that I decided i needed to go through a drastic change in attitude, appearance..everything It's been hard because pushiness and power trips are kinda hardwired into my system...but like I said I try and think more of the other person now than my own wants/needs or how I'm gonna get mine at the moment... It helps me from making such persistent demands on everyone else..a little but of empathy goes a long way i suppose..
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posted August 25, 2006 02:49 PM
Fighting? A few people I know have mercury square pluto and they can say really vicious things at times and seriously start something.My mars is in pisces, which is a weak placement but it sextiles the AC, trines the MC, squares Uranus and forms a sesquiquadrate to Pluto. As mysticaldream says, the mars-pluto aspects definitely are a problem. (I have sun square pluto to 'help' there as well). Anyone trying to play authority figure with me becomes an enemy and I'll fight with them until things get really ugly. The same fate aways anyone who tries to make me conform to tradition, they get on my nerves real fast. So mars-uranus and mars-pluto both definitely play a role here. IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 250 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2006 04:32 PM
Haha *23 pokes ALeonine a bit more for test purposes* (I used to do to this to a leo friend to see how far I can push him)Teaselbaby - woah, you vomit as opposed to get angry?? Never heard of that! Really, I don't know how long it takes for me to get angry but when I do, I get very angry and I can stay angry for a very long time (and I hold grudges too!). Sometimes I hold it in and don't tell the person and then I explode. Then they scratch their head and don't understand or realise that they've upset me. I think this the unfortunate relationship between my Asc and 7th and the stuff in it. IP: Logged |
teaselbaby Newflake Posts: 0 From: Ohio Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 25, 2006 05:13 PM
Oh, no 23, I vomit after I've really got into it with someone. Then I get annoyed that I've been so affected by it all. I've just realized that I made myself sound like a pushover earlier, which I'm not. I just prefer to deal with things, if possible, without losing my head. IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 250 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2006 05:36 PM
Gee, that's still interesting, you must harbour feelings of guilt when you get angry? I feel like this sometimes when I am angry too, but I don't tend to show it. IP: Logged |
SavageScorpio unregistered
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posted August 25, 2006 06:53 PM
I have Mars in Aquarius squaring my Sun, Saturn, Venus, and Mercury, and opposite my moon in Leo. I have a T square in my chart (not so great!).Anywho, I have Mars in Aquarius, and we are usually always the most indifferent people, takes a lot to get me angry, and like what that person was saying about how you automatically like someone or not, that isn't true for me however. Mars in Aquarius has to be friends, before dating, and be friends with a person before trusting them as a better friend, etc. Very skeptic, analytical, and all the Scorpio makes me enigmatic. My chart at astro.com says I'm so into my own life, that I guess I push people away, and they get the impression I think myself better, but I just don't want to impose on their life. This is very true, we're fanatical about freedom, personal freedom, and equality pretty much. "Have a problem with authority", I can agree with that to an extent. If you're treated like a minion who wouldn't leave? A lot of times, with authority, I get impatient, and because Mars in aquarius has to do everything on their own, learn their own way, etc. it's difficult. "I am extremely independent and hotblooded, always ready to defend someone I like/love, something believe in, or something I just feel like doing. And I would fight forit till the end of the earth, just because it's something that either means something to me, or something I want. " I agree with that 100%, me too! I'm FANATICAL about personal freedom (if my life isn't mine, I am powerless, have no freedom, it's like that of death to me, seriously, to someone with Mars in Aquarius, this is significant of DEATH, and you want to die), I'd fight for it until death, seriously, anything I believe in or means something to me! Which my independence/freedom is the most important thing to me. Having no one in my business, being able to have space, and no one trying to change you, analyze you, and try to tell you who you are, when you know who you are. I'm fanatical about being able to live your life how you want to. It's not about getting my way, or getting what I want, .... it's about freedom/independence to live your life. When I get angry, I get REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY angry, and for me to get that angry, it's something extremely serious, most always to be that angry, it's problems that have built up over time, and if they don't change, you get angrier and angrier, and hopeless, and literally cannot live- it's all you can think about. Mixed w/ the Leo moon, WATCH OUT!! Usually I only get that angry when it comes to people in my business, powerless over your own life, having no freedom/independence, etc. It just gets worse, unless things change, that anger doesn't go away, and recently, I've been more angry, hopeless, infuriated, than I ever have been in my entire life, and it's scary, when you can think of nothing else, and you have no freedom. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2006 07:27 PM
Yes I can relate, I have a laid back happy go lucky type of way about me. But...if something or somebody makes me mad, it feels like a hurricane is building up. A combination of hurt and angry overwhelmes the heck out of me. There's been times when I've been paralyzed by being so ****** off(that I literally couldn't move). I have aspects Mars square Sun and Moon conjunction Mars that contribute to this. But with my Pluto square ascendant and Mars square Pluto I attract intense and awkward situation, which I try hard to avoid but what can you do????IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 250 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2006 07:41 PM
This is slightly changing the topic but I notice that when I have an aspect where I have a square to my mars by someone else (usually in Virgo, and my mars in Gem), I have a bit of an instantaneous dislike for them. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2006 07:53 PM
My mother and I have been victims of violence . My mother was hit by my father who had paranoialike jealousy when she went to man's apt to get flour. One day, he hit her again, and my mom grabbed a knife and cut his arm open. 3 days before my 3rd birthday,my mother was shot by a schizophrenic guy who broke into our house and thought she was somebody else. She and I were watching television at the time. The guy actually shot at me,and my mom pushed me down. My mother got hit in the hand and went into her eye. She was lying on the floor,and she got up. He was going to shoot her again,my mother was furious about it. She grabbed me and shoved right past him. She got away. How is that for lioness protecting her cub??? He only got 12 years. Before he shot my mom, he was incarcerated before with schizophrenia diagnosis,and they released him. That experience is one of the reasons that I have a strong disdain for violent criminals(mentally ill or not) and believed in the death penalty until a year ago. However, I have wondered about it. There is part of me that would like to see John Mark Carr fry if he did kill Jon Benet Ramsey. Violence towards children especially upsets me. Honestly, if somebody killed my child, I might be tempted to kill that person. Of course,I wouldn't. It would only make me as bad as him.I grew up with my mom verbally and physically abusing me. I have had numerous fights when I was growing up. I got bullied a lot because of my Dyslexia,Dyspraxia,being very feminine,and mixed. Being an overly sensitive,emotional child, I cried very easily. My stepfather told me if somebody hit me,I hit him back. He told me that when I was in 2nd grade. He pretty much told me to defend myself,and I listened to him. I even got suspended from school for fighting in 2nd grade. I was suspended from school for fighting 5 times. I got tired of being teased,picked on, and so I ended up fighting back. I was the same when it came to verbal conflicts, there was no delays in responding to their verbal attacks. I have always been very quick to defend myself. My parents tell me stuff that I didn't agree with,and I had a rebuttal. I was slapped and hit by parents numerous times for speaking up for myself. My mom was especially going psycho on me for talking back to her. My mom always had a bad temper,and I was scared of her. She would yell and cuss me out and my stepfather. She's gone after him with knives and even threw stuff at me. She would hit me,and I wouldn't fight back to defend myself because she's female and my mother. This was even still going on when I was 18 years old. I even told myself one time "My mom is going to be the death of me" She and I had some arguments few years ago,and she threatened to kill me. By the way, I had spankings as a kid too. They hurt like hell. It was probably one of the reasons that I actually behaved well in school. I actually was a restless and easily kid who would tend to fidget...especially with the flourescent lighting. I was very much disciplined because I came from a home of hard knocks,discipline,and structure. I compared my mom to mother superior and my stepfather to drill seargeant. Any ways...I have always been very fierce in the way I defend myself verbally. I have dealt with power issues with my parents. I still have power issues in that I don't want to people overpower me and take away my power. Until April of this year, I had resentment towards my mother for abusing me even though I have financially helped her out since I was in the US Navy. I finally forgave her. I admit that I had serious anger issues from how I was raised and the way I have been treated and misjudged. There are things that tend to set me off easily being called "retard","stupid"(or other word),"faggot",and "nigger" I have been called all those words. Yeah....I know what it's like to experience violence,and so does my mother. None of us are killers. We didn't commit violent crimes. I don't hit people. Also I would never treat my future children like my mom treated me. I won't even spank them. I don't believe in spankings. The good thing about my mom hitting me was that I don't underestimate the strength of a female. I used to joke around that she can go a few rounds with Mike Tyson. Actually,I was partly serious!
Honestly..I have wondered if I will get murdered in the future. Would it be karma for killing others in a pastlife. Stuff like that intrigues me. I try to live in the present and be a good person. Whatever happens. I know that what goes around comes around. I try to treat people like I want to be treated. However, I don't turn the other cheek. I am no martyr. Maybe nothing will happened to me. I feel more afraid of loved ones being harmed even more. I don't want anything to mom again. I don't want my girlfriend to be harmed,and yeah..I am well aware that she has Mars oppose Pluto in 7th,and that doesn't change the way I feel about her. I also know that the aspect could also indicate that the potential for violence happening to the partner...even being killed. That doesn't bother me. My experiences have led me to not fear of my own death. Things happen for a reason. I am not going to be scared by possibilities. I prefer not to live my life in fear. I can be cautious though. Now that I know that my 8th house is not empty of planets...thanks to the discovery of "Xena"...finding my "Xena" in Aries in 8th house, I kinda wonder if my death will be connected to things that will have no control over and unexpectedly with Uranus opposing that Planet in 8th..........that same energy can be good for occult,metaphysical,psychology,and astrology. I feel that I have put that energy to good use. I feel that anybody can if they put in the effort and believe in themselves. Violent potential stuff in my chart: Sun,Mercury,Venus in Scorpio Venus square Mars Moon conjunct Mars(8th house ruler) Moon quincunx Pluto in 1st Pluto square Sun/Mars midpoint Ascendant square Mars/Pluto midpoint Uranus oppose Mars/Saturn midpoint Saturn oppose Mars/Ascendant midpoint Sun semisquare Mars/Uranus midpoint Moon sesquiquadrate Sun/Pluto midpoint Oct 29, 1971 San Francisco,California 3:20 AM Violent stuff in my mom's chart Moon in Scorpio in 5th square Pluto in Leo in 3rd Moon semisquare Mars Mars sesquiquadrate Pluto Mars conjunct Saturn/MC midpoint Mars oppose Sun/Uranus midpoint Mars square Moon/Pluto midpoint Sun semisquare Uranus/Pluto midpoint
June 13, 1954 Oakland,California 6:26 AM The shooting October 26, 1974 at night
both my mother and I have Chiron in 8th. My maternal grandfather had Chiron in 8th,and he committed suicide. Interestingly, transiting Chiron was conjuncting my Mom's Moon and my Mercury when he committed suicide on Jan 25 1998. It was a huge wound to us, but my grandfather's death was the catalyst to go on spiritual/soul search that led me to believe in God again,look into metaphysical things that eventually led me in Astrology.
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Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2006 08:02 PM
Its wierd because most of my family has the sun in aspect to mars. I have the trine, my maternal aunt has the conjunction in Aquarius, my dad has the Square, and my brother has the quincunx. My aunt is not normally forceful personality but will be so in order to get a point across or get what she wants. Its nothing I can't handle though (or anyone for that matter). My dad is not normally forceful either but if you ever got into an argument with him-watch out.: The thing with me and my brother is that mars is mal-aspected in our charts. Him by saturn and pluto; me by saturn and uranus. The trine gives me the energy I need to get things done, get the party started ....and other things . The squares to the outer planets give me a very short temper (doesn't help that my mars is in aries either). The square to saturn is probably the reason I hold grudges. IP: Logged |
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posted August 25, 2006 08:19 PM
Glaucus: after all u have gone through I find it admirable that u are able to self analyse and kno what u will and won't do in ur life re: violent behaviours, good for you My Dad (Mars in Virgo 4th Sqr Saturn 1st and Asc) also had a rough upbringing, he was hit alot and he also vowed never to hit his wife or children - and he didn't. Mum and Dad celebrating 40 yrs this year and he has been the most wonderful, loving, providing father anyone could hope for and has even become surrogate father to my daughter (who's dad ran out - but that's another story! ) You can decide ur own actions G - Power to u! ------------------ ...to have been loved so deeply, even though the person who loved us is gone, will give us some protection forever... IP: Logged |
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posted August 26, 2006 01:43 AM
DayDreamer -I love this subject, especially the way you worded the Topic. A fighting spirit indeed! I'm glad those two old threads came back up recently, "A Chance to Heal a Past Injury" and "I Get Knocked Down But I Get Up Again". It reminds me to address this topic first questioning under what circumstance. It's easier to just generalize the answer, of course, and much more work to really break it apart. But not in terms of "is it an a-hole ex or is it an old lady getting robbed at gunpoint". More like, a natural warrior spirit which you have always been in touch with all your life, and with which you are already 'one' with", or is it "a temporary circumstance which challenges you to be more warrior-like" ... kind-of-thing ... Cz we all know that the bullies are the biggest babies. ------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
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posted August 26, 2006 02:05 AM
Glaucus. Have you like been violent all your life? I have Sun, mercury, venus, pluto, squaring my mars which is opposing my moon sign. I don't know if it's the Mars in Aquarius, or Gem ascendant, my chart says I have an abhorrence of violence. This has always been true. I've never liked to see people fighting, when people ever get hurt, it's like I can't watch. Stuff like that. Always been more of like a "can't everyone just get along" equality, harmonious type. However, these days my life has been crazy, worse than ever, just out of control, and I have so much damn anger. What sign is your mars in? If it's in a fire sign, your supposed to be easily angered. From what I've studied so-far, I've seen the statistics, most violent people are fire signs or Cancers. Moon in Scorpio is a prominent one too. IP: Logged |
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posted August 26, 2006 02:10 AM
Glaucus. Have you like been violent all your life? I have Sun, mercury, venus, pluto, squaring my mars which is opposing my moon sign. I don't know if it's the Mars in Aquarius, or Gem ascendant, my chart says I have an abhorrence of violence. This has always been true. I've never liked to see people fighting, when people ever get hurt, it's like I can't watch. Stuff like that. Always been more of like a "can't everyone just get along" equality, harmonious type. However, these days my life has been crazy, worse than ever, just out of control, and I have so much damn anger. What sign is your mars in? If it's in a fire sign, your supposed to be easily angered. From what I've studied so-far, I've seen the statistics, most violent people are fire signs or Cancers. Moon in Scorpio is a prominent one too. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 26, 2006 02:32 AM
NopeI wasn't violent all my life. I didn't pick fights either. It was self defense stuff. I got picked on a lot. My stepfather told me to defend myself. I did fight a lot growing up. Not as an adult though. I do believe in defending myself. I don't see why I should be a martyr and let somebody beat me nor just walk all over me. Like I said, I can be very aggressive verbally too. I have Mars in Aquarius too,and it conjuncts my Pisces Moon and squares my Venus in Scorpio. I already listed my midpoints involving Mars and Pluto. Midpoints are important in Astrology. I actually focus more on aspects than signs because of my beliefs in Cosmobiology which doesn't use signs,houses and strongly uses midpoints. It doesn't use the soft aspects either. In cosmobiology,hard aspects aren't necessarily challenging. In cosmobiology, it's just about the combination of the energies. It wasn't about being easily angered and quicktempered. I actually kept a lot of stuff in and let it fester. I was taking people's crap and doing nothing about it. Then I couldn't take it any more. I was easily hurt too. If you read my post again, you would see that I was talking
" I got bullied a lot because of my Dyslexia,Dyspraxia,being very feminine,and mixed. Being an overly sensitive,emotional child, I cried very easily." I was abused growing up by my mother too.
"I admit that I had serious anger issues from how I was raised and the way I have been treated and misjudged. There are things that tend to set me off easily being called "retard","stupid"(or other word),"faggot",and "nigger" I have been called all those words." My mother is easily angered,and she has no Mars in firesign. She has Mars in Capricorn conjunct descendant/oppose Ascendant. I think that's its her Scorpio Moon in 5th square Pluto in 3rd as well as her out of bounds Mars. She has Mars square Moon/Pluto midpoint with 4 minutes of arc.
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teaselbaby Newflake Posts: 0 From: Ohio Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 26, 2006 11:45 AM
quote: Gee, that's still interesting, you must harbour feelings of guilt when you get angry? I feel like this sometimes when I am angry too, but I don't tend to show it.
It depends on the situation. It happens with my Mother and Sister when they really get angry, too. I didn't think it was all that uncommon.
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teaselbaby Newflake Posts: 0 From: Ohio Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 26, 2006 11:52 AM
Glaucus, I survived a violent encounter when I was five (thanks to my Mother). I was bullied at times, too, for a while by my Grandmother (also when I was five/six) and then in high school. I guess that's why I don't like to treat people the way I wouldn't want to be treated. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Moderator Posts: 5228 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 26, 2006 12:34 PM
teaselbaby,Yeah...I am the same way. Just because I stand up for myself, defend myself,and fight back doesn't necessarily mean that I don't treat others like I want to be treated. I just don't believe in turning the other cheek. Maybe it's different for guys any way...especially growing up with a lot of violence. I am a guy that doesn't fit the male stereotypes. I live in Sacramento,California. I live in areas where there are mostly Blacks. If you read about black neighborhoods, a lot of violence goes on. I am part Black myself.
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teaselbaby Newflake Posts: 0 From: Ohio Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 26, 2006 12:43 PM
I just pegged that bit on there, because of 23's question about my throwing up after losing my temper. Nobody likes to be yelled at, so I sometimes feel bad, even if the other person deserved it at the time. *edit. I actually lived in Roseville, outside of Sacramento, for a while. Citrus Heights and Dixon, too (between October 1990 and January 1994). I haven't had to deal with everything you have, so I wasn't judging you. Sorry if it seemed that way. IP: Logged |
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posted August 26, 2006 02:07 PM
Hello everyone!I have Sun sextile Mars, but have other aspects that promote a "fighting spirit" (or just plain bull-headedness, on my part): first, I have three prominent placements in Taurus, including my rising sign. This is not fiery, of course, but out and out obstinacy--and it makes me a fighter by digging in my heels and not letting go of something. I do have the Moon in Sag, and at times I will fly off the handle but I get over trivial anger pretty easily. The main thing that makes me a fighter, I think, is my Sun and Mercury both square Pluto. I can be very abrasive in my relations with people, especially verbally--with those strong Taurus placements, I tend to be stubborn and not willing to see other people's points of view. Add the squares to Pluto, and forget me listening to you if I don't agree. I can be controlling at times, have a volcanic temper, and am fiercely independent. Am trying to learn to use my Venus conjunct Ascendant natural charm to tone down the Pluto squares...it doesn't always work. IP: Logged |
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posted August 27, 2006 02:27 AM
Mysticaldream, thanks for sharing your suggestions...does taking a few minutes actually work for you? I think the Pluto conjunct Mars might be helping you in this case? Waiting a few minutes or a few hours is not enough time for me to regain even some peace. I have to do something else, move, do some physical activity, read a book, or talk to a friend/family to regain some peace. Mars conj mercury conj MC is a challenge to control. cat71, I can't hold grudges (for long ) either...and Id rather just walk away from the whole thing too.
That's awesome you are most diplomatic with your family. It's almost the opposite way around for me...and Ive got a Pisces moon. I dont know if that has anything to do with it. I have to blame my father for this one...he was never known for being diplomatic at home. Better with my family now, then when I was a teenager. Kewl Im a highschool teacher as well!...and I hear ya on not showing those emotions in the class...learned that one from experience The Virgin, I can't say Ive ever disliked a person without knowing anything about them...and if I did I wouldn't tell them...unless they ask for it.
You said "Just when you think you've got it down your skills are tested at the next level." Sometimes that idea bothers me. I bought a spiritual book on patience a few months ago...haven't the patience to sit down and read it yet I'll try to post some here...it'll motivate me to open the book. teaselbaby, I am embarassed when my temper even begins to show in public...at home tempers flared everywhere, so everyone is used to it.
I know a couple Aries who feel the same way you do...they get embarassed when they lose their temper...I wonder why that is when Mars is your ruling planet? That transit in the 12th house must be bringing up some unconscious sides to you...and conjunct Pluto would just speed up the transformations. Good luck with that! IP: Logged |
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posted August 27, 2006 02:36 AM
Sorry it takes me forever to read and respond...I dont know how some people write volumes upon volumes in this place. It amazes me. Thanks for sharing everyone...Im learning and reflecting alot. Responding to everything else tomorrow.IP: Logged |
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posted August 27, 2006 04:34 PM
I have Moon opposes Mars and even though most of the time I'm quiet, but I can be a troublemaker and am not afraid to fight. Ain't that funny coming from a Pisces Rising? Aries Moon temper, more likely.IP: Logged |
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posted August 28, 2006 06:24 PM
I have Sun square Mars.I've noticed several things related to this aspect. For instance, I can be very impatient with my goals (and also with others). I am extremely ambitious and have quite an active nervous system. Have to regulate my desires quite often as they can be very powerful (mars in 8th house). I feel mentally very aggressive when people are cruel and unfair to me or to others, and I find myself thinking of attacking them with sarcasm and pointing out at their weak arguments but my pisces sun doesnt like confrontations so I bottle up a lot, a lot, a lot... I found out that I regularly need to channel my mental and physical high charge through exercise but because I'm not into that right now, I beat up my mattress with my pillow when I feel like telling off someone in the most cruel way (scorpio rising is very creative with vindictive language, hehe). It works for me ;-) I also realised that this square makes me very competitive with men, don't trust them much and I can quickly go from flirting with them to being "difficult" to them (nothing to be proud of BTW). This was also linked to my bad relationship with my dad. Since I'm working out on it, I feel more open to guys. But it will always be there, I know. I'm ultra feminist too but still feminine (pisces girl). Anyhow, due to the seriousness of such a square, I am little by little letting my martian energy express itself more often, as its in my nature to compete and all that. I feel better now that I express that part of me (mind u, I'm having transiting pluto opposite my mars, so I'm learning the hard way!). It was last March around my birthday when I finally came to terms with the fact that I am way more competitive than what I thought(I thought I was all peace and love stuff). Anyone seeing that square would have guessed right. End of this long post! Keep inspired
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posted August 28, 2006 06:37 PM
Wow, Scarlet, I could have written this myself: I don't have Mars square Sun though........very interesting!!!"found out that I regularly need to channel my mental and physical high charge through exercise but because I'm not into that right now, I beat up my mattress with my pillow when I feel like telling off someone in the most cruel way (scorpio rising is very creative with vindictive language, hehe). It works for me ;-) I also realised that this square makes me very competitive with men, don't trust them much and I can quickly go from flirting with them to being "difficult" to them (nothing to be proud of BTW). This was also linked to my bad relationship with my dad. Since I'm working out on it, I feel more open to guys. But it will always be there, I know. I'm ultra feminist too but still feminine (pisces girl)." IP: Logged | |