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Topic: Help with Cappy and Virgo
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pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 67
From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2006 07:00 PM
  
Silverstone, 
LOL... hmmmmmm, what did you mean? You must be talking about another thread huh? I wasn't mad at all at Sharon I feel empathy for her because of her situation..
But..in Global Unity.. well that is another forum all together  ~Pidaua
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silverstone
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posted October 12, 2006 11:09 PM
Greetings, Pidaua...What I meant was your hubby, LEOTHEBEAR, should know never to mess with you. Otherwise, he'll get a lawsuit  But I think he knows that. I was reading your post to Sharon49 and I thought it was good advice and I definitely agree with you, but, at the same time, I said to myself "DAMN" (It's a guy thing, ask your hubby) Girl, just him reading your reply to Sharon49, the idea of him messing with you will never cross his mind  In the long run, guys like strong women (it's a secret thing), so he will not mind your BATTLES... hehe (and I mean that in a good way) Cheers 
Silverstone 
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The only other sound's the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake.
The woods are lovely, dark, and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep. ~Robert Frost IP: Logged |
Lialei
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posted October 13, 2006 09:21 AM
Sharon,
I just read your story. 
You're entire worth seems caught up in this man and that's the most saddest to think of.
It happened. You can't undo the past, but your life isn't over yet and you can still change it. It can be whatever you choose. Really. Even though it seems hopeless, that is just your fears and insecurities imprisoning you. The cage is an illusion you have created. Any moment you can be free of it.
First off, the work you need so desperately the most right now is inner.
Find yourself again. You. Without him.
What brought you joy in life before him?
Go back..remember. Who is Sharon? What is her truth? It's your Self that needs saving first, not your situation. That would naturally follow.
Detach yourself from him emotionally, whatever it takes.
Does he deserve your focus? Does he give you focus? You are worthy of more respect.
You have to believe that yourself first.
Being 57 doesn't mean your life is over,
but giving over your soul and power to him is another story.
Demand better and accept nothing less!
Get firey and p*ssed off! You have every right to.  Tell him once and for all to f*ck off. Become empowered.
Your passion doesn't come from or with him...it comes from YOU. Sorry if this was direct...just
hoping to help.  IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 117
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Registered: Feb 2010
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posted October 13, 2006 10:11 AM
Sh*****t thats what Im talking about..
Later for him, somebody better ring the alarm..Take your power back... IP: Logged |
lovely*
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posted October 13, 2006 01:11 PM
Capricorns don't like to be chased. Like someone else said here, they like to win the beloved's approval. You've already accepted all his garbage, why should he break the pattern now?These types of people, not exclusively Caps, only feel loss once you are done and ready to move on. As you've witnessed in the past when you considered marrying someone else, he was right there ready to ruin the chances for you to be happy. Stop allowing yourself to be the welcome mat on the front porch for him to wipe his muddy boots. Be sad, be angry, then wish him away from you with all the energy you can muster.  IP: Logged |
Sharon49
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posted October 13, 2006 05:44 PM
I have heard you talking and I must say how much I appreciate each one of you that have taken the time to read about my life. I know my story has been long. I can't keep going on like this and Must make a change. Keep me in your thoughts. I need all the strength that you can give to me, SharonIP: Logged |
silverstone
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posted October 14, 2006 04:01 AM
Sharon49,Tell him to get lost once and for all. Some people, unfortunately, just never change. He may seem like he changed, but he will not. It's hard to believe he will after all of those years... Begin a NEW LIFE! Lia and Pidaua  That's right ------------------
The only other sound's the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake. The woods are lovely, dark, and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep. ~Robert Frost IP: Logged |
silverstone
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posted October 18, 2006 12:17 AM
Sharon49... how are things? Have you kicked him to the side yet?
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The only other sound's the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake. The woods are lovely, dark, and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep. ~Robert Frost IP: Logged | |
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