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Topic: Any knowledge about cappies ? Answer please.
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Sharon49
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posted October 13, 2006 05:29 PM
 
Hello Person wondering about Cappies. Why don't you take the time to read my post a few weeks back Called, ( something like) help With Cappy and Virgo!! That is my post. I am a virgo woman that has loved deeply a Cappy man. It has been over 20 years and I am still starving to death to be loved. He never really has time for me and I feel I am just a burden in his life. His blood family are the only ones that he truly loves. I have been married to him for over 10 years now and still, I am on the outside of his life. I have really given up on his love, and right now I am just biding time as to how it will end. He has used me and kept me from making a life with any other man, but yet not wanted to make a life with me as a husband should. He still thinks that his family is the first woman he married and his Mama. I realize now that it will never change. It has almost taken me actually dying of a broken heart to let him go. It is just never going to be. I am earth Virgo and I need to know with words and acts that I am loved. He knows this for I have told him, yet he still doesn't care enough to reassure me. He is Cold to only the Real ones that he cares for. I have lived a life with A Cappy and I wouldn't wish it on anyone!IP: Logged |
kindjali
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posted October 13, 2006 05:48 PM
YOu are subjective Sharon, because you are angry.
I dont blame you, because from my experience I should hate all Cappy woman, but thats the not case. They always suprise me and give confidence that there are no replicas or clones. We are all individuals. Unfortunately we sometimes met ppl that have great impact on us, but they are far from maturity and are emotionaly hendicaps. But thats the life.If one day I am going to marry and have kids with Cappy woman...so be it. K. IP: Logged |
Sharon49
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posted October 13, 2006 07:42 PM
Do I really sound angry? I have been angry, but mostly I am so Very hurt. Because I have let this man take the best years of my life and I did not have the Courage to change it. He has continued on with his life, and held me back, KNowing what he was doing. It made him feel in Control of the situation. If you plan on marrying a Capicorn woman, just get ready to step back because she will always be the one to lead and you will fall behind. Remember that her eye is on the Top of the Mountaina and she intends to Claim it alone. Even if you are a Cappy yourself, she will bounce around with you, but she will come out on Top.Capricorn women are the ones of all the Zodiac to outlive all other signs. Good luck my friend, Some day you may remember saying I am only angry. What would you be if you were me? IP: Logged |
mahvesafar
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posted October 14, 2006 01:16 AM
Thanks all of you.Inlovewithlife! Your reply was really nice. Well, we haven't known each other for very long to be called as good friends. Just a couple of meetings. I liked her. She liked me.
And somehow , the situation is such that within two weeks both of us have to make the biggest decision(marriage). She is already like 'yes'. And I am still thinking. Lol! I will try to check out that synastry thing also but I am not sure how accurate that is. So, probably now I will just go by my intutions. Cacerians are good at that. And I am pretty good at reading people's hearts myself. IP: Logged |
kindjali
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posted October 14, 2006 03:40 AM
Agree to some point Sharon, but like I said, you have LOW type and HIGH type. I felt like you, so I know the feeling, but I dont "mark" others because of that. Everybody is world for her/himself. No same person.K. IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
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posted October 14, 2006 02:48 PM
You are most welcome mahvesafar !Hmmm...so u liked her !   I can understand your situation, being from India myself. Follow your heart and wish you all the luck! ILWL IP: Logged |
Aen
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posted October 14, 2006 03:00 PM
Luvly
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All this testing that Capricorns put their significant other
Constant testing is quite unhealthy, there is no reason why you should put up with it. 
Intresting that testing is mentioned several times. Personally I don't test people, but I DO look carefully (especially when dating) how they behave towards other people. Particulary older, weaker or competitors. kindjali
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Cappy woman want weak male, because it is only way that they can truly show theirselfs as a woman.
Disagree. Weak male has nothing to offer to me and I'm only willing to babysit a person I've given birth to.
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No hesitation. No regret. No looking back.
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mahvesafar
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posted October 14, 2006 03:38 PM
Thanks ILWL,Nice to know that you are from India. So,atleast someone understands why I have so little time to decide. Lol !! All the best with your cancer/sagi moon guy. Being a cancerian, I can tell you with confidence that he must have read your mind even without you saying anything. Just he will be too scared to make the first move. So, good luck. Mahv_e_safar IP: Logged |
kindjali
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posted October 14, 2006 04:00 PM
Pardon, let me say differently: "The man that they can control. They dont have to be weak". Btw, I am talking about LOW Type.
And at the end what is weak for somebody, for others are not.K. IP: Logged |
lovely*
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posted October 14, 2006 04:24 PM
Kindali, the archetypal capricorn female is dominant in relationships. A man who succumbs to it has a choice. It can be a beautiful relationship, but some men just can't drop the ego. Sharon, I read your stuff and it touches me. My heart is for you. You do sound like you've been victimized. But the fact is, no one "makes" you do anything. You had choices, no? To suggest your Cap robbed you of your youth only reinforces your weakness dear. I'm a Virgo too. I know the tendency because I know it. Know what I mean? I like Capricorns. My dear sweet baby girl is one and I know she will be strong and yet still keep that beautiful femininity in tact like all the Cappy girls I know! IP: Logged |
kindjali
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posted October 14, 2006 05:13 PM
Ego...giving and taking...to give a Ego, you expect the same.
I like Cappy will leave "rulling of the world" to Cappy woman, but I expect that she gives Ego like me in return.P.S. It is not the problem of droping Ego, if that in long term makes you feel happy. Problem is manipulating.
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cristiname
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posted October 15, 2006 08:06 AM
Aen  that's exactly how i've said it often
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"Weak male has nothing to offer to me and I'm only willing to babysit a person I've given birth to."we've had an audit once at the firm, and the hr manager gave me this feedback: "I've noticed how incredibly fair you are and, to my surprise, that you take charge of a situation ONLY when they can't handle it well enough by themselves." and I also have a Leo Mars and a Sag Mercury! yet, i think my Capricorn load (cap Sun-Venus in the 11th = leadership position) makes me wise enough to judge what's the best course of action. I don't boss people around as a hobby, and since I have an Aqua Asc, I don't come across as cold. In fact, my Scorpio Moon kicks in and nobody would ever consider that choice of words. They do, however, think I’m 'selective' in my choice of close friends. I always appreciate ppl who can speak up for themselves, have strong opinions (sag mercury) and strong personalities (prob Pluto square to my Sun-Venus). what puts a damp on my outgoing personality is an opposition to my Asc from a 7th Saturn, yet being a Leo Saturn, it brings some sort of dignified impression I give ppl. Ever since I was v young, ppl are somehow look up to me. and this is why i find myself always being in charge. Even the most individual and stubborn ppl throw it to my face that i boss them around, but then, when we do things together they go like 'I don't care, we do whatever YOU want to do". and I hate this! I hate being by myself always, carrying the whole responsibility. I call them ‘cowards’: they never express their opinions or will BEFORE, only afterwards; either 'I thought about this TOO' (when it al went well) or 'I knew we should've done it differently' (when it goes wrong.) so, ppl: stop complaining for not having a back-bone! if you want to have a say, ASSUME responsibility! stop blaming others for what you do! i've tried shaking ppl like this off my back. but wherever I go, they find me. so I figured, with my retrograde leo saturn in the 7th, ruling the 11th (plus retrograde gem jupiter in my 4th, and pluto conj NN in the 7th), that it is my karma to assume responsibility for other ppl as well, not just for myself. and my huge iq alone cannot justify it. this is not because i'm a lot smarter than others; but because a lot of ppl nowadays simply do not take charge of their own lives. dunno why. i stopped fighting their battles. i've tried to empower them, but they keep throwing power back at me. --- So, you see, one can hardly ever distinguish a Capricorn Sun in someone's psychological make-up. I'm the interaction of all these elements.
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