posted December 20, 2006 06:35 AM              

massive weekend for me, i'll fill you in.

Went out to a club with my aqua ex girlfriend and her friend, as i said in my previous post, we are still kinda together but i seriously think i'm being played now.

Because i don't trust her and she is sly, i read her msn convo between her friend about a week ago and she wanted her to goto this club to meet this other guy called tom and she said she showed the guy a photo of her on her phone and that he was a bit of ladies man and that all the girls seem to be interested in her.

Anyway, we rocked up at this club, me, my ex and her friend. then we met up with her friend who she spoke to on msn. we went to the dancefloor and there was this guy, i'm not sure if it was tom but he was walking around alot talking to alot of girls and didn't appear to have a girlfriend.

anyway she walked over to this guy at the bar (i was kind of standing back sussing it all out) and my honest judgement was that she said to him at the bar "my ex is here, i can't hook up with you tonight." or something along those lines. Anyway after they got a drink they wondered back to the dancefloor, more ignoring and no talking or even looking at me from her, then this dude was hanging around and they just kept eyeing eachother all the time, he would stare at her then stare at me and walk around for a bit and do it again.

Like i said in the other post, i told her to just be honest with me if she wants to get with another guy and i'd never talk to her again because it would hurt me far too much and it this reason that she is afraid of losing me that she isn't being honest about this guy.

I sent her a message shortly after they got back from the bar saying "look if you want me to leave i understand, just be honest with me, don't break my heart again by lieing to me" and she came over to me and said "all i want to do is dance with michelle, don't stress, his name is john, he is my ex's old room mate and his girlfriend is here."

She was in the most ANAL mood then she randomly walked out, didn't even tell me she was leaving so i followed her, didn't say ONE word to me on the way to the taxi or on the way home.

I seriously think i'm being played and lied to. I think she will go behind my back and screw this guy and not tell me just to keep me as a friend.

I read her messages when she was asleep and there was nothing in her sent items on her phone or in her inbox about this guy.

Just seems FAR to conincedental to not make sense...

Hurt Taurus
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posted December 20, 2006 07:00 AM            

It seems to me that she still has some interest in you. An aqu who doesn't like you will politely shut down and walk away. Based on what I have read, she's weighing pros and cons of the situation and trying to figure out who she wants to be with.

posted December 20, 2006 08:54 AM            

Sorry she is yankin your bull tail so!!

All and I do mean ALL of the Aquas I have known in my lifetime lie like they have been not tellin the truth since their first breaths out of the womb!!!

And they do it SO, SO comfortably I wonder if it has something to do with their inherant uncomfortableness with emotions, after all to tell the truth on matters of the heart can be very uncomfortable and I think some Aquas would rather lie than go there!

Personally, I do not see the point of not tellin the truth---If someone does not like what I have to say, then WHATEVER!!! I feel that the inability to tell the truth is a problem of the individual---have been lied to many times in my lifetime, by a whole lot of Aquas I might add!

If the Cool, Airy chick is going to make it with an grounded, honest bull, she had just better start being honest with you. You could try telling this to her, but she probably does not and never will have a problem with lies and very likely sees it as 2nd nature..

Blessings

posted December 20, 2006 08:58 AM            

Broad, is this sea
The salt, enters the wounds
My take, on you is simple
So heal, your fear
To heal, your fear
Time, spent wading off shore
The calm, before the storm
My take, from you is simple
So heal, your fear
To heal, your fear
You're such a comfortable liar
You're such a comfortable liar
You're such a comfortable liar
You're such a comfortable liar
You're such a comfortable liar
So calm
Cause I said wrong
You comfortable liar
You comfortable liar
You comfortable liar
You comfortable liar
Liar

posted December 20, 2006 10:31 AM            

He never acted like it! Although a "miss you" blown down from a Rockey Mountain high to the nearly sea level planes on which my earthly existence dwells, may just do it!!

Tauro--

Good point HD made about sexual jealousy and the suspiciousness of your opposite sign..Aquas loathe both

Your need and deserved right for honesty is one thing, but let her be who she will be or Ice Chick will blow her cool breezes elsewhere!!

posted December 20, 2006 12:57 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted December 21, 2006 02:58 AM              

Yeah most of what you all said feels true...I lost complete trust for her when 2 days after broke up she said to her friend "help me find a nice guy." But i have a tendency to hang on to a dying hope..but last weekend really just made me realise what i was dealing with. The next day, i sent her an email explaining how i feel and that i've deleted all her contact details and for her not to contact me. Every single one of my friends who has met her has said that i deserve far better and that she treats me like sh*t. Anyway, could anyone tell me if there are any sly, untrustworthy placements in her chart?

Feeling better day by day and my friends have really helped me get through this crap!

T (female)
born on 6 Feb 1982 local time 10:15 am
in Brisbane, AUSTL U.T. 00:15
153e02, 27s28 sid. time 19:30:23

Planetary positions
planet sign degree motion
Sun Aquarius 16°52'44 in house 10 direct
Moon Cancer 15°43'51 in house 3 direct
Mercury Aquarius 6°23'29 in house 10 retrograde
Venus Capricorn 23°50'46 in house 10 retrograde
Mars Libra 17°55'15 end of house 6 direct
Jupiter Scorpio 9°48'40 in house 7 direct
Saturn Libra 22°13'03 in house 7 stationary (R)
Uranus Sagittarius 4°10'21 in house 8 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 26°19'18 in house 9 direct
Pluto Libra 26°54'51 in house 7 retrograde
True Node Cancer 22°22'06 in house 4 direct
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Aries 20°01'53
2nd House Taurus 18°47'45
3rd House Gemini 19°16'59
Imum Coeli Cancer 20°53'52
5th House Leo 22°43'06
6th House Virgo 22°59'14
Descendant Libra 20°01'53
8th House Scorpio 18°47'45
9th House Sagittarius 19°16'59
Medium Coeli Capricorn 20°53'52
11th House Aquarius 22°43'06
12th House Pisces 22°59'14

posted December 21, 2006 03:03 AM              

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Planetary positions
planet sign degree motion
Sun Taurus 28°08'03 in house 8 direct
Moon Taurus 20°07'56 in house 8 direct
Mercury Taurus 8°04'01 in house 7 direct
Venus Aries 15°20'23 in house 7 direct
Mars Gemini 15°40'28 in house 9 direct
Jupiter Aquarius 16°31'24 in house 5 direct
Saturn Scorpio 24°34'30 in house 2 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 16°44'14 in house 3 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 3°07'32 in house 4 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 2°40'03 in house 1 retrograde
True Node Taurus 18°14'19 in house 8 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra 3°57'25
2nd House Scorpio 10°34'07
3rd House Sagittarius 8°31'59
Imum Coeli Capricorn 2°34'53
5th House Capricorn 26°58'43
6th House Aquarius 26°01'35
Descendant Aries 3°57'25
8th House Taurus 10°34'07
9th House Gemini 8°31'59
Medium Coeli Cancer 2°34'53
11th House Cancer 26°58'43
12th House Leo 26°01'35

posted December 21, 2006 04:27 AM            

I understand why you were attracted to her and maybe why she was attracted to you but I can't understand how an Aqu girl ended up with a Taurean to start off with.

If she is anything like me (which I suspect she is), she needs a lot of freedom, intellectual stimulation, independence and certainly would not like being told what to do. She has both a rather afflicted moon and venus which would give her even more independence I'd think and some volatility, maybe even commitment difficulties.

I think its more a matter of the fact that you two in the end just don't suit each other. However, push comes to shove, she'd use her cunning, outwit you and dominate you, which I have used myself to defend myself. A lot of it might be button pushing in her case (maybe venus squ pluto in her case).

I really don't know the full facts of the story. Don't think that I am giving her the benefit of the doubt, but is there anything that you see as incompatible between you as a couple? Don't think that I am blaming you for this though, I'd just like to know both sides of the story.

posted December 21, 2006 04:05 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer