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VirgoManBrokenHeart
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posted December 28, 2006 06:35 AM
 
" There's a white heat to Virgo love, once it's ignited, that can put the passions of other Sun signs to shame by its very intensity and singleness of purpose. Igniting it may take some time, however."
...Linda Goodman (Sun Signs)
Can Virgo's ever get out of the pain and soul hurt?
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eatbooks
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posted December 28, 2006 10:48 AM
what does your chart look like?------------------
your pain is my pain, is that love? IP: Logged |
lisasimpson243
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posted December 28, 2006 11:19 AM
Honestly?It lingers for quite a while with me cause I don't fancy people often and when I do it's really really deeply. I'm still trying to get over a betrayal that happened last month....slowly but surely I'm handling it and eventually.....it will go away. I hope yours does soon too. In the meantime...breathe and take your life back as your own....  IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted December 28, 2006 12:18 PM
I am married to a Virgo man.Sometimes I feel he is very self sufficient and doesnt "need" anyone. Recently I had a reading with a very good Irish psychic....she said to me 'he often cannot show his feelings, but if you were to ever walk out of that door, he would crumble" 
Yes I believe this to be true.
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mars446
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posted December 28, 2006 12:54 PM
Yes, I do attest to that...walk out of that door, and the Virgo will crumble. You know when you hit someone below the ribs near the heart or at the nuts, and how you feel someone just took your breath away (as in you're going to die), or just in general, how you would imagine someone sucking out your soul (think of Harry Potter and the dementors)....that's how a Virgo would feel if you walk out on them. I don't know about others, but I would hate that person for the rest of my life if they did that to me...no way would I ever let them in my life again. Not to mention be able to curse them for it...I have real good evil eyes  And yes, Virgo do feel very deeply....but then again, other than Virgoan traits, I have Scorpion traits, if u look at the pullen astrolog thingy. IP: Logged |
Amelia
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posted December 28, 2006 04:38 PM
All, I can say is that all will heal in due time...promise. My best friend, is a Virgo (plus she has venus and mars in virgo too). Very hard-working and responsible (service-oriented)... and though they may not openly show it at times; they do feel very deeply...have a real 'heart of gold'. Not oddly enough, my 'crush' is a virgo (and also has venus and mars in virgo too). Anywho, kudos to virgos. Even this 'brash' Aries can see this (  ). heh... ------------------
'Virgo Ascendant, Libra Moon, Aries Sun' "Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense". - Buddha IP: Logged |
Natural111
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posted December 29, 2006 01:18 AM
You all said it.Once fully engaged in someone, which takes some time, then we will crumble if that bond is broken but time and distance does heal us all. Never fails. But the crumbling feels like h*ll.
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Motherkonfessor
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posted December 29, 2006 04:20 AM
he was the Sun that warmed me...the Earth i stood fast upon...he was the Moon that shone in my darkness, silvery quick with passion and love...his was the face in my dreams, the name upon my lips as i woke.i loved him like no other, i lived for his words, his touch, his breath in the dark. i knew his soul- i shed tears for his pain. 10 years. his betrayal...was all. there is nothing left for me to believe in. he abandoned me to a pain of his own making, of our own making, leaving me alone to deal with it. he abandoned me, at a time when i desparately needed him to say something- anything- to show he was at my side. 10 years of love- finished. destroyed. the cycle completed. oh, how i loved... Me- Virgo
Him- Leo
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sue g
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posted December 29, 2006 05:12 AM
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VirgoManBrokenHeart
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posted December 29, 2006 05:35 AM
Thank you all for the replies It has been 15 years she left me and we were togather for 4 years !
Those who have Virgo partners please never ever leave them Just try to understand them
"We may as well get this out into the open right away. Don't pin your hopes on a Virgo man if your heart is hungry for romantic dreams and fairy tales, or you'll find yourself on a starvation diet. A love affair with a Virgo will dump a warm sentimentalist on the cold ground with a hard thud, and it can hurt." ...Linda Goodman"The kind of love which displays itself in dramatic emotions, sentimental promises, tearful declarations and mushy affection, not only leaves a Virgo man cold, it can frighten him into catching the nearest bus or train out of town. (Planes are too fast and too expensive for him, unless he's really desperate.) But he can be melted if the temperature is just right, even though he seems to be made of a combination of steel and ice. There are definitely ways to the Virgo heart. Secret ways. Aggressive pursuit is not one of them. Neither is coquetry nor sexuality, as many a flirtatious vamp and slinky siren has learned, to her surprise and disappointment." ......Linda Goodman
'You'll wonder if he's made of marble or if he |was born without a heart. No, he isn't made of marble |and yes, he does have a heart.' ...Linda Goodman
'The one quality of fairy tale romance about Virgo is that, if he's genuinely in love, he will wait for years to claim his true mate, or travel over a thousand mountains to bring her home to his hearth. ' ..Linda Goodman
'A Virgo woman can leave her husband for a man she met beside some faraway ocean, bear her lover's child before the benefit of marriage, and face a hostile world with her head held high. ' ...Linda Goodman
I dont know a thing about charts, moons and astrology
me Virgo 10 Sep. 1963
She Sagittarius in the mid of Sagittarius days- pure Sagittarius I dont feel comfortable giving her date of birth or year becuase I care about her so much
She broke my heart but I still love her from each and every peice of my broken heart. IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted December 29, 2006 05:58 AM
VirgoManYour post moved me to tears. I am a sentimental over emotional overly romantic Scorpio woman living with the archetypal Virgo man you speak of..... Almost eighteen years we have lived together..... I am told by many a "wise one" we would never part But it is very hard at times......for both of us..... Thankyou for moving me so.... I am interested to know what the overly emotional etc etc etc woman is to do if faced with the reserve and coolness of the Virgo man..... Is it a case of ultimate sacrifice in the name of love? Do you think that we should give up what we yearn for, at times, for love? Thanks x IP: Logged |
VirgoManBrokenHeart
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posted December 29, 2006 08:58 AM
Dear Sue,
I would say never part, because I hate breakups so much. If you have been together for 18 years you can live together for the rest of your life….. You said at times it is hard, please try little harder to adapt and adjust. Also try to understand him little more through Linda Goodman’s wisdom on
http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/contents.htm Make him understand too, and lead him, to understand and yes you can also try & play a trick with him just pretend that you have made up your mind to leave him and break up, and leave the house and leave him for some days even for a month, I am sure he will crumble and come to you if he is truly in love with you and if he loves you then I am sure he cant survive without you…..
Best wishes and best of luck.
Virgo Man.
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sue g
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posted December 29, 2006 09:14 AM
Dear Virgo man  And what about the Virgo man having understanding of the woman....isnt your suggestion a little one sided? Why is it the woman that should adapt and not the man? This seems a little unreasonable to me....if you see what I mean? If the Virgo man is so slow to show his feelings, isnt it maybe about time he learned from the woman how to do so? I wouldnt play "tricks" on anyone, I think that is getting into the realms of headgames which amongst other things can result in backfiring, I was with an Aquarian guy years ago that used to play tricks on me....he pushed me to the edge every so often and then pulled me back again...it almost killed me . It broke us up eventually. I wouldnt wish that on anyone. Hmm....you have helped me Mr Virgo man to understand that the Virgo man is indeed capable of great stubborness (as well as wonderful kindness and patience too of course) Thanks....I trust we shall learn from each other? IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted December 29, 2006 09:25 AM
Virgo manJust a thought....do you have your Moon in an air sign....maybe? Thanks
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VirgoManBrokenHeart
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posted December 29, 2006 10:00 AM
Dear Sue,
I really dont know a thing about charts moons and how to calculate all this I wish somebody could tell me or teach me. Does this has to do with my birthday or time ?
Born on 10 Sep. 1963 at 12 noon ( not eacat time ) my mom told me I was bron in the day near 12 noon !!!!IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted December 29, 2006 10:15 AM
Dear VirgomanIf you go to astro.com and into free charts you can get a personalised birth chart. Just need date, time and place of birth... My Virgo hubbie has an Aqua moon,,,I am wondering if you two are quite similar and that is why we are talking I would be grateful if you could answer my questions...it would be very helpful. And if there is anything I can help you with, please do not hesitate to ask IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted December 29, 2006 10:21 AM
http://www.astro.com/ Go into free charts and then into extended chart selection. This will give you moon placement, rising sign etc If you want to put your chart up here sometime, there are some greats astrologers here who could help you IP: Logged |
whalepiscean
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posted December 29, 2006 12:35 PM
Dear Virgo,I know a Virgo man who was in love with a another woman for just over a year. He never showed his feelings however, and although he loved her to bits, a lot of the time she would wonder about him because on the surface he was so cold and quiet. She decided to test him, and she told him that her parents had found her a suitor and that she was thinking about getting married and wanted to know his opinion. There really was a suitor but she actually loved and wanted this Virgo man. The Virgo, not accustomed to feminine wiles, thought that she really was asking his permission to leave, and told her to go and said that he would never bother her again. Angry with his response, she went ahead and had that arrange marriage and has not contacted him since. He of course was devastated but didn't know what to do about it.
That was eleven years ago.
He has not loved or been with a girl seriously since, he could never get over his first love. A few years back he met one of my closest friends in a chatroom and they became friends. Until a few months ago they were just friends, and he was never flirtatious or interested in her in any way other than as friends, and not close ones at that. Then all of a sudden, it hit him; he loved this girl and finally told her.
Imagine. Eleven years to find love again. But he found it in a Pisces girl. And now they are together and very very happy.
Don't lose faith Virgo, your time will come.
Best of luck!
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VirgoManBrokenHeart
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posted December 29, 2006 01:06 PM
First of all I would say sorry because I answered your last post without reading the second last, later I saw you 2nd last post.
If you ask me, I belong to the school of thought according to which only men must adapt and women are to be respected, it may seem unreasonable to you but I think it is only men’s privilege to say sorry and apologize even if she is wrong and I think that he is not a Man who waits for and make a woman say sorry regardless of the fact who is wrong.
It is indeed very good to be honest to oneself and others too. But if you play a trick in good faith for someone’s betterment more than your own than I think there is no harm and afterwards when you laugh with each other in good times you can always tell the truth and he might enjoy over it and would be thankful to you. Anyhow can you tell me how I can find out if my moon is an air sign and if it is what it means …….
I just read this book Sun Signs in the year 1990 and I know nothing about astrology.
Best regards and best of luck.
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sue g
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posted December 29, 2006 02:01 PM
VirgomanI posted a link to the astro,com site....on this thread...maybe you missed it? Not sure what you are saying in your last post...will go back and read it again... Do you mean women should never say sorry to their men? And about the adapt thing....didnt you say I should adapt to my Virgo man, and then say only men should adapt? Sorry, am I being a little dim here....  Thanks IP: Logged |
Amelia
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posted December 29, 2006 03:43 PM
http://alabe.com/freechart/
Easy calculator for birth data. I hope you don't mind, VMBH...but I put in your birth data, and it turns out that you are a gemini moon (for 12:00 p.m. the moon would be at 21 degrees of gemini).
Just wanted to clear that up. IP: Logged |
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posted December 30, 2006 01:29 AM
Ahhh... this hits close to home for me. Sue, you already know. I couldn't even finish reading the thread because I had to jump in. Some strings really make you wish you could just pick up a phone and conference call, don't they? Virgo man, first of all I am a Sagittarius and my Virgo honey shares your birth date, in a different year. Let me just say that your insight into the Virgo heart has undoubtedly left its mark on the hearts of us who love our Virgos. It can indeed be trying at times. Sue, you hit the nail on the head when you said: "Sometimes I feel he is very self sufficient and doesnt "need" anyone." I've said it to him many times, and being a fire sign (and able to relate to your Scorpio passions!) I know this can feel very cold indeed, even when you remind yourself that he does love in his own way. Linda was right when she likened it to a starvation diet. I've found that over time I have adapted in ways that I would never have expected. My thermostat has set itself lower, but I am (usually) plenty warm. But then there are times when the rain is falling, the thunder is rolling, and lightning is flashing and everything in me comes rushing right back up to the surface and he CAN NOT meet me there, and I know he knows right where I am. But then without him I doubt that I would have ever learned what it means to really, really, truly commit, and to really, really be unconditionally loved. Sometimes it seems so achingly close, and yet so far. IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted December 30, 2006 03:56 AM
Oh girl Doesnt the word "adapt" sometimes feel like second best though.....as though one should "make do"? Going without.....the ultimate sacrifice....do we really deserve that? Dont you just want to throw yourself right in the depths of passion with someone, sometimes, and really know love and all its extremes? IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted December 30, 2006 03:57 AM
future,I know you are busy, but can I get your email address from Randall? Would love to talk to you sometime?  IP: Logged |
VirgoManBrokenHeart
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posted December 30, 2006 06:10 AM
Thank you Sue, thank you Amelia thank you future_uncertain, thank you whalepiscean and thank you every body who posted a thread by sharing their thoughts, Thank you all
Sue by adapt I mean to be little flexible, little more understanding, more giving, Love has nothing to do what you are expected to get but what you are expected to give, which is everything…. The giver is always better and superior than taker, it is always better to be on giving side that way you feel grace, pride and satisfaction, the sacrifice has its charm and the feeling which sacrifice gives you is beyond expression …… I hope you understand this time
I don’t say that woman should never say sorry to a man, I just mean to say that a real man must never make a woman say sorry, that way a gentleman may never take the pride of a woman.
Women must always be respected, loved and protected although always as equal to a man but certainly different than a man, they have a feminine pride which a real man must always protect and preserve, therefore it is mainly man’s responsibility to adapt and comfort his female, it does not mean that woman does not ever try to adapt. “word "adapt" sometimes feel like second best though” if you adapt for love and for your loved one it never feels like second best, rather it gives you the feeling that you are the best by giving away love instead of taking it…. Try to see in this perspective and tell me how it feels…..
Thank you for the Astro chart, yes I missed it Thank you Amelia for telling me that my moon is Gemini, but what does it means? Do I have some Gemini Characteristics?
Thank you all for every thing and please carry on the discussion I will be so happy to answer anything
Best regards.
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