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Topic: 1-1 Sun Sign Relationships!!!
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Planet_Soul unregistered
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posted May 10, 2007 09:27 PM
My two best friends are Sags, love them like sisters. When we met, we just clicked right away. We don't grow apart, no matter how much time/distance. I love having friends who read my mind and just get me...the positive and negative. We jsut understan each other like that. My closest guy pal is also a Sag, and I'd probably date him if I was single. I like a challenge, and we Sags are challenging. Very hard to catch, and even harder to keep.IP: Logged |
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posted May 11, 2007 12:14 AM
I don't like it either...It's much better when the Sun is in Conjunction with the Moon.IP: Logged |
MUSTANG unregistered
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posted May 11, 2007 12:20 AM
I read that as far as love relationships go, aqua-aqua and scorp-scorp are the only two signs of the zodiac that are really compatible with their own for the long haul. That said, I don't put too much stock in sun signs alone. IP: Logged |
Dani California Newflake Posts: 19 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 11, 2007 12:13 PM
This is an interesting discussion. Must say, I haven't dated another Gemini or indeed another air sign. I imagine I would learn something from it, it'd be like looking in a mirror & seeing your own personality reflected back at yourself.I haven't even dated another air sign, lol!! Am going out with a taurus though, my next door neighbour sign. IP: Logged |
Dew unregistered
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posted May 11, 2007 12:33 PM
I find other Cancers kinda of boring. They always to be trying to hard or on the defensive. Argh...I wonder what this says about me!! I just dont like that passive energy. as I need to be stoked myself. The same goes for Librans, Pisceans and Taureans.I like crazy, wild, loud, out of control people that my energy can reign in. Nah! Not too out of control, but I do like exhuberance. I just love a strong silent character coupled with a wild streak. My favourite energy is Capricorn for some reason. Maybe because my moon is Cappie in the 2nd house.
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taurus/gemini cusp Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted May 11, 2007 12:45 PM
Taurus here - been dating another Taurus for around 4 and a half years or so. Were both May bulls and we both have 3 personal planets each in Taurus, so it's nicely balanced!!!Honestly?! It's the best relationship I've ever had. There is a mutual understanding that defies words and from the SECOND I met this guy we just seemed to 'GET' each other and he has said the same. It feels so incredibly RIGHT. There are of course some pitfalls - the main one being, that the things we criticize each other for are actually the things we dislike in ourselves, therefore making us both tremendous hypocrites when we row, lol!!! We're also both very lazy bulls and stubborn, of course - although surprisingly, the stubbornness is not as much of an issue as you might have thought! It seems to manifest in a pretty good way, making us both determined to fix any problems that come up, as and when they do! We can both be a bit greedy too - he's fairly materialistic and we both eat too much! But the good far outweighs the bad!!! It's a fun relationship - very affectionate and full of laughter!!! We enjoy each others company immensely and prioritize spending time with each other over everything else, as often as possible - as we both say that it just doesn't seem as fun with anybody else! We encourage each other to do well and even though we're boring bulls, we never seem to get bored of each other! (?!) He has a pretty simple philosophy for everyday life; Eat well/Sleep well/Drink lots of wine/Have great sex and make sure that the remote control is always nearby, lol! Sounds like the right sort of life to me!!! Long may it last! (fingers crossed, eh!) IP: Logged |
taurus/gemini cusp Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted May 11, 2007 12:51 PM
PS) Isolade - what you wrote was beautiful and I really connected with it. Same sign relationships are truly wonderful....IP: Logged |
scorpiofrancesca unregistered
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posted May 11, 2007 01:33 PM
There were a couple times I talked to other scorpio guys, and i cut them off very shortly after because...and this is funny to me...they were so EFFIN WIERD! Haha... Such downers, so pessimistic...one had the wierdest, most unfunny sense of humor...I couldn't stand them!!! Its funny although I'm scorpio, I didn't feel like I was anything like them really. No connection. But my rising sign is aries, and I have alot of my chart in sagg..Possibly why.IP: Logged |
afroken unregistered
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posted May 12, 2007 12:24 PM
I dont really get along with people under the same sign as me. Especially the ones born few days after or before me. I get along better with sextile signs. I feel awkward around other scorpios. But we still keep conversations going on.------------------ Sun in Scorpio Moon in Taurus Asc in Sagittarius IP: Logged |
scorpiofrancesca unregistered
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posted May 12, 2007 02:27 PM
Exactly, it is very uncomfortable around fellow scorpios...I dont know why..IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted May 12, 2007 03:55 PM
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MUSTANG unregistered
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posted May 12, 2007 08:44 PM
Well, judging from from the scorp-scorp responses I've read in this thread, my book was wrong. I like to know the whole enchilada, that is, I like to know what their other planets are in, because I've learned that sun signs alone aren't indicative of too much. That said, paradoxixally, I've noticed I prefer certain sun signs over others and that certain signs are truer to their sun than are others. Every aries I've met epitomizes their sign - I can spot an aries right away. GeminiNymph- Yikes! What were his other placements? IP: Logged |
ScorpLeoAriesSagSagSag unregistered
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posted May 12, 2007 08:59 PM
I've never been drawn to Scorpio men. I get the heebie jeebies when they give me The Stare. I mean come on... that's my job! Having said that, my daughter is a Scorpio and she also gives me The Stare at times. We'll try to glare each other down for a while and then both burst into laughter. I love having a 1-1 Sun Scorpio relationship with my girl because we really understand each other. And guess what... we hardly ever fight! But we are highly psychic together. She only needs to think of me and I'll ring her. Very handy when she doesn't have phone credit on her mobile! IP: Logged |
pennylane unregistered
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posted May 12, 2007 09:20 PM
Quote: "In my book, Gem men should be avoided. I dated one once. Once. Once is enough for several lifetimes. "I'll second that!!!! I dated one recently and that's it, that's one mistake I won't repeat. I'm a taurus and never dated a taurus guy, I have a thing for pisces men (L)hahaha IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted May 12, 2007 09:39 PM
I've never been with an Aries guy. I've had Aries male friends and I either liked them or was indifferent towards them. I never disliked them. For the record, in my book Geminis should be dated a lot
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BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 12, 2007 09:53 PM
I'm a Sag sun femme (heavy on the Sag in my chart), and haven't had any bf/gf relationships with Sag guys, but I got along great with my Sag stepmom. Very bouncy rapport between the two of us, moving along in the conversations from topic to topic (as Sags do), I agree, we got each other. The two signs though for me in relationships that I really click with are Scorps and Aquas. Theres always an immediate connection for me with these signs. In some ways, I'm more like an Aqua in my tendencies (Aqua Moon), Sags are very similar. As for Scorpio, I just connect really well to every Scorp I've known. Quite a few in my fam, and friends as well. both of those signs. IP: Logged |
tbone unregistered
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posted May 14, 2007 04:24 PM
Hmmm, interesting. Yes; i ve dated a fellow Cancerian. Actually our bdays were /are 2 days apart.(different years) There was definate chemistry from day 1. There was also a sense of familiarity like we've known each other our whole lives. Unfortunately, i grew very attached quickly(Cancer thing?) ahh, well i have Mars in ARies too.(passion grows quickly) She was on a rebound from a long term relationship at the time as well(not good) So, it was quite passionate very quickly(we were great in bed) But nothing serious ever came out of it. And ; it was a very short lived relationship. She broke it off after only a month. There thats my experience with a same sign relationship. Would i suggest it? 2Crabs? NO, not really. STick with your opposites! They are Grrrreaaaaat!! lol IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 14, 2007 10:08 PM
Too much tension for me with Gemini to get along with my oppositeIP: Logged |
Astrid unregistered
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posted May 14, 2007 11:27 PM
Scorpio/Scorpio. Mustang, your book was right--it's a good thing, take it from me. I always HATE when the conversation turns to sex, but let's face it, sex IS important to many people, not just scorpios. It is to me, and honestly, as a woman, I have found alot of men have hangups. I decided long ago that the only guy who may understand me would be either a scorpio, leo or taurus. I never dated a leo or a taurus, but lo and behold, a scorpio man entered my life, and he has a leo rising (I'm gemini asc) and both of us have taurus moons. I am 40, and wish I could just stop time, and be like this for eternity. I saw him in a dream 3 years before I met him, and I didn't remember it until 1 year after I met him. Most of the time, we are two peas in a pod. I am DEEPLY fulfilled, and am never made to feel like a super freak for being sexually healthy. There are no bounds, and no apologies. That aside, we're very good friends and companions, and care deeply about each other. ISOLAEDE: I couldn't put it better than you did. OMG. We do "get" each other. Understand the other's reactions when we are moody (and we do get moody!!), but there's just alot of sympathy / empathy there. Loads.taurus/gemini cusp: it's true, the things we critize each other for are the things we dislike in ourselves. We truly do see each other when we look at each other. Like looking into a mirror. Sometimes it's rather creepy because we don't always know where one stops and the other begins. ech. I do understand the comments some people make (in this thread) about scorpios giving people the creeps. I am very sensitive, and while I'm fairly bubbly in a Goldie Hawn (who I believe is a scorp with a libra asc) sort of way, my boyfriend makes people cringe, at times. But I absolutely LOVE being on the receiving end of that intense look. It sends a chill from my tailbone straight up to my scalp. I wouldn't trade that, or him, for anything. I like the thrill and danger of it. Always have. Purrrrrrr. My only complaint, and I believe it's probably due to his Venus in Cappy, is even though I KNOW he feels intense passion for me, he is not one to express it in words. I have venus in scorp, and I let it out, and need to hear it. I read long ago in an astrology book about cappy men. "Why do I have to tell you I love you? You KNOW I do!" Arrrgghhh! Also, I DO love and need depth, but sometimes it gets a little too heavy. Water-logged. It's at these times when I wish I had a fun Sag to hang out with. . . . sigh. I wonder if the heaviness comes from us being 2 brooding scorpios, or if ALL 1:1's experience that. IP: Logged |
ScorpLeoAriesSagSagSag unregistered
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posted May 15, 2007 07:06 AM
Thanks Astrid, what a beautiful post and very eloquent. I must admit that even though I said in an earlier post that when a Scorpio Man gives me "The Stare" it gives me the heebie jeebies, that on one or two occasions when I have fallen for a Scorpio man I've absolutely found myself zinging from tailbone to scalp! By the way, you're perceptive about Goldie Hawn. She doesn't have Libra rising (she has Sag Rising) but she DOES have Libra in Jupiter closely conjunct her MC (her career and public persona). Other 1-1 relationships... my son is Gemini (also Mercury/Venus/Jupiter Gemini) who goes out with a young woman who is also (typical) Gemini (you know, blonde, vivacious, confident, sparky. They are absolute mirror images of each other... so much alike it is ridiculous. But they compliment each other perfectly. When he has his Mr Showoff persona on, she has her Ms Adoring persona. When he has his Mr Angry face, she has her Ms Rational face, when she shows her Ms Spoilt Princess face, he has his Mr Protective persona... and it goes on. Now ... you never quite know which couple are going to turn up at the front door ... (and I like to say there are at least four people in THAT relationship) but one thing you can be assured of, and that is, it's NEVER boring! And my son tells me that he loves the fact that she constantly surprises, challenges and excites him mentally, which is such a turn on for Geminis. As for Cancer/Cancer, my mother and father were both Cancerians. They came from the two polar family support opposites that only Cancerians can. One (my mother), totally nurtured, supported and adored by her mother (and father) and the other (my father) abused and abandoned by his mother (and father). My Cancerian mother felt all of my Cancerian father's unloved Cancer child's pain and vowed to love him and nurture him in the way his own mother never could... if she could just love and nurture him enough... she could heal his emotional wounds and he would stop self-sabotaging and trying to escape and hiding behind his tough guy cancer shell... but alas... he could not let go of his emotional pain or ever trust another woman and of course, many many years later, she ended up feeling emotionally abused, completely drained and very much taken for granted. Funnily enough... years down the track... they both live alone on their own separate little country properties in their own separate houses with their separate pet dogs and their separate pet horses and they both are conservation and enviromental nuts... but for goodness sake don't mention either of their names in front of the other! Sad but true.IP: Logged |
ScorpLeoAriesSagSagSag unregistered
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posted May 15, 2007 07:16 AM
I just had to add this, because a good friend of mine who is a Scorpio (he's an astrologer and also a My Space friend and we have the BEST conversations about sex) and I just got an email from him about numerous things... but he wrote this... which I thought people might find interesting in the whole 1-1 relationship thingy... He wrote... "Actually, my worst sexual relationship was with a Scorpio. This came as a shock, I had been looking forward to the whole Scorpio/Scorpio experience so much. The making out was unbelievably awesome, such passion. But with the sex, it just didnt work. I guess at first, I like to be very much in control. My attitude is 'let me take control of all of you and ill bring you all the pleasure you need' hehe. But with the Scorp, I was doing my thing, she was doing her thing, neither of us submitted and everything clashed. I think what made it a regrettable experience for me also, was her size. She was physically as tall and big as me, and having such a very strong woman giving her passion to me in a controlling way, which clashed with my own controlling passionate way."So yeah... that's straight out of the mouth of my Scorp male friend. IP: Logged |
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posted May 15, 2007 08:15 AM
About cancer-cancerI am dating a cancer and i am a pisces. The guy I am dating was in a long relationship with a Cancer woman and I asked him what went wrong. I thought for sure that was a fantastic combo. He said they didn't communicate verbally enough. That everything was just presumed without words and that they were both too alike in many ways. He felt bored and that the relationship was going nowhere. I guess when it comes to same signs that when its good, its really good. But when its bad its really boring I was in a pisces-pisces relationship and we almost got married. I left because it was too predictable and boring as well. IP: Logged |
ScorpLeoAriesSagSagSag unregistered
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posted May 15, 2007 08:18 AM
HAHAHA! That's hysterical! I think that when anything is bad it's boring!IP: Logged |
sinderlou unregistered
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posted May 15, 2007 09:56 AM
Glad I'm not the only one laughing!IP: Logged |
AgeofAquarius Newflake Posts: 1 From: UK Registered: Jul 2010
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posted May 15, 2007 10:35 AM
I've never dated another Aquarian and honestly I have yet to run into a male Aquarian that I find attractive. Wait I have to change my response, isn't Christian Bale an Aquarian? If so, he is one and only! But in a very American Pyscho way.IP: Logged | |