posted January 19, 2007 10:20 PM              

Moon has to do a lot with emotions.

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posted January 19, 2007 11:31 PM              

The drawback is that Venus is in the 12th house in my chart, and I tend to have secret crushes, where I keep my feelings to myself and don't reveal them--which hurts. Venus is also squared by Saturn which makes that problem even worse.

posted January 20, 2007 05:13 AM              

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You know its interesting that the venus in scorpio people are responding and saying they take things so hard...the sag guy I had dealt with had both venus and mercury in scorpio conjunct pluto, along with his sun and moon in sag conjunct saturn and a mars in pisces and he acted as if he could care aless about me at all. In fact he flat out told me he doesn't do emotions.

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He does emotions - no quetion about it. He just doesn't want you to know that, because he's the manipulator here. This is all about control, especially with those Pluto and Saturn aspects. He's basically screwing with you. Sag's "dark side" is more about arrogance and selfishness then needing freedom. Sag is a fire sign, not an air sign. Fire signs have deep emotional needs - in the worst cases, they are parasitic, feeding off another person's energy to keep themselves refueled.

This guy sounds scary. He's definitely a person with strong emotional needs and a big ego, and if he's lying about his motives and manipulating you like this, I would suspect he's seriously bad news. He probably wants you to be "addicted" to him, so he can use you whenever he needs you. and I bet he's downright sadistic about it as well. And from what you're saying, he seems to be doing one nasty job on your self esteem. That's distrubingly consistant with the Sag men i've known. Stay away from him.

And if you need encouragement: serial killer Ted Bundy was also a Sag Sun and moon with Scorp Venus and Merc, a mutable Mars and nasty Saturn/Pluto placements. And he had strong emotional needs, a big ego, and got a sadistic kick out of controlling and manipulating people for his own selfish ends.

posted January 20, 2007 05:50 AM              

But most of them don't want to remain friends lol

My last ex is still my friend though!

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But I agree that with my venus in taurus in the 11th, I'm not possessive really I just expect to be able to have friends of the opposite sex and for my partner to have friends of the opposite sex. I also like to remain friends with all my ex's or I end up dating friends. I don't understand why if you spent time with someone romantically...why can't you at least be friends with them w/o wanting to get back with them. Or have anything more with them. Some of my friends view this as holding on to the past, but I don't look at it that way. Are any of you like this?

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posted January 20, 2007 02:53 PM            

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yes I liked to remain friends with my ex's too!!!!!!

But most of them don't want to remain friends lol

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posted January 21, 2007 04:42 AM              

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posted January 21, 2007 07:35 PM              

I think Hot Ice is a Gemini like me with Venus in Taurus. Maybe you should ask him.

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posted January 21, 2007 07:44 PM            

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I love men with Venus in Libra. They write me poems!

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Libra venus men are the COOLEST!

posted January 21, 2007 10:57 PM              

I love the decanate scopes from cafe astrology.

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posted January 22, 2007 07:06 AM              

Thing is, i'm only 21 and i've been in just 2 serious relationships. One with a libra with a taurus rising, i was convinced she was my soul mate. She had to move interstate to look after her mother, we visited eachother often and gradually faded away, oh how i learnt linda goodmans way of explaining libras "secret strategy" to conquer and dominate and especially that love to a libra is so blind.

I was depressed for almost 6 months after that.

I recently broke up with my girlfriend in december, she was aqua with cancer moon and aries rising, venus in cap but she had LOADS of 10th house placements, she always put work before me which eventually saw her push me away. It eventually turned into one of those "just go with the flow relationships" which i lasted 2 weeks at before erupting in a massive fit of taurean rage, my patience finally had a limit. Now it's january and i've just started my new job, which is quite stressful being a graphic designer. (weird how i'm taurus and attracted to the arts?)

I can't do the whole "one night stand/casual thing" i honestly think that's best left to air and fire signs. I reckon i've got about 3 more times my heart can be broken before i completely give up. If i broke up with her last week for example, i reckon i would lose my job just out of lack of concentration.

Sometimes i wish i wasen't a taurus, i wish i could just let go and be a crazy gemini or a robotic aqua but deep down i know that one day when i meet the right girl i'll be the happiest guy on the face of the earth.

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